My name is Jessica a.k.a. Gessyka
I love to talk on AIM online, and I love to hang out with friends. I teach myself how to play the keyboard and on it I can play "Fur Elise", "Heart and Soul" with both hands, and a few other songs. My birthday is March 31 1990.
I love to write, draw, play video games. Im not MUCH a tom boy but I like a lot of things that boys like (like skateboarding, video games, hockey, etc.)
I like to help people out very much and I'll help you out as much as I can if you need advice.
I've been through a lot of things, and I'm only 14. Some people think I have the perfect life but in reality, I DO have a lot of problems...
I've had people who passed away, crying all the time, people have told me to kill myself (sluts), I have seen people talk about suicide...I know some people who tried killing themselves, so many things that I'd rather not discuss that are pretty horrible, and a lot of other things now that are on my mind...good and bad and...*cough* puberty too...=(
Oh and I also believe in psychics, spirits (only good) and I'm a Christian Catholic.
MY BFF/Cousin IS RACHAEL! Button Rachael (lol)
Oh and I have a goofy sense of humor but if it's time to get serious, I get right down to it.
E-mail: truevalue53@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: USA, CT
Occupation: School, babysit (once in a while)
Age: 14
AIM: Infinityo0o (or) Met3oralp
Member Since: November 10, 2003
Answers: 385
Last Update: February 27, 2005
Visitors: 16681
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wuts the normal weight for a 13 year old and 5'-5'1? (link)
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About...105-115...something like that.
Hope I helped. =)
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Do you get tested for HIV/AIDs before sex or after sex? or both? plz help! (link)
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Yup.
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my brother just hit me so bad and it was for like no reason my whole face started bleeading he took a shoe and started hiting me with it and started pulling my hair i hate him so much..i was so close 2 calling the cops but i just couldnt wat should i do i really started hating him! (link)
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How old is he and how old are you?? You should really tell someone and make sure you're not left home alone with him...you don't know what could happen...
Good Luck
*hug*
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can women fall pregnant by a man who is 20years older then them (link)
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Fall pregnant?
And the answer is yes...
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i really like this boy!
Hi my name is Jessica Im 12 yrs old and i really like this boy. We dated for about 8 and a half months then we broke up. But I went out with another boy about 3 weeks after we broke up but i realized when i was going out with my new b/f that i missed my ex so much so i dumped him now i want my ex back and now hes saying he doesnt know if he still likes me and maybe he might go back out wth me. What should i do (link)
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Don't wait for him...you shouldn't have to WAIT that long for a boy...if he doesn't even KNOW if he likes you know I wouldn't wait on him because meanwhile there's other guys out there who maybe batter for you.
Then again if you REALLY feel like you would wait forever for him...that's your choice...
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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can guys be bisexual (link)
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duh
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im 16, 5'3 and i weight 110 pounds? am i really skinny???????????? answer asap plz (link)
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Um...it wouldn't hurt if you gained a few more pounds...but don't go OVERBOARD or anything...
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What is the average weight for a 17yr old?My sister is 17 goin on 18 soon, and is 5'3" and ways 86lbs. She is rele skinny and it almost gets me wonderin............ (link)
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Holy Crap! She is WAAAYYYY too skinny! Are you sure she had no eating disorders in the past? You should really talk to her about this...THAT IS TOO SKINNY for an 18 year old...
~Gessyka~
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Hey, I am 13 and i am 5"4 and I weigh 105 pounds...am i too fat for my age and height? All of my friends are always saying I am 2 skinney but i think that i am fat and my doctor says i am skinny for my height but i still think i am fat! what do u think? (link)
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NO! You are NOT too fat for your age...in fact, you're just right...trust me on this...you're not fat...especially since a doctor told you you were too skinny...so don't worry you're just fine! =0)
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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ok i am going into 7th grade and i am scared to get my period and when i do i am not gonna no what to do...please tell me every thing to no about them PLEASE. (link)
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Okay...usually when you START to have your period you will find some creamy type of white stuff in your underwear which is called discharge...
(Gosh I feel like one of thpose nurses on school specials)
Anyways...when that happens IT SHOULDN'T HURT...just think of it as a warning...it tells you that your period is coming soon...Soon after...maybe weeks or a few months after you may wake up one morning to find you had your period in your sleep. It doesn't hurt when it comes out. It just feels like you had an accident or something...
From then on, your period will come once every month usually and it will only last for about a week tops each month.
It doesn't hurt except you may get cramps or feel stomach sick sometimes. It's different for a lot of people...
Don't worry about it really...it's no sweat...you should've seen me...when I started getting closer to my very first period I was so paranoid and I didn't know anything about it and I was SOOOOO SCARED...but...once it came I realized it's really not a big deal. It's part of life and it's really not bad...
Just to let you know...it makes your hormones RAGE...you could have mood swings one day (PMS) and another day you could be so happy you would think you could fly. It's an odd feeling...
Don't worry about it...just be prepared and bring pads/tampons...you will be fine...
Good Luck_*
~Gessyka~_-*~*-_~
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i really fancy my teacher. he is so cute. i havnt told ne of my mates coz they will tell him plz can sum 1 help me (link)
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Here's a tip...*deep breath*
I-L-L-E-G-A-L
There's no way you can be with him if you're UNDER 18 years old and he's OVER 18 years old...and I know you're under 18 years old by the way you spell...anyways...yeah so...there's really nothng you can do about that. I know this happens to a lot of teenage girls...crushing on a cute teacher but come on think about it...when you're like...older he's going to be all bald and junk...so I'd stick with guys your age.
~Gessyka~
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wat is insomania?
