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Well i am a very friendly girl and love to help people! i wil try my best to give you the best advice possible and we'l just hope everything works out for you ;)
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Hello,i'm a 14 yr old girl.Well, i recently broke uop with my ex boyfriend because his feelings has changed for me, i know this because he spoke to me less, never write back to me or anything. So i knew what to do and i let him go. So anyway as i was saying, i can't seem to get over him. He's my first bf, and i'm in Jr high while he just went to high skewl. So i dont know what to do. It seems that i think about him more and more. I have told him that but as i said he never responds. So i have no clue what he thinks. I asked his brother and his brother doesn't know anyting because the new Zelda game came out and my ex won't talk to no one becuz he's so hooked on the game. So please help me. you can also e~Mail me @
little_zelda05@yahoo.com
Thank you.
well it sounds to me like he's not worth it! if he ignors you all the time then you ignor him aswel. dont talk to him and i think to try and get over him...you should go out with friends and enjoy yourself. It will stop you from thinking about him. Also, i find that if you get involved with someone else ( like find someone new) you will soon be over your ex! ;P Good Luck && Hope i helped xxx
Okay. So I have been really good friends with this guy for a long time. I'm 17 and hes 21. Hes such a great guy. He's really smart and funny and caring and amazing. I lost my virginity to him in early December and we decided we were just friends before this happened and whatever happened was just for fun. I told him that I wasnt like all the other girls who get attached after hooking up with friends. But when we had sex, I was still fine. We hooked up about twice a week since then. Then all of a sudden when I started going over to his apartment, he started treating me like more than just a hook up. He was doign really sweet things for me. Example... New years eve I stayed the night at his apartment and told my parents I was staying over at a friends. We hung out all night talking about life and watching funny things on tv. We really connected. We were having a lot of fun. We had sex again. He played guitar for me. He kept holding me and holding my hand and kissing me. He scratched my back until I fell asleep and he even gave me the good side of the bed even tho I offered it to him.
When I woke up in the morning, he made me breakfast. Then we watched some more funny videos. But then he was holding me and told me that my friend Monica asked him if we were a thing. He said he told her that I am going away to college in 7 months and he doesnt want to start a relationship when I'm leaving. Like a dummy, I just said "yeah" even though I have totally TOTALLY fallen for him. My college is only 2 hours away and I will still see him just as often. What do I do now? I dont want to ruin everything and lose what we have by risking it! But he's perfect. I'm going crazy.
if you are going to see him just as often then you might as well become a thing ;P i meen its obvious that he reallt likes you and im sure he would like to be your bf,so just tell him how u feel..im positive it will all work out great! :D Good Luck && hope i helped :) xxx
which are good movies, like teenage love comedy =) like a piece of my heart, mean girls, or somethign like that ?
cruel intentions! Aww i love it. its kinda rude at he beggining like buh theres a really good love story in it! :D
17/F. My girlfriend dumped me just before Christmas saying she was unhappy with me. Now she won't talk to me. I won't be back in school for a week because I'm going on a family trip. I can only talk to her in school becuase she won't answer her phone. We were doing great for a week or two, then it all came unglued. Should i confront her or just move on?
i think you should talk to her first before moving on. just ask her why she ended it with you, what was wrong? then if she doesn't want to get back with you...move on. Good Luck && Hope i helped xxxx
Okay so, I don't know what's wrong with me. I've never had a boyfriend, and I've never made out. Lots of boys like me, but for some reason I can't bring myself to go out with them, even if I like them back. It feels like I'm scared, I just don't know why! I'm also nervouse 'cause I've never made out before, and EVERYONE thinks I have..so maybe that's SOME of it, but it can't be ALL of it. Also, when I like a boy, I'll talk to them and then they'll end up liking me..then all of a sudden when we're close to going out I don't like them anymore! I don't get what's wrong with me! I've hurt some boys because of it, and I hate it. I hate that I can't have a boyfriend 'cause I'm so weird about all this stuff. What's wrong?! How do I fix this? I'm so frustraited and nervous about this. It makes me upset. Please help! Any advice at ALL will help!
i understand how u feel...i use to be kinda the same. to get over it, you just have to say yes to one of the boys, i mean theres a first time for everything rite! once you have been out with a few boys, you'll feel fine! trust me. Good Luck hope i helped :) xxx
I had my period this summer.But I haven't had my period for almost three months. Is there something wrong with me?
