Um.. my name is ashley. ive got a lot of friends,and i seem to be the friend you come to for advice and you rant about your life.. yea.. I don't really know what to say.. but um. yea.
E-mail: creamycashu@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: North Carolina
Occupation: student
Age: 15
AIM: sugarcultfan55
Member Since: June 21, 2004
Answers: 92
Last Update: March 31, 2005
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i need advice..i'm a guy..and i think girls are weird..what do i do? (link)
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they arent weird, they see things in a different perspective. meerly grow out of it, youll eventually like girls, and see them as a lot different than weird
xxxASH
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Im 13 and im like 5'3 and i weigh 110.I dont know if thats normal are not but it makes me feel bad when im with guys and i sit down there is like a huge thing of fat om my stomach..and my thighs omg they are huge!!Does anyone know what i can do? (link)
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im 12 and im 5'3 and i weigh 100 pounds and my doctor told me i was unhealthily small. being your weight is normal.
my thighs r big 2 lol
xxxASH
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what is the meaning of circa in description of salary? (link)
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it means about or approximately
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well i was in gym one time and i fell off of the rope i was climbing. i hurt my arm really bad and my gym teacher told me to stretch it out. he didnt let me go to a nurse. when i got home i went to the emergency room because it hurt really bad. they x rayed it and turns out i fractured it. what should i do about my teacher? (link)
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you should report him! he should get fined for that. you can get a lotta money because he wouldnt let you see a nurse for it!
xxxASH
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hey i understand totally too about the parents my mom is a rail and so is my sis. im goin' on a diet too. i'm also doing the crunches and stuff too! good luck write to my column at the end of summer and tell ne how u did i'll do the same 4 you!
n*cheer (link)
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okay ill write at the end of the summer. i think itll work out pretty well
good luck
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?
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u need to wait! you shouldnt have a baby at least until your settled in, out of school, and on your own. 14 is way to young. you dont have money, your with your parents, and its just not cool.
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hey~
i'm 12 and weigh 155 i don't look fat AT ALL but i don't get a lot of boyfriends and i have a chubby face. at the end of my 6th grade year i weighed 160 but i started running and biking every day and lost 5 lbs. but i want to get down to at least 130i still have till august 17 any suggestions i need help i want to look HoT!!
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okay my friend is doing this to. im going into 7th grade and so is she, we're going on a diet, fruits, vegetables, and a variety of meats but NO candy and NO cake, brownies, cupcakes, etc. We arent going to any gyms but we're both doing sit ups, push ups, jump roping, riding bikes, jogging, stuff like that, cuz we cant go to a gym, parents wont understand.
hope i helped
if u find any better ways tell me, i might use them
xxxASH
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One of my best guy friends, Rob, is being really stupid and immature for lame reasons. Every time I start liking another guy and think of maybe dating him, Rob starts getting really distant and annoyed even if I don't do anything or talk about the other guy. If I so much as have a conversation with a guy that doesn't really hang out with our group much, he starts avoiding me and giving me the silent treatment. I'm 15 and a really independent girl so I normally don't put up with this crap typically but apart from his jealousy, he's extrememly fun to hang out with. But this is getting really old. Can you give me some advice on what I can do……or if I should do anything? (link)
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Simply tell him that if you want to date someone, he shouldnt be jealous because you feel like you have to make a decision and you dont want to pick from your best friend or your possible boyfriend because they both mean so much to you.
xxxASH
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ok im kinda in a bind here. there r these two guys that like me, and i have feelings for both of them. they both have qualities that i love and it seems like they are equal with positive and negative things. they both have these great qualities:
makes me laugh
football players
tall
tan
great personalities
just everything about them is perfect. how do i know how to choose the right one??
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I would just go with the one that you just feel something with, something special, i dont no how to describe it, just something the other one doesnt have, if you make the wrong choice, idk
tell me how it goes
xxxASH
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this is gonna sound really bad...please no body be offinded...but i fell in love w/ this black guy and we dated for 6 months then i moved in w/ my aunt and uncle and they wont let me date him.i think its the most stupid thing ive ever heard in my whole damn life. what should i do. (link)
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This is tough..... um... tell them that you love him and just because they are racist doesn't mean you are and tell them you wont stop seeing him....
when you decide what to do tell me
xxxASH
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ok how do u play hard to get? i want to learn how to play hard to get .. im a girl 14 help! (link)
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well, when they flirt with u, kinda act like its annoying you, dont act like u like them, dont flirt. remember, some guys dont like hard to get so be wise
xxxASH
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But id ont want to take my son away from his own dad what do i do then? (link)
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If in the end, you decide to break up with him, take your son to see him every week or so.
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I am an 8th grader going into high school next year. I keep hearing about how the seniors always pick on the freshman and I don't want to get beat up! What should I do to stay away from the seniors? I'm 14/female if that makes any difference. (link)
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theres gonna b plenty of seniors picking on freshmen, but theres gonna b lots of freshmen so just try to fit in and itll b okay
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this teacher at my school picks on me and im sick of it. he always asks me questions and laughs wen i get them wrong wot can i do (link)
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report her for laughing at u! its not right
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Sometimes everything in life seems great.
And five minutes later, it all falls down.
Lately, fewer things seem great and there doesn't seem anywhere to turn to, to escape it all.
I'm starting to drink more often than usual, and cutting my arms so that I become so dizzy that I forget about all my problems.
Some of my friends have called me depressed, but I don't think it's true. I just can't seem to feel any happiness in anything I do anymore.
Is there anything wrong with me?
I'm 15 and a female, in grade 10. (link)
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dude, u shouldnt b drinking at this age, its not cool. and about the cutting, thats really dangerous, my friend has done it, and i have done it, and it doesnt bring anything good. try zoloft or something.
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Okay I put poems on here....and you guys said be careful putting them on here or someone will steal them...how do I make it so no one can steal them?? (link)
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You cant prevent it. if u say it copywrited, they dont care.
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ok i haven't had my period yet but i have a question. When ur having ur period and your swimming, what do you wear- pads of tampons so u won't leak?
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tampons definately. pads will swell up and the wings on it will show. if you get the wingless pads then they break up in water and thats not cool.
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Whats a dildo ( is the spelling correct ?? ) I'm sorry for this weird q , but some of my friends talk about it and i don't know what it is , and i don't want to seem dumb . =) thanks .... (link)
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ok im gonna answer this plain and simple
a dildo is a fake penis
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if you kiss a guy and you both have braces will they get stuck together for sure or just maybe? (link)
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I honestly doubt they would get stuck. I mean, if you tried really hard to get them stuck im sure they would but i dont think they will.
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I did it with my dog last week. He's good at it, but can I get pregnant from doing it with a dog? Could my babies be deformed? Could I get sick from doing this? (link)
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Your dog? um.. no comment! thats just nasty!
no u cant get pregnant
if you could ur babies would b really deformed, but its not possible
and yes u can get sick
o by the way, really nice prank. uve got sum sick ideas though
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