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hey i'm courtney! :)i'm nineteen and i live in ohio. i am currently not going to college, and just working fulltime.. i'm single and not really looking but,i love to go tanning, shopping, and seeing friends. i am very social, and love to listen to problems and help the best way i know how. i am a very happy person, and willing to be there for people who need me most, and i care for most in life. that's a bit about me heh.
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14/f
this is going to be longgg!
okay well me and this girl named cori used to be
bestfriends. then i started realizing her and my
old bestfriend [ally] were becoming closer and closer. so
me and cori started getting in more and more fights. so i started losing cori and ally. now my
other friend chelsea has her head up coris ass all the damn time. so if coris mad at me all my "friends" are mad at me. okay well then i started feeling like everyone was hanging out with cori and i was just getting used and noone really liked me. so i started hanging out with this girl and her name is ashlyn. and she has helped me with alot. but i started liking her older brother.
so i found myself going to ashlyns house every weekend. me and ashlyns brother made out a couple times. but it got to this point where i went to school and i was messing with my other old friend
and his name is daniel. i told daniel i had sex with him just too see what he would say. big mistake affter i said i didnt. [and i did not have sex with him] he was like right. and no lie
the entire 8th grade knew. oh and cori my "old bestfriend" dated him. so i knew i was already about to get in this huge fight with her and everyone else that was stuck up her ass. so i didnt know how to tell everyone that knew that i was just kidding about that sex thing. it was a lie. but i couldnt do it. i told everyone it was true. not thinking about cori and ashlyns brothers
former realtionship. now i also broke up with my amazing boyfriend taylor. for austin. later realizing that was a HUGE mistake. he went to a different school SMS. and i would later on be seeing everyone from sms at shs when we all go to that highschool. well i was thinking that it would just wear off. people wouldnt care over summer but the guy i used to be in love with alex . just called me and said he never wanted to talk to me ever again. and he was being 100% serious. it hurt me like crazy. because right before that taylors other sms friends called me and was basically saying i was a hoe. and i was the worst thing on the planet. now this is where im at in this story - everyone hating me completely that i have to go to school with next year, something amazing [taylor] gone and there is
no way he would give me another chance, my friends from my school hating me, and that other guy [ashlyns brother] treating me like shit. after ashlyns brother was thee one that convinced me to break up with taylor. so right now i have no
clue what i want and need too do. we only have 2 more weeks of school. but there are so many things
we are all doing as the entire 8th grade. that i feel like ill be all alone. like the outcast during all of these activities. i used to be really popular [not to brag, trying to make a point] and its amazing how fast it went. it was cool to be popular and everyone liking you. but just to help you guys out dont make mistakes like i did. i hope you can help me get through this. cause im a wreck. and i need to apologize to
everyone i hurt i just dont know how. /= well thanks in advance!
and im sorry guys for how long it is.
but actually living through this is getting
more and more complicated i just need to end
this as fast as i can. and the best way to end it!
thanks again guys. you guys are lifesavers!
since you gave people something to talk about, they are going to keep talking. but in situations like this, then next move you make is crucially important. so make sure it's something good, and worth it. honestly you need to take time for yourself. people are mad, they will get over it with time, but you have to just wait it out. write them notes, if you can't apologize in person. you just have to never give up hope. someone will forgive you, and that person is a good person, because they are standing up for you.
I found these...what do you think? anyway, if you don't like these i understand but these are just some ideas so then can you give me some sites to look at that have cute dresses. i have brown hiar thats like at my boobs =] blue eyes and freakles
here is the sites ::
http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-KT352612
http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-KT352622
http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-KT352629
http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-KT237361
http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-KT237361
i love the purple one or the golden one.. since you have brown hair and blue eyes it would look great, making your eyes pop. (:
I'm not sure if this is the right category but it's the closest.
I am currently doing a TAFE course. I need to write a one page report on how I think my company could improve it's products and/ or services.
I work in a Medical Centre with 5 doctors. I have no idea what to write!!! I think our services are really good. I don't think there is any need to improve them.
Please help!!!
Thank you :)
maybe mention something about being more productive and more postive. the services and products could always improve.
