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There's this boy who I've been talking to for over a year now, flirting back and forth. This boy has a girlfriend who found out that we've been flirting with eachother. A couple months later, were still talking. I know he likes me because he gets jealous and mad when i talk about guys. I've tried so hard to get them to breakup =/, and I've talked to him about it, what should I do?
Age: 15 Gender: Female
umm take a good look at your question
what your doing is really wrong
dont only look at whats best for you
you should care for others aswell
and its wrong how u flirt with a guy that has a girlfriend i cant really help you but im just telling you you just stop trying to break them up
if he likes you then he will decide.
guys have asked me out,just not great looking ones.
WHY DOES THAT HAPPEN! i know im not the onlyone im sure pretty girls get asked out by really ugly guys no offense.
i hate it. they say im a pretty girl but how come the guys i like NEVER LIKE ME. or liike the cute ones neevr ask me out. i think i AM a little attractive thouh but when will a cute guy ask me out!
what should i do?>
lol i thought that aswell but then i thought again, the boys that ask us out are cute to other girls but arent cute to us , girls have diffrent tastes you might think that the guy that asks you out is ugly and stuff but then again another girl out there is probably crazy about him.
theres nothing you can do all you can do is wait for the guy you like to like you back
hope i helped :)
hey, well im in 8th grade and i started dating this girl in 7th grade and weve been goin out for about 6 months. shes an awesome girl...but shes bigger than me, stronger than me, and can end my ENTIRE reputation of a nice guy. all of her friends are my friends and they are awesome too. but lately ive been feeling that i dont like her as much as i used to...and ive started likeing this other girl. but i dont wanna cheat on my current girl friend. theres nothing rong with my current girlfriend, but i jus dont wanna go out with her any more. we had a conversation awhile ago about how we wont be able to go out forever, but i think shes not ready to break up. but i am. and i would hate to make her mad...also she can ruin me at school. so my question is how to i break up with her without making her outraged and make her go off tellin things about me. any info would be awesome, im jus in a hard spot. thanks
Well Look if you still date her and have no feelings for her that would make her more angry
i think you should just tell her
that would be pretty childish of her if she ruins your rep because you broke up with her i honeslty dont think she would do that,but even if she did who cares? you know who you are and you shouldnt care what others think becuase you kno who you are so the way you should break up with her just tell her the truth tel her that shes a great girl but tht you stopped having feelings for her and you think you both should just not be together anymore.hope i helped. :)
Me 15
Him 18
My best friend is 18 and we have dated once then his ex GF wrote him a long note saying she loved him. He dumped me and they got together then we stoped talking. Then we became friends and then best friends. Its almost a year since we dated and he told me that he loves me and always has..the problem is he is still with the same girl he dumped me for.He tells me all these sweet things and how much he cares for me. Then he sayd he loves her to. i feel like i have fallin for him and he knows that. What do I do because we want to stay just friends but at the same time be so much more
Honestly, i think you should not go out with him
i mean he sweet talks you and he has a girlfriend how would you know he wont do the same thing when your with him. and i think that hes just trying to lead you on and for you to like him.
Hope i helped.
Well, I start school in two weeks and the first day at our school is always a half day, which doesn't make it as intense but yeah...
What are some ways I will leave a good/friendly impression on the new people, and also how are some ways I can be friendly with the people in my classes?
I mean obviously I have friends that I always hang around with but I want to know how I can be friendly with the people that I don't really know?
Thanks!
