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Q: these sites i'm going on for music codes are just playing on my windows media player and i don't know how to get the code from it. Can anyone help me..please?

Right click the song, and click "Properties" Then look for "URL" and copy and paste the url thats there.

Q: what are some good truth and dares for when you play truth or dare??

go to http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=295057 and http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=287572 and http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=170000 ...that should help you out!

Q: okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy?

His looks(if hes tall, nice eyes, nice hair, if hes cute!), personality, makes the girl laugh, stuff like that.

Q: um.. ok i go to a catholic school and i'm going through rough times. i know many of my friends who've cut themselves well i was doing my s.studies project and i was using sharp scissors and i was questioning myself if it would go through my skin b/c the last time i had i tried to cut myself it didnt work.. well this time it did. so know i have 3 cuts on my arm, i seriously regret doing it, i showed my mawmaw and im never doing it again BUT i have a passion play tommorow and i'm afraid that my religion teacher will see it.. should i be afraid or is there any tips to hide it b/c a big band-aid will be noticable. thanks for the help
13/f

well just wear a sweater or jacket in class!!!

Q: for my b-day i got thes iron-on rhinestones, where you can put them on denim, and they come in shapes and words, like stars and circles, and words like 'hot', 'sweet' and 'sexy', or you can make your own designs. i have two questions. 1. would they look better on a jean jacket, or jeans, and 2. what other designs would be a good idea?

I would say Jeans Jacket. You could put cool looking stars, hearts, put stuff like xoxo...maybe put your name! Oh and dont do it on jeans unless its a small heart or star...because it would look weird on jeans if you had a huge design on it. Hope i helped..

Q: ok, at school last week, this guy i used to like (i dont like him anymore) was in my class, and i went over to talk to him, because we're friends, but he gave me this weird look, and then kinda ignored me. Then, i found out he had blocked me on aim, but unblocked me when i asked him to. he said it was becasue my icon was messing up his aim thing, which actually might be true, because my aim has been doing that, but i dont know if i should believe him. do you think he just found out about me liking him and wanted to ignore me? if so, what should i do?

Icons dont mess up aim. If he wants to ignore you, then leave him alone. I know you like him, but I'm pretty sure there are hotter, nicer guys out there who like you back. So just forget about him and look for new guys!

Q: omg.. i cry over the smallest things.. but then they turn into big things... its not cool.. like i get all mad at something then i take it out on someone... then they hate me and wont talk to me... then all i do is cry.... what do i do to not do this....?????????

Its normal. Your a teenage girl, your hormores are raging....I had that stage and am still going through it now. Just catch yourself before you say something mean and walk away. Eventually you'll figure out how to control it.

Q: There's this guy that I recently met at play practice at my school (he's the lead). I've talked to him a few times and he seemes like he trys to find ways to talk to me, like commenting on a band tee I was wearing, and another shirt I was wearing. Or over hearing some joke I recite (from Dane Cook) and laugihing and coming into the convo (which i don't mind). I saw him on 'myspace' and added him and we talked online yesterda and he said i have great eyes and stuff lkike that. he's wicked cool and funny and cute. he's a junior. im a freshmen. I just want to know if i should take those comments and whatnot as "signals" or just as something he said. Any adivice? Gracias

Yes, their signals. Just keep talking to him, and flirt...and get him intrested you even more. Maybe he'll ask you out..who knows. Good luck!

Q: hey i was woundring if theyre is anythingi can do to stop popping my knuckles , its just a habbit , i dont it all the time , and what dose it to to your hands?

It gives you arthritus(sp?) when your older! I dont know how to stop but I know it gives you arthritus.

Q: for myspace, i want music but not the music video..does anyone know any really good sites where I can get backround music?

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=NuMbA1_MuSiC_sOuRcE

Once you find the URL you want, under "About me" put this code in: *bgsound src="URL of song here"autoplay="true"loop="infinite"* (Replace first * with < and last * with >

Q: for my myspace i want to put music in there, but I already have a layout code pasted under 'interests' and it doesn't work when I paste them both there. Is there any way I can keep the layout and add music? Please don't suggest www.pimpmymyspace.com because I already went throught that.Thanks!

