16/f
I like two guys. They both know I like them. They've both said they like me.
They are good friends.
They live a few hours away from me, and I am going to meet up with them soon.
How do I play this one?! I don't want to cause any rivalry between them, and I don't want to hurt either of their feelings.
But at the same time, if it looks like something could work out with one of them, I don't want to miss the chance, because its very rare that I'd get to see them! Any ideas?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sandi74 answered Thursday January 25 2007, 10:36 am: If you truly do not want to hurt anyones feelings then don't! You do not want to be the girl who causes a problem between friends. There are so many ways that can backfire on you! To handle this situation maturely, I think you have to think of what is the most beneficial outcome for all parties involved-not just you. If you actually care about both of these guys, and you know that choosing one will hurt the other, then you just don't choose. Just remain friends with the both of them and find a guy closer to home to spend time with. [ sandi74's advice column | Ask sandi74 A Question ]
kiran answered Tuesday January 23 2007, 3:44 pm: 2 guys? Yeah you really don't want them to cause anything between them since they are friends. You should just pick one guy that you really like. They both like you right? So its best if you choose one instead of having them fight over you when one of them won't have a chance. Only one of them get you so it wouldn't be fare. Just choose one and go for him. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
runawayxlove answered Tuesday January 23 2007, 3:43 pm: hey, well its not fair to them or even you. you need to decide which one you honestly like because as of now, your leading them both on. also distance shouldnt be an issue. if you really them, youll find time to see them and also stay faithful. [ runawayxlove's advice column | Ask runawayxlove A Question ]
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