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alright so i take back the fact that im done with this advice column. but im just letting everyone one here know that i do have a life, and advicenators is not it. however, im here to help. i just wont be on every single day.

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ive had my period for like 5 years now and its always been a reasonably heavy 5-7 day flow. only the past 3 or 4 times have i began using tampons [regular absorbancy]. ive loved them and never had any problem however i started yesterday and this morning i got up and put one in [7:45ish] and by lunch [11:45] it was soaked and leaking in my underwear! i was pretty sure i could feel it and when i checked i was mad because thats never happened before! grr. what are some good tampons that DONT leak? i only have 1 super absorbancy and the ones i use now are playtex i think.

hey, tampax pearls are definately the best. they have petite size, regular size, and super size.

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i have a pink sanyo 2400c i think its called.

1.How much does it cost to open picturemail?

2.i know you have to go on the internet to view the mail so how much is it getting on the internet on your phone?

thanks.

♥ danielle

hey, call the sprint store or the place you got your plan from. they can tell you.

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what are some good tampons for teens?
im a dancer & i exercise alot so im active

hey, tampax pearl are definately the best. they come in petite size, regular size, and super size.

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ok. so today was really awkward. i was hanging ou with my boyfriend. and it was all fun. but then his mom randomly showed up and said she wanted to talk to me. so im like ok. so i go over to the car window and shes like oh whats going on? im like what do you mean? and shes like are you guys going out? and im like yes. and shes like ok he told me. im like ok. shes liek does your mom know. im like yes( but she really doesnt, well she does but i just didnt say anything to my mom) ok well anyways. she was like oh hes grounded. you shouldnt be with him. and hes grounded becuase he is failing 3 classes. and shes like did you know that? and im like no. and shes like yeah well he is. and i betcha dont wanna go out with a junior next year when you move on to be a senior. and shes like how old are you. and im like 17. and shes like oh hes 18. when he told me that he was 17. and born a month after me. but somehow he skipped a age. but i dont know if the mom knew how old he was. and she was like i dont want you guys alone. and im like ?? and shes like its just because i had him at a young age and i dont want anything bad to happen. and then my boyfriend gave his mom a look and shes like what i dont want her getting pregnant to. and im like ok then. and then her mom is like i can take you to the movies and drive you there and back. and you can come to my house when ever you want. and shes like i just dont want you alone. and shes like i bet your mom doesnt want you alone with boys. and im like actually she doesnt mind. and shes like oh. well your mom can call me whenever she wants to. im like ok. and shes like hes not supposed to hang out with people hes not mature enough but im giving him a chance to have a girlfriend. and im like ok. but im just really confused because he says hes had other girlfriends so im just thinking did something happen? becuase i was there for a half hour talking to his mom. and im like this is really awkward. and i mean he didnt give me a hug goodbye or naything in front of her. so im guessing he cant have PDA. im like ok then. but what im saying is is he a liar? i mean his mom embarassed him bad. and im just like um ok? i dont think his mom likes me much. but she kept saying how she doesnt want me to get stuck pregnant. so im like is he a virgin? well one of his exes was a slut. but i have no idea. and shes expecting me to be liek the mother of him. doing this and that. and this is the first time i ever met his mom. and im like uhh ok?
so should i break up with him? or? i sort of want to because i dont feel the same way about him as i used to. and thats the honest truth. but then i will feel bad because he might think its because of his mom. that she scared me away. and i dont want his mom like coming to me. and also i liked being single alot better. and i have no idea why but i sorta kinda still have feelings for my ex. but my ex hates me. im so confused.
help!

hey, woah thats a lot to read. anyways there was two big red flags in there. a) you still have feelings for your ex and b) you dont feel the same way about your boyfriend as you used to. feeling those things without telling him. you should decide if your willing to risk breaking up with him over those two things or if your serious about breaking up with him. do what you feel is right, follow your heart.

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13/f.

