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OK so me and my Best friend have been friends since like third grade...we live by eachother and we would hang out all the time....In Elementary school it was great..then when junior high hit we still hung out but not as much...we talked all the time and we were still very close...but then highschool happened....it seemed that she became friends with alot of the cooler crowd and would only talk to me when it was conveinent for her....Now we are in the same church group so i see her every sunday and she talked to me there....I kind of feel like i am her second wheel...like if no one better is around she will talk to me...or if all of her "cooler" friends were gone all weekend then she wood call me....is she just using me? I dont know what to do.....HELP!

Hey Sweetie,You need to talk to her. And i think she is using you so that it makes her more popular that she 'always' has someone around. So if i were you I woud find some new friends and hang out with them. That happen to me last year. No worries everything will work out!!hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe~

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I'm gonna get straight to the point.My dad hates me he said it himself he told me last yr. in New Years Day that he was gonna make it hell for me and he kept his promise now he's doing the same thing this year.Im 14/f and I'm really tired of it.And my sister doesn't make it any better because she looks through my things constantly I can't hide anything cause she finds it and uses it against me.She is 2 years younger and makes life living hell for me.My older brother is going to the Army soon and he barly is never there and me and him don't get along.Then there is my mom she doesnt understand all she can say is calm down be patient and soon this will end.PLZ HELP what can I do.Thank you on advance.

Oh geez hunny,Talk to a counslor you need to tell someone!And get out of that house for a couple weeks to put yourself back together.Like with a close friend or a close relative.Hunny I hope it works out and feel free to IM me on CoKeIzZle X 13 or ask me anything you want!GoD BlESs!Hope i helped!XoXo NiCoLe P.S Try prayers!

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i really hate my dad.

no, really.

i sincerely dislike the man.

i am incredibly opinionated and very vocal about my opinions, which he hates.

i know i am smarter than him, he hates this also.

he yells at me for no reason often. condemning my use of the computer. stating that i'm on it too much.

my sister, on the other hand, watches TV all the time. he says i lack social skills because i'm on the computer "too much."

he's not around when i'm not on the computer and doing other things.

but yet i am still on the computer too much according to him.

i fight back all the time, but i hate it. i hate him.

i cant stand this anymore.

i want out.

due to his working situation i dont see him except for some weekends. (my parents arent divorced).

when he tries to punish me, he fails. he really cant. i have more power than he does in our family.

i'm 14, extremely mature and intelligent, if i do say so myself.

i dont want to kill him (in my head i do, on paper it doesnt look so good) but i'd like some way to come to peace with him.

i am NOT going to shut up and stop being opinionated however.
any advice on what i should do?

Hey Babes,OKay first sort things out with your Dad,give him a second chance.ANd if it doesn't work out trying talking to your mom and maybe she can talk to him.And if that doesn't work stay with a close relative for awhile to get some stress off your head.Go to a counselor or IM me on CoKeIzZle X 13 !!hope it works out and i helped!if u need anymore help IM me or feel free to ask!Happy New Years!XoXo NiCoLe~GoD BlEsS

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i love chicken

who did this stop thats a lil retarded

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i have a friend who has liked this guy for 4 months...she obsesses over him...he is friends with my group of friends and recently i have started talking to him...he is really nice and really hott...i dont want to admit it, but i like him...he told all his friends that he thinks im hot and that he wants to go out with me...i feel bad because this is making my friend pretty mad...i want to go out with him really bad, but i dont want my friend to end up getting hurt... what should i do...

Hey Sweetie, First talk to your friend about this.And if she doesn't understand don't date him.No guy is worth losing a friend.But you have to think about her feelings too.Think how she feels!Hope i helpede and it works out! XoXo NiCoLe

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Ok, well I asked the question: Ok, I was just wondering what kind of Abercrombie fragrance for women is the kind that smells like the store- if there is a kind that smells like that. There's three different types: NOW Fragrance, Signature Fragrance, and 8 Fragrance. I would think it would be Signature Fragrance, but I'm not sure. Does anybody know??

Well, most people answered Signature Fragrance, but has anybody actually tried it?? Everybody but a few people said that they thought it was Signature, and the rest said that is was a cologne for men called Fierce. Has anybody tried it?? Thanks and I rate.