Hi, do you remember the playstation 1 game rayman? well i was wondering if you remember at the end of a level or when you gain a skill (can't quite remember which) right at the end u get a lil trumpet like tune, n then he goes Yeeaaaahhh n then u hear a high pitched snigger? well I heard that on someones message tone for their mobile, I was wondering if anybody has an mp3 of this or knows where i can get it as i've searched everywhere but can't find it at all. Any help would be much appreciated, thanks.
it might have just been a sound, that sounded like you described. if you say you searched for it, and nothing came up, chances are you heard something similiar to the noise, not the exact thing.
ok well i got an iPhone and i know how to use the itunes and everything but i have no idea how to put videos and movies into it ... i have limewire and all my movies are downloaded on limewire but when i try to slide the file over into itunes it wont download into my iPhone !!! helpppp .. how do you do it !!
i don't have an iphone, but i will try and help. maybe find a website searching how to guides for the iphone. it should explain it, google or yahoo it.
So, hopefully someone on here knows something about law. I have a half-sister that lives with my dad. I am out on my own and have been trying to see her as much as I can given my work and school schedule, but my father is making it very hard to see her, telling her she can't go out with me when I have time to see her etc. I was wondering if there is such a thing as a right to see your siblings. I cannot simply go over there and see her because of a conflict between my father and I, so what I can do?
well depending on how old your half-sister is, she should have her own right, about going to see you. her opinion should matter as long as she's atleast thirteen. if she isn't, then maybe consider telling an adult that could help with the situation.
.... then maybe you should consider talking with one. you two are related, he can't just keep you two apart, you know?
Can anyone find me a online ring chart where you can measure the ring.
The thing is that I want to order a ring online and it's sizes S, M , L and I honestly don't know what size I am.
Can anyone help?
I've looked around, but I get sizes with letters. :(
you pretty much have to get your finger measured. i can tell you that a size seven is what the ring sizes start out as. which is like huge large. so if you have tiny, and thin fingers you're probably a small.
I have been involved with my x-husband for 17 years now. We were married for 5 years and have been divorced for 2 years now. He has become so distant, and boring. We don't talk anymore, or do anything anymore and everytime I try to talk to him about our future he changes the subject. We used to talk about everything all the time. We were best friends. He doesn't answer any of my emails from work anymore. He doesn't call me on his lunch or breaks anymore. The only thing he wants to do when we have free time is sleep. Everytime I ask what he would like to do, he responds saying whatever you want to do, or whatever you want to eat. He asked me to remarry him 10 months ago, but I said No, I needed time. Now when I try to discuss the subject, he completly ignores me. Is this relationship over? When we aren't at work, we are always together so I don't think he is seeing anyone else. He has in the past, but I don't think he does it now. Does he not want me anymore. He shows differently than he speaks. What should I do? How should I address or approach it?
i am only nineteen, so i know i have a lot to learn. but maybe he is depressed, and going thru a mid life crisis. he probably needs you y his side, my advice is just don't lose faith in the idea of you two. one person in the relationship has always got to be trying to make it work. it's your time to pick up the slack, stay positive, and just be there for him. i'm sorry if i didn't help. i tried.
okay.
when i do my back handspring, i still do it with a spotter. i know i have it. but it's just really scary for me to do it by myself.
and as soon as i get ready..i always mess something up when i do it.
help!!!
just relax. you are going to mess up in life. keep practicing this way you'll improve and get much better. also, stay positive, this always helps!
I need an honest viewpoint on this.
Lets say you're a 16 year old girl and you broke up with your 16 year old boyfriend (which is my case). You broke up with him because he's been giving you really obvious hints that he didn't wanna be together anymore. He even said so one time. After a week of breaking up, he sends you a text saying something like: "You're contagious because I cried for no reason last night"
and all of a sudden, you start seeing your ex boyfriend depressed. (he never was before...in fact, he was happy). He tries to flirt with you more... He doesn't eat at lunch...he feels really sad and crappy. He doesnt flirt with girls like he usually did to try and make you jealous. He just sits in your table at lunch and sulks.
If this was your case, do you think he's depressed over the break up?
Thank you
i do think that. if he isn't doing things that use to be in his daily routine life, then most likely it's true dear. try talking to him, and make sure he revolves around his friends. he needs them most right now.