Ok; My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, and he used to be really nice and sweet. But, now all he talks about is sex. He usually says, "Just kidding, I love you." After all his perverted comments, but I can't tell when he is kidding or not. I really like him, possibly even love. I am just wondering, how can I tell when he is kidding or not?

Also, I have had thoughts about having sex with him alot lately. I feel so bad, but whenever I see or talk to him, I get these visions in my head of us making love. Is this bad? I've always said to myself, I am going to stay a virgin until I get married but he makes me feel as if I want to give that up.

P.s. I'd like a guys view, but girls are more than welcome to answer as well.

hey, well there is no right age to have sex. its whenever you are ready mentally. if you truly believe that you are ready mentally then make sure that you really love him and that he really loves you and not just for sex.

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14/F

Okay. Me and my boyfriend made out at the movies the other day. It's the first time that either of us had made out, so we didn't exactly know how. So, we were kissing and when we were done, our faces were both drenched in drool. I'm pretty sure that's not supposed to happen. What are we doing wrong?

Also, any tips are greatly appriciated.

hey, well theres really not a wrong way to makeout. so just keep trying. first kisses are suppose to be messy. practice will make perfect.

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i want a new sn.
something with like

-criss
-riss
-riss
-xx
-xox
-love
-broken hearted


doesnt have to have it all. i just want a cute one.

like my friends name.. she tied it into cupcake. it was really cute

hey, what about bro kenxhearted?

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Ok, well i have a friend who likes this guy. Two of my other friends were trying to get that guy to guess who liked him because they already knew. Well the girl who likes the guy (we can call her shelby) the guys name ( we can call him max). My two other friends named (cassie and katie) were talking to eachother about how shelby liked max. Well this guy came up to me and said "do you know who likes max?" i knew but i wasn't going to tell him. i said "yeah but i am not going to tell." He begged and begged and begged and i finally said "Joe i am not telling you!" Then he asked "Is it shelby?" I just looked down at my work and he said "It is is'nt it?" I still didnt say anything. Then he finally said "dont worry i wont tell anybody." I said "ok dont tell anybody and keep it a secret. Then shelby found out that i told him and was really mad at me and cassie becasuse when cassie was talking to katie about it she accidentaly slipped and said shelby's name so shelby forgave cassie because she knew it was an accident but she thinks i told joe but actually he guessed it and i know that i should of not gave it away but o well it's to late now. But i wrote her a letter telling her what happened and i dont know if she is mad at me or not. I know she thinks i should of said no when joe said shelbys name but i didnt really think. Sheould i be the one who she is mad at or did i do anything wrong? I dont know if i am the bad person in the situation or good. Please help!

hey, alright so i would be mad at you too. its only common sense to tell the person no even if they guess it. i know you might not have been thinking, but it was a really bad thing to do. you know probably lost shelbys trust. you need to gain it back. explain to her the situation once more. you need to ask her what you can do to gain her trust back.

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Theres this girl and her mum and they come by our house when they need help with money, food, babysitting,etc. I don't mind but recently it's been often and they only come when they need help.

Today she came and asked us to keep her daughter..and I told mom enough is enough and not to keep her (she as=lso bothers me ALOT). And she owes us $240.

Should I change my mind/

hey, well it depends if this person is close to you or not. if not then i would sit down and have a talk with her. let her know that yes, you will take her daughter but that this needs to be occuring less. so yes, i would change your mind FOR THIS ONE TIME ONLY. let her know that your serious about her coming around for help all the time and that it needs to stop. be firm about it. but let her know that its okay if she needs something sometimes. actually i changed my mind. do that even if she is close to you. because she cant rely on you for everything. it may be harsh, but its just reality.

