So everything was going normally i had friends loved school etc.
then i got into a fight with this girl and we are no longer firends. this girl was in my clique. wtvr i figured nothing would change and that i wounlt talk to this girl just be firends with my other friends. i get to school and like no one has done things to be in the catogory of "mean" but i feel negative vibes from people and i know my vibes are real. like my friends are all nice but i feel kind of this awkward tension like i need to start covnersation. this girl who i am no longer friens with is not the type to tell people not to talk to me (i told ppl not to talkt o her though bc shes a bi***) one of my best friends recently got really with this other girl. and there really IN YOUR FACE and EXCLUSIVE. i feel like tension and an awkward vibe.
why and what can i do? like i thinks it skind of gay to tell my firend becasue maybe im being sncitive but thats really not me. or maybe its because of me and htis girl not being firens i feel liek im loosing more?? idk!! help. thanks u
Not sure about why the fight happened, but seems to me that this click of friends is not sure who to be friends with.
Maybe you are getting negative vibes from them because you have told people not to talk to her, and she has not tried to manipulate them in that way.
There is always an awkward moment after a fight between friends. If you are really friends, then you will apologize to one another and move on with your life.
The hard way to fix this is to be honest and admit mistakes and say your sorry to everyone, the girl you fight with and the friends caught in the middle.
OR the easy way is to just go find new friends.
By the way, is your homework done?
-- Stay Honest
Later edited after rated a 4 by 'people'.
This is good advice. You should be focusing on schoolwork or homework instead of petty differences with others.
What homework? You asked when you rated this advice. Was that all that you got out of this advice? Sad, so very sad!
The homework you should be doing doesn't have to be assigned by anyone. I can clearly see from your spelling mistakes and grammar usage that you NEED to spend more time studying, even if it isn't assigned to you. I hope that you take a long hard look at yourself in the mirror and realize that you have the potential to be smart and successful, if you apply yourself to improving your knowledge of things. Otherwise, my advice here is wasted.
Thank you for your second question. If you need anything else, please ask.
Cmilner1607 answered Thursday May 15 2008, 10:22 pm: i think this happens anytime girls are in a clique. you fight with one, and they all like diss on you. it's ridiculous. my advice, just stay away from the girl you fought with, don't talk about her, and do things that will avoid association with her. now with all the other girls, they will come around. the fight was recent, they need to adjust to the clique not being a whole anymore. just watch your back. chances are high that some if not most are talking trash behind your back. girls are caddy. i stick with mostly guy friends b/c of drama. you know? [ Cmilner1607's advice column | Ask Cmilner1607 A Question ]
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