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Ok. I've had sex with my boyfriend & there's a possibility of me being pregnant. I was just wondering, are there any sypmtoms that can indicate a possibility of you being pregnant before you're missed period? My nerves are killing me. & When do the other symptoms kick in? Such as morning sickness, getting bigger, ect.

Thanks. :) (link)
first off go to the local drug store and buy a test! dont look for syptoms yet because if you think or stress enough you'll think you have the syptoms! once you know if you are for sure or not then the following syptoms may or may not apply to you.. it varies on women and body types:

-MISSING A PERIOD
-TENDERNESS OF THE BREAST
-NAUSEA AND VOMITING
-TIREDNESS
-DARKENING OF THE AREOLA
-FREQUENT URINATION
-CHANGES IN TASTE AND SMELL
-CONSTIPATION

Considered another one of the classic sign and symptoms of being pregnant, nausea and vomiting, (aka morning sickness) has become one of the most feared of all pregnancy symptoms. Feeling sick is a common complaint and is experienced by most women from weeks 5 to 6 of their pregnancy. However, morning sickness can also be felt as early as two weeks after conception. Morning sickness can occur at any time of the day, and can vary from an occasional faint sensation to overwhelming vomiting and nausea. By and large, morning sickness is one of the pregnancy symptoms that tends to disappear towards the end of the first trimester.

l0veee alwayss-


I'm getting a dog, and i don't know any good names. anyone have any idea's? doesn't matter it could be girl or boy names for a lab (link)
girls-
sophie
annie
maddie (this is my poodles name (:)
katie or kady
darla
sadie
lilly
sam
coco
harley
sally
zoey

boys-
sarge
bandet
charlie
duke
booker
winston
max
felix
salem

there yaa gooo (:

i thought they could be of some help to you!

l0veee alwayss-


just wondering. at what ages did you guys have your first kiss? and where was it?

i'm just wondering because i'm 15. i'll be 16 in september and i still haven't had my first kiss. (link)
i had my first kiss when i was 15, it was when i saying bye to a boy i really liked, and he just laid one on me. it was so sudden that it sucked lol.

and its okay that you haven't had yours. i honestly dont think theres a specific age. im 17 and i know plennttyyy of people who still haven't. however now adays.. your first kiss isnt really that special anymore. to some people yes it is, but more now then ever has it just become "a kiss" not "the kiss"



i really really like this guy in my grade. he's completely hilarious and he always makes me have a good time when i'm around him. i want to tell him i like him so that he will ask me out. i'm almost positive he likes me. there are so many different signs i cant evem list them. do you still think i should tell him? or wait and not bother? (link)
tell him how you feel! whats there to lose?!

good luckkkk girllll (:

ahw♥;


k i have a ex boyfriend and were like fighting hardcore. and i hate it, he calls me dirty things and is just rude. but when were going out he is the nicest boii everr i swear, i like him so much!

i noe all of you are going to say just talk to him, tell him houw you feel. or just ignore him and move on. or hes dumb dont waste your time one him.

BUT I CANT HELP IT.
ive liked him ever since august and weve gone out like 5 times this year, but everytime we do break up i like him even more
but this time ive screwed up, ive said to much and he is one of those laid back guys that dont care, so if i do tell him how i feel hell pry just ignore me or laugh.

plz help, if you can! (link)
your right thats the basics of what anyone would say to you, but honestly.. other than that there aren't many options.

first off dont let what he says get to you, dont ignore him, just kill him with kindness, you'd be surprised. and when he goes to call you mean things just say "im sorry you feel that way and smile" seriously he'll be so shocked then one day it will all end and he will either ask you whats gone on lol orrrr he wont talk to you, then wait like 3-4days and walk up to him one day and be like can we please just talk.

be his friend. dont tell him you like him, dont tell other people. NO ONE just act like hes just a friend. if he doesnt like you back, girl you just cant change that.. but if things turn out to be that he does! then you need to really even that boy out so he doesn't treat you this way again...

hope i helped girl, your in a tough spot.

goood luckkk and feel free to message me with the update (:

l0veee alwayss-


any tips on how to score higher? i want to get a 12 on the essay but it seems really difficult. and my writing and reading kinda suck (link)
be descriptive, and use examples, try using alot of what you know more than what you dont so that way you can give supporting details around what you already do know.

good luck it isnt that bad just takes time (:


Since i failed the 8th grade...im on the waiting list for summer school....do you think someone wont show and ill get it....i cant fail please give me advice im in the 8th grade by the way..is there anyone else out there who failed the 8th grade and turned out okay? I failed because i got into some bad things and i wasnt trying....2 months b4 schools out i try but i failed the exams for the year because i knew nothing about my class
Thanks in advance-A failure (link)
we all have those down fall years where we kind of goof off and dont take school seriously enough to be able to do good.

where im from theres a limit on how many days you can miss in summer school its like two days, many many many people sign up for it and then dont go cause they have vacations planned. so theres alittle hope for you (: make sure to take school serious enough that you pass.

