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I am 13 and a female. I like this one guy who is one of my friends. He has liked every other of my friends except me out of all my friends (not trying to be self centered or anything) I seem like i'd be bettter with him because we have a lot of things in common. we have weird things in common about our family and grades etc. we just seem like we'd be really good together. i have liked him for a couple of years now and he most likely knows that. Why would he not like me? (link)
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well... he just might not see something in you that brings you out & drawn to him. Some guys like girls who have less-in common with them. Diffrent people think diffrent.
-Cameron
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OK, i went out with my boyfriend for 3 months...i know not a very long time, but we were best friends b4 we went out and i really love/loved him, so when he broke up with me abotu 2 weeks ago i was really sad/depressed...it sucked....btu i still havent totally gotten over him...anyoen have any tips on how to? (link)
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talk with him & see if he felt the same
but you can't be more right, love dose suck
hope I helped
-Cameron
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I have a friend moving away to England during the summer (we currently live in America). I want to put together a mix CD for her. Are there any suggestions of songs I should use? Keep in mind that both me and her HATE rap and urbanish songs...
The songs should be like, about never forgetting her and having fun and stuff... I don't know, things that would remind you of someone who was moving away, if that made sence. Thank you! (link)
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I did that once...
I Will Remember You (Sarah McLachlan)
Do What You Have To Do (Sarah McLachlan)
Don't Leave Home (Dido)
Sand In My Shoues (Dido)
Answer (Sarah McLachlan)
Angel (Sarah McLachlan)
Dirty Little Secret (Sarah McLachlan)
Sunrise (Norah Jones)
Creepin' In (Norah Jones & Dolly Parton)
I Will Not Forget You (Sarah McLachlan)
all of those r depressing romance songs really... but there good, & they have good-bye themes to them
-Cameron
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i am in love with like the most perfect girl and we've been together for a while and i want to keep making her happy. any ideas how i can keep doign that?
all answers would be appreciated. i rate highly. (link)
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tell her how much you care, girls always love that. buy her presents for no reason at all, do new things with her(not nessaserally sexual, but you could if thats what ya'll would want), like going to a theme park or dinner, just try that stuff. girls like it.
hope that helped!
theres a song called Perfect Girl by Sarah McLachlan (but its depressing & it dosen't go with this @ all, just the title) but its a really good song, its from Afterglow, her most resent CD
-Cameron
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i need guys to answer this...i was wondering what are some huge turn-off's for guys when they kiss? i mean i haven't kissed anyone yet and im not sure how to do it.thnx in advance.:) (link)
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well... diffrent guys diffrent turn-offs.
but what I don't like is when I'm not ready to just start makeing out out of no where, that just kind of feels weard, & then sometimes in public, it can be a bit embarissing, but its not cos we don't like you, its just some guys don't like that.
hope that helped! I know I'm probolly the best to give you advise about this, but hope I helped
-Cameron
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is it possible to get a guy to like you that barely knows you..i mean i have been talking to him more and he knows my name and what not..but like what are some signs that a guy likes you, and what are some ways thats you could get him to like you. (link)
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well... its diffrent for diffrent guys, I noramall have to be friends with that girl, but I guess there was about 2 times that I liked a girl who I wasn't friends with, the 1st 1... I tryed to be friends with her, but as we started to talk more, I decied nah... & the 2nd 1, I am friends with to this day, but we never went out (I just got over her & found someone else)
but if it was me, I'd say get to know him 1st & if you don't want to do that flirting works really well, just talk with him alot & comploment him. & that should work
hope I helped! & hope things work out!
-Cameron
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my best friend likes the same guy as me. Im 14 and im a girl. She has a better chance i think. she is always flirty and everything right in my face. should i keep liking him or just give up and let her win? (link)
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well... it depends how bad you want this guy... so just talk to him, maby you should go for him, but you also what to make your best friend happy, & if you can't do that, then back off, cos at the age of 14 your realtion-ships with boyfriends normally wont last a lifetime, but best frineds alot of the time do!
I hope I helped!
-Cameron
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Im sick and I really need to throw up. Somehow I just cant. I know I have to because I can feel it but I dont know why I cant. My mom says I will throw up but is there anything that I can drink that will make me throw up. I dont want to put my finger down my throat tho and please dont say I shouldnt. If I do I will feel a lot better. Thanks! (link)
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Ginger-Ail helps, I'm not really shure, maby if your mom will let u, she can give u a little acohall, that'll make u eather sleep or throwup
I'm not really good @ medical things like that, but I hope I helped!
