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well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.

well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.

on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!


well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.

my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.

well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata

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Okay. i just broke up with my man coz it was waaaaaaaay too serious a relationship. i'm 17 him 18 me a virgin him a well a slut. he was always wanting serious conversations and we started fighting coz i'd joke aroud too much and 'hurt his feelings' so yeah. i dumped him. now i want a guy that is fun and stuff but i have no way to meet one! i'm out of school with a full time - 6days a week- job so i barely even have time for my friends. it sux! how can i meet a fun guy??? i know i'll be fine in july coz it's my 18th so i can actually go night clubbing. but what do i do in the meantime? does anyone know a place where heaps of guys hang out? plz help i rate!

no i don't know where a heap of guys hang out. i think you should take these months till you can go night clubbing to have your own space and if you can't handle being single then thats just weird. so just take sometime and think about your life and have fun with your girlfriends and your job.

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Theres a boy whos in one of my classes and hes definitely `the class clown`. The problem is sometimes hell yell out my name and other girls in my classes names out loud and pretend to do very innapropriate things with his pen, whatever is around! Im serious. Today he started humping the air and was like uhhhh and was like your so hot "Kirsten" *name is changed* Its really funny but is this sexual harrassment? thanks.

i think sexual harrasment is when sum one touches you inopropreate.there is also harrasment with words, but i don't think hes doing anything wrong. but if it makes you feel bad then you should tell your teacher.

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Ive asked my gf to make out and she said yes, and one time we were at the movies and we went behind a building and i was ya still wanna make out and she said yes. so i said im kinda nervous, she said the same because we both havnt made out before. so how should i start just making out.

lol wow thats a funni question. you don't ask the girl if you wanna make out you just lean in closley and slowley and if she wants to make out with you then she will move in with you and you just start uhhh making out.

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ive been back and forth with my mom and dad. I seem to only cause problems. im 13 and im tired of hurting people in dec i tried to commit suicide by cutting 3 of my veins and i jumped off a 3 story building i hate putting people through misery so my next idea is to run away, but are there any other options, and i have tried talking i just did but its not workin so pleaze dont say talk to your mom cuz it aint happinin and no rude comments either

well don't run away it will just make things worst. try and stay away from both of your parents if you seem to cause problems. and don't commit suicide that will only make the peeps you leave suffer.

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I have problems. I always do. The problem is that i try to make people feel sorry for me so that they'd go on my side and so that they wont be mean to me anymre. Is this right to do? My "friend" saw throught that and said that "Your pathetic man, you really are". Am i really?

no its not right and your not pathetic but your friends will think it is. just keep your problems to yourself. or atleast try. YOUR NOT PATHETIC.
hope i helped
*airhead*

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I need advice on how to make cleaning my room fun... it's so boring and i just hate doing it. My room is large, and there is stuff all over it. Any ideas to make cleaning it more fun? and maybe easier? Thanks very much! I'll rate good ideas!

well i'm not going to tell you to through everything in the closet or under the bed. put some fast moving music on that always helps me or watch tv or talk on the phone while your doing it. you can't make it faster but it will seem like time flys if you do one of those things i just told you

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i have a small problem. i like sex. i like it alot. i almost feel i need it like air. i know its kinda like a drug, it can be addictive, but i dont care. im a male slut, bigtime. is there a sexaholics annonmous? i mean, i know love making is best...you know, when your dating or in love with someone, but it's like i wanna screw everything in sight! help!!

hmmmm it would help if i new how old you are. but i will try anyways. its normal for guys to think about sex. i have a lot of guy friends that tell me that an average guy thinks about sex every 6 seconds thats kind of creepy. i'm sure you will grow out of it. just not try and have a serious relationship right now.

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Everyone sayd first loves never die well i believe that.. I met my first love when i was 12 and i haven't forgot about him since im 17 now ! Everytime i date a different guy all i think about is him.. When i was 15 we started dating again.. But his parents made us break up because he was too old for me or so they said..Anywayz now i haven't seen him since and i can't stop thinking about him ! What should i do because i don't have his # or address??

try and forget about him. take everything out of your room or binders or anything that has his name or anything about him out of your life. you will slowly start to forget about him. trust me.