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me and my gf had sex were both under age the condom fell of so i stopped i didnt ejagulate its three days after and she's complaining of severe stomach pains could she be pregnant??

hey, okay well theres always that slim chance. ill give you props for stopping. but if you have been sexually active with other girls you might have given your girlfriend a lovely STD. you should have her take a pregnancy test and that will solve the "is she pregnant" question. as for the STDS, if your worried that you gave her one have her go get checked out.

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my uncle's girlfriend really bothers me. I just don't get why she would control my mom then she makes my uncle different to me. It bothers me and I can't seem to stop it. She just wants everyone to hate me. She is going around each family member like a game then she tries to make the ones closest to me strongly put me away.

hey, have a talk with your family members about it. let them know what you think she is doing and how much it bothers you. thats just so the other family members can get the heads up incase she trys to take them away from you too. also that should be a red flag for your uncle to confront her about it. hopefully it works.

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Last year, I was best friends with this kid, Michael. Since August, he's only said maybe five words to me. PLUS he lied to me during that time and it's not just one of those little lies. He posted a bulletin on myspace that was something like, "UGH! I HATE MY MOM. JUST CAUSE I HAVE FRIENDS THAT ARE OLDER THAN ME DOESN'T MEAN I CAN'T HANG OUT WITH THEM! IT DOESN'T F***ING MATTER IF I SMOKE!" A week after that he called me and said, "God, I can't believe she broke up with me. I hate her!!!! I DON'T EFFING SMOKE," and I said, "I know, I know." Now I'm pretty sure he lied to me cause I read his comment on his friend's myspace and it said, "So you got some "candy" for friday," which might mean it's more than just smoking. Anyways, I have an elective with him (PA) and he's been staring at me. (Last year, he liked me but he'd always deny it when my friends would ask him. But one of my friend, his best friend, told me that he did. Plus -- he basically asked me out once or was implying that he wanted to go to the movies with me.) He has a girlfriend though, so I'm not screwing up their relationship. Today he looked like he was waiting for someone and as soon as I walked out, he followed me and was making some weird sound trying to get me to look at him. Last year when he liked me, he did things like this. I'm still mad at him and he knows it, so why won't he just talk to me or at least apologize? And what's with him staring at me and stuff?

hey, well if you said that stareing is what he did when he liked you last year then he probably likes you again. maybe hes just shy to confront you. he is probably afraid that you will a) still be mad at him, b) ignore him like hes not there, or c) have no interest in him because he lied to you. he is probably secretly wishing that you would confront him first. if you dont want to do it in person use AIM or the phone. i would do it.

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Hey does anybody know where i can download a free trial of Photoshop 9, I've tried bearshare, morpheus, limewire, imesh, etc. None of those work!!!
Could you please help me, i need it A.S.A.P as i have to do a project for my science homework
thanks
Miranda

hey, check http://www.downloads.com

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okayy i was looking for a one piece for gym class, even though i wear bikini's idk wearing one to gym isnt that comfortable. does anyone know where they sell cut out one pieces??

http://slimages.macys.com/is/image/MCY/products/9/optimized/204709_fpx.tif?bgc=255,255,255&wid=273&qlt=90,0&layer=comp&op_sharpen=0&resMode=bicub&op_usm=0.7,1.0,0.5,0&fmt=jpeg

that's an example. that one is from macys but they dont sell it anymore. do you think thats cute for a one piece?? or should i just stop being shy and stick with my 2??

thanks!!

hey, well yes i do like those types of one pieces. i will tell you tho, that if you wear bikinis out of gym class then you should stick with them in gym class. you can always try it out. if you hate it you never have to do it again.

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a lot of people here talk about phone sex/ telling a guy sexual stuff on the phone/ telling him you are masturbating or we to get him turned on. is that slutty? what if you really like him but have only known him for a little while? and do you think guys tell each other about stuff like that? or what if he stopped liking the girl..would he tell people she did it

hey, well most people would consider it slutty unless a) hes your boyfriend or b) you guys like each other ALOT and are just waiting it out to become a couple. also he may be the sweetest guy in the whole world, but if anything happens and you get into a fight he could easily use it againist you no problem while bes being mad.

