i have three best friends and when we are together we make thousands of jokes and laugh so much our stomach hurts. sometimes we will make fun of eachother we make fun of my one friend jess all the time and she cracks up. when they make a joke ab me or my other friend tina we all start laughing cause we know we are all joking around. but when we make a joke about my friend mary she gets all pissed off and turns away and wont look or talk to us. and she does this all the time and of course we are joking! she makes jokes about me and i dont care but if i make a joke about her she gets sooo pissed. she can't keep doing this cause it isn't fair! what can i do so she will stop cause she always ruins it?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? CHiCKENxNOODLExSOUP answered Friday April 27 2007, 12:32 pm: talk to her about it.
tell her how you dont think its fair that she can make jokes about everyone else, but when you make them about her she gets mad at you. because it isnt.
if she knows its messing around when she makes the jokes, she knows its messing around when you do.
and if she doesn't want to talk to you guys, she doesn't have to.
you don't need anyone bringing you and your friends down. and keeping you from having a good time (:
Neuronautas answered Tuesday April 24 2007, 11:50 pm: I have a friend who does the same thing. She's just overly sensitive. I say just be honest with her. And if she can't handle the truth, then kick her to the curb! Seriously, do you want someone around who ruins all the fun?
Why does she make jokes, but you can't?
tell her to grow up. [ Neuronautas's advice column | Ask Neuronautas A Question ]
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