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Earlier today my dad was yelling at me because I forgot to mention my depression at the Doctor's when I was going there mainly for my ear infection. He yelled at me, and I started to cry because I felt horrible, and then he yelled at me saying that I am just a big cry baby and I am always crying over something stupid! But I can't help it.. I seriously can't. If someone yells at me, or scolds me I cry because I feel so guilty. But I don't want to easily cry anymore! I wanna feel stronger than that (since I am NOW 16!! And I should be acting like an adult) As my dad thinks, I really need to grow up!
But it's hard to not cry since I am sensitive and very emotional, and I am really depressed, so when I am in a sad or depressed state I cry over anything. Maybe it's normal for a teenager girl like me, but some times I feel I am just 'over-doing' it. How can I fix this?
Thanks.
hey, well some people are just extra sensitive. maybe thats just you. i think you should see a doctor just to see if you have a problem or if your just extra sensitive. from there they will know what to do.
so i'm looking for fun things to do with my boyfriend. no sex or oral because were not ready for that yet. are there any really fun make out positions? i think just stradling would be really fun but does the guy really enjoy that? i dunno if all the grinding on his u kno what would be good for him when clothes are actually on. haha you know?
let me know what you think. the more responses and ideas the better!
thanks
hey, well guys love when girls do different things. any positon you do will please him. he will be happy you took the time to change things up a bit.
This might sound like a strange question, but i'm confused. Alot of people say i'm "pretty" or "beautiful" and it's usually from adults. I know alot of people say that to be nice but one day I walked into a room where my parents were having a party and my mom said as soon as I left they all said i'm so beautiful. But when I look in the mirror sometimes, or I see a picture of me, I really don't think i'm that pretty. I mean, I admit i'm not ugly, but sometimes I just feel like I don't look like that. Also sometimes when I DO feel pretty, like when I dress up for a party, it's when I look in the mirror, but when I see a picture of me i'm like woah i look disgusting. Sometimes I look at myself and I look decent, then I look in another bathroom mirror like at a resteraunt and I think my nose looks big or my skin looks hideous. And also I liked so many boys but no one has asked me out? I don't know if it's cause i'm too shy? Boys talk to me and flirt and stuff but no one has liked me or asked me out! All my friends that are average people not stunning or have wonderful personalities have been liked by a boy. I mean I have been liked by boys in like elementary school but, um that doesn't count. I think boys don't like me because I have a boring personality, and maybe it's cause i'm kinda ugly! But I don't think it's that cause most of my friends just look average and boys have had major crushes on them. I'M SO CONFUSED! What should I think ok myself?
hey, okay well the reason why more adults say your pretty is because they know true beauty. sounds weird but they see behind the boobs and butt. maybe the reason why guys dont like you is because they see you as more of a friend and just one of the guys. instead of befriending them try flirting.
Alright, I was just in the shower, and I noticed my breast has this green bruise on it. It looks like marker, but it won't come off, and it hurts. I KNOW its a bruise. I don't have a boyfriend, and I haven't been drunk anytime recently. I have no clue what happened, and I don't remember doing anything that could have caused it. Is there a medical condition with green bruising(or any bruising, I've been getting lots of them, with no real reasoning).
hey, well if you hit a body part hard enough it will bruise green. dont worry it will go away over time.
my bf is going off to college. he's a senior and im a few years younger. i thought i would be happy about it and glad that he was going and getting accepted into good schools but im not. i feel bad about it but im just not happy about it. do you think its because all of the stories about how they leave you when they go to college? we have been dating for around 5 years. any ideas or tips?
hey, well you should have a talk with your guy. let him know that you know hes going off to college and that you know how college guys love to experience the college rush of hook ups. give him the option of what he wants to do. if you dont give him the option and he doesnt want to stay with you and hes just afraid to tell you, then hes just going to hookup with people and your going to get hurt. so im just looking out for you in this situation. im not trying to take away your boyfriend.
hey if a guy that you like is talking to you, and he's brought up the subject of his basement and how its awesome and stuff, is that subtley hinting that he might want to hang out? or just saying it just to say it? haha because im not sure if hes hinting to me that he might want to hang out, or hes just telling me about his house for no reason. thanksss.
hey, well if he just remodeled his basement then maybe hes trying to show off? if not then he has to beinting to you. say something like "oh, that sounds awesome, i want to see it sometime!". if he doesnt invite you over then hes just simply showing off.