-Cameron
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So, last summer I really liked this guy. We hung out a few times, but nothing happened.
Then during this year I kinda stopped liking him.
Recently, my friend told me she found out he liked me now. I'm pretty sure that I believe her since he does seem to like me (he asked me to hang out a few times..he talks to me online a lot, etc.) Today I hung out with him and my other friend and my friend said she could definitely tell that he likes me.
I'm really not sure if I like him or not, and I don't know what to do. He's kinda shy so I don't think he will ask me out or anything, but I kinda want him to, so does that mean I like him? I really don't know what to do... I don't want to send mixed messages.
btw i'm 17/f and he's 17/m (link)
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yes, I think that you do like him. & seeing as he is shy, then I say you should ask him out. You never know what could happen, so ask him!
hope that works!
-Cameron
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i have a question me and this guy are going out and like his family like his parents like arent the fondest of me like she is holding something against me. see me and this other guy went to prom together and the guy im going out with now is obviously pretty bummed about this so his mom is constantly holding this against me and just wont gimmie a 2nd chance! So i plan on writing her a letter. I need some help on what to say to her. Like explaining why i did go. I went because he proved 2 me it was so important and that he wanted to go with me. Well this guys mom (my bf) is obviously protecting her "little baby boy"... well trying. but i cant tell her why i wanted cuz she'd hate me more. So please help! (link)
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well... if it was me, I wouldn't wright a letter, but since you have chosen this way...
just tell her that your not a slut or trying to be mean, tell her why you like him & that your not just looking for some sort of "one night stand". just tell her the truth in why you like him... or you can lie a little... but if its for a good reason & you really like this guy, a white lie wont hurt
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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ok well this guy name kyle is blaming me for saying all these rumors about him. and i never said any of them. he believes them and is all mad at me and thinks i spread them. i was the one telling people not too what should i do?? (link)
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well... just tell him... or try... he'll listen, he knows your trying & he'll probolly read your IMs acctuly (if you have some sort of IM thing) but he wont answer... I know that he might be stubborn, I am too, but just try & get through & he'll listen, trust me, & hes probolly just hurt cos he think you said these things, I know that I would be too, he just think sthis cos he might have been hurt by this sort of thing in that past or something like that, so just try & get through to him. I'm going through something simmaler, I try not to use personal examples unless there nessisary, withch this is... so I'm sort of mad at a friend, I acctuly liked her for a while, & I think she said somethings & lied to me alot durring our friend-ship. Well, I'm not talking to here, but I'm just stuck-up, but I should listen to her, so alls I can really say is just try & talk with him, inperson is the best you can do, try & find sometime alone you can have with him, & don't let any one else be there, cos then he'll just think your lieing & trying to make-fun of him. just talk is all I can say... he should listen
if not, then send me another question & I'll try & held, could you also be more detailed? thanks
so basically, I'm just saying try & talk to him
-Cameron
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im 16 im living with my boyfriend i know im (young its complicated)I was kind of pressured into having sex with my boyfriend i did say yes at the start but then changed my mind and told him i wernt ready he ignored me and carried on i tried to push him off he was to strong i started crying wen it was finished in the morning he acted like nothing was wrong and brought me a cuppa tea in the bed. was i raped? or am i just being a baby? what should i do (link)
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yes you were, so since he raped you you could call the police, & if he is over 18, then file for stagatory rape (having sex with a minor) & rape, & so then he'd really be in trobble, so to answer your question, yes you were raped
-Cameron
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ok so im 13 and ive been going out wit this guy for like 2 days...and when i tell people they go...omg eww i cant believe ur going out with him...or people will walk up to me and be like ewww i cant believe u even like that kid...its not everyone but most people and its really annoying and i really really like him...wat should i do to make them stop? (link)
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just don't listen, & evenchully they'll back-off, I can't stand it when people do that, & since you like him for who he is, thats all that matters, you like him & he likes you, don't take any shit off of any 1 else
-Cameron
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I usually don't have much trouble with my love life but I honestly don't know what to do right now.
The beginning of this year, this guy in my Physics class, Mark, and I got really close. We were both falling for each other. Well, we kept getting mad at each other for stupid reason and we're both stubborn. So, stuff happened and we never dated.
About a month after we got over each other, he gets a girlfriend. This girl is one of my good friends. I was extremely happy for them because they make just about the cutest couple ever.
