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i feel like im being used.
sometimes i feel like my bf is using me...but i dont know. i really like him so much and i dont want to let him go. what i feel for him is really special. i care about him more than ive ever cared about any guy in my life. we have been "bf/gf" for about a month and a half and its been a little rocky because of the fact that he doesnt really show affection except when he wants to get physical. i dont really mind - but it's just i wish he would do sweet stuff for me or say sweet things that came from his heart, not a book of pick up lines or sweet-talking me to death. i really want to make things work between us but i just dont really know what to do...am i asking for too much of him? i mean all guys are oblivious but i really like this one... and i dont want to be his personal makeout buddy. i want to be the one girl he loves because i love him and i dont want to let him go or anything...**PLEASE dont tell me to break up with him or to find someone better that i deserve...**
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well if seems like your a romantic person like me!! Well i give you credit for realising hes using you because theres more to a realtionship than sex, how old r u n him?,maybe he dosent feel same way you feel about him! My example ,im a man n im very affectionate so when i date a woman i ask first if shes affectionate. You can be straight up with him and see what he says, if he dosent understand then baby your not a piece of rag he can use when he wants then throw away when he done...theres lots of ways to being romantic and its beutiful cause it starts with thoughtfulness!!! Hoped ive helped if you have more questions email me at blknspice@yahoo.com or messenger and ill get back to you, remember your a princess and should be treated that way!!!
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if i was in this situation i would talk to him about it. now theres always the possibility that he may not listen, but you could at least give it a shot. tell him how you feel and ask him where he sees your relationship going first. then depending on if he says i really like you i want this to last blah blah tell him how you feel about him being affectionate.
but the truth is a lot of guys only want little hook ups or "make out buddies" they dont wanna dive into anything too serious. so you need to make sure that this isnt the case before you let yourself become too attached or even more attached. you both need to be wanting the same thing..
and maybe give him a little hint that you want him to be affectionate by you being affectionate first..
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Sounds like all you're looking for is a movie romance... So yes, you are asking too much of him.
And no, Not all guys are oblivious. Don't be so ignorant.
It's perfection of the happiness that makes you feel so small... You wish he was perfect, he's not. And if you do love him, you'd accept his flaws... And in your eyes, this is one of them.
That, or he probably just wants sex out of you. And that's not love.
In which the only option you have left is to break up with him. If you don't then the problems that you suffer from are just problems that YOU make.
Again, it's not his fault.
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