How well does Proactive Solution work?
hey, it works wonders! its hardwork to keep up with doing it tho. you have to do it in the morning and at night. there are three products to put on your face.
so i like this guy.lets call him ryan. okay well we talk (mainly in the morning) and he seems to be having a good time. But sometimes it seems that he only talks to me as a friend.
During P.E. he talks to this girl, Nicole, LIKE ALL THE TIME!!!!! && i can see the chemistry between them. I tryyyy to act like Nicole. And I try to be myself. but its bacically come to the point that ryan doesnt like enough.
I try to let this go, but it seems to be hard lately. like theres some voice in my head that says stick with what your doing or something.(im wierd :] haha j/k).
My parents wont let me date. im 14..yeahh its insane!!I've tried lying..yeah doesnt work out. && i hateeeeeeeeee telling my parents/sister about boys.
OMG PLEASE HELLPPP
hey, okay well dont change for anyone. not even guys. if ryan doesnt like you for who you are then thats his loss. there will be another great guy out there for you that will like you for you. trying to act like someone never works out. you just end up looking like a fool. stop while your ahead. also you dont have to tell your sister. your parents are just your main concern. tell them that your 14 years old and that your starting to want to date. try to talk to your mom first without your dad being there. if you can convince your mom then she can talk to your dad afterwards. good luck [=.
my birthday is this friday.. do you think its wrong to give out invitations like.. on thursday if the party is on friday night? its at the movies. or should I move it to like saturday?
also, my family doesnt have alot of money now, so we cant really afford to have a big party. I'm turning thirteen. I wanted to invite 10 people.. but thats kinda expensive to go see a movie, so should i reduce it to five (thats kinda hard since i have alot of good friends) or just make the party at home (then i'd have to decorate and stuff..). i cant have sleepovers too.. cuz my parents dont like those. but im okay at making cookies though they take like 1-2 hours to make. ughhh this sucks badly. i have money in the bank, but what are some other ways to get some extra cash? I cant do them next week, but maybe later so my money can be balanced in the future.
otherwise, what are some other VERY inexpensive (I can only spend 50 dollars (or less) on this party!! I dont want my whole bank account to run dry!) and like.. very fun! i dont want the party to be a drag.. and im only inviting my closest friends, since its funner that way. and what should i make my invitations out of? or should i just buy it.. i dont want them to be lame.. but at the same time, not too pricey.
or should i just move my whole party to some other day? and would it be lame on my bday to wear those tiaras that say like "birthday girl" or something to school? heh.. thanks for answering my huge question!
hey, well i usually give out my invitations 2-4 days before my party. what i think is fun is a mall and movie party. the mall part is basically just shopping with your friends and looking at guys [=. have them bring there own money for that part. as the for the movie tickets, making them pay for themselves is extremely rude. compromise(sp?) with your parents. instead of having 10 have 7 or 8. i love birthday tiaras! i think there so fun! who cares what people think. if you like it then wear it.
i live in ontario, canada (toronto) can anybody tell me where i can get season one of the series 'The Hills'?
i tried in music world.. where else should i look?
;l
hey, well im sure that target or walmart would have it.
My face has a bit of acne on it and I used the body Shop's Tea Tree Oil Cleanser, Toner, and Moisture Gel on it every night. My skin cleared up at first, but now the acne is coming back. Also my face is extremely red and untoned. I need something to even out my skin tone.
Also, I need makeup that lasts me throughout the day without flaking or glumping together.
hey, well i know that not everyone is made of money so i dont like to suggest this too often. proactive solution works wonders. its pretty expensive and a lot of work. so only get it if your really sure you want to take care of your face day and night putting on three different products of proactive. if you dont want to go through all that go to your local walmart and get clearasil products. they work good as well.
I'm a freshman this year and this semester I have to do a report on being pregnant as a teenager. I have to write it like it was a journal and I was the teenager that just found out they were pregnant.
I've never experienced a relative being pregnant or being born.
I'm supposed to use my health book as a guideline and ask from several different people that have had children what their experiences were like.
I've already asked this question to one person on here, but I thought I'd go ahead and ask it to the rest of the site.
1) How [doctor, home pregnancy test, etc.] and how long into your first pregnancy did you find out you were pregnant?
2) Did you have morning sickness during your first pregnancy? If so, about how far along did it start and how long did it last?
3) About when did you start 'showing' during your first pregnancy?
4) [About your due date] Were you early, ontime, or late with your first pregnancy?
