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I attend Trenton Catholic Academy @ McCorriston Campus in Hamilton, NJ. The students are required to complete Christain community service in order for us to graduate. I think that it is a great way to gaive back to the community and help others. I also feel that it is unfair because students have homework, activities, sports, and doing service hours adds a heavier burden. I find it hard to deal with all the things in your personal life, private life, and the things at school, and to add on to that its hard. For me, it gets me stressed out because I have a lot of responsibilities, and its hard to deal with everything at once. I try to fing the time to balance all these things out but its hard. To have to complete community service is just taking up more of the free time that i have and I get very stressed out. I would just like to know if you think schools should have community service, and a reason why.
hey, well no i dont think that schools should have community service. i do think that it should be an option tho. like for extra credit or something. because like you said, it just adds on to your busy schedule and also if you dont want to be there then your not going to give it 110%.
16/female i feel extremely oddly shaped, one of my vaginal lips(labia minora) is like 2 inches long and it hangs down like a turkey gobble the other one is normal and is like a centemeter and it isnt viewable, is this unusual? i want to get it fixed because im afraid my bf will think im weird, i know there is labiaplasty for this.. but like do alot of other girls have it?
hey, everyones vaginas are differently shaped. its perfectly normal for one side to be longer or shorter then the other.
What does it mean why a guy says he has "Blue balls"??
hey, it means that all his cum is stuck in his penis. like after he just finished wacking off. thats the most common time that it happens. so it causes hurt for them.
what age do you think is right for sex? please dont tell me when ur married or when you find the right person. thank you.
hey, there is no right age. honestly i know this isnt what you want to hear, but its when your ready mentally.
What is a bug when you download a something from the internet?
hey, a bug is a virus/trojan.
i know a hicky is like a love bite. but does the opposite sex really bite ur neck?plez explain this to me, thanks.
hey, no they dont literally bite you. they just suck on your neck and it just leaves a mark if they do it long enough.
i want a boyfriend but i dont its like i have a commitment problem everytime somebody gets to close i push them away in a way like when i feel myself acuatally starting to really like somebody i convince myself that i really dont and that well never work out you know and i sometimes when i see everybody with a boyfriend i get sad because i want what they have but i can never bring myself to say yes but when it comes to somebody i really really like its harder to convince myself that theres nothing there and when i just try to go for it it turns out that all that flirting was just mind games im also mad greedy with everybody around me ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh its driving me insane how do i expect to get what i want and crave for when in truth i dont know what its is im looking for and craving for its like im always fighting this inner battle help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hey, well your problem is that you want something that you cant have. once you know you have the guy, you dont want him anymore. dont get involved in anymore relationships until your ready for commitment. its not fair to yourself or the person your getting involved with. i would just stay single for a little. just to take some time to think of what you really want.
sorry its so long and its in the wrong category. anyways i'm 14/f. :
i would really like advice on how to get my life back in order. well my parents recently got divorced i have a BF in another state and my parents recently found out we kissed on vacation and i got in trouble and he didnt, i have a couple really good friends but my 2 best friends dont get along, i've caught my mom in lies and i cant trust her anymore,my mom is starting to talk to strangers on the internet and meeting them. and now she kindof has a bf who says he wants to share me w/ my mom., my dads starting to make me go to church, and my grades are at their worst. i'm under so much stress and worst of all i have dance classes, karate classes, musical auditions comming up, talent show audtions coming up, and i've been trying so hard to loose weight for our school winterfest and if i dont get good grades my bf cant come from his state to mine and be my date for winterfest. i just need some organization, and order, and just plain advice on how to lower my stress level. and keep focused on my priotys.i dont want to talk to my parents about it cause i've tried and they just dont get it. any advice is awsome. thank you sooo much in advance.
hey, well you need to talk to someone just to let it all out. whether its a relative, a counciler, or a therapist. just start taking charge in one of those options.
16/f
I like two guys. They both know I like them. They've both said they like me.
They are good friends.
They live a few hours away from me, and I am going to meet up with them soon.
How do I play this one?! I don't want to cause any rivalry between them, and I don't want to hurt either of their feelings.
But at the same time, if it looks like something could work out with one of them, I don't want to miss the chance, because its very rare that I'd get to see them! Any ideas?
hey, well its not fair to them or even you. you need to decide which one you honestly like because as of now, your leading them both on. also distance shouldnt be an issue. if you really them, youll find time to see them and also stay faithful.