I just got my bettas 3 days ago and they realy never fought. They're both females. One of my bettas is perfectly happy but the other (Marley) hovers at the top of the tank and usually doesn't eat much. Its tail and fins are clenched togetherand whenever the other fish comes near her, she darrts crazily in the opposite direction. What could be wrong with her?
i think the betta fish at the top is just lonely. it takes longer for other fish to adjust to the new environment then others. and maybe it will come around. also, it might just like to be alone, and sitting at the top. maybe the fish likes it's privac ha.
Ook well this dude Is like hott but i like him because of his personality too..
And well he like went to this party thing and we slow dance there and then well asked me out and i said Yess.
And next saturday he came and so did i and well he wouldnt hang around mee..
And i said wtf?
He said he broke up with me..
WHAT?
He didnt call?
And then NEXT saturday hes surrounding by like 17 GIRLSS>.
And when i go and dance with my friends i see him staring at mee..
OMGG..
And well im just like okk?
And then two girls are talking to him and hes all pointing at me and the girls hug himm,
And sayy sorry?
I mean what is that?
I mean like is that sorry that he break up with mee?
This happened like 3 months ago and i cant get it out of my frekain headd?
How to you get stuff out of your head thats been there for like 3 months?
Please help i cryy everytime i think about it.
and well I need someone to call him and tell him how i feel..
So any volunteers?
Only if you have a yahoo!!
Ok?
Well COmment
sounds like he tried to act like towards the girls that you dumped him. he was trying to make the girls feel bad for him, to get attention or even get them to like him as a boyfriend. he seems like a jerk, exuse me for being so bluntly honest but he didn't he notify you about this alleged break up? he is immature, and you're better off without him. my advice is to find a new crush, and maybe flaunt it around this guy, he need to know what he missed out on. there is no way to make something leave your thoughts but you can also do things to take your mind off the situation.
hey! so I'm 15f. Well, I have friends, but not like, best friends. If it was 3 of us hanging out, I'm pretty much like the third wheel. And I try to put myself in the conversations, but somehow I just can't stay in them. And my friends, most of the time, put me down. Not in a bad way, like making fun of me, but their not trying to hurt my feelings, their just joking around. But sometimes it gets to me. And during the summer, I barely hang out with any of my friends, but they all hang out with each other. Sure, a friend and I might go shopping like, twice, if even that, and I just feel like I don't have a good relashonship with friends. I feel like I have to try to hard to even talk to them. And I'm not considering changing friends at all because I've already tried that and it didn't work out too well. Most of the time, my friends are awesome, but theres just those times where they don't even notice me. Like, if there was a song to describe me it would probably be... "All She Wrote" by Ross Copperman. Listen too it. And sometimes, I don't even mind being alone. I'm an only child. And I've learned to help myself a lot. But I still want to just to be able to do things with my friends over the summer. I only have 3 days of school left, and want this summer to be one of my best. I can pretty much do things only on the weekend. I have ideas what to do already, like bowling, movies, shopping, and stuff. I just need advice of how get friends to do things with me. I don't want to loose my relashonships with them when we go to school next year. Thanks so much!!
all you can do is ask them to join you with doing something. give them an advance notice though. this way, they can't say they have plans already. make yourself as available as possible too. let them know you are able to hang anytime on the weekends, and willing to.
So everything was going normally i had friends loved school etc.
then i got into a fight with this girl and we are no longer firends. this girl was in my clique. wtvr i figured nothing would change and that i wounlt talk to this girl just be firends with my other friends. i get to school and like no one has done things to be in the catogory of "mean" but i feel negative vibes from people and i know my vibes are real. like my friends are all nice but i feel kind of this awkward tension like i need to start covnersation. this girl who i am no longer friens with is not the type to tell people not to talk to me (i told ppl not to talkt o her though bc shes a bi***) one of my best friends recently got really with this other girl. and there really IN YOUR FACE and EXCLUSIVE. i feel like tension and an awkward vibe.