Hey sweetie,its SiGnAtUrE FrAgRaNcE!!XoXo NiCoLe~

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Here is the thing I don't want to live anymore sometime because all I am to anyone in my family is there slave my brothers are always coming home and yelling at me to clean there mess or clean up the dog piss and do everything for them. And my mom is always asking me to clean the house before her boyfriend comes over who I can't stand and she won't get it through her thick head that I don't like him and then she trys to buy me stuff and pay me like that is going to win my love for her when I don't even feel like a daughter to her cause whenever i try and talk to her she is with don (her bf) and wants to spend time with him or on the phone with him and it is all about don and nothing about her own freaking daughter all her daughter is to her is someone to clean her house and shit and my dad is always yelling at me and i don't even live with him. I guess my question is what should I do about my family cause my mom won't listen when I try and tell her how I feel and always makes everything my fault? I don't know I just don't want to go on with life anymore and I don't know what to do please help. And don't say you need to talk to someone about it cause I have and it doesn't help and don't say you need to tell your mom how you feel cause i have tryed to nothing freakin works i am on my last string before i do something i am gona regret help!!!!!

Oh Hunny, Okay talk to a close relative about this and go stay with them for awhile.And when your brother tells you to clean up there mess say "HOW ABOUT YOU DO IT FOR A CHANGE!".Don't kill yourself.God does this 4 a reason. Pray hunny Pray! GoD BlEsS hope i helped and i hope everything works out!XoXo NiCoLe~

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ok my best friend is going out with kid and he is younger than her and he is crazy and jumped her brother and pulled a knife out on him and said he was going to kill me and our other friend to but she wont listen to me,.. i tell her to dump him but she said she loves him and i dont no what to do and they had sex and he is two years younger (sorry i cant spell) and they have only bin going out for like three weeks and i dont know what to do PLEASE HELP!!!=(

Hey Hun,you really need to lay down the law to her!Time her whats going on and what a bad kid he is! Tell her straight out before things get serious!Tell his mom!God Bless hope it works out and hope i helped! XoXo NicOle

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I'm treated pretty badly at school. Like, people pick on me and call me names. I don't do anything to deserve such treatment, and it's been like this since Kindergarden. I have friends and all that, but a lot of people still threaten me and what not. Don't tell me to tell a teacher or what not because they already not yet fail to do a damn thing about it. I can't defend myself because I can't fight, and I don't like making fun of others. If there is any advice people could give me to maybe help me stop the torment, that'd be great.
Thank you for your time,
♥Shattered Soul in Shelby♥

P.S-Don't ask to be rated.

I agree with YoshiP162 stand up 4 yourself!God BlEss xoxo Nicole

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Hey, im Alyson and i really love my boyfriend Mike but we have been on and off since October and stuff but i think i had a missunderstanding with him and he is kinda a hard person to talk to i guess you would have to know him in this situation... but anyways, he told me he doesn't know about us together? and stuff so i said then its over and he said i guess. my closest friend says that makes it sound like i was the one who broke it off.. i think i should call him and talk about it and stuff but im not really sure what to do... so plez IM me on ALMarie x22 or sumthing else...

c`ya

Alyson Marie

Hey hun, No matter how hard it is to talk to him you have to if you want this to last! Tell him he misunderstood you.And you didn't mean it like that. If he doesn't understand hes not worth it. But I bet you guysz will end up dating again. Talkto his "guy" friends and see whats going on!hope i helped and please rate! xOxO NiCoLe~ ps hope it works out =/

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how can i erase my computers search history

Hey Babes,okay you kno where your history is?CLick that. The you know before you click it,it turns blue or get underlined?Right click it and it will give you a list and then click "delete".Hope I helped!feel free to ask me anything else!! xOxO NICoLe~

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What are the signs that let you know that you ARE ready to have sex for the first time?

Hey hunny,That's a question you need to ask yourself.DO you feel ready? Do you love this person enough that you wanna spend this moment with him/her?Thats your choice YOU have to make.hope i helped xOxO Nicole~

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i have a question. if you wear skater clothes but you dont skateboard or you used to but not anymore are you considered a poser?

Hey babes,In my point of view yes.bt thats just me.hope i helped xOxO NicOlE

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Hey im mike and 14/m. Well me and this girl we'll call joan have been dating on and off since october and we just got back together after 2 weeks. well i love her and all but im not sure where are relationship is going. We talk on the phone alot and we hang out like every week almost but i feel empty inside sometimes. I've hurt her once (emotionaly) and dont want to do it again can someone help??