HOW DO YOU PREVENT THE MASCARA FROM FORMING INTO THE CORNER OF YOUR EYE AND GETTING LITTLE BALLS OF IT THERE.
how do you prevent the mascara from forming into the corning of your eye and getting little balls of it there.
a.k.a "mascara goop"
hey, well before you apply mascara you should always take off the excess mascara on wand. dont use comb mascaras. they clump alot. curved mascara wands are the best. also what i do sometimes is take a regular comb and comb your eyelashes out after applying.
Mostly like clothing.. shoes.. anything of that sort with fashion. I'm a 13 year old girl so I like to be trendy, and Im going shopping soon. and yeah I do get stuff just because I like them, so dont tell me to just be original and stuff.. because thats not what Im asking for.
That and any other things that are in style... thanksss! :]
hey, well ill send you some trendy items [=.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/category1_10251_10201_12596_-1_12552
leggings.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_197185_-1_12607_12552
lacy camis.
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_258040_-1_12622_12552
polos.
http://www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/application/prodDisplay/?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=XH-200756&page=1&cgname=OSSLPPINPAN&rfnbr=3299
lovepink outfits.
http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=283&productID=5833&model=Classic+Crochet
sweater boots.
http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=181&productID=5131&model=Dakota
indian shoes.
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_321529_-1_12274
three quarter sleeves.
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/category_womens_shoes_detail.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90122&sscid=cat120147&navroot=womens
ballet flats.
http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=earrings&Page=1
crazy colored earrings.
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=necklaces&product%5Fid=1035652643&Page=2
chunky beads.
15/f
I am not indpendent at all, and I get embarrased over the smallest things. Even if its just walking to togos to order a sandwich I get embarassed unless I'm with my friends. I get embarrassed ordering food from restaurants and paying for clothes and i feel i'm not independent but i need to learn to be. I really have no friends at school (there all really mean to me and are obnoxious to be around with) what are some ways to help with that with the embarrassment and independence problem; i keep reminding myself you''ll never see these people again, but it bugs me SOrry if its in the wrong category.
hey, well one day your going to have no choice but to be independent. so just keep doing what your doing and deal with the embarassment for now. eventually it will go away.
my whole family doesn't have any weight problems at all really. i want to lose weight so badly because i've just started eating so unhealthy and i feel like i shouldn't change what i eat but instead try to exercise more. what can i do to get rid of my tummy? i weigh 140 and i'm 5'7/f and i feel like i'm obese. :( i keep gaining weight and i feel like i really need to buckle down and lose it. thank you!
hey, well my doctor told me that at 5`0 your suppose to be 100 pounds and then every time you go up in height to add on 5 pounds. so that means at 5`7 your suppose to be 135 pounds. therefore, your only 5 pounds overweight for your height. so i wouldnt be to worry. maybe just run on a treadmill and that will take care of the 5 pounds. after that just tone yourself up a bit. gain some muscles. do crunches and lift weights. not like muscle man huge weights, but little lady weights. also at the grocery store there are things called weight watcher meals. there in the freezer section and there pretty good meals. they even make desserts.
lately i have beenbeing really lazy and mopey. and it seeems like i cant do anything right. i always drop things and ge tmy workds mixed up. and usually im the center of aattenin and a "social butterfly" but lately i ust dont feel like going threw the trouble of trying to start a conversation. and im REAL good at the flute and the other day at my lessons i kept messing up on my music. it was very simple but i just made clumsy mistakes. Also people around school know me as the " ditzy girl" and i swweeaarrr i dont do it on purpose but my teacher will ask me sometihng and ill think she means osmetihng else and say sometihng esle and sometimes my friends tell me that im really random. of course idont realize it becasue it makes complete sense to me " like we can be talking about going to the beach..then id think of when i was at the beach and think of when i was playing beach ball, then id just sort of blurt out " whats the proper rules for beach ball" and since know one knoews what im tihnking they kinda just laugh and call me jessica simpson or that i have ADD..it gets realy annoying.
hey, well its normal to have some blonde moments. so i would just wait it out a little and see if it keeps continueing or getting worse. if it does then i would see a doctor for it, just to make sure that things are alright.