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a sleeping disorder...lack of sleep.
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My best friend has a lot of shoes. all of them are really cute but every time she wears a pair they never match her outfit. how do i let her know w/ out hurting her feelings that her shoes dont match. signed,
out of style (link)
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Just joke around and say it to your friend...
My cousin/best friend once told me "Jess your outfit doesn't match" and I'm like "I know." but at that point I didn't treally care if my outfit matched or not...it was only pajamas...
But anyways...that's not the point (lol)...the point is that if you guys are really friends it shouldn't hurt her feelings...just tell her...nothing really bad is going to happen.
Then again, maybe she knows her shoes don't match. Personally, with my shoes I don't care if they match my outfit. That's just me though. It's not going to kill her or anything if her shoes are out of style...but if you REALLY think she ought to know then just be like "How come you never wear THOSE pair of shoes with THAT outfit?"
You know what I mean?...Just be like "because I think that would look so cool."
If they were really THAT BAD don't you think someone would have already told her?? I know that you just want to help her and I understand that and respect that but if you feel you REALLY HAVE to tell her then you should....
But then again, it's not that bad...and maybe she likes the way she wears her shoes and what outfit she wears them with...
Good Luck...
~Gessyka~
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Anyone here skateboard? I mean, I really want to know how to. I live in California. Does anyone know where a cool skateboarding lesson guy person is or something? I really want to be like my brother and skate with him all the time!
Thanx! (link)
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Oh my gosh I LOVE SKATEBOARDING...I'm jiust starting now though so I'm trying to learn the ollie...I'm sorry I don't know any lesson person...ask your brother for help and if he doesn't help there are always awesoem skateboarding websites....
go in a search and type in "simple skateboarding tricks" and then there are so many tricks for your level of skateboarding...just be careful because it could be painful if you wipe out.....
Good Luck!
~Gessyka~
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ok...u know those rice cakes...well why r they called rice cakes if they r made out of corn!!?!?! (link)
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Yeah I know what you're talking about and now that bothers me!!
It's just like a hamburger...WHY IS IT CALLED A HAM-BURGER??...it's not ham...ham comes from pig and hamburgers are cow...Why isn't it called a BEEF burger??
*sigh*
*shakes head in disappointment*
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OK, I'ma be blunt: my b/f and I have been having sex. He comes every time, but I can't seem to. It's kind of been bothering me. We've been experimenting and stuff, but I just haven't come. It's bothering him, too.LOL I think he thinks hes doing something wrong or something. Anyone have any tips?
He does know what I like, by the way...he knows it better than I do. Does it, like, take awhile for the girl to be able to orgasm? Or something?
If you can, help me out, would ya? I mean, I was told girls are hard to get to orgasm, but I didn't think it was this hard!
i'm 16/f, if that makes any difference. (link)
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Um....a little too...young?? I mean you cant even spell some stuff...I'm not trying to be mean but I just think you're too young.
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i can't help myself especialy when i get nervus & i end up sniffing & getting high. the last time i did was befor my skool play. my friends got scared. they prayed & cry for me. i wanna stop getting high but i cant help myself. wat should i do? (link)
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You need to go get help...you really need to. What do you have lose?? Really though...what?
You will be doing your friends and YOURSELF a favor...so please help yourself and get help...you can really get hurt by doing this....this isn't the way to go. PLease get help.
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Marijuana is obviously one of the most popular illigal drugs. but is it really a bad thing? I have personal experiences and well to tell truth, it doesnt really hinder your judgement, nor does it make you feel invincible. All marijuana does is make you really goofy. Ppl say that car accidents happen alot due to marijuana. what these ppl over look is that those kids that are in the accidents are also drunk. which is what really hinders and clouds your judgement.
Is there actually any REAL physical harm that will come from marijuana, aside from the obvious? (link)
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Yes!!
Whether you like smoking marijjuana or not there's bad things that can get into your body by exposing it to marijuana. Smoking marijuana is just as bad as smoking cigarettes...only worse!!
and yes...it can cause you SO MUCH physical harm...don't do it.
~Gessyka~
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If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help? (link)
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If you cut yourself once obviously that isn't good...and I'm NOT saying you should do that again, but all I'm saying is that doesn't make you crazy...despite what everyone says about cutters.
I know you realize what you've done IS stupid but it's really your choice if you should seek help or not. Doing it once is bad obviously...but if you know that you will never do it again you don't have to seek help unless you really want to.
If you develop an ADDICTION to cutting yourself, now that's different...you should telkl someone if you strongly feel you should. You never no if it could get worse. Please just try not to do it again. I know you only didn it once and not everyone gets addicted or anything...but please, just don't do it again...
I'm glad you saw that it was a mistake...you really don't have to tell someone unless you start to do it again but then again it is totally up to you and you can tell someone if you feel you need to.
Good Luck...
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I don't wanna clean my room! should I? (link)
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Well...yes.
Trust me...cleaning your room is very annoying, but once you clean/sweep/vacuum/mop the floor it feels a lot better already...trust me on that.
Get into it...rearrange some furniture, after all...this is your room and it should represent how you feel...and your personality. You should organize some things and have fun with it. I know that sounds corny but I like cleaning my room. I know that sounds strange...
I HATE CLEANING...but I like cleaning my room...it's fun to look through things in my room...and to make it the way I want it. It's the only place I could call my own in the house...
Like I said before, get into it and rearrange some furniture...you can also make your room look cool/funky or whatever by buying some cool pillows or comforters.
There's a lot of things you can do to clean your room...and once you clean it you can get into it by decorating it.
Good Luck!
~*!*~GeSsYkA~*!*~
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