why and what can i do? like i thinks it skind of gay to tell my firend becasue maybe im being sncitive but thats really not me. or maybe its because of me and htis girl not being firens i feel liek im loosing more?? idk!! help. thanks u
i think this happens anytime girls are in a clique. you fight with one, and they all like diss on you. it's ridiculous. my advice, just stay away from the girl you fought with, don't talk about her, and do things that will avoid association with her. now with all the other girls, they will come around. the fight was recent, they need to adjust to the clique not being a whole anymore. just watch your back. chances are high that some if not most are talking trash behind your back. girls are caddy. i stick with mostly guy friends b/c of drama. you know?
alright so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 weeks nows.
there is a HUGE spark between us, and i love it.
he's my first hookup and honestly...
so when we kiss and stuff. i don't know. its good and romantic..but i don't know if i'm doing it right... is there even a right way to do it???
there isn't really any rules with kissing. i mean you just do whatever, and all is fair game. but some hints, have breath mints, or minty gum. (:
15/f sophomore
i have a 92% unweighted average, and a 98% weighted average (im in 3 honors classes). that is probably gonna change for the worse after sophomore year is over and the final grades are in
because my english and chem grades (mid-Bs) are gonna KILL my average..
meanwhile, the students currently attending the college of my top choice (Princeton University) have an unweighted average of 95%.
!!!!!!!!!
can i possibly get my GPA up to over a 95 after junior/senior year if i work my ASS off both years?
im so scared....
i think you can do anything you set your mind to. just study hard, and try to stay positive. if you doubt yourself, it isn't helping.
13/f
in the past couple weeks ive been noticing that when I comb through my hair (with a brush or with my fingers) A lot of my hair falls out, ive never done anything to drastic to it and im worried about it, since its already like really thin (before the hair fell out, my hairs naturally thin) I HAVE been having a lot of stress lately, could this be part of it?? How do I fix this please?!
talk to your parents about it. if this keeps happening maybe go to the doctors. don't worry, i'm sure it's nothing to fret over.just get it checked out. and it is possible that it's from stress.
16/f
this is gonna be a long one, but please take the time to read it...
my best friend.. well we were best friends for as long as i can remember. she was the one i always went to, the only one who really had my complete trust. for some reason, this school year weve grown apart. we barely say more than two words to eachother in a day anymore. although we only have one class together, thats not it cause last year we had no clases together. we used to do everything together, and i miss her and the rest of her family. were so different from each other but that never seemed to be a problem until this year. we have different friends now, and another girl came into the picture whos basically replaced me. weve both changed but that doesnt mean we cant be friends. i have other friends and ive grown apart from many of my old ones too, but i cant stand to let myself just throw away a friendship that lasted over 10 years.. the thing is we tried to work things out since both of us know things arent the same anymore. this was about half way through the school year, we said we'd hang out and talk more again but it never happened. we basically spilled everything out so it wasnt just a pointless talk we had, we made it clear that both of us missed the other. i dont know why it didnt work. i kind of blocked the whole thing out of my mind until last night when i read a note she wrote to me when we tried to fix things. the first line says "i dont know what i did for you to not like me as a friend anymore, but im sorry." i read that line, which the first time i read had no effect on me, but this time i broke down. cause thats the thing, she did nothing and neither did i. it just happened and i hate it, i want to fix things for real. summer is coming up and if we dont figure things out soon maybe we never will.
i would be thankful for any advice whatsoever.. i need it.
i think that sometimes people fade away from each other. it just happens. but for a friendship atleast one person has to be willing to work for it to stay alive. you need to tell your friend how you feel, that what she said made you breakdown and feel sad because you don't get what happened either. i think you to should set up a playdate for you guys to hangout and catch up. take things one day at a time. everything can't go back to they way it used to be overnight. and it might not ever, but you guys could build something new, and make it last and worth so much more. i hope i helped. good luck! (:
i have been with this kid for almost two years and all we have done is make out. i need to know how to give a hand job so when the time comes, i will be prepared. please help
you put your hand in his penis, and move your hand up and down on him. you don't squeeze it, just hold it. softly, you'll be able to tell that he likes it when you start off slow, and get faster and faster with it.
i like this kid and he likes me, and we have kissed once before. i need to know how to french kiss for next time we do more than a peck
open your mouth and massage his tongue with yours. gently, and slowly. (: