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I know everything and everyone comes to me for advice and gets mad when they don't follow my advice, realizing I was right. Not to be cocky, but it's true. If I don't know an answer, i'll tell you that I don't know & If I do, don't expect me to sugar coat the truth. You shouldn't fear the truth. "The truth never lies"
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So today in school this girl that likes to run her mouth about people, decided well im gonna run my mouth about you. She thinks i was not gonna do anything just because im quiet. So i ran up to her and confronted her and asked her are you talkin bout me. Shes like yea i am and wut r you gonna do about it. I take off my glasses and my necklace an im like what lets go right now. So she backed up then said wait and took off her necklace.. Then one of my teacher's told me to take a walk and jus walk away so i did, instead of punching her and gettin suspended i punched the door. Then me and my two friends walked with my around the corner to cool off. Then that bitch comes back for some more and my friends tell me to just get up and walk away. She still kept running her mouth so i was like thats it. I was running up to her cussin at her and i was ready to knock the shit out of her, until the principal came out and stopped me. We both had to sit in the office and he asked me wuts this all about so i told him. Then he asked me wut my next step is gonna be when i see her, i told the principal the next time i see her in the hall im gonna hit her in the face. Then i got sent home because they said i needed to cool off and that i will end up hurting someone because of my temper. The thing that pisses me off is that she started talkin shit in front of the office because she knew that they would run out and stop me from hitting her. She only did that because shes scared of me..Basically the principal told me that i have 2 more strikes left, the next one is suspension, and the last is most likely to be expelled. I dont want that to happen. So heres the thing i know that shes gonna do something to me on monday to try to get me mad and i cant control my temper and i know that im gonna beat her ass.. wut should i do?? im soo mixed up right now like shes the type of person who does not shut her mouth and it pisses me off i dont want to get suspended or expelled.. but can you all help me because i dont know what to do because i know coming monday i might fight her.. (link)
Wooo! You bad ass! hahaha

Although, Violence is NOT the answer.

I say beat her ass, cause she seems to be the type that will never learn until you just beat the crap out of them! So go for it. Tell her straight up, If you wanna start shit, Ill beat your ass 'somewhere away from the school' cause getting suspended for her dumbass isnt worth it.

Good luck kido, If you can manage to fix this without violence, it would be a better choice, but if not..


Ok, I've been playing the guitar since I was in the 4th grade.
I'm in 8th grade now.
I kind of stopped playing because of a guitar teacher I had last year. I plan on playing next year again in school as an elective.
What Im asking is:
A good website that I can have to will help me tune my guitar because it's waaay out of tune.
Also, a website or store that I can buy a good but not too expensive guitar at.
:) Thanks. (link)
You can get a good guitar at guitar center or sam ash. I'm sure they both have sites. Just google them.


This Guy at school asked for my number, and hasnt called in at least 5 days. I saw him at school a few days after he asked for my number and he seemed like he didnt like me. Im sort of confused. Is it OK for a girl to call a boy first? Cuz I want to call him. I have his number. Anyway, thanks!

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oh shut up. the person below is a dumbass.
Yes give him a call. Maybe he's shy and doesn't know what to say once he calls. Some guys would like if the girl made the first move.


i have a really distorted view of healthiness. i have one egg (only the white part and maybe like a bite of the yolk..its hardboiled), some yogurt and fruit for lunch, and a pretty good dinner, but i really limit myself on what i'll eat..and barely any sweets. i'm SO afraid that even if i have a couple cookies or something, i'll get fat. could someone please set me straight on this distorted view on healthy eating? like what kind of diet will make you fat, and what won't?

for a reference, i'm 15/f and about 128-130 pounds (5' 7"). and i'm athletic..so i don't think weight is really a problem right now. i just am so afraid of getting chubby or fat. (link)
Don't be so silly.
Have a cookie once in a while.
If you're TOO healthy, You're body won't be able to cure itself properly when something goes wrong.

Eat organic foods. Natural foods will keep you healthy and in shape as long as you're active also.


Hello my name is Natalia. I am 15 years old and I have a boyfriend problem.Ok like yesturday my boyfriend Donathon and me were talking on the phone right and everything was gonna pretty good. Until he bought up my ex Eric and why I was still talking to him I said because we're still friends but I think in some way he's jealous that I'm talking to him so then I was like I don't wanna talk to Eric no more. So then we got into his friends and he said he's not gonna have no more friends. But the point that really got to me is that he said he thinks I'm testing his patience and he's right I just don't believe he loves me but then I do so now he's really mad at me but I don't like when he's mad but how can I say sorry and really mean it and do ya'll think I'm a bad girlfriend?? (link)
No you're not a bad girlfriend.
You're boyfriend is controling, Sounds like that can lead to an abusive relationship.
Why would you want to stick around with someone who makes you feel bad.
Do you have no self respect?


sometimes i feel like my bf is using me...but i dont know. i really like him so much and i dont want to let him go. what i feel for him is really special. i care about him more than ive ever cared about any guy in my life. we have been "bf/gf" for about a month and a half and its been a little rocky because of the fact that he doesnt really show affection except when he wants to get physical. i dont really mind - but it's just i wish he would do sweet stuff for me or say sweet things that came from his heart, not a book of pick up lines or sweet-talking me to death. i really want to make things work between us but i just dont really know what to do...am i asking for too much of him? i mean all guys are oblivious but i really like this one... and i dont want to be his personal makeout buddy. i want to be the one girl he loves because i love him and i dont want to let him go or anything...**PLEASE dont tell me to break up with him or to find someone better that i deserve...** (link)
Sounds like all you're looking for is a movie romance... So yes, you are asking too much of him.
And no, Not all guys are oblivious. Don't be so ignorant.

