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I have liked this guy for a year. He said he liked me and to wait till summer so we can be together. Well its summer and he still never asked me out or anything. Hes hurt me soo many times. I met this other great guy and i think we have something. And I know that he'll never hurt me. I dont know who to like!!! (link)
Be with the guy that won't hurt you.You don't want a broken heart which is very hard to repair. Takes some time for it to heal. You'll probably find yourself tearing up papers with his name on it. The guy that didn't ask you out for the summer well if he really did like you he would of made his move. Go for the other guy because if you don't another girl will take him don't lose the chance its very hard to find a nice guy like looking for a ghost.Tell the guy you really like him and would like to go out with him.Go for it!


15/f if that helps..
The other day I was changing because I had just gotten out of the shower. My best friend (a guy) was coming over. I was just in my bra & underwear when he got to my house. My mom let him go to my room, because there hasn't been anything going on with us in the past, so she's not concerned. Well, he opened the door and saw me in just my undergarments. It's really not a big deal. but he's acting all weird about it like "hehehe i saw your underwear" and won't let it go. he didn't even apologize when he saw me he just like stared for a minute. SO how can I get him back to acting normal?!?!?! He is being such a jerk and won't cut it out.
If anybody has any advice as to get him to stop acting to stupid please, do tell!!!
thanks (link)
What you should do is find out something that he wouldn't want people to know about like something embrassing. Investigate so when he will start with his very immature attitude you should get him back.By bothering him too with what you find out bad about him he will probably stop.Or try talking to him that you feel upset and it really hurts that he makes fun of you and that he wouldn't like it if you did the same to him.Or ignore him or don't hang out with someone like that he is so not a friend there are other people who won't do that to their buddies.That boy should grow up!


i dance at a studio and we are lookin for a fun song to dance to like something thats everyone will feel.it cant be anything from the radio though, i mean lyk a lil older songs but not too old. anybody have any suggestions? ill rate high for good answers!thanx! (link)
I know some good songs like Badaboom,Love Don't Cost a Thing,Get it Poppin,Get it on Tonite,Peaches and cream,1thing.


hello, i was wondering if anyone had any beauty tips like homemade face masks or homemade hairdye, anything i wouldnt have to buy

sry about the category i couldnt find the right one (link)
I know some things you should apply for your face like apricot scrub,Dove cleansers,Oil Free Acne Wash,something called Jafra which removes oil.For the hair use Frizz Miracle.There are other ones for the hair like gels which is called Frizz Zero,Loreal,and you should order Samy's products I heard there very good and work like a charm!That guy is very famous which brought outstanding results.Don't waste time use one of these!


well this kid likes me and i only like him as a friend and he asks me out all the time..n i tell him i just want to b friends, he doesn't get the hint that there wont b anything more between us..what should i tell him that maybe he'll understand a lil better?? (link)
What you should tell this boy that you don't have feelings for him and that others girls who would want to go out with him. Try to hook him up wtih another girl who shares his same interests and that's not bad looking for him.Get help from a family member or a friend of yours.Tell him you don't want to lose the friendship and you're better off being friends and that going out with a friend is weird and to just stop insisting.One last thing if he respects you he'll respect your decision also mention that to him.


ok i do about 300 sit ups a night and im not feeling "the burn" lol that sounds kinda weird

i was just wondering if there is any other way i can work my abs...
i kno they're machine for doing sit ups...but i dont have any of them and i dont really feel like buying them...i just wanna do something i can do right in my room...on the floor...in minutes....

i just wanna work my abs more (link)
I know about working out abs there is something called a stomach vacuum.First,inhale deeply fom your diaphragm,pulling your stomachinward while clenching your butt cheeks to get a tighter squeeze.Second,hold your breath for a five second count,then exhale for ten seconds,releashing the tension.This will train muscles to become shorter,flatter. Do two sets of six reps.Another move called oblique twists hold a weighted body bar or a broom behind your head with toes pointed forward supported by your outstretched arms.First contract your abs slowly twist your torso to the right and left.Second,do three sets of 10 reps.I know this stuff about workout ask me other moves I'll tell you.


i am a girl and my brother is 2 years younger and we always get in fights. ALWAYS. its getting annoying now cause we fight about EVERYTHING. we also in general annoy eachother like if we are in the car and he pinches me so i will hit him. and yeah we like REALLY HURT eachother. so i want this to stop... please try to help and if you do i will rate you a 5!! (link)
What you should do is speak to your parents to go to therapy so they can help or counseling I told someone that too. I have a brother who has a friend who goes to therapy so he could get help in his social problem and his stress. It certainly helped him he seems more happier and has a lot of confidence.For now try to not go near him for a while and least have the least conversation. Try not to answer back just not to have have another fight.Believe me there are another brothers and sisters who get into arguements and fights.I have two brothers and we don't fight but hardly we may have some disagreements that's all like all people in life.


when i go to sleep and have my period sometimes blood stains through my pants what can i do to prevent that? (link)
What you should do is wear pads for the night with wings and put some tight shorts to go to sleep and sleep by one side. That's what I do and if you feel uncomfortable try sleeping the other side and drink advil if you're feeling pain. I guarantee it'll work just follow what I told you. I certainly recommend that to all females with that problem.


