If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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What do i do...theres this guy whos one yr older than me and he is the most gorgeaus guy ever! but he likes this grl who doesn't like him (i've talked to her about it) and i rlly like him...b/c theres more to him other than his good looks...i want him to be mine rlly badly but i dun know how to tell him b/c he might think im stupid...how do i tell him how i feel...help me!! i rlly like him (link)
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Tell him that the girl he likes doesn't like him and you're trying to save him looking like a total jackass. Tell him that you do like him though and tell him why. You won't look stupid,if he thinks you're stupid,he's an asshole. If a girl told me she liked me,I wouldn't think she was stupid.
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can a girl cum? (link)
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I sure hope so. If not,then that means they lie EVERYTIME to every guy. But seriously,girls can cum. Except they call it having an orgasm.
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Last year my step-dad was diagnosed with a brain tumor. (cancerous) And since then everything has changed-- which i expected. But i didnt expect my whole family to get so uptight about things. I mean, hes not fully cured ( never will be ) but hes still living.. i want to show them that he can still have fun!!! How do i help them understand that it would be bettter for everyone if they let him out a little more? ik.. its a weird question, but i need some advice..
~ cori (link)
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Often times people tend to baby others who are handicapped. I'm not saying your step dad is handicapped,but he definitely is not at full strength. Does it bother your step dad? If it does,then it's really his responsibilty to let them know.
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I know that i like guys, but iv always had a fascination with girls and have begun to wonder if i might be bisexual. If i was i wouldnt know how to come out and tell ppl because i would be to afraid of rejection. I hope that this fascination for girls goes away because i'm getting tired of wondering if i might actually be right! If you have any kind of advice for this difficult question please help!!!Thx
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Take it slowly. Many people have fantasies about the same sex but that doesn't make them gay or bisexual. This isn't something people just come out and admit to,so if you do have an interest in one of your friends,you need to discuss it with them privately. And you need to be sure they're mature enough to hear it. You're only bisexual if you're with a girl,you enjoy it,and you'd be willing to do it again.
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I'm thirteen and i havent had a serious boyfriend yet..is something wrong with me? (link)
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Not at all. I'm 18 and haven't had a serious girlfriend yet. It's nothing to worry about. Boys are stupid anyway.
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one night i got really drunk and i was talking to this kid justin (who wasnt drunk) then i feel asleep and i wake up and im naked and hes ontop of me on the bed and hes naked and as soon as he saw me wake up he ran into the other room...i dont no what happened really...i try to ask him and he tells me that he was just touching me he didnt like rape me or nething....but i would no if we had sex right? or if we didnt nething more...i no he put it in my mouth bc i had the taste in my mouth..but i would no rigth? please help meee
PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Gee,I wonder if he was raping you. I'd say so. He's on top of you,naked,you're naked,he gets off as soon as you wake up. Yeah he raped you. He put his cock in your mouth. Yeah this guy is a total fuckin loser who needs to get his ass beat. No you wouldn't know,if you're not a virgin. If your cherry was already popped then no,you wouldn't know.
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how do you give a lap dance? and like what are some details and moves you can tell me about it? i really need help, my boyfriend wants me 2 give him one and i want 2..please help me!!! (link)
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Just take off your clothes. It won't matter what you do after that.
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Hey. My boyfriend and I have been going out for about three months... the other day he told me that he had went to the mall with two girls that I knew in previous years, but left my school. I initially had no prob with that, because i go places with guys too.. like my friends.. and only as that. but then he told me that he was feeling guilty about something.. he says he would NEVER cheat on me, but he also said it is as bad as cheating.. first of all what should I do? Second.. what could possibly be as bad as cheating?? -megan (link)
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You need to ask him what the fuck he means by "it's as bad as cheating". Well,what was? I really don't know what he's talking about. Find out what he's talking about and decide what you'd like to do from there.
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school is startin and so is football
I really dont care for football im all basketball and a little track
i played football for 3 years and didnt really like it. but al my friends want me to play
watta ya think (8th grade) (link)
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Play only if you want to. If you don't wanna play and you're on the team,you're gunna hate it.
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My boyfriend has been smoking pot for a few years now.. and we just hooked up a lil over a month ago. I have already talked to him about it.. and he lied to me and said he quit. Then one night I was with him and he was hittin pot again.
Is there any way I can talk to him or convince him to quit or even lay off of it a lil bit without him getting mad at me? (link)
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No,your boyfriend is going to keep smoking until he decides to stop. I'm sorry,but there's really nothing you can do. You can try and convince him that weed is a gateway drug(leads to use of other drugs)but he isn't gunna stop until he feels like it. If you talk to him about this,you're a nagging and controling bitch. If you don't, you're uncaring. I see where you're coming from,but break up with him if he likes his weed.
