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ok, i've been gettin vaginal discharge, and i haven't started my period, is this normal to get it before u start your period, does this mean that i'll soon be gettin my period, and if so are there any other ways to kno that your period mite be startin??
please help
if it makes a difference im 13/f/nc and ill be 14 in the 1st wk of Nov.
thx a bunch!!
~*~*~*wondering*~*~*~
ya its totally normal. its wut u usually get b4 u start ur period or so i was told. i guess its true but for me i had it for 4 years b4 i started my period so u never kno. but it is normal.
u mite get bad cramps or feel bloated. it just all depends on the person.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
feel free to ask me a question!
I kno this guy mike and were really close and he tells me everything and I tell him evrything... So we have this class together and we are sorta the class clowns :)!! anyways, over the weekend, I went with some other friends and we tippied the teachers class with toilet paper and everything (it was awesome!) But on monday when we went back to school the teacher got really pissed and he thought it was Mike that tippied his room, so he gave Mike a detention and everything(Mike didnt do it, it was me) Now Mike says its Ok and I shouldnt confess and he'll take the punishment, but i feel really bad! what should I do?
*im 13 yrs. old female *MUAH*
ok well on the first part about tipping ur class room, niice lol. i mean....uh....bad girl, shame shame.
now on ur friend taking the blame, if it is really bothering u, u should confess. but since this mike guy says its ok, it's ok. it's in the past so y bring it up again. u could repay him by doing sumthing for him. im sry im not a big help. i just reallt dont kno wut u should do. u can clear ur conscious by confessing or u can leave it in the past and move on.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
dont b afraid to ask me anything else!
hey ..ive got a real prob ...my friend lied to me about having breast cancer not once but twice and i got so fed up with her and i told her that i didnt wanna be friends with her if shes gunna lie to me ! and she said that she was going into operation to have things checked ! but a couple days later i asked her how she was and wut she was doing this week and she said working all week when she first told me that she was going to have an operation! like i said u knoe wut i dont wanna hang out with sumone whos gunna lie to me constantly ! and i hung up on her ! was i too harsh ? plz help should i try to patch things up with her !
she probably lied to u because she didn't want u to worry about her. thats how a lot of ppl get sumtimes, they dont want the sympathy where ppl will b like omg r u ok all the time. they r still ppl and want to b normal except they have a disease that will kill them sumtime. its gr8 that u cared for her but sum ppl dont like all that attention. im just saying that.
u should patch things up wit her. even tho she mite not like a lot of attention called up to her disease she probably wants sum1 to b there for her. its kinda confusing but u should b there without askin all the time about her cancer. i had a cousin who died of many cancers and she just liked to talk to us about things instead of how she was feeling. we sat with her and watched cooking shows or sumthin else. it was nice.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
OMG i just realized one of my boobs is bigger than the other, WHAT DOES TAHT MEAN am i an alien? i must have a disease how do i tell my mom? what do i do?
chill out. it's totally normal. its like that on every woman(cept women with fake boobs). it's just how we r. a guys nuts r different sizes too so dont worry about it.
*Oreo*
when does vaginal discharge stop??
when ur on ur period
im a 16/m and i have never really done anything with a girl besides making out idk if i should shave or not i have a few times be4 but im the only 1 that even saw anything so it was pointless its just a pain in the ass and i dont wanna have 2 do it all the time but wut if im not shaved and a girl goes down on me will they be grossed out and not do anything im really worried this will happen or they might start spreading rumors that i dont shave and no1 will ever go down on me again.
its ur decision. its the same thing with girls. sum girls prefer to shave and others dont. it just depends on the person. dont worry about wut other ppl think. a lot of ppl dont shave cus they would rather have sum hair there than razor burn and red bumps everywhere.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
i was wondering the best way to... "enhance" my chest, thick bra, gel, etc,. i dont want to use tissue or any thing like that. is it true pushups, and milk enlarge breast? thanx again
ok well u shoukldn't b thinkin about trying to get boobs. girls usually grow boobs until they r in there 20's. u r only 12. i had no boobs when i was 12 and now i'm 13 and i have C boobs so u just gotta b patient and they will cum.