Thank you a ton, if you can help. Please forgive me if it's too personal.
hey, well i might not be much of a help to you but i want to try anyways.
http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&q=pregnancy
I like this guy and I have for a really long time, but he has had a girlfriend, he just broke with his girlfriend and asked me to winterball, I was so excited, but now I am just kinda like, yeah he's not that great, I think I just always want what I cant have... what should I do to be more greatful
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hey, well just think of how sad you were when you didnt have a date. im sure you feel must better now that you do have a date. most girls are searching frantically for a date at this time.
I have noticed a lot of people ask questions about weight loss. Would anyone like to form a support group/challenge? I am captain of one right now and as a group we lost 103 lbs. last week. It would be strictly based on healthy diet and exercise. So let me know!
hey, you arent asking for advice. if you want to have people join your weight loss group do it another way.
ok so i have this friend, she's not that great of a friend but thats not the point. anyway, i have this boyfriend. they dont like eachother, whatever. So she gave one of her hot co-workers my myspace and he's telling me im hot and stuff and that me him my friend and her boyfriend should go on a double date. one day my boyfriend logged into my account because i had told him about this guy and he asked if he could read some of the messages the guy sent me. he said if the guy kept bugging me after i told him i had a bf he would get mad and at least message the guy telling him something. the guy sent me another message right now giving me his number. i dont want to hook up with this other guy but i wouldnt mind talking to him, i have a lot of guy friends. i think my boyfriend would be mad if i called him. what should i do?
hey, well if you know your boyfriend would care and you call the guy then your just looking for trouble. whatever you do DONT call the guy and keep it a secret from your boyfriend. chances are he will find out and you will end up single and lonely. just decide what one you wanna be with. the reason im saying this is because you sound confused. if you had a boyfriend adn saw this hot guy you wouldnt want to call him if you really loved your boyfriend.
Someone hacked my cousin's password.The secret question was "your pets name".She tried all her dogs' names and even her brother's.Nothing worked.I sent her a mail congratulating her on winning the lottery.So that the hacker would congratulate her on it too but I got the mail back.What should I do?
hey, well i garentee you that the hacker wouldnt use a pets name and just left it so you would think that he would. theres a 1% chance that you will guess it. just start a new account.
Just above my belly button I have 2 small cuts/slits that kind of look like I had a belly button ring but I never had my belly button pierced or had surgery that could cause it. I have had them for a while now so I was wondering what could they be from.
hey, okay well ask yourself how long youve had these scratches for? if you havent had them for long then maybe there from your cat or something. just watch them and see if they go away. if they dont show your parents and go see a doctor.
Has anyone used Playtex Beyond Tampons? With the flushable cardboard applicator?
1. Are the wrappers flushable?
2. How is the leak protection?
3. Do you know of any other rounded tip applicator tampons that are flushable that work well?
Any other comments will do fine.
P.S. 13/F... going on a two night trip for school and I'm sure I'll have my period during the trip so I need great tampons.
hey, okay well i wouldnt recommend playtex beyond. i use tampax pearl. there not flushable, but ive only had 3 leaks in them and ive been using them for a little over a year! also they were voted the best tampons by the readers of seventeen magazine! also they come in three different sizes. petite, regular, and super.
theres this guy l like...i really like him
but i dont know how to get close with him!
hes very cute and kinda popular...
we ride the same school bus and live in the same apartment so i thought itd be easy to close with him..
we talk to on myspace but we barely talk in reallife..
when i textmessage him he text me back but writes it really really....short..
i dont think hes interested in girls..
cuz he only hangs out with guys..
i know i should try to talk to him more but im too shy to do it..
so how can i get close with him??
thanks
hey, okay well this might sound harsh but are you sure hes not into girls? or he just not into you? find that out. if he just not into girls and you flirt with him a little bit that could give him two different messages. a) what is she doing? shes a freak. eww. or b) oooooowwee, maybe i like this girl stuff. so just flirt with him a little bit and see his reaction and take it from there. you dont have to flirt with him in person. you could do it on the phone or even on AIM. i would suggest AIM that way there will be no akward silences. if there is you can just say brb.
Why is it that even though my internet is working for explorer and AIM, but when i try to buy a song of Itunes it says that it can not connect or that my internet isnt working and dont say firewall is blocking it because my firewall is disabled.
thanks =)
hey, well maybe you installed itunes wrong. thats the only thing that i can think of. uninstall it and then reinstall it. if that doesnt work ask yourself this. where did i install my itunes from? if you installed it from somewhere like downloads.com then it was a scam and its never going to work. you need to go to the apple store and install it.