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*Name Stephanie Njunuri
*Age 17
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I belive lyf is only wut u MaKe of it, so love lyf cuz it dont last 4 eva
~When U Have A Problem KiSsEs Can Solve Em~
Gender: Female
Location: Houston Tx
Age: 18
AIM: QtWitABooty00721
Member Since: June 24, 2004
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ok im going out with this guy i really like him but i got a hickey my mom noticed so she dont like him and wont let me see him. ive talked to her a ton..i just dont kno what to do now. please help me!!
love ya (link)
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Next time put ice or chapstick on it that way it's not noticable!Tell your mom how much you really liek him and that you want her to be considerate of your feelings and that if she wanted you to be happy she wouldn't interfer. Why don't you invite him over so your mom can meet him in person for herself. Maybe she'll reconsider thing after that. ~KiSsEs~
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i really liked this guy..n we were flirting at thiz carnival thing..he slapped my butt like 2-3 timez..n i thought it waz flirting..but he waz flirting with almost EVERY girl there..n then we started talking alot more..but then..we suddenly stopped becuz sumone waz in between me n him from hooking up..but now itz all kool between me n that person..but now me n the guy dont even talk any more!! i feel dumb..i went to one of hiz gamez..n he waz really surprised to see me..but..i think we dont have a "connection" anymore..wat shood i do? (link)
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Try talking to him and getting to know him again... see if your candle can stay lit this time. But if things don't work out the rite guy will still be waiting out there for you!
* Hope i helped * ~KiSsEs~
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mmmk.....well i've liked this guy for eh 3 yrs i think and we r pretty good friends. i like him A LOT but am scared to make a move cus i dont kno if he likes me. i keep getting mixed signals and stuff from him so i have no clue how he feels. its driving me freaking crasy. i have no way of getting in touch with him cept for AIM and he is never on! i have asked his friends to tell him but they never get around to it and i just really need to have a way to tell him b4 its too late! the reason i didnt tell him during skool was because i dont like rejection(even tho it happens i kno) and i felt like i was being pressured to tell him. also if he did like me and ask me out i would go otu with him but whenever we broke up i wouldnt want our friendship to b akward or not b friends at all. what to do?! (link)
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Maybe you should ask his friends for his # or sumtin....find some way to get into contact with him so you can tell him how you feel. It's ok to be scared of rejection but you run away from it forever?! Just face your fears and ask him if he see's apossibilty of yall two hookin up anytime soon. If yall are really meant for each other to be friends then if yall went out and then broke up you would still be friends. yes it may feel awkward at first but things change! ~KiSsEs~
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well my friend really annoys me should i tell her that or what (link)
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Alot of people can be annoying but you need to tell her!! or else its just going to build up inside and then you won't be able to stand her! dont get me wrong or anything... tel her politely and just let her know the truth about how you feel...and somtimes the truth hurts ~KiSsEs~
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OK i have a major problem!!! I'm a big flirt and I just love guys. The problem is that whenever they end up falling for me back I end up stop liking them! Whats wrong with me?! I mean I DID like them a lot!! but then suddenly it stops... i dont know what to do. I have a feeling that it has something to do with like this other guy and he's never liked me enough to go out with me (but he told me that he has liked me a lot). I dont know what to do... please help (link)
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You like flirting and making the guy like you or want you. It's an ol saying...."We always want what we can't have." You want thesse guys to like you and once they do you don't care for them anymore. As for the other guy....talk to him cuz yall mihgt have sumthings incommon ~KiSsEs~
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I gotta lotta problems. okay so last year i had a ton of friends and i fellt on top of da world. But den I moved to anoter skewl and I only have 2 friends. I dunt know what ta do. Everything was so gooooooood befor an now I try to hang out wit other peeps but it seem like no one wants to git to know me. wassup wit dis?? i need sum helllpppp (link)
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As long as those two friends are true friends that are always there for you, that's all you really need. Moving to a new place mean new things and new people, you didn't automatically have a ton of friends at your old school you had to make them!!! To make new friends at your new school you could always try to join clubs and try put for team sports etc.Just be yourself and in time things will change and you'll see. ~KiSsEs~
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OK, my guy friend for many years has a friend. I hung out with them the other day and I think I'm falling for his friend. He is totally hott, nice, funny, and i feel like i could talk to him forever!! I barely know him so I'm probly getting ahead of myself but I'm crazy about him. I dont know what to do!! He goes to another school also. I have his sn but I've never talked to him before. We werent really flirting that night we hung out so I have no idea how he feels. I also know that he used to go out with this other girl at MY school so I know he dates outside of his own school... but then again he broke up with her so maybe the distance between schools is too hard for him?? I dont know I need advise desperately!!!!!
