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Okay I have a b/f and hes goin into High Skewl and im still in 8th grade. Im 13 and hes 14 and alot of my friends and sum of his friends think that we'll make it thru the first year. He thinks that we'll last at least half the year. But i dont think we will last, is that wrong???
I mean i love him soo much and i really Dont wanna lose him. i wanna make it last but its gonna be really hard for him in High skewl with all the new gurlz and stuff! Please HELP me!!! Oh yea is there a way i could make it last and if so HOW??? PLEASE tell me!
-Kaila

well savor the time you guys have together. Dont always be together you guys will get sick of eachother. Dont make out right away save it for like a really good time for the both of you. And dont always be kissing b/c you'll get bored and you'll be like forced to take things to a level you might not want to. If hes a good guy he wont ditch you for some girl in the high school. If he did dump you for another girl, hes a jerk and you dont need him, but he sounds like a good guy so you shouldnt have to worry. Everyone feels nervous about lasting or not here and there so basically just keep things new and exciting and stuf.. just you have to believe in this relationship if you worry so much about breaking up you wont enjoy

1. your life
2. the time you guys are having together

see what i mean? you'll be fine sweetie just enjoy life and relax. Dont over analyze. Nuah xoxo

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heyy im 13 and i was wondering how can i start a good converstation with my boyfriend on the phone

ask him what hes doing, what hes up to. If you guys are really meant for eachother, things will come flying out of your mouth. Haha.. it should be natural. Idk.. talk about music, whats on tv, u can do it girly :-D

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hey... i like this guy but he doesnt like me back what should i do?

try becoming friends with him. Friendships before relationships. If you guys already are friends become REALLY close invite him over alot, etc. But since he doesnt like you back dont freak him out and be all over him all the time. This is the only way you can try making him like you, b/c he may know more about you and want to give things a shot.

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hey guys! does anyone have any really cute unique babie names for (both boy and girl) that you like/kno of?! i need help thinkin of some very cute ones for my sister-in-law! i'm going to be a aunt! please answer quick.. ill rate high! :)

first of all, congrats!!Second sry there are none for you to read right here but BabyNames.com has the best most unique names. Try it im sure you'll find something you like. And there are searches to look up certain names with different origins.

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how do you know when a guy wants to kiss you? (guys and gurls answer this!) what are some signs and if i can tell he does should i just make the move or wait for him to? give me some help on kissing! muah** lol thanks!

make the move! Basically if you guys are being flirty back and forth he wouldnt mind a kiss. If hes n0t really into you as far as flirty and happy and all that dont g0 for it. And if your going out just kiss him with no hesitation, for crying out loud its your boyfriend and he should be up for that... LOL i dont know many guys who dont like to kiss.

good luck [sweet

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what do skater guys like in gurls?

first off any1 whos not a total jerk will go for personality first, but your probably sick and tired of hearing that. Every skater guy may skate but they're all different. But im saying for the most part... a girl who skates would probably be attractive to them but who knows, right?!? Haha.. i think any girl who sk8 boards is awsome. Good luck sweets, hope you find the 411 your looking for. :-D

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Well, me and this guy have been messing around for the past 5 monthes and we went out the first two but then we broke up. Now, he's got a girlfriend and is still messing around with his other X. He tells me he loves me but its just better the way things are. The last time we went out, i broke up with him because i liked it when we were just messing around..but now, I really want to be with him. I just know i'll get hurt. I don't know what to do he knows i love him but he doesn't know i want to be with him for real. How do I talk to him??

i dont see much purpose in talking to this guy. Stop focusing on talking to him and start focusing on getting him out of your head, try hanging out with a different group of guys that arent players. Seriously i can guarentee the guy you just described will break your heart, he knows he can just use you. Sweetheart, maybe your ready to be in love be he sure is not. So id say move ahead and get some better things distributed in your life. Good luck xoxo

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Sorry guys.. I wasnt sure what to put it under.. But... Thursday i go for my road test.. and I'm extremely nervous.... and I know when the day comes I'm going to like freak out.. and I have a feeling i'm going to do bad... I drive really good. But when I'm with people I dont know I tend to make stupid little mistakes... What can I do to keep myself calm while i'm taking my road test...