My ex boyfriend and I still have feelings for each other. The only reason we broke up was because of an Instant Messanger Misunderstanding since someone always goes on his screenname. Well, he has a girlfriend who he only likes as a friend (which I think he got to make me jealous.) He and I want to get together but I'm afraid I'm going to get hurt? So should we keep ourselves a secret, should we tell his girlfriend about us, or should I just tell him its not a good idea? We really like each other. So any advice would be great. I'll rate 5's for Helpful advice. (link)
If you too really like each other don't let your happiness go away. Tell him to tell his girlfriend that it is you who he want's to be with and she will understand. You shouldn't keep it a secret you'll regret it because you let someone get into what you really care about just not to hurt someone always have this in mind happiness is the most important thing in life.Go for what you want the only way to get something like a guy is to make it happen. You're not doing anything wrong you are someone who wants to be with someone who also thinks the same that's all and you'll also feel good about yourself!


Okay every year i get clothes from the mall picking things from like JC pennys and Macys and some from Aero but my mall doesnt have alotta fine clothes. This year i wanna be on top with the new teen fashions. So heres my (2) questions Is finding clothes over the net better for me? And if so does anyone know any good clothes sites? ** with good deals? (or am i asking to much.. ** lost & confused~ thanx (link)
When ordering something you also have to pay shipping and handling remember that. Also you'll have to wait a little long well it actually depends where the order is from. But if you want to go to the net you could shop at ebay another thing is you'll need a credit card hope that's not a problem. Another option go shopping to stores like Liz Caliborne,Eckerd,Necessay Clothing,or Rainbow.etc...When I go shopping sometimes I even travel to another state just to get fine clothing people don't have makes you stand out in public but I do go with my family once in a while. Choices I told you are optional people always like what I wear that shows I'm a good shopper pretty cool huh?


I got sunburn on my cheeks about a week ago and now it's starting to peel. The problem is It's coming off in tiny peices so when I try to get it odd I pull the little hairs on my cheek...is there anyway to get rid of the dead skin without purchasing anything. (I have no loofah.) Exfoliating tips??

Thanx I'l rate appropriately! (link)
You do need to purchase something but don't worry its cheap you could just go to the pharmacy and buy cocoa butter or vaseline use it every single day.Use Neutrogena sunblocker so this won't happen again or they have other sunblockers to avoid it as well. You'll definitely see results with what I told you.Use my advice you won't regret it!


I'm going to high school as a freshman.. and I was just wondering, what will the first day be like? Please help, I'm so nervous! (link)
I was a freshman before I know what's it like
Just have confidence in yourself don't worry. You'll see a lot of people in the hallway looking at their program card they'll be so focused on it because they will be looking for their classrooms. Just sit in your seat and relax even I was nervous. At the first week start a conversation of how they see the school and make friends. Observe the teacher if you get too nervous try to sit in the back where it feels more comfortable. If you have trouble finding your class ask someone to help you. You'll be full of papers to be signed by your parent and a lot of traveling you'll get used to it.School could be a fun place if you have friends.Good Luck on your first day!


i hate myself i really do. when i look at myself i just want to end my life. i feel so ugly. and i have no friends. i never had a bf and no one ever liked me before. But that is not why i am crying. i stop caring about my uglyness. i was in my bestfriends house and she was talking to her mother about me. I guess they thought i wouldnt hear it. Her mother goes i know u feel sorry for her and all but now that you made new friends its time to let this one go. my friend goes yeah eww gosh i hate her. She smells bad and wow shes very ugly. my new friends dont like her and i just dont know how to leave her with out sounding me! wow i started to cry. that hurt so bad. the only perosn i loved and cared about hates me and never liked. she just used me!!

what do i do? how can i change for her? i need to be her friend (link)
i understand how you feel about getting betrayed because personally i got betrayed by three friends but always remember that there is no such thing as a best friend and as i was going to answer your question about what should you do is to talk to a family member that could take all this stressness out of you or get therapy and as you were saying your ugly no your not the reason why i said that is because as long as you have a nice personality thats all it counts for real and listen as far as i'm concern what that girlfriend of your's don't even be friends with her i mean she doesn't deserve to have you as a friend seriously and you know how she express yourself towards you i mean no offense but she really i mean really doesn't like and please take my advice because anyone will tell you that from the legendary warrior




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