Or under "About me" put this code in: *bgsound src="URL of song here"autoplay="true"loop="infinite"* (Replace first * with < and last * with >. You need a music url, if you need to know what that is/how to get them..ask me

Q: Ok I use Limewire and whenever I try to download certain songs (Mockingbird for example, it says file was corrupted) no matter how many different ones I try to download. Does this happen to anyone else and what can I do about it? I love that song.

Sorry about your problem, I dont know how to fix it. But for now go here! xanga.com, search blogrings for "music codes" and listen there!

Q: just for a little update: i go to a therapist for other reasons and my mom had to go with me this week. it turns out that my mom is starting to get a little mad about her not coming.. (i forgot to mention that shes my stepsister, but ive known her for about 9 years now so i just get so used to calling her my sister) hopefully my sister will relize whats going on and how i feel now. thanks for helping. =]

Thanks for the update. If you need any more help just ask!!

Q: does anyone know any websites where i can get free sheet music for piano?

My cousin wanted me to search for FREE sheet music online, and I would never get anything. They always say its free on the site but then you see it say like 2.99 or 5.99 and your like okay? I couldent find anything, but try google...but be careful. 90% arent REALLY free.

Q: what are some good "truths" and "dares" for "truth or dare"?!

Whats the most you have gone with a guy/girl, Have you ever had sex, have you ever had a "bad" dream..umm anything sexual works for this game ! Thats why you play it!

Q: ok this may take a while but it's worth it. i have this guy friend, he's a sophomore and i'm a senior. we get along really well - we have a brother/sister relationship. i've liked him for a while and he likes me, except there are a few problems:
-we tried being more than friends for a little bit (hanging out, making out, etc.) but it didn't work out, i ended it, but i'm not sure why
-he's looking for a more physical relationship while i'm looking for a more emotional one
-if we went out and my friends found out, they'd kill me. they'd do everything they could to get us to break up because not one of them likes him
-i don't want to lead him on if i'm just gonna hurt him again
i know i may have left some things out. if you need more info just ask and i'll add it. thanks so much :)

Forget about your friends. Their not really your friends if their going to try to break you up! Right? And well before you go out talk to him about what your worried about : how he wants a physical relationship and you want an emotional one. and how you dont want to lead him on. I'm sure you'll come up with ways to work things out if you just talk about it. Good luck! Sorry if I didnt help much!

Q: Me and my boyfriend have been dating like almost 15 months and we are getting to the more intense sexual side our relationship, but i have something i had never told him. I was raped at a young age and I dont know if he will be able to tell. I always told him i was a virgin. Do you think I that would be concidered lying even though it wasnt consensual? And do you think I should tell him I really need some help.

Its not lying, You didnt lose your virginity when you were raped. Because you did not want that to happen. So dont worry, just dont say anything and if you do have sex..and he asks about it..then tell him. But you dont have to say anything if he doesnt ask.

Q: my hair is naturally a very dark brunette and i had it highlighted goldish-blondish. its starting to grow out now and i need some ideas for when i get it done next time. if you could give me websites (besides google) and maybe if you know alot about hair some ideas of your own. i kinda like reese witherspoons brunette color and maybe that with like an ash colored highlights? im open to any ideas though.

thanks*

Okay before I had my hair done last month, I was used to the goldish-blondish highlights but I wanted a change. I asked for the same goldish blondish highlights but with red highlights as well. It turned out great. I totally suggest doing it!

Q: what is a good way to get a flat stomach?

Sit ups and crunches. Dont drink sodas, juices, dont eat snacks..dont eat anything with lots and lots of sugars!

Q: I no I probably seem pathetic but...what does hor mean? And what does ho mean? Is ho spelt right or is it whoe? I am just wondering b/c I no it means like something along the lines of like a slutty dummy but like what exactly does it mean? Me and my friend were passing out babysitting flyers and these guys in a car came up to us in their car and yelled ho (whoe or w/e). So plz just tell me what it means. No rush, just whenever. THANKZ! :-)