Member Since: August 19, 2006
Answers: 14
Last Update: August 5, 2007
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do u gain weight when your on birth control? if so, how much? (link)
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I have no idea being that I'm a guy and have never used the pill, but I have friends who do use it. From what I've heard you can gain weight but in most cases it's only enough to make your boobs bigger.
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If you are like 13 or 14, isn't it kind of hard to actually fall in love? It kind of gets me annoyed when my friends say like "i would die without ____" or something like that. Very rarely do people get married to the person they went out with when they were that age. Do you think guys at this age just go out with girls for sex and things like that? Or are there some guys who will wait till your older and feel ready and really love you? (link)
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Here's the thing about guys of any age. There's 2 types.
1. The kinds of guys that deny they want to be in love so they tell themselves that all they want is sex.
2. The kinds of guys that want to have tons of sex with the person they're in love with.
Either way it's all about sex and unfortunately #2 is a mush rarer breed at that age. We are constantly told that sex is all that matters. How many times have you heard somebody referring losing their virginity to "making me a man". It's ridiculous, but the sad truth. All I can say is give guys a chance, but be wary.
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does anyone know a ood store/web site where i can et really nice (but cheap) punk/emo style clothes, but mostly hoodies...
but someone that is in the U.S and not hot topic
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http://www.rockabilia.com/home.php
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ok im not sure about all this but um, what age can you perchase penis enlargement pills
where can you get them
and do they or or are they effective or anything
please answer
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I'm pretty sure you have to be 18 to buy them, but it doesn't matter seeings how they don't work. The only way for penis enlargement is through plastic surgery. I assume you are insecure about your size. I was too, and for good reason. But trust me, there is way too much thought put into size. Girls care more about your skills with your mouth and hands. Think about it. Could you climax if you weren't turned on? It's the same with girls. Turn her on and she won't care how big it is.
Hope that wasn't more information than you wanted.
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Well, there's this kid Mike.
We're already okay friends, and we talk a lot. We've had deep conversations, and we're so, so close to having a relationship. One of our mutual friends sees that something could happen.
I like him a lot-when someone signs onto AIM, I always hope that it's him, and we flirt a lot.
How can I go from making him just a really good friend to my boyfriend?
I'd really appreciate a guy's input on this, but anyone can answer. If you do not use proper spelling and grammar, your answer will be rated down, regardless of how amazing your answer was. :]
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16/m
This is just my personal opinion, and by no means does it mean it's destine to work. Tell him you like him. Tell him you think he's cute. Nothing attracts me more to a girl than if I know she wants me (sorry if that sounds sexual.) I guess it's sort of chauvinist, but I love having my ego catered to. So...uh, yeah...do that!
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17/m
So I have this new friend, i've only known him for like six months because I drifted apart from my other friends but thats besides the point. He has this problem where he feels like everyone is better than him, his best isn't better than anyone elses- like in our group someone is best at art while another is best at politics while another is best at writing and another at science whereas hes good at science too but i dunno... what do I tell him to make him feel better- something that will make him feel better now cuz i already told him he'll find what hes best at when hes older but that doesn't help the now. any ideas? (link)
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Try some encouragement. Tell him how good he is on the things he is good at. That's pretty much all you can do. I'm some one who thinks they're not good at anything as well. We usually don't listen to what any one says because we have already set ourselves up for failure. You can try to help him, but the only person that can make him feel better is him. I guess I'm trying to say that you should try to help him, but don't take his problems on as your own.
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okay so this has nothing to do with me
but i'm just wondering do you guys like girls who are really misterious , dress diferent (not emo or goth or something like that just more of a rock style) listen to rock and hard metal stuff like that , walk alone almost all the time , are quit , have really dark long hair untill the ass =P , play electric guitar , and are really pretty but don't wear tight jeans or stuff like that
please answer it's just a question i had on my mind =) (link)
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I like girls who dress with rock apparel, and I love it if girls listen to metal. Not big on quiet girls though, but that's just me. I like dark hair. It's really cool if she plays guitar, because I play guitar myself. And as for not wearing tight jeans and stuff, it doesn't bother me, but I would rather her dress like a girl.
I by no means speak for every guy out there. We all have different tastes.
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Where can i make playlists to put on myspace?
Like where i can upload songs onto a playlist and atach it in my myspace.
I tried webjay but the site never works (link)
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Here's my page:
www.myspace.com/thepiratejedi
Go to the "Music" section and there's a link at the bottom of the playlist that sends you straight to the site I use.
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Can stores have surveillance cameras in changerooms? Like right in the stalls where you change? Would they be monitored?
Thanks
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No, that is so illegal its not even funny. If you've been to a place that does this I suggest you get a lawyer. It doesn't even have to be a good lawyer, like I said, it's very illegal.
