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This is for my friend, lol. I can't give him advice.
See, he recently started hanging out with this girl who isn't a virgin. She lost her virginity at 14!!! -_- And, like, not only did it once with this guy, but about 8 times. So, basically my friend wants to know whether she had feelings for this guy...I mean, to uh, do it more than once with him...
And everyone in school teases my friend for hanging out with this girl, because I don't know, actually lol.
So my friend is wondering basically if this girl is right to be hanging out with. And yesterday he declined going to the movies with her, and kinda made up an excuse, because he didn't know how he felt about her. (he just couldn't go)
Thanks tons. xoxo mariah
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aight if your friend has feelings for this girl it shouldnt matter what other people think i mean shes not really a slut if she only was with one guy it doesnt matter how many times i know this because i was in a similiar situation and still am but it doesnt matter what ppl think and me n this grl are in love with each other so i think he should persue things with her if he likes her
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As for the feelings thing, he needs to talk to this girl about that. She's the only one who can tell him whether or not she had feelings for someone or not. Even if she did, it shouldn't matter as long as those feelings are gone.
If your friend likes this girl, then he should be sticking up for her and not listening to what everyone else says. Maybe everyone else just needs to get a life.
What is the reason for thinking that it's right to make up excuses to not hang out with this girl just because she's not a virgin? People make mistakes, everyone does. People shouldn't judge by the bad things other people do, they should judge them by the person that they really are, if your friend even is kind enough to get to know this girl, and not just the rumors that he hears.
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Neizheg's book of tranquility
Rule 2: "Dont care what enyone thinks about you"
belive me i have expirience! ^_^;
atleast you have a real friend!
and for the girl problem...
the best thing is to speak your mind!
not too much!
that will get you in trouble.
if this relationship just started than wait a little longer and see what happens!
sicierly ~Neizheg Yuie~ ^_-'
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Dear, Mariah
I think that ur friend shouldn't go out with this girl. most likely she'll probably cheat on him. to me she from wat u said she seema like a skank hoe.
hope this helps!
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hun, its sounds like ur friend is a lil confused. but we're all lkike that at sumtime. wut i think he should do is, talk to tha gurl. if she starts to yell bak at him, like i cant beleieve u would do sumthin like that<- example. then he should say well im concerned for u. and i want to help u clear ur name. and stuff. i hope that helped in sumway.
xoxo- looza
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u can hang out with whoever you want. it doesn't matter how they act, if u like being around them it shouldn't matter what ppl say.
about her having sex with sum guy like 8 times. wow she really...wow lol. she probably didn't have feelings for the guy. it's just that married ppl probably haven't had sex that many times. lol.
so it shouldn't b wrong to hang out with her unless she tries to get into his pants during a movie or w/e. if she does that then he should leave the tramp alone.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
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My first question is: why should her past matter? That sort of thing seems to be what would matter to gossip mongers and people obsessed with badmouthing others.
Could it be that when she slept with whomever when she was 14 that she was just gullible and not really thinking clearly? Might it have just been a really awful mistake?
Anyway... why is it wrong for someone to be friends with her? For people to insist that they shouldn't be friends is petty.
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