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So my boyfriend and i started have sex a few months ago, and we have only done it 4 times. The first time, it hurt bad enough that we had to stop. The second and third didnt hurt as bad, but it didnt feel GREAT. Then the last time, it hurt REAllY bad again... there was about a 2-4 week period in between all these encounters. So im guessing he got bigger..but when will it feel good?
i would probably say you need to masturbate more to stretch it out...maybe that will help?
16/f . i have these 2 best friends, love em to deathhh but lately, idunno. they make me in a bad mood or something.
i dont have lots of friends i hang out with besides them. tonite was like the first friday we could all hang out right after school since my one friend was done with track (usually she wouldnt get home till like 5-6) but we didnt even hang out right after school. so i went home, was bored until like 430. oh and the one who didnt have track, was going to her grandparents house at 7, well that is what she said. so like 430 they randomly arrive at my house, we go & eat food, talked, it was nice. we were done by 530ish and decide what we're doing after. but then track friend talks to her mom & they are leaving then. 530ish. sooo, other friend decides to leave too cuz she apparantely had "stuff to do". i guess maybe i took this the wrong way, but i started saying stuff like why cant you hang out w. just me?? do you think im boring. i was flipping out asking her what she has to do . and saying how all i was gonna do was go home be bored and waste my time on the computer. which is obviously exactly what i did.. ugh. so wtf knows what she did tonite. when i got back home and felt like shit. i told my mom what happened and was on the verge of crying when i was done. i just feel blahhhh. now i dont even feel like doing aNYTHINg. and now we hae the rest of the week off but im going skiing sat. to tues so i wont even see them
and like it was the first time she didnt have track on a fri since like november or somethingg.
I just dont understand them. at allllll.
this always happens
and we keep getting in little fights
and they just make me in a bad mood
theres also like a lot of competition btwn us..like idunno but thats a whole other thing..
ive been best friends with them for ever litterally so i cant just like, stop being friends with them. i love them idk i just am sick of this,. i rly dont knowww. srry for all the lazy spelling errors and stuff usually im more precise and all but im just not in the mood. guess this is even affecting my typinggg. wow. ok sorry it was long too, but please, something? thanks
alright...i went through this exact same things with my two best friends... it was like if one left the other had to leave and i was son confused as to why they couldnt just hang out with me? yano... then even worse, those two started to get more and more close and started excluding me and i blamed myself because i thought maybe i was too boring or whatever and that was why theyd never want to hang out...we'd make plans and then theyd cancel and go hang out with eachother...
i spent alot of nights crying because i felt like such a loser sitting on my computer and doing NOTHING... i tried talking to them about it...didnt work, tried talking to them individually about it, didnt work either... i was miserable
so maybe talk to them about it and see how that works out for you? let them know how youre feeling and stuff! you dont deserve to be feeling this way... things will get better im sure...me and those two girls are still best friends today and that whole situation happened like 4 years ago :)
Does anyone know any styles that would look good with vans and converse..and also some skater type shoes... for a GIRL.
I'm 15/f and medium size (not skinny, not fat) and I wear converse and vans all the time (I'm not into pumps and so on) but I want a style that would still make me good and kinda girly. (but no pink/purple overload)
Pictures would be appreciated!
Thanks!
okay let me just say that you have great taste in shoes girl :) i love both! and you should wear them with whatever you want to wear them with... i wear mine all the time! i even wear them with skirts and shorts sometimes too haha i just love them! so wear waht you wanna wear and find a style that you love! :) good luck
Ok heres the deal...
I don't like talk to anyone
I hate to burden other people with my issues!
I became friends with my old school social worker
She is the bestt ever!
She is literaly like my second mother
I went to see her everyday at brea for 3 yrs!
Well..
When I left my old school, she gave me her number so I could call her anytime
Well she has her own kid...and everything
So I don't want to burden her
My best friend thinks that she loves to talk to me, and that she wouldn't have given me her numberr if she didn't want me to call her
She called me about 3 months ago, and I didn't call her since then...
I feel really bad about it
I love her like my mother, and I didn't want to drive her away!
I called her today...and she didn't call me back
I think she is mad at me...and I have been crying because I think that she is madd at me!!!!
