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(♥) Lynsey (♥)


::im 15
::im really hyper
::i dont have a bf
::i go to m.h.s
::i love soccer..its mi life
::im kinda short > 5'2
::and ya ill answer any ?'s u guys wanna know :)

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ok so my bf and i have been dating for a little over two years now, and i always have trouble thinking of things to get him for his birthday/x-mas. his birthday is new years eve, so i need two things to get him. he's not the typical guy, like sweaters and cologne are not the type of things that he would like. i got him a wallet for graduation, picture frame last year, so none of that would work, and he already has a really nice watch. any, ANY ideas would be GREATLY appreciated...thanks a lot...i'll rate high!!

hey....maybe u should go to one of those places that make dog tags (not for dogs) you know the necklaces with the dogtags hanging...and get it to say you and his name and then the date you guys got together and i love you or something like that...thats cute or take pictures together and frame it and have your guys names ingraved on the frame or something

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my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot

DUMP HIM!! you just said your bf is a jerk then u put " i like him alot" just dump him and if hes worth it then hell come back and be changed and be a respectful guy but any guy who makes you cry infront of everybody doesnt deserve you....you have to show him that you wont put up with him treating you like this....jsut say okay if your tired of my prissy attitude then lets just end it and you wont have to deal with it anymore!

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Hey all, well, on Saturday, im gonna get my cartilage pierced! (Like at the upper ear, where actress Raven-Symone has it). And i was wondering, if all of all of you that have one could tell me about the pain, how 2 make it go good and keep my mind off of it, and healing processes?!?!?! Im getting it down with a gun if it helps any....

it doesnt hurt!!!!! i was soooo scared t0o!! i got mine done with a gun...ppl say its worse 2 get it with a gun bc it gets infected but its not true......mines is fine i had it pierced for two years now and it didnt hurt...but it does hurt lyke after...it hurts to touch it and to sleep on it so just take some tylenol or someting....but its worth it...and the healing process takes long...just clean it and itll b fine....make sure u dont get hairspray or nothing it in.....but it doesnt really hurt....good luk!!

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hey lindsey i have a question.........ok my kind of friend has issues with smoking and drinkin and doin drugs and stealin mine and other friend's boyfriends (she kind of isnt a friend anymore b-cuz of reasons)and she did things with my bf and she tells everyone else its true and tells me it isn't!!!! can u help me on wut to say to her i have already tried talking to her and so has everyone else!!! she just wont listen!! she also has a problem with sex and now she might be pregnant!!!! HELP ME PLEASE!!!

SIGNED, CONFUSED

man that sucks....just tell her that its up to her what she wants to do and you cant do anything about her smoking or drinking problems but tell her that you KNOW she did stuff with you man and that she needs to stop just say that smoking is really dangerous and so is drinking tell her to try to stop or atleast cut down on how much she does...and just be like nice about it just ask her to please stop lying about doing stuff with your bf and never let it happen again...if things are REALLY bad call that one number about drugs and smoking and talk to them because they can give you REALLY good advice..but ya sorry thats all i can really tell you to do

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ok so my ex boyfriend and i have been on and off for a little over 4 years. i did see other people in between but its not the same. he has been my best friend for what seems to be my whole life. i have been able to go to him for everything. well a year ago November we got back together and things were great. he means everything to me. i love him more then anything and i know that he truly loves me.. however things got rough this past September and we broke up again. i dumped him. but we promised to be best friends still. for a while things were still great. like we still hooked up and kissed and everything but i don't want to be friends with benefits. but i cant help it when im with him. so last week the week of November 15th was great. we hung out Monday, Wednesday(what would have been 1 year) and then Saturday. Wednesday was the best. i mean he told me he loved me and everything but then Saturday he was a jerk. we hooked up and i told him i loved him and hes like i know u do. but was gay about it. he ended up leaving shortly after. then we didn't talk all week. till i called him Friday upset needing someone to talk to and he couldn't be there for me. then on Saturday i told him again that i really needed him and hes like well im busy. BLAH! i cant take this anymore. its like he cares about me but he doesn't show it. he never calls me anymore like he promised he would and like how tings were b4 we got back together. what should i do? im not happy anymore. i want to express myself to him and tell him how im hurting but i don't know how to. i don't want to stop talking to him cause he has always been my best friend but its like i have too. i don't know what to do. please help me!

aww four years thats a long time!! it seems like you guys are met to be...i think the problem is that you need to stop calling him and going to him for everything. notice that HES the one who didnt call you back, HES the one who wasnt there for you and HES the one who didnt say i love you back....you just need to give him space..he just needs time to himself hell realize that life without you is different and hell come back to you like he did all the other times for four years ...just back off and it may take some time...but thats the only thing you can really do...you cant change him...hes giving you hints that he needs his time to himself....so just give it to him and hell come back dont worry....good luck!!

