My name is Christine. I live in a popular town in The Caribbean island of Jamaica. I grew up in China, Texas (not a very popular town though) and then moved to Crystal Beach, Texas. We finally moved to Jamaica, and as i got older, i had to deal with the experiences of friends, teachers, school, family, mental illness, drugs, and others. I know a lot about sex, though not enough to get completely by, because i want to remain fresh until i am married. NO offence to others, because as an advice giver, i have no right to judge. I am catholic, (which is a denomination pf Christianity). I am part French, Indian, Spanish, and British. My mother was adopted, so i dont know the other side of me as much. I took my father's side more, and i am as you can say cajun which is mostly french. I look like i am American, though i can look like other races if i spoke the language. I really do hope you like my advice, i am very sweet, and experienced in certain fields, and I try to help my absolute best with anything you give me. If there is no happy answer or postive one, i will try to calm it down for you as much as i can. I am sorry if i fail to give good advice, but i try my best, Thank you in consulting my opinion, if you ask for my advice.
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Gender: Female
Location: texas
Occupation: student
Age: 13
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Member Since: May 20, 2006
Answers: 145
Last Update: October 25, 2011
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Hey I'm going to a party and my period is still irregualr so theres a very good chance that I'll be on it during the party/sleepover because in May I had it from the 23-30th or somrething like that so I'm expecting to have for the sleepover. And I'm kinda scared to wear a tampon to sleep because I don't want to get TTS but I know a ton of people who do. So like I'm not totally sure what to do. I mean if ther is a way to wear a tampon I will but I just don't know weather to not sleep over (but I don't really have a reason not the besided that one), wear a pad, or tampon. So any advice will we great.
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where a special 'sleeptime' pad.. it ids long enough so you wont get any one sheets.. try to sleep on you side, or put a towel under you... it helps.
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ok, so ive tried everything but i sweat alot under my arms
does anyone have any tips on how to make my arpits stop sweating so much?
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you can use special deoderant or stronger kind but there is really nothing that can help you stop from sweating unless you stay under total aire condition and don't excercise but that is hard to maintain considering you have to go outside and stuff and keep healthy.
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im going away soon for vacation and i never been on a plane before this will be my first time. i dont know what to expect here are some questions i would like to get answered
should i be scared
alot of people say to chew gum should i?
willl i get sick?
what should i do to keep busy?
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you shouldn't be scared, though some people are, and it is nothing wrong, i have flwen many of times... first time was when i was eight i used air jamaica, but my the first time i used conitnental, i cried the night before i left to gewt on it cuase it was hard for me to trust something new like that. yes you actually should chew gum to help your ears, cause when you go up in the plain it will hurt and so will coming down, you can also drink water or hold you nose and close your mouth blow real hard to make your ears pop, i was never able to do it.. it is too hard. though if you have braces don't chew gum .. do the other things. you might get sick... depends on the turbulance, and how old the plane is and also how crowded it is. you can listen to music , watch a movie if they put one on , read a book, magazine... crochet, and even probably braid you hair if no one is sitting next to you so you won't hit them. (giggling) i am not sure if you can knit, i knit so i want to do it. but i am no sure because knitting kneedles CAN stab and they might consider it as a weapon. also.. don't make ANY FEDERAL OFFENCES, REMARKS, OR COMMENTS.
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Hey, im 13 (female). Yeah so...ive never kissed anyone before, so i dont know what to expect for my first. Is it common to have a french kiss as a first kiss or...just a peck??? Please give a very detailed response. Im totally clueless. (link)
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don't think about it too much, but usually first kisses, are, awkward cause you are experiencing something new, a whole new door to your life is opening but... don't french kiss on the first date, it would probably give off the impresion that you are, 'sluty' .. just maybe... but you can give a peck on the cheek, or give a dry smooch on the lips, your choice.
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I'm sixteen years old, I'm a virgin, I've never kissed a guy, and I've never had a boyfriend.
I feel like if I don't do these things soon, I'm never going to do them. I feel like everyone around me is so experienced in all those things and I'm still just a kid. I've gotten really depressed about it because I feel like no one wants me.