After they're one month, he and I started getting close again. We were still friend but we were starting to flirt and play around more (not sexually but like tickling each other and cute things like that). At first I thought it was harmless. It probably is harmless but he's starting to act like he did when we had a thing for each other. And well, I think my feeling for him might be coming back also.
I feel terrible because I am such good friends with his girlfriend and I'd never want to hurt her. I think she might have an idea about Mark and me because on Saturday, she tried to set me up with a friend of hers. We double dated but Mark and I were paying more attention to each other more than the other 2.
Any advice on what I should do?
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hmmm... well, since your such good friends with her then maby you schould lay off, & maby date this other guy & try & ignore Mark for teh time beeing, & once Mark & your friend break up, see what Mark dose, & if he think he wants to go otu with you, ask your friend how she would feel, & if its ok, then go with Mark, but if its not, don't runen you & your friend's friend-ship, & you & Mark can just be friends
-Cameron
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I really really like this guy named Mitch and he's just the nicest guy I've ever met before. He used to be friends with my older sister. He's been telling me he likes me, and like on aim always makes those kissing faces. Problem is; he's 21! I'm only 15. I know it's a huge difference and it's illegal. I really don't know where to go from now. I tell him I like him back, but I really want to date him, I'm just really not sure of how to tell him that. Any suggestions?
* if you think me dating a 21 year old is bad, please tell me, i'd like to hear other perspectives, too! thanks. =) (link)
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well, its not illigal unless you have sex... my sister is 26 now & shes dateing a guy who is about 44-47... well... she WAS, hes ingaged & has a chld with another lady, but thats beside the point! anyway, they dated while she was about 16 or 17, but they never had sex, & if they did they were never caught, so unless you have sex with him, its not illigal
but as of the other part of the story, she just says "ooh I'm jsut waiting on him to get tired of her so he'll come back to me" & as you can tell, my sister is a nut case, but none-the-less it won't be illigal unless you have sex, so I'd say go for it!
-Cameron
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Is it possible for a guy to like a girl younger than him? What about older? My sister and I are both crushing on the same guy (we aren't fighting about it, we just are seeing who he falls for) I'm younger than him by one year, and my sister is older than him by two years. (link)
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I see nothing wrong with what you asking, my sister is 26 & was dateing someone who was 45 or 44, nearly our dad's age, I'm 14 & I dated a girl who is now 15, so theres nothing wrong unless you do something illegal
-Cameron
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So, I just met this guy and he's not really like anyone I've met. I figured that if we hung out more, we could become friends...or more than friends even. But now all of the sudden he likes this other girl and I'm pretty sure she pressured him into liking her, if that makes any sense. I talk to him and stuff and we seem to "click", but how am I ever going to know if it could've worked out or if we could've been good friends if this other girl is always around?
Do you have any good advice?
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well... he might not like her, or he might just be afraid to say no... but just know if he was pressured into likeing her, then things will never last & you will have your chance, & I guess you could tell him how you feel, & he might feel the same way or tell you that he really dosen't like her, so just talk to him & you never know what might happen, deppending on the kind of guy he is
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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Hello,
I am going to weading with my boyfriend on Saturday, He puts his arms AROUND me and i put my arms around his neck, we are always close as close can be and nothing can fit in between us.. Well is it stupid to put my head on his shoulder? jw... Do guys like or hate it? Just wonderin.. Let me know ive done it before but i realy dont know if he liked it...
Ohh by the way im a 13/f and hes a 15/m
Thx (link)
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I personally like it when girls put there head on my shoulder, but some guys don't, it really depends, but personally I like it better
-Cameron
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My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while. We tell eachother everything. The other day I was talking to one of our friends and he was saying that there was rumor that my bf kissed another girl. Should I ask him or should I leave it because I trust he wouldnt do that?
Female 13 (link)
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most rumors are not true, you must realise this, its probolly not true, sometimes people who are so damn jellious say things like that, so I assume that you could just leave it be, but if it ever happens again, then ask him in a calm matter & don't get mad or any thing, that might just cause what the people who made the rumor to get what they want
hope I helped!
-Cameron
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i have a friend with benifits and he keeps saying he wants to go farther but wont tell how much farther.and he is always grounded so i never get to see him and i dont even go to his school.i dont really totally know what he is meaning by farther.we already do much of everything we tried sex once but we cant really get condoms so we decided that was not a good idea.any ideas on what he is meaning? (link)
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he still could want sex, but then again, it might have also ment that he wants to acctly go out, not just be freinds with bennifets, whitch is fun though
-Cameron
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