x0x0 --- Head*over*heals (link)
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Maybe you should try getting to know him more then talk to him and ask him if he intends to take yall relationship to another level. Also find out how he feels about dating females at another school, he could have broke up with her for a different reason so don't jump to conclusions! But,if things do start to work that ur guy friend wont mind yall dating.....you dont wanna ruin a friendship for a guy! ~KiSsEs~
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here it goes my friends that are mad at me keep calling me and saying that they gonna make a fool out of me and i noe they will cuz they so friggin mean well do u noe what i should do. (link)
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Well first of all sTOP calling them FRIENDS, because a true friend would never do that. If you know they WILL make a fool out of you do what ever you can to prevent that. What ever you did to make them amd maybe you should be the bigger person and apologize, *luck 2 ya * ~KiSsEs~
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my best friend and i have a "fling" going and his g/f is getting really mad that we hang out ... hes having issues dumping her ... should we do? (link)
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Well you know he has a girlfriend so i say back off untill things die down between them. How would you feel if that was your boyfriend flirtin around with anotha girl. You gotta be considerate of her feelings...she had every right to be mad! If he's having issues dummping her stay out of it... thats something he needs to do with out you.
~KiSsEs~
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my boyfriend just came back from mississippi and we always talked online and he always told me how much he missed me and how much he wanted to see me. we was always saying how much he wanted to see me and he is always saying he loved me and he would never treat me bad and he treats me like SHIZ NIT! my friends tell me to break up with him but i love him too much and i dont know if i should break up with him or not. I mean he hurts me by not answering my phone calls and ignoring me and always ditching me for his friends. I was so mad when i called him and he got home an hour before and he was already with his friends. sometime i think he for gets he has a girlfriend that he soposably cares about. I need advice!
~*~jonelle~*~ (link)
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Your friends are right! Leave him because if hes really treating you bad then u really shudnt be with him... but at the same time make sure that ur not trying to control him. He has a life of his own and you should understand that but he needs to know you want to be apart of that life.
* hope i helped * ~KiSsEs~
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Alright well Im 16 yrs old..Soon to be 17 and I've slept with 7 different people. Is that considered a slut? I dont think Im skanky or anything, I just enjoy sex! Is that wrong? Im very open about my sexuality and people think Its wrong to be, Alot of people joke around and say that Im a nympho and shit like that..I need advice and I want people to truthfully tell me what they think. Dont be afraid to tell me the truth..Be straight up!! *Thnks* (link)
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At 16.... 7 people is one too many! It doesn't nesscarily make you a slut you're just moving tOoOo fast. Calm down and take things slow. Sex is supposed to be special and with someone you love.... you're makeing it a game. Ya it's ok to be a very sexual person but it may seem fun NOW But will it still be fun when you cath sumthin?
* b safe n keep it wrapped* ~KiSsEs~
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this guy wanted me to break up with someone for him.. so i did because i really liked him but when i did he starts pretty much ingoring me.. and doesnt talk about liking me and is in love with this other gurl.. I cant move on that easily because i had been with that guy for 5 months!.. so does anybody have idea on how to move on? thanks so much! (link)
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This guy don't sound like he deserves you... i think that he was just using you...but thats just what i tihnk. You should move on because you can find better! I know it hurts and its really hard but after you move on the pain is ALL WORTH IT! *good luck* ~KiSsEs~
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this year, our my grade got a new student. he sat at the table next to mine in lunch. The second i saw him, i felt like i knew him and i felt like i needed to be friends with him. He is on my bus also and i found many times he would turn around and look at me. Then we started talking on AIM and eventually he would turn around in lunch and sit at my lunch table. Recently this summer, he asked me to hang out with him and he even ditched the girl he liked to hang out with me all day and then he told her he had fun with me and my other friend. He talks to me more now and he told me to call him once to make plans to hang out. Why did i feel like i need to be his friend so much since i saw him, and what does this all mean? I dont feel like i like him or any thing but im confused with what direction our friendship is goin in because sometimes we talk alot and then sometimes we dont talk at all. Im confused... (link)
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You probably felt like you HAD to be friends with him the first time you saw him because destiny was workin its majic. You may not like him NOW but just give it sometime and you'll seem to have a change in heart! Just go with the flow and see how things turn out... You might like him and you dont know it yet! ~KiSsEs~
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well... i hang out with friends like everyday! an there are like 4 guyz who really like me but last nite, my mom forgot to pick me up an it wuz like 11:00 an i heard will, frankie, an steve in steves back yard yellin at the tv. so i went there untill my mom picked me up. an well my didnt ppick me up till like 2 in the mornin, but frankie kept saying he loved me, an that he wanted me to go out with him really bad an everything.. but the 3 other guyz say that too but im just to confused because we went in the hott tub an steve an will started to flirt wit me an frankie kept grabbin me an sayin he loved me an that he wanted me an everything im just really really really confused CAN SOMEONE HELP PLZZ!!! 14/f/ny (link)
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It sounds like these guys are just saying all this without thinking about what it REALLY means. Frankie seems like he is really just tryin to
"Knock it down" if you know what i mean! He don't just want YOU but your BODY too!As for the other guys just choose the one who you like the most and wouldn't be scared to talk to. But if you like them all the same choose the one who makes you happy and feel special! * luck 2 ya* ~KiSsEs~
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I love to dance..a lot..i do ballet ..pointe shoe...and i do tap, but i have another passion..i love to act and do commercials. when i was younger i audtionend for an agent and got one, i then was on sesame street..for a couple of years and i did comercials. but when i was 6 or 7... i had to quit. now tht i am at a higher age i want to enroll in that type thing...but i do to much dancing, and my mom is making me choose ..what do i do?