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ok, i was just wondering what do guys like in girls?
i mean not the obvious big boobs and nice ass
but like some looks and personality
xo` thanks (link)
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I like a girl that shows interest in me. She asks questions and gets to know me. I also like a girl that is easy to talk to. As in she doesn't answer every question with, "I don't know". As for looks, that really depends on the guy. Find what you think you look good with. And once again you must hear: BE YOURSELF :)
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Hey im 15/f. And i think i have some sort of sleeping disorder. Because i dont usually get tired until about 3 or 4 in the morning. And i hate it because that only leaves me a couple hours of sleep. But when i do have time to sleep in i usually sleep in until like noon and dont wanna get up. I was wondering is there something wrong with me? I used to be able to fall asleep right away. But i just cant anymore. Please help!! (link)
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Try taking melatonin. You can buy it over the counter pretty much anywhere. Take it 1 hour before you want to go to sleep (ex. take at 9 if you want to go to sleep at 10) and continue every night until you are sleeping all night. And no, nothing is wrong with you. You're 15 :)
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Hi,
I’m going to try to make this brief since I know you don’t have time to
be going through pages of my problems. You see, I am love with this guy
DJ, I have been since I was in 6th grade, when we started off as being
friends. That eventually grew into being best friends, and before I
knew it, he liked me. But I didn’t see it because at that point I didn’t
know what it was like to be liked by a boy. When he liked me, I was
going through stages of struggling with makeup, getting my first period,
desperately trying to learn how to shape my eyebrows (which always ended
up being pencil thin), and trying to figure out where I belonged in my
social circle (at the time I was more in the “gangster” kind of
clique).
He was my first love, and no matter how hard I’ve tried, I could never
get him out of my head, nor my heart. I’ve liked other boys, but he had
always been in my heart, and there was not a time in my life that I was
definite that if he asked me out I would say no. He was (and still is)
a very handsome boy that all the girls swoon over. When I was in 6th
grade we were very close, until something happened at the end of the year
which caused us to part. In 7th grade, things were very wishy-washy,
meaning that we weren’t very good friends, although we didn’t exactly
hate each other. We talked every now and then if something bad happened
between one of our friends but nothing other than that. I felt things for
him on and off, and he remained in my heart, but I knew that the way
things were going, that it would be pointless to try to get us together.
I told him during the year that I liked him sometimes, but of course,
since we weren’t very good friends, he didn’t care very much. And there
were also times that I told him that I didn’t like him anymore which
was always a lie since he was always in my heart. A few days ago he
instant messaged me saying that he felt stupid for walking out on me, and
that he regretted it because he realized that I was a good friend. So we
are now best friends again, and I’d have to say that I’m pretty happy.
I want to tell him how much he means to me, that I dream about him at
night, and that I am overally just completely in love with him. The only
thing is that as I am in love with him, he is in love with this other
girl Casey, the one that he was going out with in 6th grade, when he
liked me, but he cared for her more so wouldn’t leave her for me. He had
told me that at the beginning of the school year that he would ask her
out again, which is coming on September 6th. I feel that my time is
running out, but since we have only just became being best friends again, I
don’t want to rush things, because I don’t want to mess things up and I
want us to have a relationship.
I need some serious help on what to do from here.
He means everything to me and I only wish that I meant the same to him
in his eyes.
Please help. I’d appreciate it so much you have no idea.
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You are chasing Amy. When some one is chasing Amy, they are chasing the love that they lost and can never have again. I know that you don't want to hear this, but I think you should stop. I don't think he wants to be anything more than friends with you. If you go into this, I'm positive you'll only get hurt. But if you want to try, if you think you can get him, my only advice is to talk. Communicate with him in a way that lets him understand how you feel. Don't say something like, "Your the love of my life!", because it might scare him. Tell him that you want to be with him, tell him that you think about him alot. If he is on the same wavelength, then who knows. He could be crazy about you. He might even just be going with this other girl to get over you. I don't know because I don't know him. You are the catalyst of these events. Either strike now, or turn away. Never regert your decision.
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Hey, I've just recently begun learning guitar and I know a little bits and pieces of songs, but I'm not good enough to start doing chords yet. Does anybody know any songs that are easy to play or anything? [ It's for accoustic guitar, by the way ]. Help? (link)
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Stairway to Heaven by Led Zeppelin. It sounds great and it's easy to play with practice. Don't be intimidated, alot of people play that as their first song. My first song was Iron Man by Black Sabbath, but if you play that be careful. There are alot of bad tabs out there.
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Alright, I have this friend Jeff, and he's like one of my bestest friend but he's just always so sad. And for like, usually no reason. I'll just be talking to him, and he'll just be like "mhm" "k" "yeah". And then if I don't talk for like, a second he's like "you're not very talkative" so I start talking again, and he does the same thing. And tonight, me and my friend Alyssa and him all went into a chat cause we all talk to eachother, and he doesn't say anything the whole time and I'm like "you can talk, you know." and he's like "you guys are ignoring me." and im like,"you said like, one thing and that was no." I don't know, it's just like he thinks he's boring to talk to and we're ignoring him and everything. And I always tell him to talk about something, and he's like "I don't wanna talk, I don't wanna type." It's like everyone else always have to come up with conversation, not him and I'm running out of ideas. And tonight he's like,"Me and her [me] never talk about anything, but we have stuff in common." and im just thinking,"WTF I TALK TO YOU EVERY SINGLE DAY AND I BABBLE ABOUT WHAT IM DOING OR WHATEVER COMES UP OFF THE TOP OF MY HEAD." And I'm just getting aggrivated, what should I do? His depression is making me depressed.. and ticked off. HELP?! (link)
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I think Jeff has problems with himself. He's turning the situations into something negative directed towards him. I know from experience that he is doing this because he is scared that he will get hurt. He makes himself look bad so that no one else has the chance to. I would suggest that you sit down with him and ask him about this. Don't be offensive or intrusive in your questioning. If he doesn't want to talk, you can't make him. But your best bet is to try to get him to open up to you. Encourage him to get counseling, or help him get comfortable in social environments. But don't put the responsiblity on yourself. Only he can change his life for the better.
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