*Oreo*
I have really big breasts and a really big behind and guys at school and even guys that are old enough to be my grandfather keep checking me out and saying stuff to me, that its kinda annoying. when a guy at school says it, i dont mind, cuz guys at my school are fine, but when a man says it, i feel like slapping him! does anybody know any good "comebacks" that i can say to those guys?
omg i kno wut u mean! i went on an east coast trip with my school and every tom dick and harry came onto me and things that i could throw them in jail for. i kno u probably want to yell a cumback or w/e but it just makes them laugh and do it more because they kno it bothers u. older men shouldn't b doing that but they do anyways and its really sick. wut i do is slap them(like violence is any better) or i tell sum1. theres not much u can do so just b proud of wut u got and try to either ignore it or do sumthing about it like tell sum1 older to help u or your parents.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
i always cum in my unda wear (im a girl 13). and im still a virgin, idk why. i feel like there must be sumthin rong with me. cuz i heard its hard for a gurl to sum in sex. but i havnt even had sex but i still cum. why do u think so0o.
help me. plz
i really doubt that u r cuming. if wut ur seeing is a white or yellowish substance in ur underwear its called discharge. its just fluids from ur body. ur body cleans itself and then releases that stuff. its gross and smells so u have to change every so often to keep the smell away. hoe i helped.
*Oreo*
okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant.
the only way u can b 100% sure is to not have sex. condons, spermicide, female condomns, all that stuff won't make it 100% sure u wont get pregnant.
*Oreo*
if im 13, gunna be 14 in 4 months, and i still haven't gotten my period, is that abnormal or sumthin, all of my friends have already started, and sum people i kno who are younger then me have started, my mom started when she was 11, my sister started when she was going into 7th grade, and im entering 9th, and still haven't started,is there sumthin wrong wit me??
there's nuthin wrong. i just started on my birthday(woop de doo) and i'm 13. it varies for different ppl. my mom didnt start till she was almost 15. b glad u dont have it. enjoy it while u can lol.
*Oreo*
hey ok i like this guy alot..i have for a while. he lives next door to me. the other day my friend chelse asked for his sn and gav it to her bff sam. sam took it and started talking to him, sent him her pic and now he likes her and she likes him altho she has a bf. he said that if they break up he'll go out with her. sam and him always talk about eachother to me. like he is so nice/hot w.e im so sick of it. i dont no what to do... :( help!
thanks love youu*
i did the same thing and i totally regret it but nevermind that.
u should tell him how u feel about him. it seems like thats the only thing ppl r gonna tell u but its the truth. thats wut u need to do because if u dont it mite b too late. if he returns ur feelings gr8, if not, not so gr8 but u'll manage. it also sounds like he only likes her for her looks. even tho they talk on the computer it's probably just her acting all cool or w/e to seduce him lol. happens a lot and im sry i couldn't help too much. just go with the flow!
*Oreo*
my best friend and i were spray painting our bikes. Her father comes out in a rage. He starts hitting her and she was screaming for him to stop. She used a bit of foul language towards him, but he was really hitting her. the mom had to try and calm him down.SHould I get help, tell someone or just leave it alone? I don't want it to seem like i'm in their family's business, then again that is my best friend she was crying histerically but i couldn't see her because he told me to leave.
you should defenitly tell. i have a friend whos mom used to hit her and i threatened to tell and i did end up telling. she was mad at me for a little bit but it eventually was fine and now we're tight. if u don't tell anybody she could get seriously hurt or killed and u don't want that.
im just saying even if u do tell dont just say it once and hide. my friends sisters babys daddy(a little confusing but thats not the point) beats her up and hits the baby 2. the grandma wants to take the baby away but shes been trying to do that for like 6 months now and the court is ignoring her. u have to b persistent because u dont want ur friend to get hurt more.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
me and my friend amanda got really close. we even kissed. but a few days ago we got into an arguement and she decided that the best thing would b to block me and never speak to me again. i begged her not to do this but she said goodbye and blocked me and i havent talked to her since. i love this girl. i really do. i dont kno if i should try to get her back or if i should just let her go. i dont wanna let her go but i also want her to b happy. please tell me what i should do.
u should leave her alone for a little bit and let her cool off. after u think shes cooled off go and try to talk to her. if she totally ignores u then she obviously is not worth the time. u don't get down on ur hands and knees if she can't give u the time of day. hope i helped.