I was like really into it, now only simi. How can I find an alternative? Jogging lasted for a couple weeks but after that I wanted to get high more. I'm all out, now, and i REALLY want to quit. Thanks to advicenators I was off for a week or two, now I want to get off for good. PLEASE HELP!
hey, well its dangerous for you. i would seek help with a therapist or a conciler(sp?). i would do that because most of us dont feel comfortable with taking about our problems to people that we know.
A few years ago i went away to a ball camp held by a local college, that had the players as the actual camp counselors.
To this day she still plays ball, but she is a senior now, and they only have about 4 home games left. I email her sometimes, and i meet up with her after the games to just catch up, but its not that often.
~~~The Prob~~~
I think that im in love with this woman! I even broke up with my girlfriend of almost 1 1/2 because of the way i feel about her... the thing is, i dont even think she has a clue. Everytime I seee her I think about telling her how I feel, but age, sexual orientation (yes im gay) they all play a factor in this. Like i said, she only has a few home games left, and I dont know if I should tell her, or just go through life not knowing the answers to anything!
Someone plz give any advice!
hey, if your a girl, then you should find out her orientation. you cant force her to turn lesbian or bisexual. if shes straight then i think that you guys should just stay friends for your friendships sake. it might completly break your friendship apart if you try to turn her lesbian or bisexual or make moves on her.
Here's the story: I met this amazing guy a couple months ago. We hung out one day and started going out. We tried a relationship for a while but things didn't work out and he said he wanted to be just friends. We turned to be friends with benefits but only made out and thats all i allowed. well i ended up falling in love with him. i wanted so much to be with him. We hung out all the time and became good friends. Well he ended up telling me one day he needed to talk .. i was hoping he would want to get back together but he didnt he wanted to tell me that he likes another girl but wanted to make sure i was ok with it since he broke up with me weeks prior and didnt want me to be upset about it. Ever since that day things weren't the same. We stopped hanging out alot and talking. After he stayed home from school for a week and came back, he completely changed. We havent hung out since then and we only talk every now and then. He is "together" with that girl he liked. I really miss him and its been months. I thought i was over him but we've been talking, flirting, and always looking at eachother lately. I think he misses me too but he's afraid to tell me. How can I get myself to talk to him again? I never see him alone that much to be able to talk to him and see if he wants to talk or hang out. I don't think things between him and his girl are good right now. & Im not one of those girls that like to get in between things like that. Tips on how to get a converstation on how to hang out with him and talk, it would be great. THANKS.
hey, well like you said you dont want to get in between him and his girlfriend. even if things arent good for them right now, there must be a reason that he got together with her in the first place and you wouldnt want to break that. i would get back to the friend level that you were at with him before. always be there for him no matter what. even if its girl problems and it kills you, just be there. that will score you extra points with him. if you guys are meant to be, love will find a way. just continue being friends and then hopefully love will re-develop between you two. also while you guys are at that friend stage, dont be all over him and flirt. if he starts flirting with you then its okay to flirt back. just dont be the one to start it cause that might be a turnoff.
how do you do it?
i can straighten it with it (duh)
but when i try to curl it it just makes like a dent in my hair...
what's up with this and how the heck are you supposed to curl ur hair with a regular chi?
hey, well the people tell you that you can curl it but it never works up to my standards. sometimes it comes out wavy and sometimes less then wavy. you would be better off getting a curling iron or scrunching your hair. if your interested in getting a curling iron i would try sally beauty.
http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/find.asp
try any one of those links. sally beauty carrys the best curling irons in my opion.
if your interested in scrunching your hair, then i recommend pantene products.
to detailed but i was wondering when people have sex do they automatically moan or does it just come out without even trying or effort? im really confused and would like to know.
hey, well if it feels good then usually people moan. its a just natural.
i used to get physically abused by dad from when i was 2 up untill 2 years (when i was 13) and ever since march last year (when dad got sent to jail) iv been having theses really bad dreams about him getting out and hurting me and things like that and i cant go outside without having a panick attack anymore and i really need to sort my head out but im findin it extremely hard! any tips would be appreciated xx
hey, well i would recommend getting a restraining order on your father. that way you could feel safer. sometimes we dont feel comfortable talking to people that we know about our problems. you should talk about your problems and fears to a counciler(sp?).