It's perfection of the happiness that makes you feel so small... You wish he was perfect, he's not. And if you do love him, you'd accept his flaws... And in your eyes, this is one of them.

That, or he probably just wants sex out of you. And that's not love.
In which the only option you have left is to break up with him. If you don't then the problems that you suffer from are just problems that YOU make.
Again, it's not his fault.


ok im 16 and ive never had a bf before. I mean there have been guys that liked me but I never really liked them. So there is this guy named Danny and I really like him. But I dont even know if I am ready for a bf...how can you know? (link)
If you're confused about it, then you're probably not ready.
Wait for the feeling of confusion to go away.
When that's gone, you'll be ready and it will happen naturaly, without you even thinking about it.


well there this boy i like and he is one of my guy friends too so the other day my bff vicky wrote a note saying "why are u always mean to jenny" he says "i hate her" so i told my friend why he hates me but he changes the subject what does that mean? (link)
It means he hates you but probably doesn't want to be a dick about it.... If he's mean to you, why the hell do you like him in the first place?


i have three best friends and when we are together we make thousands of jokes and laugh so much our stomach hurts. sometimes we will make fun of eachother we make fun of my one friend jess all the time and she cracks up. when they make a joke ab me or my other friend tina we all start laughing cause we know we are all joking around. but when we make a joke about my friend mary she gets all pissed off and turns away and wont look or talk to us. and she does this all the time and of course we are joking! she makes jokes about me and i dont care but if i make a joke about her she gets sooo pissed. she can't keep doing this cause it isn't fair! what can i do so she will stop cause she always ruins it? (link)
I have a friend who does the same thing. She's just overly sensitive. I say just be honest with her. And if she can't handle the truth, then kick her to the curb! Seriously, do you want someone around who ruins all the fun?
Why does she make jokes, but you can't?
tell her to grow up.


i have a guyfriend, brett. i just started getting to know him through IMs this past week, and he's really nice. he always tells me that i'm the only girl he can really talk to, and he really appreciates that i always compliment him (saying he's mature, smart, nice, a good friend, etc.) and i help him with his problems.

i have a crush, sean. i've liked him on and off for a while, but now i really like him again. i dont REALLY REALLY like him, but he's just a crush. i talk to him sometimes, little things like, if he wants a pencil or something i'm like, "oh, here i have one." i wouldnt consider us friends.

well, i know this was a terrible thing, but one of the reasons why i asked brett for his screen name was because i thought him and sean were friends. well it turns out that sean is actually really mean to brett, and brett pretends to be sean's friend. unfortunate, right?

well, after i realized that, i was like okay so brett isn't gonna help me at all getting to sean. well i dont want to just stop talking to brett cause he's so nice and everything, but i feel like we're getting too close too fast. we've exchanged lots of information and he really makes me feel different than anyone else - like i was really really upset the other night and i was talking to him about what heaven would be like and i was saying things like how i would want to see the world when i'm not in it, and he said something along the lines "dont go to heaven right now - i'd miss you too much" and like not even my closest guyfriends have said something like that to me.

& he said that he kind of likes someone, but he isn't sure yet. well i'm REALLY worried. i mean in the last three or four days, we've talked about everything from like, baking to bullying to grades to guinea pigs. but i've talked to him about sean... not using his name though. i'd just say like "oh my crush..." blah blah but i really hinted that it's not brett. like when brett asked who it was, i've said, "well i dont want to say his name cause i would be scared you'd tell him" so i mean that really hints that it's some other guy. but i'm just worried that brett likes me.. maybe i'm being selfish, maybe i haven't known him long enough. but now that i think about it, i think he might.

brett once said, "who would i ask to the 8th grade dance?" and i was just like ask a girl you think is pretty and he was like no one would go with me and i was like yeah someone will... was he hinting something?

and if brett DOES tell me he likes me and / or asks me out / to the 8th grade dance... i couldn't go. i just don't like him like that. but i dont know if he understands that i'm not the type of girl that you can just ask out without finding out if i like you or not. do you understand what i'm saying? so that's why i was hinting i dont like him... just in case.

i don't want to ask brett if he likes me or not - but should i tell him i like sean so he might back off a little? or would he be even MORE angry at sean?

sorry it's so long - but i will really appreciate your answer and you'll get rewarded with a 5 and / or feedback :]

thank youu. (link)
Well, I don't really understand why you don't like Brett. He seems to like you, yes, and if you both can talk to eachother so easily, and if he is a nice guy, then isn't this the guy you want to be with?