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uhm like i have ripped jeans, and i wanna make more rips like on the back of them ? how do you rip them?

hey, use scissors and a razor. thats all im going to tell you because it actually looks better when you dont know what your doing. it looks more natural.

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13/f.
Warning: Very long.

In school I play it cool, when I'm by my family I'm neutral, but when I'm by myself or talking with my boyfriend I completely loose it. My entire family has a long line of deep depression for the females on my mom's side. All of my family members take anti-depressents. My mom, my aunt, grandmother, cousins, my great-grandmother used to take them before she died. She was crazier than anyone could ever imagine - she'd spent five years in a mental institution. I my self have been in one for exactly 8 days before they released me because, just like I do in school and in front of my family, I play it like nothing's wrong.

I've begun to continually cut myself. I know I need to quit. Half of me wants to quit, because I know it's what's right, but the other half loves it too much to get rid of it. It's like I've become a dependant on it - or on my boyfriend, also. When I'm constantly talking to him, I'm perfect. Happy as happy can be, but the second he has to go to deal with his own life I fall apart. I need to depend on myself to make me happy, but I can't seem to find the strength too. I don't want to. I want to depend on someone or something. But I can't; I need to find a solution.

I've been diagnosed with clinical depression and have tried just about every anti-depressent out there or all different doses - none have ever worked for me. I currently take 30 miligrams of the generic brand of Prozac, along with Adderall for my ADD and Seraquil for my acclaimed "bipolar" disorder I've also been diagnosed with - even though I don't have mood swings. The only different moods I have are mask neutral and depressed.

I've tried overdosing in an attempt to kill myself three times. I've tried shooting myself twice, and I've tried countless of times to kill myself by means of slicing any main vains - I want help, I need help, but I can't get it from the "professionals" because all they'll do is stuff me in a white jacket and into a room with squishy walls. I don't want that. I want help. Actual help, but I don't know how to get it. I'm just so overwhelmed. I want to be able to get on with my life. I want to be able to be a kid while I still have the chance, to be able to laugh with my friends and have it not be fake. I want to be able to act stupid and mess up while it still doesn't matter.

I'm not sure exactly what my question is, except for a cry for help.

hey, well since the only person you seem to open up to is your boyfriend then i would suggest that he goes to a therapist and finds out how he can help you. tell him to let the therapist know that hes willing to pay for the help, but that he has to do it because you act normal in front of everyone but him. good luck and i hope that all goes well.

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I wanted to apply to this school and i went to myb school and asked them to send my transcript and i sent my application but i have this thing about people doing htings for me because in the past i have had officials mail things for me before and they sometimes came up saying that the facility never got them. But anyway i wanted to make sure everything went where it was supposed to go so i waited until the next week and i begin calling the school to see if they got it maybe i called like 15 times since today and i always got the answerinf machine and i left messages and they didn't call me back but i finally got through today and i was told my transcript was never recieved do yo t hink i was wrong for calling so many times and would you have been annoyed if i had left that many messages on your phone?

hey, yes i would. you should leave one brief message but with all the facts. leaving multiple messages just showed that you were immature and that is probably why they didnt take action.

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My friend, who lacks a computer, has turned to me for advice. She is an underage smoker (I disapprove too, but keep reading) who has been having sinus problems and illnesses. She wants to go to a doctor and be honest about her smoking because it may be related to her problems. However, her parents don't know she smokes and she would like to avoid them finding out. Are there any services in the Northern California (around San Francisco) Bay Area that she could get to? I heard about these last year, but they only said checkups for STDs etc. Thank you.

hey, well i live in massachusetts. but here the doctors cant tell your parents unless its abuse.

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I have been singing for a couple years now.. but my voice its still in training.

My question is, how do you make an airy voice stronger?

Thanks

hey, start up singing lessons.

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