please answer to my inbox! (link)
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Thats really cool cause we both do acting and dancing but i don't do ballet. WOW! Seseame Street! You must of had an exciting child hood. But N*E* ways, i say that you should do what you do best and what you have the most fun doing! Because why do something you know you won't have fun doing? but what ever you do Go with what your heart says!The heart tells all!
*good luck* ~ KiSsEs~
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hey my name is katie (( female )) and i have a boyfriend we've only been dating for a month tomorrow ;; we've went out before but i really love him and im only 14 but i mean i never felt this way for a boy before but i think hes ignoring me because some bad stuff kinda happened well imma tell you [[ short versen ]] -- well i was talkin to this boy that likes meh wait no loves me and he kept telling meh and like 20 mins before we were going to my boyfriends house he was all huggin on meh and holding my hand then when we got to my boyfriends house he pulled this headache crap cause i wouldnt talk to him but i mean i dont like this boy _at all_ and i told him then my boyfriend found out but i mean i didnt tell him so i found out a bunch of my friends told him but im not sure but i called him the nixt day and i told him i didnt like the other boy and he didnt believe meh but its been like 4 days later and my boyfriend still isnt talking to meh i mean if i call him hes either bout to leave or not there or about to do sumpthyn i mean is he igoring meh? i mean i've cried my self to sleep like almost everynight this past week and i dont know what to do -- will you please help meh -- (( i hope i made this understandable lol )) thanks [[ much love ]] Katie Sumner (link)
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I think he may be ignoring you too. But stop calling him and go to his house! That way he has no excuses. But obviously he still cares about you otherwise he would have broken up with you... Relationships are built on honesty and trust and situations can only get worse if you lie. just don't worry about it too much and tell him the truth. * good luck * ~KiSsEs~
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hey, ive been going out w/ this guy 4 about 3 months i think. i kno its summer and all but he calls me like every 2 weeks. if we talk its because i call him. i dont think he calls me because hes always with his friends. everytime i talk to him he has a friend over. do you think i should dump him because he doesnt call me and we never talk? plz help me thx (link)
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Well the summer can keep people very busy and distract them for things, but two weeks is a long time to not call, i think you should tell your boyfriend how you feel it's the only way for yall to work things out. But if your really not satisfied with your relationship then yes, you should brake up with him. there's now point in being in a realtionship when only ONE person's making an effort......it takes TWO
* Just make sure you follow your heart and do what makes you happy * ~KiSsEs~
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i really like this guy and i think he likes me to but im shy and really afraid to ask him out.he always stares at me and blows kisses to me can some one help (link)
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Maybe if you asked a friend to go talk to him for you or went to talk to him with a friend you'd feel more comfortable. But I don't see any reason to be shy because by the way this boy is acting, I'd say he likes you too! It takes courage but once you do it you'll feel ALOT better! Besides you'd never know if there was a chance between you two if you dont take one. ~KiSsEs~
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ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!! (link)
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well that was wrong of your friend, she obviously ain't the type of friend you can trust so you might want to stop associating with her! Just talk to your guy friend and tell him the truth....if hes a true friend he will believe you and if he don't have that girl call and confess everything to him *hope i helped* ~KiSsES~
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ok i went out with this guy lets say his name is bob...so bob and i were really good friends (and we both have the same friends) but when he asked me out i said yea so then the next day my friend lets say bobby is just rushing our relationship like in the morning he told him to put his arm around me (i was ok with that) then at lunch he wanted me to hold his hand (FYI: My hands are really dry so i said no)then he told me to tell bob that i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him!! ( i didnt tell him that) so then the next day i broke up with bob. even though i still like him!! so he broke up with his gf and i dont knko if i should go back out with him. should i?!?! thanx!! (link)
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I say GO for it! You only have one lyf to live so y not make the best out of it. Just let Bobby know that you don't want to rush things between you two, and wanna take it slow. If Bob and you are relly good friends lyk u say then Yes he may be hurt but he'll understand. * try using cocoa butter it could help the whol dry hand situation*
~KiSsEs~ Good luck
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