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ok ive never been kissed before and all my friends have been kissed and i was at a party a while ago and we were play truth or dare but only truth cuz there wasnt any guyz or w/e but then like it came to me and they asked who my first kiss was w/ and i said ive never been kissed and they all laughed and i felt sooo stupid i just wanted to leave cuz i was so embarassed and i know im not pritty n stuff so i know i wont get my first kiss for a while but im just sooooo scared tho to i dont know its just like i was up north and this one guy ((ive known him for a while)) and we havent seen eachother for a while and we talked to catch up on stuff and he said he liked me again and then he started asking me about kissing and stuff and i kinda turned him down but now i totally regret that cuz i rilly like him to and its just every time some guy wants to kiss me im afraid i dont know why i am its just i feel stupid when ive never kissed a guy.. how can i not be afraid and just kiss the right guy? help pleeeeez!! thanx!

Don't worry! You will meet the right person and kiss someone when the time is right. Don't rush!

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I have the worst habit of falling for guys really easy just as long as they're cute and nice. I have the tendancy to not only fall for them but to also obsess over them (read their online journals, get involved with their social life, etc) even when they've never met me before. Also, if I find out that a guy likes me, then I usually fall for him too. It's really annoying. How do I get over this stupid obsession of boys?

Don't worry about it! Everyone is obsessed over something! You are how you are! Hmmm...Well obviously its gettin to ya! So try to find something else of your interest and do it!

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i straghten my hair with a CHI straightener (which is one of the best and really expensive ones) but i can never get my ends totally straight they always curl a lil bit...i was wondering if anyone knew something i cud do or something i cud put in it that would help...
thnxxx!!!

I'm not totally sure that much about CHI Straighteners since my hair is luckily naturally straight. If I were you try using it again then spray your hair with some hairspray. If it doesn't work its a piece of **** and you need to try something else.

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hey ok anyone who is phychic please give me your sn or e-mail.
pleeasee

Look in the phone book! Be careful!

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How do you get ur hair to look wavey and a little curly with gel or other products...when I try it with gel it just makes spiral curls and I don't like it!! =/

I would get a crimp! Then spray your hair with hairspray! Crimps are cheap you can get them for like $15 at Wal-Mart.

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i've gotten really depressed lately. my parents relationship is (excuse my french) going to hell, and my sibs are mixed with alchohol.
my little sis is spoiled like god only knows, and i'm kinda left to life in the middle. i guess my mirror has a little play too... i'm 14, weigh 200lbs, and am 5'7. i'm starting to not eat that much anymore, and i really need some help with this.

Don't worry about your family. Every family has problems. All you should worry about is your sibs and yourself. You and your sibs need to go get some help. I think your turnin anorexic! So don't stop eatin and get some help. So about your parents I assume they would be better off gettin divorced!

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Hey I'm Bryant! There is this girl I like and I think she likes me what do i do ?

Ok...So you like her...You think she likes you...Go for it! Go talk to her and tell her you like her and compliment her on something. Just be yourself and be honest! If this doesn't work out there is tons of other girls.

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Ok, I think i have an eating problem but i`m not sure. I have a tremendouse fear of gaining weight and i honestly can`t help it. I`m starting modeling soon and so I feel like I HAVE to look thin. I`m not eating period and my friend`s are starting to notice so when they make me eat I throw it up. My boyfriend says he`ll quit doing drug`s if i start eating again wich mean`s the world to me but everytime i start eating again I start crying in fear of gaining weight and throw it up then feel terrible. I don`t think i have an "eating disorder" but it`s kind of hard to tell when all of your friend`s are "concerened" that your loosing weight and your starting to look "sick". They say i`m starting to look to skinny, I have bag`s under my eye`s, and i`m getting pale. I can`t eat properly it`s just to hard. I`ve been extreamly depressed latley. Do I have an eating disorer? Someone help me please !!