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does any1 kno any good love songs to make a cd with?

TRUE-RYAN CABRERA I LUV THAT SONG AND UMM ONLY ONE-YELLOWCARD!! those r mai 2 fav songz i cant think of ne 1 else rite now sry!!

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I have extremley bad cramps... only the problem is i dont know how to swallow a pill. The advice I want is NOT how to swallow a pill but if you know of any really good chewable types of medicine to realive the pain (I'm 15 years old if that helps). Thanks!

omg i hav probs swallowing pills too...but ya try motrin or tyleol liquid and put a heating pad on ur stomach or legs or back or wateever hurts.....and if u could TRY to swallow a pill TAKE MIDOL u will never even hurt it workz gr8

ps *try eating a pill like in yogurt....put it in a spponful of yogutr n swallow it* thatz wat i do...i kno u didnt want advice on it but im jus tryin 2 help...

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ok i like hate my name so much .. it's Liana.. and well people sometimes "cant pronounce it" so they just say "Hey you!" or they just pronounce it wrong. Or sometimes their like "um..you.. i forgot your name" .. and well like is there anything i can do to get people to pronounce my name right or call me something diffferent that is easy to pronounce .. (maybe like a nick name)

p.s. sometimes my friends call me Lee for short but not very often

LENA! mai friend has that prob and we just call her lena...(LEE-NA) its cute 2

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Ok..so me and my boyfriend haven't been in this relationship very long. I really like him, but he doesn't go to my school, we both aren't good phone talkers, and he doesn't have AIM (to my knowledge). I want this relationship to last. How can we spend time together? [BTW..our parents don't know we're dating and they don't exactly allow us to date yet even though were both like 15]

hey take it from me IM IN THE EXACCCCT SAME POSITION AS U!!!! its exactly lyke urs!! okay furst u NEED TO TELL UR PARENTS AND HAVE HIM COME OVER!! and even tho its embarassing LET UR PARENTS MEET HIS! go to the mall or something with hmi and ur friends n when ur mom picks u up let her meet him...just kinda b lyke ya i lyke him and then finally tell her hes ur bf....it took a while for me!!...but ya its def. worth it....and its hard 2 c him alot since u go to diff skools.....is there a church that he goes to lyke a certain nite? thats how i see mai bf alot....every wednesday thers church by his house till 9 3o and i get 2 c him....just go to the movies, mall and hangout at home...but they key is TO TLEL UR PARENTS! u lyke hav to basically to make it work or ull always hav to have one of ur gurl friends go with u to the mall or watebver n meet up with him or something.....IM me on LAYDEEHLYNZ069 if u wanna talk mroe!! BC THIS IS LYKE THA EXACT ASME SITUATION IM IN!! lol

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ok well.. i am going out with this guy... hes really great... we have had a few problems but we are totally awesome now... so ne way... we have been going out for a little while now and i really really like him... we have gone pretty far and are started thinking about have sex... we have always talked about it even before we were together and i kind of want to but i am afriad of regret.... i hate regreting things and im worried that if we have sex i will regret it... the thing is, before we did everything we have i thought i would regret it but i totally dont... is it just a 'virgin thing'?? i trust him completely... im just scared im to young (14) although (and i swear im not bragging) i am way more mature than the 'average' 14 year old... (if it makes a difference he's 16) i guess im asking all those 'non-virgins' out there... do you regret it? and do you wish you had waited? what do you think i should do? please answer!!!
...claire

i regret it....its really not worth it....its "expected" lyke after u do it...if u do it once ther gonna want more and ther gonna say well u did it once do it again...and ur gonna feel lyke u ahv to do it all the time...and idk..its really scarey bc u start freakin out and tihnkin ur pregnant and stuff...and its jsut alot of stress to me it wasnt worth it.....a few mins of pleasure isnt worth the results...i mean u could end up pregnant and stuff even with a condom...but if u feel ready then thats up 2 u...ut im just telling u wat i tihnk

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i just got my period any advice on pads, tampons
ill apreciate any advice!! ill rate!

okay furst....take a shower EVERY night or ull smell bc when ur on ur period u smell worse than normal ...so ya make sure u wear deordant n stuff...buht the best tamponz r tampax pearl...and get the box that has all of the absorbacy types in noe (super, normal, light) and start off with normal and by tomrow wear super....if ur flow iz heavy...if u want to use pads than use Kotex.....but im telling u tampons r WAY better....ther less messy and waaaaaaaaaay more comfortable and they come with directions n erything...