Am I alone in this? (link)
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you are so not alone. let me tell you that i am thirteen so it is hard to get by in this world since i am a teen. some of your friends might be lying and say they aren't virgins but you know what? everybody thinks that everbody is doing something... but not everbody is doing it. so... do what YOU think is right. You have to trust yourself, this may sound like corny advice though, but if you want to have sex, it is your choice i got my first kiss in kindergarten acctually, it was this whole planned thing like we said hey at the dance let's kiss and i am like.. 'ok' so like don't be in a rush, ok? and it is acctualy GOOD to be a virgin just think of it this way ... you can be like your friends any day and NOT be a virgin, but guess what? your friends can NEVER be like you ever again and be a virgin.
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hey is it ok that i added you to be 1 of my fave. columnists?
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i don't mind at all.. thank you!
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My friend can talk to like guys she likes and doesn't even get nervous or anything! How can I talk to guys without being all nervous? (link)
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maybe when she was younger.. she hung out with boys a little more than girls .. it is a natural thing... i know that i have probs talking to cute boys besides my friends....but since you do.. i suggest that you probably... trust yourself.. i know it is chessy adcvice.. but it's true.. sometimes things like fveelings aroung people can't be controlled
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I got this awesome bag thing for my birthday yesterday, and it`s way too big for a purse, so i was wondering what i sohuld use it for.
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90052&sscid=&navroot=womens&productId=0427_7380 I got mine in tan (link)
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totally.. use it for the beach...
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so summer is coming up and like normal girls we have that.. "hair down there" and i was wondering if its okay to like shave it i mean like i know it will show soon but i dont want to have to go get it waxed and i dont want to buy like "self-application hair removal" products. so what are some things i can do to make that hair stay away longer or not be as noticable. preferably without a cost.
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wear the bathing suit and shave wear it is seen..
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Hello,
I'm going to a sleep over on Friday..and I'm on my period what should I do while I'm sleep..tampon or pad? How long can you keep in a tampond? (link)
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ok well i hear there are some special pads that are made for sleeping and i hear tampons are good.. but i hear they are good for about four hours... the line between a tampon and a pad depends on your flow.
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15/f and hes 16 ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and we've talked about having sex in like a year and a half but the thing is i want to but im so scared that i think ill chicken out..i heard that it hurts alot and that you bleed alot..that true? also im so self concisous about him seeing my body like how do i get over it? i mostly scared because of the pain but i mean what do i think about or do the first time so it doesnt hurt that much?
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i am not sure if u belled a lot but i heard it hurts.. then feels good... any way .. do want you want to do.. those kind of things can wait.
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my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old girl and my Granny is 88,but I don't think that is an excuse for her telling me that iam to fat for my own good,and she talks really bad about my mom and my sisters to.she fusses about every little think like if there's a wrinkle in my blanket when I make my bed she'll yell at me and if I actually don't fold my dirty clothes she'll yell at me and she tries to tell my Aunt what to do al the time and she is almost 68 years old and it is her house and when my cousin was folding clothes she stood right over her to make she she did everything just right,and on my 17th b-day she told me that my mom dosn't care about me and I don't love her the way I use to when I know that is not true at all.sometimes I feel she dosn't love me anymore.All my family tells me to just ignore her and everything will be alright,but i've been ignoring her for almost 5 years ever since my dad her son died and it's not working.Iam afraid to tell my mom becouse she might not let me go over there any more and I still love her and I want to see her as much as I possibbly can before she dies becouse I know she probally dosn't have much more time to live what should I do?please help. (link)
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well... stand up for yourself! you don't have to take that... your grandma is acting really mean just over clothes! say.. i love you.. but you are acting mean.. i am almost a grown up and i can make my own choices and live my own life.. i need advice and help now and then .. but you don't have to criticze me and put me down .
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Well here is my problem.
I'm eighteen years old. I have a really awesome boyfriend. Prior to our relationship we were best friends so everything is sort of honkey dorey there.
We'll call him "Todd" Well, Todd recently moved out of his parents house.
He got a job at a factory and a car dealership. Aside from the fact that he has no time to spend with me now, he has no car because he can't afford one at the moment.
Now I have no problem helping him out, and neither does my family.
Then Todd started carpooling with my sister to work (they work at the same place).
