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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
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ok i hav webbed feet is that normal sould i cut them with like scissors or something?

NO! don't cut them you could hurt yourself badly. there are simple medical procedures that will take care of that for you. if money is a problem then check out some pobono and free clinics.

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okay my friend and i were talking the other day and he was saying stuff like "BYE THIS IS GOOD BYE FOR EVER" and all this other stuff and im like what are you talking abotu seriously and then he sent me a picture of im guessing it was his arm and it had cuts all over it and he goes now times that by 10 im like wow okay then hes like your runing my death stop talking to be then he signed off the computer he has done something like this before but nothing like that serious and i talked to him the next day after but once this happend i haven't spoken to him in 2 days im kind of worried what should i do?

You should try to go over to your friends house. See if he's ok. You should never take these kind of conversations lightly.

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this isnt really an injury but when i walk my feet crack. you cant hear it with sneakers or slippers on but when i wear flip flops or just socks u can hear it. is there something wrong and how do i make it stop cracking?

You should go to the doctor and explain your problem. It could just be arthritis but it might be something else. So just go and have it checked out.

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ok.. my friend lets call her laura and laura's parents abuse her like hit her and leave marks and she hates her life and she chooses to cut herself and she cuts sorta deep and im afraid one of these days shes gonna cut to deep and kill herself.. and she doesnt want anyone to know cuz her parents wont do any good and my parents i dont rilly want them to know either cuz theyll get ideas about me cuz they dont trust me very well and i just rilly dont know wut to do anymore and ive tried to stop her but she wont and i dont wanna tell anyone either but i just dont want her to hurt herself anymore cuz im scared shes gonna cut to deep one of these times.. is there like anything that could like substitute cutting? cuz she would just keep cutting if she went to counseling or something like that so is there anything that could substitute cutting?? i rilly need advice FAST!! thanx s0o0o much!

Your friend feels trapped and cutting herself is a way that she deals with it. You are her friend but friends need to know when to give help even when it's not wanted. A start might be helping her by talking to someone who can help out her abusive parent problem. She needs help because her parents could go farther than just hitting her. In the long one she will be grateful that you helped her. She can't escape but you can help free her.

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When I was younger I a serious ear infection that was so bad to the point I was unable to hear people's voices. My mom realized something was wrong with i didn't start to develope my speaking skills. As i grew up I {knowing nothing of my hearing problem of when i was younger}I felt as I didn't belong how I didn't know until a several months ago and now I feel that I should be "Deaf" Instead of "Hearing" I just don't seem to belong in the "hearing world" that I should be in the "deaf world". In class i started reading peoples lips for no reason at all but like it so if I ever miss something I can catch it. I wish all the time that i was deaf. Does this mean i have a sick mind? Am I using a deafness as an escape to sort of try and solve my porblems or something like that? If anyone reads this post and is upset by it i'm sorry.

I was in two carwrecks so I have an idea of the whole not fitting part. You don't have a sick mind. You remember from when you were a kid and that is how you developed. You were pushed from one reality to another and your mind didn't have time to catch up. Don't ever think that youre trying to escape your problems because that's how you deal.

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ok you people should know I'm the one who likes the 6th grader well how do I talk to him if I'm so nervous anytime I'm around my crushes I can barely speak as in my voice is all stuutery so how do I talk to him?

Well first you have to be relaxed. Do deep breathing right before you talk to him. Remember he may not show it but he's just as nervous. If you feel really nervous suggest that you two should go with some friends to the movies. Then you won't be alone.

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Alright, now he's single! =D

So I don't know if he likes me or not, but I really want to get close with him again. We were buds last year, then class placement made us drift.

Should I just ease into a friendship and take it from there, or should I go more towards a romantic relationship with him? I don't know if I want to take the friendship route, because he might say 'We're too good of friends too ruin it' or something.

Well should I just do the 'friendship buddy' thing, or what?

Well, if you really have special feelings for him then i think that you should sit down and talk to him. Just ask him what his feelings are. You can't help what you feel. And maybe he's shy so you have to make the first move. Then when you both have decided your feelings go from there.

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