good luckkk (:

everything happens for a reason and always works out.. its life!

l0vee alwaysss-


Hey ima 13/f and i have a boyfriend and i love him he has the best intention's for me ( most of the time) and he is so sweet but i have one prob. ima white girl and i have a very very close guy friend and he is black and him and my boyfriend do NOT get along at all!! and my and guy frind are so close like we habg out all the time how cani get him and my boyfriend to get along?? and the reason they dont get along is because my boyfriend thinks black kids/adults are gunna hurt me so can you please help??
Love, dont know what to do (link)
well your young and its cute that your in love but if your guy friend is seriously a true best friend, never lies, is always there, has your back you have his, respectful, never ditched you, anythinggg at all. then you need to tell your boyfriend they need to get along or else you might have to end your guys relationship, (justt to kinda make him nervous) if he really likes you he will respect that, other wise it wont ever get better.

buttt you cant change his views but he should really learn to respect yours. but your so young so dont be hurt if things dont work out. theres many many boys in this world who will respect your friends and you.

good luckkk girll (:

l0vee alwayss-


hey,
does anyone know lyrics that are about falling for someone over and over again, and not being able to help it, because you're in love? (link)
anytime you dont know a song, just remember a good main part of the song.. like 5-6 words and go to this website

www.letssingit.com

type it in the search box (the words to the song) make sure you change the little box next to it to lyrics and it will search any song that has those words.

(:


o.k. this is kinda complicated so just bare with me!(SORRY THIS IS SO LONG) theres this boy in the 7th grade who use to like me(lets call him sam) but i didnt feel the same way so we just stayed friends. well sam is really sweet and short and he always gives me freindly hugs and i give them back cus hes my friend and i think its sweet. well i started going with this guy in the 6th grade(im in the 8th) and then sam started goin with this girl in the 6th grade to(lets call her sara).i still gave sam hugs and he the same. his girlfriend is kind of a fight maker and ive never got into a fight and am not tring to. well i was walking my bf to his bus one day and sara came up and i think she was trying to hug him and my bf started getting mad and running away from her but she wouldnt let go of his hand!my friend was walking with me and kept telling me to tell sara to stop touchen his hand but i didnt want to start a fight so i didnt say anything. well the next day we had field day and i saw sara jump on my bfs back and was trying to get a piggy back ride!i told the same friend that was walking with me what i saw and she got mad and told a friend of ours whos very brave about how the girl kept touching my bf. then our(brave) friend went over to sara(i ran away)and told her that she needed to stop touching my bf because i didnt like it.sara seemed to be afraid of our friend and i dont think she said anything.i talked to my bf about it and he said she just ran up behind him and jumped on his back.he said sara likes him and is just mad because he doesnt like her.later i relized sara might have been doing all that because somebody told her i was hugging sam.what should i do if she does it again? she doesnt seem like the kind of girl who i could sit down and talk to about it so im not sure what to do.i dont like or apperciate her all up on my man but i dont want to get a fight started over it ethier.im not in the same grade as her or my boyfriend so i have no way of knowing if she is still messing with him. what should i do!
p.s. -if you were wondering sara is still going with sam while she is flirting with my man! (link)
first off, stick up for yourself girl. there isnt any reason to not stand up to her other than the fact she might start a fight. key words SHE MIGHT START, my dad has always told me to never throw the first punch wait til i get pushed, grabbed, hit, anything then he says "go to town and dont come home as the loser" HOWEVER its 8th grade! she isnt your friend, her boyfriend might be but she isnt. If shes doing this because you HUG sam, then you need to march right up to her butt and strait up tell her "look i hug your man, but im not jumping up on his back, or trying to grab his hands, or anything, so dont try it with my man simple as that." any little smartA&$ comment she has back tell her to shove it. have your brave friend by your side for alittle intimidation. Whatver yo do dont let this girl run over you. Trust me. in 7th grade my second day of school I was picked on.. i just let them do it to me. Im a good kid, never been into a fight, but i just stood up for myself and one day embarrassed the heck out of those same girls and now they're afraid of me.

good luck girl. (:

anything else dont be afraid to askk!

l0vee alwayss-


me and my friends are gonna wear togas to this fashion show thing for our school. we're not gonna be wearing the regular white togas. we're gonna buy fabric and just wrap it around us. we haven't bought our fabric yet, but do you have any ideas [accesories and stuff] on what else we should wear along with the togas?


thanks. (link)
sounds funnn (:

get bangles and where on your upper arm.. its sort of a thing we do where im from with every outfit lol. instead of wearing them around your wrist all loose...we just push them up towards our elbows and they get tight and stay there..


wear handbands.. i dunno something funnn (:


should i get a perm? (link)
it depends.. i've never done it but i've heard both good and bad things.. some peoples hair gets completely damaged ex. dead ends, way too dry etc..

and then others it doesnt do so. Make sure you dont get it done cheap, and try a few places asking them what the down side to getting it done.. they should be able to look at your hair and tell you.

