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Q: Now i have a friend and i have had this friend for my hole life 15 years and we talk about everything a girl can talk about nail hair and boys. But latley ever since she has been makeing me really mad liing the guys i like taking my own friend aay from me never telling me when someone talks about me and talks about me to others now 15years is a long time and i ahve never seen this behavior from her befor do i throw that 15 years of friendship away????

now i have another friend i have only known for about 3 years and she always trys to make me jealouse by hanging with my other friend i was talking about and just leaving me!!!!

and my grades are bad i just feel like my life is all mest up!!!!

Well...about your grades all you have to do is study harder and try to watch less tv or talk on the phone and stuff like that.About your friend well talk to your friend in a calm way and tell her that you feel left out.Hope this helps!!!

Q: Ok, to make this really short, I'm becoming the third wheel in my frienship. My best friend recently started dating one of our other guy friends. We used to all hang out, us a other people too, but now its just me, her and her boyfriend and I feel as though I'm becoming the third wheel. What can I do about this?

well you can talk to them and talk about it and sort things out.Hope i helped!!!

Q: Okay, so I have a friend I met over the internet. Her name is Mary, and we've been talking for almost two years.
She seems like a real kid, but I'm not really sure of what I can trust.
I dont know how to tell, and I'm not sure if there's anything I can do to know for sure.
So, she just asked for my address, to be able to exchange presents. I've talked to her on the phone before, but I've always thought there's SOMETHING you can do to fake that... (I get this from my mom). So I dont know whether I should actually give the address or anything. My dad knows I'm still talking to her, but my mom dosen't.

Ahh, please help!!

Jessie =D

I think you shouldnt give her your address beacuase she's probably pretending to be nice with you and probably will go to your address and do something to you and your mom and dad dont want that to happen to you,right?So take my advice and you'll feel great about your decision.:)Please leave me a comment.

Q: my best friend is becoming reeaaaallly close with one of my other friends. they now have plans all the time and now my best friend talks to her about all her problems and secrets when before she used to do that with me. they aren't mean to me but i just feel replaced or becoming more distant from her.

should i talk to her or what?

I think you should talk to your best friend about this.Tell her in a nice way that you are feeling left out and that you are glad she has a friend but you wanna spend more time with her.I havent seen my best friend in 4 years but im sure i will see her next year.Good luck and tell me how it goes with a feedback!

Q: Hey well I need to present a project on the 13th in front of the 10 and 11 graders and im in 9th grade and I cant do it Im not prepared im SUPER shy and so is my partner and she talks really really really really low barely I can hear her so My question is??? What should I do about my shyness becuase there is this girl in the 10 grade that talks about the peoples style and talks alot about people and I hate that..So what should I do???..I need help ASAP!!!!

well...my sister has the same problem so what i suggest you do is just ignore the girl who talks about people and dont care what other people think.If you do then well...you got a problem.And also talk to your partner about how she should speak louder and help you when you present.HOpe i helped!!!Please send me a feedback!

Q: i have a biology question: why do cooks soak a head of lettuce in cold water before making a salad?

so that way they could clean it for stuff if its dirty.Hope i answered your question.!

Q: Me and my 16 year old boyfriend have been dating for six months. Christmas is just a few weeks away and I don't know what to give him! I know he's geting me a ring, so I want to spend at least $50 on him. I don't want to give him something he won't like, but at the same time something kind of romantic? not a video game. Any ideas?

i think you should get your boyfriend something that he loves alt and what he's always wanted.Just ask your boyfriend some questions without acting like your gonna get him that gift even though you really are.Your welcome!

Q: my friend is so desperate. she will take any guy, even the most perverted ones! She is one of my really good freinds and I just don't know what to do. Even outsiders tell me she acts and looks desperate. WHat should I do? Should I talk to her? Or leave it alone? Please help! Thanks

I think you should talk to your friend and tell her how you feel that way she doesnt have to date to many perverted guys and ends up dating a raper or something and you want wats best for your friend,right?Hope it works out.Please leave me a comment.

Q: i really like this kid, like alot. my friend tom said that hes gonna ask me out, but he doesnt know when. i really wanna go out with him, but everyone hates him and they say hes wierd and stuff. but i dont know, if he asks me out should i go out with him?