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My sister is a lesbian, and I am good friends with her girlfriend. When I am introducing the two of them to other people I always find myself saying "this is my sister and her friend."
I know I should say girlfriend, but I never can get it out.
Is it alright if I just say friend to avoid akward moments and let coversations to contiune to flow, or do you think it is affending to my sister and her girlfriend? (link)
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This one is tough. I see where you're coming from. Most people aren't gay and it would create a lot of awkward moments. Ask your sister and her girlfriend if it bothers them that you do this. If it does,refer to the friend as girlfriend from now on. If it doesn't,then keep doing what you're doing.
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hey kan you tell me if im ugly or not? Pls Ill rate. Thanx.
~Crystal~ (link)
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Ok Crystal. E-mail me your pic.
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it seems like no guy ever likes me. its annoying because i feel like im such a decent and a good girl. i mean i play the piano, i do ballet, i work , i get good grades, im respectful, and alright looking..ive had one bf in my whole life, and that was a 1 yr relationship and we broke up 8 months ago, and since then i havent had like any other guyz or even small flings...it just seems like ill never have a decent guy that wants me.. (link)
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Join the club. No girl likes me,so I know how you feel. Just give off good vibes,smile a lot,stay upbeat,and eventually a guy will approach you. If you're attractive enough. If not,well thats a different story.
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My mom and her boy friend Daniel really have a connection between them. Do you think they might want to get married someday? (link)
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How am I supposed to answer this without more information? Based on what you told me,it could happen.
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umm this is kinda embarrassing. so im just gonna let it out...i always get a boner for like no reason..(im a guy)...ill just be sittin there and all of a sudden..ITS THERE! i dont like it. sometimes it can show. is this a problem? is it normal? im cinfused! >>ILL RATE (link)
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Involuntary erection. It's normal when you're still going through puberty. It will unfortunately eventually go away as you get older. I went through that shit too.
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Hi i'm 14 years old. I'm going to be straight foward about this lol. Sometimes when I go to the bathroom there is a white liquid that appears in my underwear. What is it? And what does it mean? Thanks for your advice. (link)
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It's vaginal discharge. It's nothing abnormal.
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ok, my boyfriend really wants me to give him a lap dance. I really want too to. lol but there is one problem......I don't know how to give it to him! I'm even a dancer and i'm pretty good too. But i don't know the right moves or anything. And i dont' wanna look stupid or inexperianced. HELP!!!!
female = 15 (link)
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Just take off your clothes. He won't care how you look dancing. I promise. Or wear really sexy lingerie. He won't care,I promise.
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hey everyone, I am 15 and I need some advice...my boyfriend of 9 months is leavin and movin to Oregon in a few weeks. I live in Florida and I wanna try to do the whole long distance thingy but I dont think that he wants to. I love him soooo much and want to be with him. Does it really work? Should couples that are in love try it? Please Help ME!!! xo0x ~manda [ aka confused]~ (link)
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Long distance sucks. You'll never see him,he'll never see you. It's sad when somebody moves,but you have to move on. I can see why he doesn't want to do long distance. You only think you're in love until the next hott guy comes along and you start going out with him. Say goodbye,cry for awhile,and get over it.
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what are some good ways to stretch??? i am a cheerleader and stretching is like the most important thing so we don't pull anything or hurt ourselves. so what are some good stretches?? help asap!! (link)
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Stretching really isn't that good for you. You're more likely to tear a muscle stretching than you are doing anything else. The best thing to do is some light running before or a little biking. Stretching just tears at your muscles.
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Well when i met him I met him (im the girl who u say my boyfriend is using me) I was 10 and he was 12 turning 13 we really arent that different in age cus im gonna be 16 in 3 days so i should say im 16 and then its not illegal, we liked eachother when he was 12 and i was 10 but we were too young and now since being friend for 6 years finally decided to go out and our 2 year anniversary is in September. He works like 13-14 hr days n he is tired usually so i dont blame him but its just like i just wanted to know if he was usin me for pussy or if it is something that he just needs like weve been havin sex for like almost a year n a half and i thought he just needs it cus hes acustom to it or something like that and to make a fact i DO really love this guy and i live with him-not that thats the reason im with him but our relationship has matured so much faster because of it we are like bound to eachother we just arent married. well r u a guy?? cus maybe u could help me with things more..since ur a guy (link)
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Yes,I am a guy. Kevin didn't tip you off huh? You obviously don't know what you're talking about when it comes to the law. It is illegal for him if he's 18 to have sex with anyone under 18. Period. Whether you're 15,16,17,17 and a half,17 and 3 quarters,doesn't matter. He probably is using you for pussy. If everything is on his schedule and you told me that he told you that if the sex ended,so would the relationship. What else would you like him to say? I know how we think. Take my advice and get out of there. You're still just a kid,act like one while you still can.
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