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sometimes i feel like my bf is using me...but i dont know. i really like him so much and i dont want to let him go. what i feel for him is really special. i care about him more than ive ever cared about any guy in my life. we have been "bf/gf" for about a month and a half and its been a little rocky because of the fact that he doesnt really show affection except when he wants to get physical. i dont really mind - but it's just i wish he would do sweet stuff for me or say sweet things that came from his heart, not a book of pick up lines or sweet-talking me to death. i really want to make things work between us but i just dont really know what to do...am i asking for too much of him? i mean all guys are oblivious but i really like this one... and i dont want to be his personal makeout buddy. i want to be the one girl he loves because i love him and i dont want to let him go or anything...**PLEASE dont tell me to break up with him or to find someone better that i deserve...** (link)
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if i was in this situation i would talk to him about it. now theres always the possibility that he may not listen, but you could at least give it a shot. tell him how you feel and ask him where he sees your relationship going first. then depending on if he says i really like you i want this to last blah blah tell him how you feel about him being affectionate.
but the truth is a lot of guys only want little hook ups or "make out buddies" they dont wanna dive into anything too serious. so you need to make sure that this isnt the case before you let yourself become too attached or even more attached. you both need to be wanting the same thing..
and maybe give him a little hint that you want him to be affectionate by you being affectionate first..
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