This is what i do i just start off by saying hey randomly out of nowhere id be sitting down and smile and be like whats your name or something and then just ask where the person is from and then from there it will start a conversation and be yourself jus make jokes or say something funny trust me the best way to get to know more people and hang out with them more is to be yourself.
invite her to hang out with you one day and you know the rest :D
Hope i helped! =D
17/f
i feel like i'm a horrible friend to my best friend. we have a long distance friendship since i live in new york and she lives in california. whenever we talk on the phone, i always end up saying negative things to her like, "oh i'm not really your best friend," or "you don't really miss me"...stuff like that..most of the time i don't mean it and i know it's not true, but i dont know why i keep saying stupid things like that. i feel like it's because i'm jealous of her other friend who lives in cali with her. i feel like they're much closer now and that her other friend is her best friend and not me. i also think it’s because sometimes she says things that hurt me also, but she doesn’t realize it or thinks im being too sensitive about it, so i feel like i have to get even by trying to hurt her also. i also feel like i always need reassurance that we'll always be friends from her because i feel like one day i might lose her. sometimes i tell her how i feel and why i act that way because she always asks "what's wrong with you?" when i do act that way. and i try to explain, but it seems like she doesn't really care or try to understand how i feel. i just feel so horrible that i always say those things, and i do apologize to her all the time and she always says it's okay and stuff. but i still feel so terrible about it and i can't seem to just stop myself from saying things like that. it didn’t used to be like this before. i don’t know why things just changed all of a sudden. i think it’s because of me though. is there anything else i can try to do?
please help, thanks so much in advance.
Im sure she cares but maybe she doesnt know how to express her emotions alot of people have that you know but you shouldnt say it too much cuz that way you might lose her because she might get tired of you always tellin her that she doesnt miss you and that you arent her best friend and stuff like that so the next time you talk to her just dont say any of those stuff jus start a normal conversation like hows it over there? are you having fun? cool friends ?
just dont bring any of that up so she doesnt get bothered :)
& im sure your stil her best friend xD
Stacy 15 Female,
When I get mad, I go on rampages and mess up my relationships with everybody, and I make sure things cant be fixed, I say things so hurtful and things I bottled up, everything Ive ever hated about tht person. Even if they forgive me, I always DO something to make them hate me. This has happened a couple times before I caught it. I dont even know what question Im asking, Im not even explaining this right. I dont think Im a depressed person but I am, right now just thinking about it. HELP!
Im starting high school with no one I had last year, the only people Ive ever opened up too.
Honestly the only person that could really help you out is yourself, before saying anything hurtful to anyone you need to control your anger and stop and think about how you might lose them because your angry,everyone gets angry and say stuff we dont mean but sometimes you just need to control your anger, work on it jus try calming down and if your angry just leave the place the person is in so that you wont say anything that may hurt them :)
xD
wednesday, a guy asked me out and i said yes. we only just met on sunday, but we'd been hanging out for four hours that day and we talked online and on the phone.
anyway.
this "relationship" has GOT to end. i can't really go into the specific reasons why, it just absolutely has to. but he's been very nice and sweet to me, and i feel like $#!* for having led him on maybe.
but the truth is i got to know him a little better and... he's trouble. he's no good.
i already know i want to end this as swiftly and efficiently as possible without completely pissing him off and without getting into a confrontation/argument thing...
can anyone give me a good layout of a swift, persuasive, concise breakup speech?
THANK YOU SO MUCH.
Just be like "Im sorry and you seem like your a great person but i just dont think things are gonna work out with us" & like tell him why things wouldnt work out, and if he gets mad it isnt your fault you wer being nice and all
Hope i helped :)
Im 16 and my boyfriend is 18. I had a babyboy 2 months ago and i feel like im ready to live on my own. My boyfriend works and so do i, so we have everything figured out. the on ly problem is, my mom doesnt think i can handle it....is she right??? what do i do
Honeslty, i think your way to young to live on your own your mom understands and she knows how it is to raise a baby and thats how she raised you so i think you should listen to your mom if she thinks your not ready then maybe you arent for now keep things the way they are until you grow older and accually be able to raise your son and be responsible.
:)
Hope i helped.
How do you love? Not a sexual question.
Love isnt something you "Do"
Youll understand love when your accually INlove.
There was this song like in 2000 or sometime and it went..
back it up girl you go it you got put your hands you got it you got it.
or something like that and i believe it was sung by gwen but i can't find it anywhere so what was it called??
Its called "Crash"
Since you have some of the lyrics you could go on google and jus write the part of the lyric that you know and itl show up :)