Now really I have no problem with that either. But now, he comes over to my house, opens the refridgerator gets something to eat, my mother packs him and my sister a lunch, he uses the phone with out asking, and the internet. My dad dotes on Todd; Todd sometimes asks if my dad can pick him up, my mother takes him to go get his paycheck, and now he's using my sisters car during the day!
I feel a little used!! I have never asked his parents for anything much less really visited with them.
I know he needs to get on his feet, but this is making me very upset. He knew that when he moved out of his parents home that he would be trying to make it on his own and now he's just overtaking my family it seems.
I don't neccesiarly want him to walk all over town, but come on he knew the stakes when he moved out.
My parents are charmed by Todd, my mom says "Well it's normal for the boyfriend to be closer to the girl's family.." but I am feeling used and abused. He hardly gives me any attention anymore yet he feels it's OK to do this with my family.
Am I over reacting? I don't think it's fair at all.
How do I discuss this with him without hurting his feelings or making it an arguement. I care deeply about him, but this has got to stop.
Thank you
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ok well.. you are NOT over reacting at all... he does need to get on his feet... maybe... you should start with asking him to spend more time with you.. and then work you way up to asking yuor parents if they can get you two an apartment.
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So, I work as a receptionist for a car dealership. Last week my own aunt, who's also my boss fired me. We havent been selling that many cars latley so she was already annoyed...but she saw me online and she was like "What are you doing?". I told her I was just playing around and she got mad at me. She said I had work to do, but I didn't...I checked everything and there was nothing to do. When I tried to explain that there was nothing else to do, she said I "was talking back". So she told my mom that she doesn't want me working anymore...so I cried. I just got fired from my first job! I get $8 a hour (Minimum here is 6.75), it's great pay and I barley do anything so the job is great. So she's my aunt, what do I do? I'm SO mad at her. Should I let it go and act like nothing happened? Should I be mad at her the rest of my life or ask for the job back? She is my aunt so maybe she'll let it go...?
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well.. since this is yuot first job you obviously do not understand the line between family and business... at work.. she is your BOSS and with family.. she is your AUNT.. i know it is sort of difficult to deal with but never mix relationship and work....you should have obeyed her.. and not gone on the internet.. i can't blame you or your aunt.... becasue you two technically have you own defence.
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Hispanics and Latinos.. please tell me the the difference and the lands they come from! (link)
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i heard they are the same.. it is just that different peoplew like to be called different things.
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Is there anyway you can get some people to not read the questions you ask on Advicenators? (link)
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I am new.. but i do not think there is a way...we are all a big family and care about each other... we do not make fun of each other and we all support each other and we do not care how embarrasing it might be because we won't make fun of any one with any problem.
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for the past 2 days i have constantly felt like i have had to go pee once i go pee i still have this feeling and when i pee its not alot just like a drip this is a very uncomfortable feeling what do you think might be the problem? (link)
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it happens.. maybe your also not getting to drink as much water as you need to. also.. like... you might have a bladder problem if it is just a drip ven though it feels like you have a lot.
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well everytime i get a haircut and i get it blow dried it's always sooo pretty and soft and shiny!!! how do they do that??? cause everytime i do it it is shiny and soft and pretty but i know it could be better than that so how can i do that??? i have special shampoo and conditinor but that dosnt work that good though..
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ok... now blow it with a hair dyer .. fast.. get under the hair... aroung it.. take a comb.. lift up a part with it and blow in between hair... and comb while you're blow drying to get that effect.. also.. i know combing or just plain blow drying.. having to hold it while your arm is strecthing to get to your head hurts.. so that's why salon people do it better cause they dont have to reach behind they're heads.
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Me and my boyfriend have been having sex for 2years and he has been the only person that i've been with and when we have sex white fluffy stuff comes out of me and it has a bad odor...can some one give me a answer on what the white fluffy stuff is?????????????? (link)
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it's called discharge.. do not be afraid .. it happens to every girl...i know it kind of bites... of what it does to you... but everyone gets over it.. i still haven't.... but it can even happen when your a virgin... it also happens because of your period.
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i just now started going tanning and i really need a good lotion to wear in tanning beds. i rate high (link)
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try 'sea and ski'
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