Dont worry about it...your period will be all over the place at first untill it settles lol. Its nothing abnormal :) xxx
Sorry if this is long..
13/f
Ok so i went out with this guy who was 2 years older than me. Im 13 and he is 15. But in fedruary ill be 14 so we'll be one year apart. Anyways when i went out with him he kept asking if id do anything more than make out with him and i said no because im 13 and thats too young for me. I said in the future i would. but after a while we broke up and we both agreed to it because we wernt seeing eachother a lot and we went to different schools so it was hard. So we were over. And he got new girlfriends and i got new boyfriends but he kept telling me that he still had feelings for me and always would. And i didnt know what to really say about it because i was kinda mad at him for some reason so i would never respond. Well one day i wanted to get him jealous because i was so mad at him, so i knew he wanted to do "stuff" with me ( more than making out ) so i told him one day when i was babysitting there was this guy there that was soposed to go out but his plans got cancelled so he was stuck home and i didnt have a ride home so i stayed there, and i told him that while the baby was sleeping we were in his room fooling around and i gave him head. Then he was really jealous and admited it so my plan worked and i was very happy. But on New years eve he was over because his cousin mom is friends with my mom but anyways while he was over we were like all over eachother and laughing and having a good time and also we were sharing drinks and stuff. And when he was about to leave he hugged me for a long time and then we kissed ( we didnt make out ) and another thing when i first kissed him which was a while ago.. sometime last year he didnt know that he was my first kiss and im afraid to tell him because i dont want him to be my first everthing. So my question is should i tell him or just keep it to myself because i feel like he might be really mad that iv been lieing to him. what do i do. and im sorry this is so long i just really really need advice soon :[
thank you so much :]
If i were you i would tell him everything. I meen if he really did have feelings for you then he wouldnt mind. And what have you got to loose ? because your not with him anymore are you ? Plus if he did like you then he would be glad to know that you actually wanted to make him jelous..so u must still feel something for him ;) Good Luck and hope i helped :) xxx
how can u make your hair grow faster?
I dont think there is a way to make it grow FASTER. But if i were you i would have it trimmed every 6 week so you cut al the dead ends of and also try and straighten it less ( that if you do straighten it) xxx
Ok. Well Im 14 and I'm a girl. My boyfriend is just a few years older than me. Me and him have gotten sexual, but we haven't had sex before. I don't want to have sex, but he's older and he would do it if i did. And that kind of puts pressure on me. He isn't making me have sex or purposly putting pressure on me. He is a really nice guy and has a very nice personality and I could so see myself with him years from now and we have been together for 6 months. We have touched eachother in certain places before and like the other night we took it a step further. He touched me between my legs bare but I let him. I always get caught up in the moment and I am afraid I will get caught up in the moment and end up doing something I will regret. I won't have sex till I have no doubts I want to be ready and my mom said that if i want to have sex she will put me on the pill. So I want to wait another year or so and then i will if I'm ready, but I'm afraid he exspects I will have sex with him even though he's told me many times it's will always be my choice and when I am ready he will be to! I am scared! What should I do?
Oh sorry if it was so long, but if you can could you please give me some advice? :)
You know what...you are in the exact same position as i was in a few week ago! In the end...i just told him that i wasn't ready just yet and he was fine with it..im sure your bf wil be to as he has already said whenever your ready he wil be. Dont feel pressured into doing it though because by the sounds of it he isnt bothered when you do it :)Just make sur your ready before you do :) Hope i Helped xxx
i will be going to tennessee with my boyfriends family for 3 days this weekend. unfortunately, the weather calls for a chance of rain. i have long, naturally wavy/curly hair that i usually straighten (it looks HORRIBLE curly, no matter what i do. ha). soo i was wondering what are some cute hair styles i could do for if it does rain. i have side swept bangs that just cover my eyeballs, so even if i put it up, my bangs will curl and look obnoxious. styles for with or without a toboggan or cadet hat would be great!