You say you like Sean, but sean is known as a bully, right? because he bothers Brett. And by the sounds of it, You don't even know Sean as a person, So how can you actually truly say you like him?
It's obviously just a physical attraction and nothing more...

You already said that Brett makes you feel good.

Even so, if Brett isn't the guy you want at the moment, then make it known that you don't like him instead of leading him on... But do not completely throw him off because over time you may actualy start to fall for him.


Why are people not concerned with the environment? Why are people more concerned with the costs of saving our planet than the future of it? I don't understand why governments don't just unite [I know it's naive] and face the problems that we have, especially global warming. Because of global warming, the ice caps will melt, water levels will rise, and the poles will become extremely overheated, all while the population continues to increase. And no one takes action, so our children will have to suffer.

Why do people just blow it off? =[ (link)
because people are too damn busy worrying about stupid shit like brittney spears going bald...
Simple as that, Thinking requires too much work, so people allow our "leaders" to do it for them.
Screw that.


what are some REAL punk bands? because i never see them anymore =(. (link)
Real punk band.... CRASS. Look into them, they are the definition of what punk should be.
Crass, Rudimentry Peni, A//Political, Witch Hunt, DIRT


ok well i get these things, i dont know what to call them, i guess like acid burps ? i dont know but its like i burp, and then my throat starts to burn along with my tounge, and i'm guesssing its stomache acid but i get these alot and sometimes my eyes water or i feel like i might throw up. and ideas on what it is, or what would help it/get rid of it ? thankss! (link)
"you may be eating unhealthy food. try eating more natural foods with less acidity. just stay away from the junk food for a while and it should help!"

Exactly what she said, I had the same problems and would get chest pains too. I changed my diet to mostly organic food and it works well, I havn't had those feelings in a long time.


what the heck is a punta? i know its spanish for point but ive heard people call others that.. and im lost? (link)
No no... Punta means point and PUTA, without the 'N' means bitch. :-)


who is the dude who played Barney?? (link)
Thats a good question, Now I want to know also


Me and my bf have been going out for a long time now. i really love him and always have. Now a while back he asked me to marry him. We're both 15. I know we're young and all but we were so sure of it. But then one day not to long ago I randomly got a friend to ask him if it was still on. He said no that I had called it off along time ago. Well then my friends came back and told me and then she went back and told him that I never did and he kept saying that I did. Is he just unsure about it or something or do you think this is his way of telling me that he doesn't love me anymore? What should I do. I really love this guy. (link)
You were so sure you wanted to get married, So sure that you both love each other, YET you're sending messeges to each other through a friend?
Gorw up. Neither of you are ready to get married.
You can't even talk to each other, how can you even call this love?


prom's this satuday for me. any pictures of cute hairstyles/websites? mine's naturally straight, long, and thick and i want it curly, half up & lots of volume. (link)
shave off the sides and get a mohawk!


18/Female - Okay, i have a dilemma. I haven't had great luck with guys - i've been cheated on, lied and all that. I am currently dating someone right now. We've been dating for a little over a month. He has mentioned that i ask too many questions, and that i say too many stupid things. I don't think i ask too many questions, or say stupid things. Because of my bad luck with guys, i tend to ask questions like "would you cheat on me? do you even like me? where do you see us going?" I've had about six guys all say the same thing - that i'm annoying, and that i need to relax, and just go with the flow cause when i try to hard it ruins the relationship. My current boyfriend just lost his job, so i haven't exactly seen him in a while (few weeks), he gets mad when i mention seeing him, or when i try to help him out. Am i really that bad of a girlfriend? How do i just go with the flow, and not worry about stuff? How do i stop myself from asking too many questions and saying stupid things? (link)
First off, you need to explain to him the reason why you ask so many question.
It is because of your past that you have some issues with trust. If he doesn't understand that, then i'm sorry, but this guy is not worth it. If he loves you, he will understand and help you get through this.
As long as you both try together and make an effort to fix this.

It's not your fault and he shouldn't make you feel like it is.

Good luck!


i honestly ened to start thinking about colleges. but i have no idea what i want to do. how can we find out what we may liek to do? im liek so mized up in so many things. like being an architect, teacher, designer, etc. help (link)
Maybe you should learn to type first, that might help you get a bit further in life...

Figure out who you are and what you want to do in life. Anyway, this is not uncommon in people your age


I met this boy through an organization a few weeks ago. He goes to a different school, and is about 3 years older than me. He's a senior, and I am a sophomore (he's 18, and I'm 15).

Anyway, we've been texting a lot and he randomly told me that he liked one of my friends. This friend is now pretty much in a relationship. I called her and asked her, point-blank. She is leading this boy that I met on.

I was this boy's crutch through a really tough breakup with his ex of almost 2 years. I like him a lot, and I don't want to see him get hurt again, at least not until his heart has healed.

Should I tell him that this girl is leading him on, or should I let him find out for himself?
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Tell him!!!! If you care about him, you will tell him.




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