okay my friend and i were talking the other day and he was saying stuff like "BYE THIS IS GOOD BYE FOR EVER" and all this other stuff and im like what are you talking abotu seriously and then he sent me a picture of im guessing it was his arm and it had cuts all over it and he goes now times that by 10 im like wow okay then hes like your runing my death stop talking to be then he signed off the computer he has done something like this before but nothing like that serious and i talked to him the next day after but once this happend i haven't spoken to him in 2 days im kind of worried what should i do?
bAbYCHeeR792 answered Wednesday June 30 2004, 4:30 pm: Worried. I'd be too. I'd be scared as anything. I would call him, or even get someone to talk to him. But if he is saying that YOU are giving him death thoughts, than stop talking to him, you don't want to be the reason he kills himself. He could be trying to get attention. [ bAbYCHeeR792's advice column | Ask bAbYCHeeR792 A Question ]
XoTruebrunettExO answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 3:47 pm: i think you need to tell someone right away, this can't wait, it's been 2 days who knows what he could have done by now.. this can't wait any longer..if he's really your friend then tell your parents or his parents or a trusted adult to help you, but be sure to get help immediatly.. i know this is hard, but just think what could happen if you don't tell anyone, it's something you should do whether you want to or not..but just think if you do tell some one your a 10 times better friend then you were before because you stopped something really bad from happening..
Kissxme1121 answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 3:37 pm: He needs help. If he did if before he'll do it again and he did, you need to tell someone asap, his parents, your parents, anyone who casn help him. Because cutting yourself is bad and it can lead to worse things.Rate me plzz [ Kissxme1121's advice column | Ask Kissxme1121 A Question ]
AsK_LaNi answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 3:14 pm: Obviously your friend is really depressed. But whats more if he was going to committ suicide he probably would have already done it. what he's doing now is an attention cry. He's depressed, but he knows he doesn't want to end it, but doesn't know how to get help, so he cries out for attention this way. First you need to tell an adult, like your parents, cuz they can really help you through this. Second, try and convince your friend to see a counselor somewhere and make sure to let him know that you are always going to be there for him, and that you are not going to leave him (sometimes depressed people think this). it'll take time, energy, and patience, but your friend is worth it!
p.s. make sure you let him know that he is worth it.
hope i helped, and feel free to ask me about anything in the future! :)
xONatalieOx answered Tuesday June 29 2004, 3:11 pm: Call him! Or visit his house.. this is really serious. He needs a therapist.. or just somebody like you to talk to as a friend :- If nothing serious has happened, u should try n talk to him one on one, and contact a therapist. If he agrees to go, u should go w/ him for support & so he knows he has somebody to lean on!! I hope ur friend is okay.. sometimes, all ppl need is luv ((Corny, but true!!))
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