if you want your hair to stay straight then there is a straightening treatment you can have done to it. I have had it done as my hair it also naturaly curly...its really great i couldnt get over how straight it stays! Its only about £20 and it lasts for about 3 months! Hope i helped xxx
for a while now,i've had 2 masks(the way i act towards other people). one mask - my friends in the city i was born. two- the town i moved to.
really,im the first one. its the real me. but im too afraid to show it in my new town and towards the people there. really though,im SICK of hiding. i dont give a $^*% anymore. but if i dont then why am i afraid? how can i show my true self without them thinking im a fake? ps- the friends in my new town are only kinda- friends...its not like im going to have sleepovers or anything,but i really want that,how can i show myself with them still likeing me?
i think you should just be yourself around them! thats who you are and if they don't like it then you know there not true friends and its their loss! :D Good Luck xxx
okay there is this guy that i like an all but he doesn't know it.....well he invited me on myspace an now he is all talkn to me on the internet but i don't kniow what to think or how to find out without feeling stupid becaue i don't want to ask him.....what do i do
When u tlk 2 him on the internet, just ask him casualy...so who u liking at the moment? and if he replies with quite a flirty answer,,u'll know he likes you. You will just be able to tel with the answewr he gives you wether he likes you or not. Hope i helped :) Good Luck xx
this is really long but interesting!! okay, i'm in 9th grade and he's in 11th. i know that there isnt a chance of us getting together..not much anyways but i can still really like him =P but anyways the things he does confuses me. like he puts his arms around me-in a nice way, hugs me when i don't expect it, has a nickname for me,says i'm pretty and cute sometimes, and stayed after with me twice even though he was going to get in trouble. once was when i was really sad (long story) and at lunch he noticed and even my bff didn't notice at all. so he waited for me way after lunch just to walk with me to class and made sure that i was okay with his arms around me. the other time was when he would've gotten in a lot of trouble. he's a drum major and our school's band takes everything so seriously. i'm in strings btw. but anyways, we had a little school concert for the middle schoolers and after that, he was suppose to go to the band room right away but he walked with me to strings class anyway..well almost there becuase the other drum major appeared in the hallway and in a really strict tone told him to get in the band room right then and there. all those things he did as i've mentioned above gave me a sense that he likes me butt...when the drum major appeared, he took his arm off of me immediately as if he was embarrassed to have his arm around a 9th grader? or maybe it was because he didn't want the drum major to think he ditched band for a girl. idon't know. and right before winter break, i asked for his number (in a friendly way. not a 'omg i luv you!' way) and he wrote i don't know. but they may have been because there was the jazz band playing 2ft away from where we were at lunch.
anywhos, does anyone have a pretty good guess about as to why he wrote "i don't know" and took his arm off of me right away? do you think he likes me?
i think this guy REALLY likes you as you can tell by the way he is with you. To me it sounds like if the older people in his year find ot he likes you, they would ake the mic outta him. i have been in a similar situation myself. The best thing to do is be straight with him, ask him does he like you and is he embarrassed ? Nobody can tell you how he actually feels apart from him. Good Luck hope i helped :) xxx
Okay, basically you know that this is a guy trouble. but it's not that I have a cursh on him but rather I miss him..he was like my online brother/bff. I know pretty sad. long version short: he was my only support through my really though times. I mean I was on the verge of commiting suicide and when I talked to him it was like everything was going perfectly well because he listened, understood, and cared about my issues without me scaring him off.
That sounds bombastic and overdramatic but it's not. The problem is that I haven't been able to talk with him for half a year now. I want to talk to him but he's never online since he goes to a culinary school. I was thinking of writing to him (don't talk about safety issues. we've written to each other couple of tiems before) but i don't know. Is there anyone I can talk to about this matter who is sensitive to other peoples feelings..?
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Okay I really like this boy I've liked him for quite awhile. I want him to know how I feel too. But I just don't know how. Okay first things first I am not telling him face to face! Okay are these some signs if he likes me? He stares at me alot, he talks in a group of friends and when I walk by then look back start saying oh look to him, and he's everywhere I am.
What are some ways to get him to notice me more?