Hey Mike,First you need to find out where the emptyness is coming from.IF you ask me i just think you might be feeling giuilty about hurting "Joan" once before. So if I were you I would sit her down and talk to her. Tell her that you hurt her once and you don't wanna do it again!hope i helped and everything works out!! xOxO NiCoLe

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My friend invited me over to her house so we could call people n stuff. Because I have a cellphone and she doesn't, and I think she's only using me to talk to her boyfriend. Anyways, i'm moving this summer and I need to spend as much time with my closest friends possible so I vinted 4 of my best friends over for a small group gathering. I told her that I didn't want to go to her house and she could come to my house so we could all hang out. And she said NO to me!! I'm so mad about this but I kind of understand since I blew her off in the first place. But still, she shouldn't be mad over something so stupid................right?

Hey Hunny,I think you guys both need to talk to eachother and apologize.You guys both did somthing wrong and you need to fix it.Because i don't think you want to remember your last year there with a fight with your best friend!hope i helped! xOxO Nicole~

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Me and this guy are really close. And he did stupid crap in the past but says he doesn't do them anymore. He's at a party tonight and i can't help but fear he's gonna go back on all that he promised me. We are just friends so should I be this worried? And if he does stuff, should I care? He's only my friend. Not like he's cheating on me. But yet i sit hear trembling he's doing exactly what he said he wouldnt...

Hey hun,hes your friend,you should be able to trust him! You shouldn't be worried!But if you wanna find out if he is still oding that ask one of his guy friends!hope i helped xoxo nicole

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I was seperated from all my best friends this year. My close friend, my bestest friend, and I are still realy close. But the other friend I met last year is sinking really far into depression. She is always eating and complaining. I have made alot of new friends but she clings to us. Now she is hanging out with all the scary depressed, weird people and won't even say hi to us. She only talks to complain and we always end our conversation with her saying that her uncle was right when he commited suicide... I have talked with my other friends about it but whatever we try she screams at us for. Help?

Hey hunny,you need to sit her down and ask her "what is going on" and if she leaves you need to tell your school counselor or her parents!She needs help and oyu should do the right thing and help or by doing this! And not telling anyone what she says!hope i helped,god bless xoxo nicole

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Hey. My fiancee broke his back a couiple of years ago. Ever since he has had back pain where it broke. He broke it in his lower back, and the very bootom of the back. Lately though that pain seems to have travelled farther up his back. Anytime anyone touched his lower back it would hurt really bad ... now whenever someone touches the middle of his back it hurts. Is this normal??? Please help, i'm really worried.

he sweetie,i don't know if it's normal but you need to call a doctor for him to find out!Becaus ethis sounds seriousw!hope i helped xoxo nicole

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i have been going out with this guy brandon,brandon has an ex gf thats very jealous and wants him back shes made a huge deal about it she threatened me, my friends,shes been saspended.brandon said he would never go back out with her that shes stupid shes gotten so many people in trouble and upset.I kno the only reason why brandon ever went out with her in the first place is becuase he wanted sex,she did everything for him she did his hw,shed sleep with him whenever,just everything.he called me and told me things werent working out between us and he wanted to break up i agreed are relationship wasnt as good as i thought it was i wasnt upset about it i didnt really care until my friend karina called and told me he was hooking back up with his ex gf.I think thats so fucked up its really bothering me and i dont kno how to face it school starts agian monday and i have to see them both i kno someones going to mention something and ask me why he is with her i dont kno what to do help

hey hun, i think he used you to turn her on so that she would want him more!He is probably going to ask you out when he is done with her!Say no and don't fall for his tricks!Hope I helped!xoxo Nicole

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okay, i know everybody says your beautiful no matter what, but i dont feel that way. I feel as though im an ugly duckling. i mean im fat, ugly and i just dont feel like i am beautiful. If anyone has any tips on how i can feel more better about myself..then please help!! Cause i dont feel good..i feel alone & i feel like killing myself but i wont.

hey sweetie,DON'T LOOK ON THE NEGITIVE SIDE!!everyone is beautiful in their own special way!And if you wanna lose weight go to a gym,go on a deit.Get a new and interesting hair cut!Watch the style channel!Get a new woredrobe.But i think you are probably beuatiful!Everythinks they are ugly!SO talk to your friends and ask for the truth before you do ANY of this!Ask your friends 1st "what need sto change about u"hope i helped! xoxo nicole

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