Well, me and this guy have been messing around for the past 5 monthes and we went out the first two but then we broke up. Now, he's got a girlfriend and is still messing around with his other X. He tells me he loves me but its just better the way things are. The last time we went out, i broke up with him because i liked it when we were just messing around..but now, I really want to be with him. I just know i'll get hurt. I don't know what to do he knows i love him but he doesn't know i want to be with him for real. How do I talk to him??
Bianca answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 6:04 pm: well maybe u should call him and be like i think we should hang out because its beter to do things in person rather than online because online u never know the persons facil expresoin and if theres other people there and on the phone some one could hang up on u so what i suggest is that yall hang out in person and that u tell him about how u feel and how u dont wanna just be friends and mess around and that u wanna go steady or what exactly it is what u want cas it cant hurt to tell him and if he still dosent break up wth his g/f and ask u out then it maybe wasnt ment to be [ Bianca's advice column | Ask Bianca A Question ]
xxoBriannax answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 5:02 pm: Talk to him.
OxiiMaLLeaRzxO answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 3:53 pm: heyy girl.. well look the first thing you need to think bout is if he is really who you want.. make sure there are no other guys in your life and once thats all cleard up then you go to the guy you wanna be with and sit him down IN PERSON and simply explain to him how you feel.. keeping that bottled inside wont do you any good, you gotta let him know you love him and he IS what you want.
the_haha_boat answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 3:53 pm: I dont think it would be a very good idea to get involved with this guy. If you must keep fooling around then just do that. If he cheats on his girlfriend with you then hes gonna do the same to you. good luck w/ whatever you do [ the_haha_boat's advice column | Ask the_haha_boat A Question ]
xForeverxForgottenx answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 3:47 pm: try setting him down and explain to him that you want to be with him and you dont want to get hurt and you think that you eventually will but you still really really want to be with him. if you really love him then you should try to make it work again. hope i helped. [ xForeverxForgottenx's advice column | Ask xForeverxForgottenx A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 3:47 pm: i dont see much purpose in talking to this guy. Stop focusing on talking to him and start focusing on getting him out of your head, try hanging out with a different group of guys that arent players. Seriously i can guarentee the guy you just described will break your heart, he knows he can just use you. Sweetheart, maybe your ready to be in love be he sure is not. So id say move ahead and get some better things distributed in your life. Good luck xoxo [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
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