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what should i do
o.k. this is kinda complicated so just bare with me!(SORRY THIS IS SO LONG) theres this boy in the 7th grade who use to like me(lets call him sam) but i didnt feel the same way so we just stayed friends. well sam is really sweet and short and he always gives me freindly hugs and i give them back cus hes my friend and i think its sweet. well i started going with this guy in the 6th grade(im in the 8th) and then sam started goin with this girl in the 6th grade to(lets call her sara).i still gave sam hugs and he the same. his girlfriend is kind of a fight maker and ive never got into a fight and am not tring to. well i was walking my bf to his bus one day and sara came up and i think she was trying to hug him and my bf started getting mad and running away from her but she wouldnt let go of his hand!my friend was walking with me and kept telling me to tell sara to stop touchen his hand but i didnt want to start a fight so i didnt say anything. well the next day we had field day and i saw sara jump on my bfs back and was trying to get a piggy back ride!i told the same friend that was walking with me what i saw and she got mad and told a friend of ours whos very brave about how the girl kept touching my bf. then our(brave) friend went over to sara(i ran away)and told her that she needed to stop touching my bf because i didnt like it.sara seemed to be afraid of our friend and i dont think she said anything.i talked to my bf about it and he said she just ran up behind him and jumped on his back.he said sara likes him and is just mad because he doesnt like her.later i relized sara might have been doing all that because somebody told her i was hugging sam.what should i do if she does it again? she doesnt seem like the kind of girl who i could sit down and talk to about it so im not sure what to do.i dont like or apperciate her all up on my man but i dont want to get a fight started over it ethier.im not in the same grade as her or my boyfriend so i have no way of knowing if she is still messing with him. what should i do!
p.s. -if you were wondering sara is still going with sam while she is flirting with my man!
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first off, stick up for yourself girl. there isnt any reason to not stand up to her other than the fact she might start a fight. key words SHE MIGHT START, my dad has always told me to never throw the first punch wait til i get pushed, grabbed, hit, anything then he says "go to town and dont come home as the loser" HOWEVER its 8th grade! she isnt your friend, her boyfriend might be but she isnt. If shes doing this because you HUG sam, then you need to march right up to her butt and strait up tell her "look i hug your man, but im not jumping up on his back, or trying to grab his hands, or anything, so dont try it with my man simple as that." any little smartA&$ comment she has back tell her to shove it. have your brave friend by your side for alittle intimidation. Whatver yo do dont let this girl run over you. Trust me. in 7th grade my second day of school I was picked on.. i just let them do it to me. Im a good kid, never been into a fight, but i just stood up for myself and one day embarrassed the heck out of those same girls and now they're afraid of me.
good luck girl. (:
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Seriously, punch this girl in the face or at least SAY something to her. She's NOT going to stop until someone says something to her. That someone needs to be YOU. Go up to her, let her know how you're feeling & tell her that she's messing with the wrong person & she better stay away from your boyfriend. In the mean time, tell Sam what's going on with Sara & see what he says.
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i know your not a fighter, but srsly, just pop her in the face once, and she'll stop.
it will be such a shock that you did that.
if you dont want to talk to her, theres no other way of making her stop.
tbh, id LOVE to hit her for you, so maybe i should go there and do it. or get your friend to pop her. she needs a good hit or she wont stop.
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