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plz help mehh! long situation
k i have a ex boyfriend and were like fighting hardcore. and i hate it, he calls me dirty things and is just rude. but when were going out he is the nicest boii everr i swear, i like him so much!
i noe all of you are going to say just talk to him, tell him houw you feel. or just ignore him and move on. or hes dumb dont waste your time one him.
BUT I CANT HELP IT.
ive liked him ever since august and weve gone out like 5 times this year, but everytime we do break up i like him even more
but this time ive screwed up, ive said to much and he is one of those laid back guys that dont care, so if i do tell him how i feel hell pry just ignore me or laugh.
plz help, if you can!
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ok obviously this guy is a asshole , why would you want to be with an asshole? if he doesnt care how you feel what makes you think he even cares about you. Mabe he is bypolar or something. Or mabe he is just not into you. Guys have a funny way of showing their feelings , its way diffrent with girls. You NEED to tell him how you feel , there is no sence in going out with him if you guys dont respect and communicate correctly. and if hes ignorant to you after you tell him how you feel then dump his ass. Your just wasting your time , and setting your self up for failure if you stay with him and he puts you down.
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I have to ask "why" you would like him so much when he can be so very verbally abusive to you? It's emotional abuse too.
Why like a guy that calls you horrible names and belittles you, then changes to "nice?"
Sounds like HE has problems- emotional issues, mental problems, bipolar maybe...
I highly recommend for your own pride and self-esteem, your own sanity and peace of mind, your own happiness and well-being...to walk away-- dump him, kick him to the curb, and run.
There are way to many really nice and great guys out there that will adore you and treat you nice 100% the time and not be off and on!!!
Find one.
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your right thats the basics of what anyone would say to you, but honestly.. other than that there aren't many options.
first off dont let what he says get to you, dont ignore him, just kill him with kindness, you'd be surprised. and when he goes to call you mean things just say "im sorry you feel that way and smile" seriously he'll be so shocked then one day it will all end and he will either ask you whats gone on lol orrrr he wont talk to you, then wait like 3-4days and walk up to him one day and be like can we please just talk.
be his friend. dont tell him you like him, dont tell other people. NO ONE just act like hes just a friend. if he doesnt like you back, girl you just cant change that.. but if things turn out to be that he does! then you need to really even that boy out so he doesn't treat you this way again...
hope i helped girl, your in a tough spot.
goood luckkk and feel free to message me with the update (:
l0veee alwayss-
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