good luckkk (:(:


ok im eating A LOT better, and cutting out junk food, dessert, fast food, soda, etc.
and running a mile everyday on an eliptical.
and i have an ab lounge and do 100 to the front and 25 to each side about 5-6 days a week.

will this help me loose some weight?

and if so how much in how long of time?

ps. im 14 femail (link)
dang i wish i had the will power to do that..

they say cutting out soda and candy will looks almost a pound a week.. if your working THAT much then shoot.. you'll see results in the next couple weeks for sure.


you gooo girll (:


ok..me and my boyfriend were doing perfectly fine and then today he was like.. i cant be with you i'm sorry..i still love my ex more than anything...and when i read that.. i just broke down in tears..we both fell in love with each other..deeply..and he did that to me..and i still love him no matter what..and i cant convince him to come back to me..what should i do or tell him that might make him come back to me..i tried telling him how i felt about him..and i dunno what to tell him now..he's the first person i've felt this way about since i was with my ex boyfriend for 3 years..PLEASE HELP MEE PLEASEEE!! :'( i've been bawling the past 5 hours!!! (link)
the same things happend to me before, and i know how hard it is, and how much you want to be with someone. One of the hardest things is to accept the fact that hes gone. I made the mistake in begging him to get with me..i even told him things i would do, that my true self would never do.. turns out he wasnt worth it. and honestly no guy really is these days. Its so hard to get back on your feet after 3 years. its like where do i start? Your better off, letting him know you'll always care, but seriously girl you'll push him away if you beg him to come back. Stay strong, be his friend and get yourself together. Go out with your friends, date other guys...its gunna eat you away if you let it keep getting to you.

i really hope things get better for you hun. just remember theres plenty of fish in the sea (:

loveealwayss-


Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now. I'm f/15 and he's m/16. Everyday, we're in an argument about something really stupid. I know fighting is normal, but it's started to become stressful. He's constantly saying that I like other guys (as a joke) but he does it everyday and it annoys me. He does not want to talk about past fights we've had, or anything that could start an argument. That's understandable, but I literally mean anything in the past. If something bothered me yesterday and I tell him today, he doesn't want to talk about it. I admit, I do start many of our arguments. Usually it's because I'll tell a white lie every once in awhile and sometimes I talk over him. We've tried making promises to each other to stop both of our bad habits, but it doesn't seem to be working. I don't want to end this relationship because I really do love him. But these fights are causing both of us pain and we don't know how to fix it. Going on a break would just make us both upset, (We've already talked about it) but neither of us knows how to get back to the way we were when we first starting going out. Help please, :/ (link)
neither of you want to go on a break, or much less even end the relationship all together.. so that should be enough insentive to stop fighting that way you dont result into that. dont bring up the past just drop it all together and start over as if it were day one. ORRR try talking every other day, or seeing eachother everyday.. maybe you spend too much time together causing the little bickering.

good luckkk (:


my friend have been great all year and now that ive moved out of state i feel that they are always talking about me and that will forget about me. I want to know if they are talking about me and if they will always remember me and I dont know how to ask them because they may take it the wrong way. Please help me. (link)
you know, its hard to stay in touch with people when you move. But you can always pick up the phone, and call them, talk for a few. One night when your talking to them. just be like "dont ever forget me fool" like your messing and laughing, but being serious. Life goes on, and as hard as it may be, true friends wont ever forget, so if they do, then you'll know how true they were. good luck dear (:


I'm asking this for a friend. He wants to move from TX back to FL but he doesn't know how to tell his alcholic father that. Plus his Dad throws everything back in his face. Any ideas? (link)
does he wanna move back with his mother or something? he should just call his mom and tell her he wants to move back with her, or whoever it might be. He can just tell them, he doesnt know how to mention it to his dad, and ask if they will call his father n tell him about it. Then it will be an adult conversation, which might help alittle bit. good luck (:


Hi, i have pink eye and i was wondering if it's normal to have like crust around your eye and on your eye lashes when you have it? Thanks in advance. ♥ (link)
sure is. its just the gunky eye junk. when you wake up in the morning your eye might stick together, just walk to the bathroom and put water on it.. it will come apart. just be careful not to spread that. lol.


Ok i really like this guy. He goes to my school and i don't even think he knew that i even went to the same school or even was on the same plant. Well his brother asked me what if the guy i like would grap my hand when we are drivin around and i said i don't know. So then he was like HMMMMMMMMM. The only thing the guy that i like talks about is sex all the time. I have had sex but i dont' want to have sex till i am married. i like him but then i just don't know what i should do. Should i go out with him and give it up or should i just say that we need to be friends (link)
well some guys may talk about it all the time, but if he likes you enough, he just might respect the fact that you dont wanna do it.
if he doesnt then he just might not be that good of a guy for you. do you understand what i mean? hopefully he likes you enough to respect you. good luck with everything (:


my boyfriend is about to leave for basic and i want to get him something he can use daily or see or whatever to remind him of me...any ideas? (link)
get him a picture of you, with something special written on the back.. put a quote that discribes you guys best, then put alittle something of your own (:




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