Signed
A cry for help

Awww, I am sorry to say you have a eating disorder! I think your anorexic and bulimic...Yes you can be both! You need to talk to someone and get treated ASAP before it is too late. Imagine if you die so will your b/f. He seems like he really cares for you and so does your friends and you should get help for them and yourself. So I see your starting modeling! The pressure is hollywood is hard and I don't think you will survive through it if you ever make it that big as a model. Look at Mary-Kate Olsen! So if you need to talk to someone contact me. I am starting modeling too!

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What would you do you do if you were in love with a guy and he didn't like you back?

You need to sit down with this guy and talk to him. Tell him how you feel! If he doesn't like you which he obviously doesn't go find another guy. A guy like that isn't worth ****!

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hey does ne one kno a good FREE website where i can make my own website to put pics and just put cute clip art and shout outs to my friends...thanks

matmice.com

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heyy yall.. does anyone kno how to putt music on ur picturetrail??? i cant figure it out.. thank ya!

*.* AnDiE *.*

Hey Andie! Well login click on More Options. Go to Edit Options and you will see Install Midi/Sound Clips. Click on that select your album then click continue. I would click on Select a Midi Sound File From PictureTrail Our Server. Pick a sound listion to it then when you pick the sound your wanting click on Install Selected File Now and then your done. :-)

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this may seem shallow but, why are all the young teenagers(generally below 15) OBSESSED with the fag rock bands, like GC, and simple plan, and that crap?

LoL! Because it is a fad! Simple Plan and all these bands are all well promoted on like MTV and stuff after kids see them they go OMG I like like have to get their CD...They are sooo cool! I know it's like WTF!

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im gonna be a freshman next year and im really afraid im not gonna fit in. see i have plenty of friends now but i worked pretty hard to get and keep them. im... different to say the least and a lot of people dont get me and now it feels like i have to start all over again to find friends. and frankly, im not sure how. im kinda anti-social in a way... i dont like people on a whole lol cause they're stupid... but i do like meeting new people and i would really like to make some new friends

Just be you and be honest! That is about all you can do. If they like you they do and if they don't well they don't! Good luck!

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me n ma mates keep arguing and it really upsets me. i dont no wot to do about it can ne 1 help

Sit down and talk to them and tell them it upsets you. If they do not listion it is time to find a new group of friends. Good luck!

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how do i start my own fashion club that isn't on the net and do you know of any good websites that have fashion tips please reply asap

I did a quick search on google. Look at www.dailyfashion.com. I'm sure that can help you out!

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hey~
i'm 12 and weigh 155 i don't look fat AT ALL but i don't get a lot of boyfriends and i have a chubby face. at the end of my 6th grade year i weighed 160 but i started running and biking every day and lost 5 lbs. but i want to get down to at least 130i still have till august 17 any suggestions i need help i want to look HoT!!

Stick to what you are doing! Since it had already proved it is working. Make sure you eat healthy and stay away from junk foods. Only eat when you are hungry and don't over eat.

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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?

Don't do it! You are waaay too young. Wait until you are old enough and married then have a kid. You may think you will feel loved but the truth it is a nightmare. If you want a kid get a puppy or a kitty. :-)

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i ned to mastrabte but i cant find anything that works for me can i have anytips?

LoL! It would help people if you posted your sex and age.

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Has anyone here gotten there tonsils out? If so, what's the best food to eat other than ice cream? I just got mine out 2 days ago and nothing tastes good and I'm in pain -__-||

So I never got mine out. I think you should eat jello.

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i have a best friend that told me she moving in 3-4weeks. i wish she wasnt moving, but i dont know what to do. if she moves i'll never get to see her agian or hang out with her. we hang out every day and when she leaves i want get to any more. im really sad. i want to tell her how i feel and i have been but it wont make a diffrence if she moves or not. i cant not make her move, she has all ready bought a house, and selling the one she leaves in now. she my best friend in the whole world. when she leaves i dont know what to do, i'm going to be sad. help me!!!!!!!!!!!!

You need to hang out with her all the time until she moves. You can get her address/email and write her. You could even get her number and talk to her on the phone. Your not gonna die! I lost one of my old best friends because she moved...Guess what? I'm still here! You still need to go out and find some other people to hang out with. :-)

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