*Oreo*
well tommorrow is my ex's birthday an we madd tite after we broke up an my other friend joe.. is sellin dime bags.. an my ex (nick) wants one so im kinda gettin in da middle of this drug shit an i just dont wana get cought the problem is that nick moved to ohio an im in Ny... am i alloud to send it or will they find it? how do i get it to him? i really like him an hes my bestfriend an everything but i dunno wuh ta do!! plz help nicks b=day is tommorrow!
dont get caught up in that. even if u witness drug dealing u can get in trouble. and then if u send it in the mail i think they check it bc when we had that scare with the powder(o wut was it called?) being put in the mail and then when u opened it it could kill u or w/e. it's not a good idea. umm look for sumthing else to give him. k well hope i helped.
*Oreo*
hey! does anyone know what:
a) idk
b) imao
means???
idk means i don't know. when u put imao i think u mean lmao. that means laughing my ass off. if u actually mean imao then i have no clue what ur talking about.
*Oreo*
whats a good and healthy way to weight loss?
( i only want to loose 20 lb.)
excersize(i'm sry but i cant spell) and dieting and eating healthy. actually if u eat healthy u dont have to diet. make an excersize routine. umm....my dad is trying to lose weight and so he says he wants to speed up his metabolism. he said that he eats a lot but not at one time. he eats about 6 times a day but just a little every time. i guess it works cus he went from 300 to 227 in a short amount of time. hope i helped!
*Oreo*
ok, one of my bbf's and I are going 2 start a babysitting busniss together, because we don't think we could take care of kids alone, but together we would be perfect for the job. The thing is, we don't know what kind of advertisment a parent would get to hire a kid to babysit. so, what would parents go for?
p.s. we both took a course of red cross babysitting
u should defenitly put that u both took a course in red cross babysitting. that would probably get them right there. the advertisements i see r usually boring they just say like the name and number and the charge rate. put ur ads in color so they stick out. and you could put the charge rate if u want or u could have them call u for more info. umm i guess that's it. hope i helped!
*Oreo*
This is for my friend, lol. I can't give him advice.
See, he recently started hanging out with this girl who isn't a virgin. She lost her virginity at 14!!! -_- And, like, not only did it once with this guy, but about 8 times. So, basically my friend wants to know whether she had feelings for this guy...I mean, to uh, do it more than once with him...
And everyone in school teases my friend for hanging out with this girl, because I don't know, actually lol.
So my friend is wondering basically if this girl is right to be hanging out with. And yesterday he declined going to the movies with her, and kinda made up an excuse, because he didn't know how he felt about her. (he just couldn't go)
Thanks tons. xoxo mariah
u can hang out with whoever you want. it doesn't matter how they act, if u like being around them it shouldn't matter what ppl say.
about her having sex with sum guy like 8 times. wow she really...wow lol. she probably didn't have feelings for the guy. it's just that married ppl probably haven't had sex that many times. lol.
so it shouldn't b wrong to hang out with her unless she tries to get into his pants during a movie or w/e. if she does that then he should leave the tramp alone.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
me and my bf really wanna hav sex, but there are 2 things that are stopping us, one he dont got condoms hes 16/m. and im afraid it might hurt. ive heard from a lot of my friends that it really hurt. but i wanna know how long would it hurt, b4 i go ahead if i go ahead a have sex with him?
ok well to solve the condomn problem go buy some. u can flip a coin or w/e to c who has to buy them but just go buy them. it's not that big of a deal, adults would rather see u buying condomns to kno ur having safe sex.
having sex always hurts the first time. it's just cause ur not used to it. the more u have sex the less it will hurt. i'm not tellin u to get out there and have sex with ur boyfriend all the time but it's just that the more times u do it the less it will hurt.
i don't kno how long it will hurt because i am a virgin but a lot of ppl told me it always hurts the first time.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*