This actually is your opinion.You dont have to care what other people say,if you really like this guy then you should go out with him.Just remember:Dont Listen To Other People!

Q: alot of the older kids at my school say that i have an attiude problem, and i don't like that going around but i don't know how to fix it, i don;t think i do, but they obviously do. any advice?

well you can ask your friends if you have an attitude.if you do then try to find out why and how you have an attitude problem and then try to fix it and go down from there.Hope i helped!

Q: I have a friend but she likes the same guy I like what do I do.

well...you and your friend could talk about it and either decide if you both really like him or if you both just like him as a friend.First of all...is this guy a nice sweet guy?Cuz if he is not then whats the point of liking him.Hope i helped!

Q: Okay i really want a dog of my own that I take care of and I feed. Im ready for it. But we already have a dog and my mom always says "we are a one dog household" and i just want a small yorkie or a jack russel, or even a chi wa wa. How can i prove to her im ready?? I need advice.

All you have to do is take good care of your other dog in front of her and show her that he is healthy and clean.If she tells you to walk the dog or feed it,listen to her.Then she'll know that you are ready and responsible.I hope it works out.BYE!

Q: I am really worried my boyfriend thinks i am boring. I need ideas of fun things to do with him, but the thing is, he is really picky and stuff like that. He wnats to hang out with me this weekend, but the only way we can hang out is if i come over, and thinks his house is so boring. Are there any fun ideas u can do with the two of us at his house? Please help me out i want to hang out with him this weekend. I appreciate any ideas!!

Well...you and your boyfriend could watch a movie,talk to each other.It doesnt have to be in his house but if it is do what i said.You should also go to the mall or hang out with other friends when your done at his house.

Q: Ok i really need help my boyfriend is being so mean to me and now he is going out with a bi gurl should i find another one or go back out with him

Well girl....Ih he is being mean to you then the answer is dont go out with him.No boy should treat his girl like that.i suggest you either take a little break or try looking for the right guy.Your welcome!

Q: My best friend is avoiding me:(
We've been going to different schools for a while now and we've always been very close.
She has new friends now and I think she prefers them over me.
She completely avoids me online and calls.
I haven't spoken to her for about a week.
and it makes me really sad because I don't trust anyone and I don't have too many close friends.

I don't want to confront her about it because I already know what she will say. So is there anything I can do?

you can just talk to your friend and tell her how you feel.And tell her that you feel like she's been avoiding you.i hope i helped you!

Q: school just started a month and a week ago, im already failing EVERy subject. im trying to get into another high school. but i need straight A's for that. now there testing me for a disablty or something. i just wanna get good grades. i know im not mentally retarded. does anyone have any advice about how i can get REALLY good grades?

I think you should try studying more and try to focus on your work instead of getting distracted.

Q: 13/f
i really want to be a photographer when i get older. how can i like practice to be one?

You can buy one of those cameras that photographers use and take pictures of wat you like and wat your interested in.like if you like naturs you can go outside and take pictures of nature.And if you like animals you can go to the zoo and take pictures.HOPE I HELPED!

Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and he's a wonderful guy and to me he's the type of guys girls look for not him as a person but his qualities like he's kind, sweet, generous, will leave his friends just to be with me, and different things well i really do love him and he wants us to get married but my dad hates him but he will not tell me why and my boyfriend has no secrets from me or lies to me but my dads always brining up things like "i know he's a liar and a cheater but im not going to tell you what it is i know" what should i do to make my dad like him please help me i don't know what to do?

All you have to do is tell and show your father that your boyfriend is a nice guy and that your boyfriend will do anything for you.If he doesnt approve,then just wait for your dad to start liking your boyfriend.HOPE I HELPED!

Q: okay here is the thing. i rele like this guy. he is totally sweet and extremly cute. i dont think he even see's me. i mean he hardly knos im breathing. what should i do? i cant stop thinking about him and there is a dance coming up. help! thanx in advance

well....im reading this book right now.And it says you have to get a friend of yours that knows a friend of his and get your friend to ask your crush if he likes you and if he wants to go to the dance with you.Hope i helped!