(she has a track phone, and she might have run out of minutes, thats the only thing I can think of why she didn't call me)
What do you think...and should I call again? Or leave her alone and she will call in her own timee?
its easy to jump to conclusions like that... and get scared that the reason she didnt call you back was because she was mad at you...
well like you said she has her own life, she has her own kid,shes got a family! maybe there was something important going on with them...maybe the kid had a game? you know the list of possibilities is endless! i wouldnt get too worried that she is mad at you but probably just a busy mother...
id call her again... that will show that you are really serious about wanting to get your relationship with her back :)
i met a boy from another town in december. weve talked on the phone and on facebook since, but now we havn't communicated for two whole weeks now. it would be so akward to call him, but hte thing is, i really miss him. i think about him all the time. i even have dreams with him in them somtimes. part of me wants to tell him i miss him and am always thinking about him, and the other half of me thinks that might freak him out. but he could be feeling the same way but not want to admit it. what should i do??
hmm id definitely say that you should start with writing him on facebook! just be like hey i havent talked to you in forever! i miss you! how have you been? see what his response is... you'll know whether or not he's thinking about you just as much as you've been thinking about him :) good luckers!
alright so there is this guy...and welll he was so called my best friend..and i knew he really liked me..and i sorta liked him off and onn..and well..i lead him on at times..but i ALWAYS there for him and everything but there were times when he would get all made at me and i would beg him badly to be my friend and eveuntally be "best friends" again...
but recetnly i went on a cruise and well..did some stuff and i guess he found out..and before i left he called me adn told me tht he liked me alot and aall i did was ingore it..but he was always in the back of my mind..
and so its been like about 2-3 months sine we talked and i finally talked to him..and i was saying how much it really sucks to not know what i did and why he's not my best friend anymore..and he goes wel....you were never my best firend anways..
so does he really mean this? :(
i hope not cause all the time we had was LIES?
okay... he most certainly does not mean that! he is just really really hurt... so i guess the best you can do is talk to him about it and apologize...tell him you didnt mean to ruin your friendship and you definitely never meant to hurt him...let him know you still care because if you just sit back and do nothing he will probably get the impression that you dont care either, which will just hurt him more! so talk to the guy about it and apologize...see what happens from there.. he probably wont be like okay i forgive you lets be best friends again but in time maybe you guys can regain what you lost! :) good luckers!
In middle school, I ended up in a class with this guy. He'd do the typical playground stuff and it turned out that he had "liked" me but I rejected him because he used to bully me. So he told me he hated me.
Through high school, we never talked but we had this weird staring thing and I started this major crush on him. We didn't run in the same groups, I was normal and he was popular. In grade 12, we started talking a little. After grad, we didn't see each other anymore but we ran into each other at a party and we talked.
Since puberty, I've liked him, as sad as it sounds. I constantly think about him and measure all guys up to him. I've tried to get over him before but I can't. I think it's more about the fact that I'm -used- to him in my mind. Alot of the aspects of myself are existant cause of him.
I've tried other men but there's this block, it just doesn't work and I can't stop comparing people to him and no one measures up.
My sister added him on my facebook and he ignored it which was a given. I'm sad anyway and I want to get over him so badly. What do I do?
wow sounds like you got it bad girl... hmm well honestly there is no way to just make yourself magically "get over" him... so i guess just try not to think about him...focus on other stuff like hanging out with friends, work, i dont know... maybe even finding another guy! but if you find another guy and you still find yourself comparing him to this one guy of yours then its probably best to end things with that guy (hope that wasnt too confusing) but sooner of later there will be a guy that comes along and you're gonna know its right with him and you're gonna be like i dont know why i even liked him in the first place...
now if that doesnt sound like a possibility then maybe what you need to do is write him a message on facebook (because you can send people private messages even if they are not your friend on facebook) and explain to him how you feel...i know that might sound scary or whatever but at the same time exciting to see if he responds...just make it very clear that you need him to reply to you...and hey maybe things will work out for the best... or maybe he'll reject you...and once he has rejected you, and you read those words...then maybe it will be easier for you to move on...maybe you just need to see the words that there will never be anything there between you two..and yeah itll hurt but in the end itll probably help you move on
either way, things are going to be okay in the end! :)
What does "i'd tap that or hit that" mean?
well usually it means that a guy would do stuff wtih you... not necessarily sex but all the other stuff as well... i usually dont have very much respect for guys that say that because to me when they say that, they are seeing the girl as an object to play with... now i dont know some girls are fine with that...im not haha but yeah it means hed do stuff with you...
have you ever heard of urbandictionary.com? well its a good site to get questions like that answered :) it gives you a variety of definitions so you can get better ideas of things!
what does a guy do when he goes to 2nd cause my bf went to 2nd before and wants to with me and i only will when im ready dont worry but i was wondering what they do when they have there hands up your shirt. haha thanx
there are actually a variety of different things that can happen during second base... umm one they can feel you up meaning they will grab your breats and stuff while making out with you... thats usually how it goes... now some people also consider handjobs and being fingered a part of second base as well... whatever happens make sure you are ready :) itll make it way more enjoyable!