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Hi, i have a friend who has bad b/o. I'm not that kind of person who can say "Would u mind putting on some deoderent?" I could never do that to a friend. I was wondering if anyone could tell me how to tell her without hurting her feelings. Please my b-day party is coming up and shes coming, i dont want to afend my other friends. Please, I really need some help.

ok i hav a friend just lyke this with the b/o....i HATE being mean and b lyke O U SMELL ITS CALLED DEORDORANT....i ujst kinda told her...u hav to...look @ it this way...shed rather u tell her and b a good true friend rather than u not telling her and hav ppl talking shit bout her and hearing it from boiiz or something....just tell her! if u cant tell her straight out buy a new deordorant and bring ur one u use to skool...lyke durring p.e or somethin b lyke DAMN i accidently bought 2 deodorants with me and b lyke do u want one?? its brand new and i dont need to...or something lyke that!! lollol....or u can b lyke omg i bought this gr8 deodorant it was so gr8 i went out n bought one for u u shuld use it it smells soooooo good...and give it to her! lol hope i helped xoxo

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i still have not gotten my period and all my friends that are even smaller and shorter then me already got theirs if it helps im in 7th grade and im almost 13

ur only ALMOST 13.....my aunt didnt get hers till she was 17!!!!! nothings wrnog with u ull prolly b getting it soon...if ur boobz have grown and u got hair down ther then ull b gettin it soon...but ENJOY IT WHILE U DONT HAV IT BC OMG WHEN U GET IT UR GONNA HATE IT!

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You see, whenever I get my period, I start getting a lot of zits on my face and my back. How do I prevent them whenever I have my period?

wash ur face EVERY night and EVERY morning even when u arent on ur period...if u keep up washing ur face then ur zits will go away...u cant not wash ur face and then wen ur period comes start washing it to make them go away it takes a few weeks,...so on a daily basis just wash it....and use this...i never brake out ne more...itz called pro active...it workz good

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating about 3 months on the 24th...But he still doesn't understand my hints. How do I get him to understand my hints without me saying what I want out right?

^ trippen ^

ive had the same exact prob....mai bf used to piss me off and id send him ALL the hints that i was PISSED at him! nd he wouldnt get it! but enuf wid mai gay story...lol....wat i did waz lyke jokingly id bring it up....i didnt want him to think i was all serious or nothing but i didnt wanna just let it go...so say if he didnt call id b lyke o ya i love the way u called me back last nite....or something and then wed talk and stuff...just bring it up kinda as a joke n then talk about it....eventaully hell undertsand ur hints better

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hey evry1
well i have A big spanish test coming up and i have to study over 200 words
any study tips??
please help!
i rate high

FLASHCARDS!! they work GR8...i have spanish too and i always make flashcards n they help so much!

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hey guys! well everyone with xangas ok u no how in some xangas they have a little scroll with different songs u can listen to while yer on the page? well can someone tell me where to go to get that?? and how to do it! thanx!

www.blogring.net

and then on the right side ull see a lil bar and click Xanga Scripts and Themes...and then go to Room 1 Customization n thers alot of codes!!

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Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do?

UHH stop watching scarey moviez at nite smart 1! duh ther gonna scare u....if they scare u that bad then stop watching them


btw..u rated me a 1 and u called ME a dumbass?? IM NOT THE ONE WHO SED "o i love screy movies but they scare me wat do i do?" UR tha dumbass! haha loser....

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ok my best friend is named naomy and we were friends since she was 3 and i was 5.. recently she's in 6th grade and im in 8th and she just discovered AIM... now she doesnt call herself naomy she calls herself NICOLE... and she's being really slutty and i dont like it... she looks at my profile and takes the names of the people who looked at it and i get mad so we are fighting a lot. she talks 2 my crushes and tells them that shes 14 and she goes to high school and that shes tall and skinny when shes only 11 is in 6th grade and is short and chubby (definitly overweight nothing against the people who are)... she tells my crushes that i like them and they end up iming me and i get stunned... so what should i do? should i end my friendship with her? or what?

u shuldnt END it but talk to her....say she needs to get her own friends on AIM n stop tryin to talk to urs or ur gonna block her! say that she shouldnt lie about herself and tellin guys how she looks n how old she is that isnt even true! say u dun lyke it and if she keeps it up ur not gonna b her friend bc u dont wanna be friends with sum 1 who lies about who they r...and call her naomy...dont call her nicole....tell her to stop tryin to change her name!

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i just lost my virginity nd now im freakin out cuz we were dumbasses nd didnt use ne thin i forget wen i last had my period nd i don remember wen im supposed to get it next nd im like freakin out bout maybe bein pregnant or sumthin wut r my chances of bein pregnant?? i kno that there is a chance cuz theres always a chance but like is it a big chance or a small chance lol idk im freakin out so sumone lemme kno! thnx!!!

ur chances r VERRRRRy high (not 2 scare u) if he didnt take his dick out b4 he nutted....if he did and none got on u or in u....then ur gonna b okay...but if he kept it in then u got a very high cchance....good luk

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