Thanks a bunch!
i dont think you need to be noticed more because to me it sounds like this lad has already noticed you!! ;) I think you should let him know that your interested, maybe by msn if you have it,or get his mobile number,or just smile or say hello when you see him. you never know, once he knows your interested he might pluck up the courage to ask you out ;) Hope i helped :)
well i have been going out with this guy for eleven months and our relationship has been pretty good but only problem is i feel like i have gotten bored of him. i feel trapped cause he hates me partying hanging out with my guy friends etc. i feel like i cant have fun anymore and ive felt like that the past eleven months that we have been going out. and theres this other guy that ive liked for a reeeeeally long time.. longer than ive liked my current boyfriend. the guy ive liked for a long time is my type of guy. i have so much fun with him and i like him so much. i love the way he treats me its hard to resist him. but i jsut cant break up with my boyfriend. he would kill himself because he loves me so much. he is so serious about me.. he is erious about marraige with me in the future. he is already out of high school but problem is im still in hs. he is going to the army in a month and he told me not to break up with him cause he plans on marrying me when he comes back. he gave me so many expensive presents for xmas and if i broke up with him how big of a butt would i be?? i dont want to break his heart bcause he doesnt deserve it but i also dont think he deserves me. idk what to do cause i know id be happier without him but i sometimes have to ask yself if i really would be happy without him. idk what i should do.. what should i do?
You have to do what your heart tells you to do! Do you really want to be with him and if not then tell him because it is unfair on him if you are with him when you dont want to be. He might be heartbroken at first but just think really you are doing him a faver. Just explain to him that you do really like him but you think it would be better if you were just friends. As for the other guy who you like, if i were you then i would give it some time before you get with him.Hope i could help, good luck and merry christmas!:D
15/m
okay i was dating this girl sammie, then she kissed another guy i flppped and we broke up, she said that that kiss didnt mean anything... then for a month she bothered me and said she wanted me back, now i finally relieze i still really like her, and shee doesnt want me back... wat do i do to get her back, or is it even worth it?
It sounds to me like this girl sammie really likes you unless she wouldn't have tried to get you back for a month! I think in the end she realised you weren't going to take her back and so stopped trying. now that you want her back, shes doing exactly what you did to her. Shes probably only doing it so you know how it feels, so if i were you ide keep trying because in the end she wil give in :)
I always am thinking about food, even if i'm not the leastbit hungry. I always want to be eating. CAn you please tell me some good ways to keep food off my mind.
well i think a great way to keep yourself from thinking about food is to occupy yourself. Do things you enjoy doing ect. going out with friends. When your enjoying yourself you won't have enough time to think about food :)
Okay, I told you guys how I had this thing for one of my friends. Well, one of my other friends, Laura, who lives down the street from me, tells me today while I'm talking to her on Instant Messenger that she likes me. So I'm over at my house freaking out because I was trying to plan out what I was gonna say to Ashley, the girl I like.
So I tell Laura that I sorta like her a little.
And I could tell she was struggling with her words. This is what we both said:
Laura:Okay... would you ever consider going out?
me: with who?
me: you?
Laura: yes
me: i guess so.. Why?
me: well, that was awkward..
laura: Uh... Meredith
me: uh, meredith what?
Laura: Meredith's helping me with what to say, but, would you go out with me?
Laura: (Sorry, clicked enter too soon..)
me: omg.. I.. I guess.
So, did I do the right thing?
I mean, Laura's been my best friend for a long long LONG time, and our moms are friends, too. I didn't want to make her mad at me, so I said yes. I really do like her, but I'm just not sure if I like her enough to go out with her.
So I have been going out with her for about an hour now. It's 8:50 here in Georgia, so you do the math.
I just want to know if I did the right thing or if I should break up with her and go for Ashley?
if you don't feel like you want to be with her, then break up with her because its unfair on her if you dont want to be with her. Just let her know that you do like her but you dont want to ruin the friendship you to have. Im sure she'l understand and if she relly likes you then she'l be happy that you can still be friends. Hope i could help and good luck :)
I need some good date ideas that aren't totally expensive. I was thinking bowling and dinner, anything under 70 bucks a date - cause thats as much as I can afford right now..... I know, I'm cheap - but I'm getting a job soon, so that wont be too much of an issue soon enough.
What about the movies? its cheap and a great place to take a girl ;) whatever you do though don't take her to watch a guys film!!:P