ok so i am in the 2nd semester of my freshmen year in high school... i Right now i am very shy and am not making too many new friends i think it might be because i dont feel comfortable with my appearance so i am looking foward to sophmore year because inevitably there will be new kids who dont know me in my classes.. i want to reinvent myself and lokk really good next year and be more outgoing. i am afraid that no one will be willing to see me differently Do you think that reinventing myself will work or peoples opinions are set in stone?
i think that "reinventing" yourself is a great idea if thats what you really want to do! just dont become someone youre not because that will make highschool miserable...trust me! be someone you want to be and be proud of who you are! yeah there are gonna be some people that are always going to have their opinions but oh well...who cares what they think...things will be MUCH better for you if you do and say what you want! dont be so shy and take a risk girl! it'll totally be worth it :)
hey well you prob remember me with the guy alex who i loved but i asked him out, and he said no, and i moved on, but my friend told me that not being able to text me ruined his day...so i moved on and am always flirting with chris, but the thing is alex knows i like chris. We have always been really close and whenever he sees me flirting with chris he just looks away and looks like hes about to cry. And in school it was formal day and he told me i looked beautiful! not many guys say that to me. Well i think he really likes me, but i think im starting to like him again, but i like chris but idk if he likes me or my bff bc he told her that he liked her but he denies it and my friend always had a thing for chris. Does alex like me? Is chris lieing or is my bff? Who should i take a chance with? Thanks, 14/f
okay thats really adorable that alex told you you looked beautiful! so right there he's got my vote! haha but... yeah you definitely need to talk to chris and be like i need to know how you feel about me and if you see us going anywhere...and even though the truth might hurt you just have to tell him to be honest with you because you deserve that! and then you need to talk to alex as well and find out how he feels about you and if he wants to be with you... so yeah basically you need to talk to both and then you make your decision from there :) best of luck!
Ok, I didnt make my question clear enough last time and ive changed it a little
first off, should i download lime wire or blubster?
second..i wouldnt burn any cds, i just want to make a playlist [ is this wrong?] [ please tell me]
Should i have limewire or not?
I downloaded Lime Wire!Result!But
everytime i try to search a song it says "lime wire is currently connected to the network.you may not return many results until you are fully connected with the network" and I dont know why!
- i downloaded it perfectly
- internet connection is perfect
- it has downloaded....fully
What could be wrong? how can i fix it
hmm that happens to me too sometimes with my limewire... i usually just restart my computer and it works fine... have you tried that? and how long have you had limewire? because it might not work for like a day or so and then tomorrow it might be fine...
okay this might sound like a dumb question but is there any way to make your eye color lighter? i have blue eyes, but usually they're dark blue, and i would really like them to be a lighter blue. i don't have contacts, but is there anything that can brighten the color? thankss.
hmm im not sure if theres anything you can do to just brighten your eye color... i know there are color contacts that you can get! they have nothing to do with your vision (so thats good if you have good vision and dont need contacts for seeing) but yeah there are just plain old color contacts and u put them in and they change your eye color but your vision stays the same! :)
okay, i am literally in looove with her hair in the music video to crush crush crush
i'm thinking about dying my hair to look like that. although some people would call my hair black, but i think its just like a dark brown. if i did this, do you think i should keep it brown on the bottom, or die that blonde too?
i say you die it blonde!!! it might be scary getting something new done to your hair but im sure youre gonna love it! go for it!!
so my best guy friend and i are really close
and we even hooked up for fun
then i started to like him
but i didnt tell him
so he started liking this other girl
i ended up telling him that i like him
but now him and the girl are going out
i still like him
and they've been together for a month
i've tried getting over him but its so hard
and i cant forget about him because he is my best friend
and we talk alot
i was thinking that i could wait for the relationship to end
but it hurts when he talks about her
i usually help him with his problems
so he tells me whats going on
what do i do? :/
*confused&&inlove*
[15/f]
so he still knows you like him? well if its really too hard for you to listen to him talk about her then maybe talk to him about it and be like, you know, i really still like you alot and its just too hard for me to hear you talk about her...i still want you to talk to me about things and i want to talk to you too, but can we just talk a little less about her... see what he says... most guys should be pretty cool with that...if you dont like that idea then maybe start focusing more on your other friends (maybe even another guy?) that way your attention wont be so wrapped up on your crush and his girl... find something that will take your mind off it...at least for a little while...and who knows, he may come around and realize that its you he really wants to be with! :)