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well i got into a fight with a friend of mine, something she did really hurt me, but it isnt something so horrible that i want to end the friendship over it, basically this would all be solved with an appology but im not sure how to go about this. its been two days and i havent talked to her since then, so should i need help on what to do, should i wait until she IMs/calls me and appoligizes or should i do something else? 18/m if that matters at all (link)
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I would either wait for her to come to you & apologize. After all, she is the one that hurt you. Or I would try talking to her & just tell her that what she did really hurt you, but you don't think it's something to ruin your friendship over & maybe then she'll apologize. I hope everything works out with your friendship! If you need anything else just leave it in my inbox.
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when i was in fifth when we used to kiss it use to be tap and now im in 7th and every one is tounge kissing and im scared that if i go out with someone hes gonna wanna french kiss and i wouldnt mind but i never tounge kissed anyone before and i m scared im gonna do somthin wrong and hes gonna tell people im a bad kisser cause i dont know how to french kiss now how can i learn how
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Don't worry. It isn't hard at all. Once it's happening...you don't even think about it & you just go with the flow. & just remember, when you get a boyfriend...he once had to worry about the same thing when it was his first time french kissing - or maybe this is his first time! You never know. Hope I helped.
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hi its baseballislife44
my name is tommy and i also live in ohio so thats pretty cool
if you ever want to talk send me an email baseballislife4444@yahoo.com
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okay, thanks =]
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im 13 and this boy who happens to be my neighbor is 15 and we really like eachother iman we sechother eveyr day we old hands and kiss and all that stuff and its only been for like 2 weeks or so but i really like him and i have for a while but my sister is also friends with him and well hes not a virgin but i am and my sister doesnt really want me goin out with him cause she doesnt want me to have sex when 13 and yea i a understand that but he knows i wont and well he even told my siser that he really doubts that me and him are going to hookup so i dont know if he really likes me or not so i was wondering if there was a way to make sure he really likes me (link)
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I think that you should just trying talking to him about it. That's the only way to find out if he likes you for sure. It sounds like he does since you hold hands, kiss, & hang out a lot. Maybe he was just shy telling your sister that he likes you since he's friends with her, too. But yeah, I would just ask him about it. I hope everything works out for you!
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Ok.. this has been buggin me alot lately.. I'm 14/f, and I have never had a b/f. I know that my time will conme and everything, and Ijust have to wait. But, what bugs me is that I know I'm not gorgeous, or really skinny or anything, but I see girls who are a heck of alot uglier, and bigger than me who have b/f's, so it just makes me feel like there's something wrong with me, cause they can get b/f's and I can't. So, I know my time will come, but, my main question is how are people gettin b/fs when they are so ugly and fat, and the normal girls dont? I rate 5's!!! Thanks!! (link)
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A lot of girls have boyfriends just to have boyfriends. The right guy will come. All you have to do is wait for him. You could try talking to some guys & see if you have anything in common with them & maybe something will happen. Oh, & a lot of ugly or not so skinny girls get boyfriends because of either their personalities or they end up going out with one of their close guy friends. Atleast that's usually the case with people that I know. Don't worry - there's nothing wrong with you!
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Okay, well there is this boy name andrew and at the end of the 6th grade i started to like him and at first he was cool about it and then he was really mean to me and said mean things to me and really broke my heart although i still liked him. In the 7th grade i went on and off liking him and we hung out a lot more and i was his best friend and he told me that somedays he liked me and other days he didnt and i just stopped like telling people that i liked him i mean if people asked i wouldnt lie about it but one day andrew asked if i still liked him and i said, "ya but i dont want to like you because whenever i like you, your always mean to me." and he was like "that was 1 time and i've changed" and he kisses me a lot and always ask for kisses and i just really like him and he always says these sweet things to me and i mean i really want to be with him but he says that some days he likes me and other days he doesnt and he really hurt me in the 6th grade and i dont even know if he wants a girlfriend and urghh now i just dont know.. somedays i think i'm over him but then when he signs online or calls me or i see him i just completly melt and idk .. should i just keep wasting my time on him or should i try to move on? idk what to do please help i need advice (link)
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It sounds to me like he needs to make up his mind on whether or not he likes you. If he really does like you, he should treat you better instead of being mean to you for liking him. I think you should try to move on. I know it might be hard, but I'm sure there is someone perfect out there for you who won't treat you badly. If you don't move on, you might end up getting your heart broken. =[ I hope everything works out for the best.
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i have a lot of guy friends and less girl freinds and its been like that for like my whole life and im like not the tomboy type and im like girly as everyone saya. i have girl freinds like a lot but i have more guys. what does taht mean? sometimes i think taht girls dont liek me cuz im like too boyish but everyone says im not? then wat does that mean?
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I'm exactly the same way. It doesn't mean your boyish. It just means that you get along better with the guys that you're friends with. Personally, I'm friends with more guys because a lot of the girls at my school are backstabbing and I don't have time for fake friendships. The important thing is that you're happy with the guys that you're friends with. Hope I helped!
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ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not? (link)
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I think that you should try talking to her about it & if the problem continues, maybe she isn't a real friend because real friends don't treat their friends like that. I hope everything works out!
x33 ;; Always,
ADViCEx4xY0U =]
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I just found out that one of my best guy friends likes me...I don't feel the same about him,but I have no idea how to tell him other than "i dont like you" and thats kinda mean *lol* I'm also afraid it will be awkward around him, any ideas how to make sure it's not? (link)
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I think that you should try to act the same around him like you did before you found this out and if he brings up the fact that he likes you, you should tell him that you think you guys should just stay friends because if something happened between you guys in a relationship then it could ruin the great friendship that you already have. That way you're setting him straight without being mean about it. I hope everything works out!
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alright, i like this kid, and we've hung out and stuff, and i've liked him since i first met him, then when i started to get to know him more i liked him more and more as we went along, we stopped talking for a while [ we both had a lot going on ] and then the other night he IMed me and we went for a walk, i started liking him allll over again. i'm not sure if i should tell him i like him or not, because i don't want things to be really weird, & because if he doesnt like me back i dont want to deal with his friends [who are semi- my friends too ] knowing about it because it'll make them weird around me too.
sorry its so long, i tried to give a lot of info :\ (link)
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It seems to me that if your feelings came back after all this time, then there is something about him that you can't let go. I think that you should wait it out. Try to find out who he likes and try talking about who you like without giving away that it's him. That way, you're hinting that it's him without making things weird between him and your other friends. I hope everything works out & I hope I helped.
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