Clear your mind and focus. Stop stressing. Realize right now that in order to take this road test you cant go in nervous! Worrying so much will give you an automatic failure. So clear your mind. Eat a good breakfast, and get tips from a parent or a friend who just recently took a road test and passed. When you get in that car have the mind of a 3 year old. Calm and carefree. Of course you cant not care about everything all together but do only what you are told and nothing more. Dont have anything going through your mind besides what needs to be.

good luck hope ive helped!!

xoxxoxoox sweets

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Ok, last year I dressed very plain. Just tee shirts and jeans. Kinda boring. Does anyone have any advice on how to spice up my look?

Try v-cut shirts and mini skirts. You wanna really spice it up? Try leg warmers with cute little skirts. Its different and its a refreshing new look to show people who you really are. Try wearing neon colors and sparkly stuff. Good luck, hope it turns out good.

xoxoxooxox

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We've been going out for 2 years and her birthday's coming up. What should i do?

take her on the beach for a romantic picnic and afterwards take a really long walk. As far as a gift, get her a pretty ring and maybe a necklace to match. Tell her you love her, and write up 100 reasons why, and give it to her. Trust me buddy, you will be one happy man.

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Ok, my mother left me and my father abandoned me when I was younger. We were on vacation in ocean city and now I'm here alone. I DONT KNOW WHAT THE HECK TO DO! HELPPPPPP! :'(

you need to find your relatives and go live with them or find out what to do from there. Im debating whether or not this is a joke but in the case that it isnt, im wishing you lots of luck.

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My girlfriend is moving three states over for 6 months because of family problems but will for sure be back by then. She says she wants to continue dating while shes gone but i dont know if i can do that. We would only beable to talk on the phone and maybe i could drive over a few times. Anyone else had a long distance relationship? Whats it like, what do you have to do to make it work?

basically long distance relationships are based on trust. Do you guys trust eachother enough not to mess around with other people? If you love her enough you probably wont be questioning whether or not you want to stay with her. As long as you can drive to see her and talk to her on the phone alot it will actually strengthen your relationship because by the time she comes back you will appreciate her so much more and time you spend with her will be such a gift.

i say stay with her. good luck xoxo

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Does anyone know any websites for diary's? (Anything besides xanga or live journal)

www.blurty.com

good luck xoxo

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My husband and I are adopting a cat today from the Humane Society. The cat is 4 years old, and has not been declawed. I feel it would be inhumane to do declaw her, but I am worried about her scratching my furniture, and me as well. Does anyone have any alternitives to declawing, or how to prevent her from scratching the furniture.

And any other tips for a new cat owner would be appriciated.

Hello, yes it is true that it does hurt a cat to declaw them, but your furniture is also important. The alternative is to get her nails trimmed every week or so. You can even do it yourself, just ask the people at the Society to show you how to do it. I clip my cats nails with a regular nail clipper. It's very thoughtful of you to be thinking this over and Im sure your kitty will appreciate it ! Alot of times kittens are the ones that scratch things up and get all hyper so the fact that the cat is four will help also. Also, be sure to purchase a scratching post so that your cat can get all its scratching out on that, they can be found at a pet store or I'm sure even Walmart has it in the pet section. If infact you do find your cat is scratching your furniture up despite everything you try, it might be a good idea to get her declawed.

hope you enjoy your new kitty!
:-D

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hey. i need some help. i like this older guy & he flirts w/ me n stuff. but anyway, he always says he wants to hook up. like 2day when i saw him he was like do u wanna go make out? i really want too cause i like him alot but my problem is he is so expierenced and im not!!!!

WELL truth be it making out doesnt require technique. It doesnt. I sware. Just do Xactly what you see them do in the movies, lean in, close your eyes.. and there you go. Its really no big deal. But before you guys hook up you need a relationship going on. Go out with him first, dont do things that create a bond when your not even in a full relationship. B/c what would happen when you did go out one day.. there would be more expected of you good luck xoxo

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ok im moving ... im painting my room dark purple and light purple ... but i have no clue what colors to paint my bathroom .... here are some of my fave colors

- green
- purple
- pink
- blue
- yellow
- black

p.s i dont just wanna paint it i wanna paint some cute stuff LOL

Anggie

ok lemme see. Hm, hm, hm. Paint the bathroom pink and do like a strawberry border. Make the pink like watermelon color pink and tie in some red and lots of strawberrys!! that would be really really cute good luck and have fun. xoxooxoxoxoxoxoxoxxoxooxoxooooxoxoxoxoxooxox

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My boyfriend has been private schooled all of his life but now this year 4 HS his parents have decided 2 let him go 2 a public school. I am in a public school and I know the temptations that public school has. Well, my boyfriend's going 2 a different HS than me and I'm just worried about him. He's going 2 a school known 4 gangs and stuff, and first off, I don't want him getting involved in anything stupid... and then I'm also concerned about him meeting other girls and then losing interest in me. Wut can I say 2 him, or wut can I do so I stop worrying about all of this?

Just take your mind off it all. If he loves you, and if hes true, then he wont do anything of the sort. Just say he didnt go to public school, he could have met a girl anywhere else and proven just as low. Stop worrying, and if you think hes the type to get into trouble or find another girl, break up with him now hes not even worth your time. I know how it feels hun, i would feel the same way, but you have to take it easy and everything will be fine. Good luck babe!xoxo

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ok well about a week ago ii got braces and on my bottom lip inside i have like this sore from them and the dentist sed i would for a few days but it hurts REALLY bad wen my braces hit it or i smile and i dont know what to do help!!!!

get some wax to put in there so that its not scraping up your whole mouth. Braces stink! sRy babe, but they wont hurt forever. Just eat soups till your mouth softens up and it doesnt hurt so bad. If you dont like soups even salads wont hurt too much. Puddings are good for snacking. Good luck babe xoxo

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Hey Everybody!!
Well...I'm engaged now, and I'm starting to plan my wedding. I'm not sure of my color theme yet...but I know that it'll most likely be on the beach, in the summer...mainly around July or Aug. My dress will be either off white or white. My question is...does anybody have an suggestions about colors on bridesmaids or..other things such as decoration. Thank ya'll soo much.

Colors for brides maids. Hmm.. Gold could be really pretty and would kinda go with the flow. For decoration... Hmm i think the beach sounds nice, also did you ever consider getting married on a boat? Just a thought. Well getting married is such a fun important part in your life! Best wishes, hope you and your new husband have a wonderful life together.

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My name is Leah....

Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month.. but we went out before 4 four months...
Me n hym are in love like so much!! n we r perfect for eachother b.c we know everything about eachother... but
LAST NIGHT... I was on the fone w/ My friend Adam n then My friend who was sleeping over...((Lisa)) wanted to talk to ((MIke, my boyfriend)) b.c. they r tight... n i was like go head idc.. cuz i wus on the fone w/ Adam n he was leaving tommoroe...

Well i wusnt flirting w/ Adam... but to all my friends (( guy n girl )) i say I love you... but not the same way i love Mike...

Well since my friend, Lisa was on the fone... w/ mike... He heard me say i love you to Adam... he started getting pissed at me cuz he thought i was flirting w/ Adam....

So wen i talked to hym later that night im like Wait, r u mad at me..?? Mike is like ya... u were flirting w/ Adam.... i wus like no i wasnt!! hes like YeaH! im like no!! im like w.e . since u dont belive me i gues im a liar....
well i broke up w/ Mike that night b.c. i though that since we r going into jr. high this year... n since he thinks that i was flirtng by saying I love you to adam.. then i thought.. we needed a break....
do u think i was right to take a lil Break... n do u think i shoudl go back out w/ Mike.. b.c i rly love hym n hes the sweetest guy i have eva known n he treats me like a queen... n he loves me soo much!! n i love hym.. but sumtimes i like being single.. but every time i think of Mike i am always liike omg i miss hym i love hym soo much!!

PLEASE HELP ME!!
xOx-Leah...

id go back with mike. You really need him, tell him your sorry and just want to start over new. Make sure he knows tho that you say i love you to all your girl/guy friends... thats important. Good luck HuNNy... hope everyhting turns out on the uPpP side.

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