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I really want to change my religion, I am a Roman Catholic I just don't believe in their thoughs and such. I am not sure what I want to be. Does any oen have any past experience? Is it like a legal thing if you want to change religions; like you have to get papers? Any help or comments or info about other religions would be greatly appreiciated!

nope of course you don't need papers they can't stop you if you want to change religions. just start going to another church. they will love to have you there.

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I've been majorly depressed since May of last year. and I went through a lot of stuff during that time, including therapy. Two days before Christmas, my boyfriend (Kyle) broke up with me and made the whole depression thing worse, until I eventually got over that.
Well, after Kyle broke up with me, this other guy that has always been there for me through anything, being kind of like an older brother, confessed that he has feelings for me. Hes the sweetest anyone has ever been to me. I love him. But, a couple weeks ago Kyle asked me back out, and I couldn't go back out with him because he broke my heart, and our relationship wasnt that great to begin with. Anyways, since then I've been really really depressed, I got the the point where I was suicidal, and I almost killed myself. I told the other guy that I can't date him now, even though I really want to, because I think I should wait until I start to get happy again. I've been seeing my schools "crisis counselor", and I'm starting to feel better...slowly but surely. And now I'm scared to get my heart broken again. I dont know what to do, because I really want to date him. I know he would wait for me until I feel realyl ready to date him, and I want to date him now...I dont know what to do though, Im just confused. Any advice?

well i think if you really like him then he will make you happy again. it shouldn't make you sad to go out with him. he should make you happy if you really love him the way you say in your help question thing. if you do go out with him know still go to that counselor person she will keep you and him happy.

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okay. i'd been with my boy for a month and i really liked him. the only problem was that we fought. all the time! about the stupidest little things. he will be upset and i'd ask what's wrong and he'd just be all 'nothing' when i knew something was wrong. then he'd say that i said or did something to upset him bet he never told me what. i got so pissed of last night that i dumped him. i live in australia so it's valentines day today and every little thing reminds me of him. i know that if i asked for him back that he would take me but i dont want to be with him. i dont think. i'm just confused. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

signed,
confused

well if you fight over the stupidest things and he won't tell you why most likly this relationship is going to go down the drain and fast. sorry but i know to many girls that have the same problems and they have no clue what to do.

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Can you skip your period and not be pregnant? In other words, if you miss a period, is the only explanation pregnancy?

nope sometimes you skip its no biggy. i would worry if you had sex though.

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ok, like 2 years ago i sprained my ankle from cheerleading and ever since then it always pop when i walk up the stairs or get finished working out. is that normal? and my wrists pop everytime i bend it back and forth, but i think it's from tumbling, but is that normal too? i was just wondering cause some of my friends have the same problem. thanx!

lol you don't have problems and its normal for cheerleaders or tumblers b/c they stretch there bones and muscles and it makes them pop out of our sockets it should stop if you don't stretch your leg ankle or wrist muscles for awhile. hope i helped
*airhead*

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I know this is stupid, but I overheard people saying my best friend went to 2nd base wiht this guy and the deal is I ahve no clue what the bases are! And I'm worried about her because I don't want people talking about her if it's bad ( if she even did it) So could you please tell me what these bases are? i'm really confused and worried.. sorry so long!!
-very confused-

well i've heard lots of different bases
first one i heard was
1st kissing 2nd head and fingering 3rd sex 4th pregnant.
second one is
1st holding hands 2nd making out 3rd head and 4th/home is sex.

hope i helped a little bit
*airhead*

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Is there a medication that can be taken for worrying and feeling anxious?

yeah but i don't know what it is. the doctor should tho.

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what are some good ways to get a boy to notice you in school?? i like this kid in school but i dont think he notices me... i need help!! thanks!

tight close big booobs (if no boobs push up bra) flirt.

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how do you know if someones telling the truth, or living a completly different life then they lead you to belive??

well you never eally know you have to fallow your heart. i have a lot of friends who i think there always lieing. its hard for me to beleave but give them a chance try and make them prove it. that always helps if they can prove it.

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I've noticed that guys that like me *and vice-versa* are a lot older than me. I'm a Freshman in High School, and a lot of Seniors like me (including one guy who just graduated). I *would* go for any of those guys, but they're all over 18! Is it illegal to date a 18+ guy without having sex?

nope

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I jus wanted to say that im IN LOVE w/ my bf and we like have only held hands we've not even actaully gone newhere yet he is REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY hot and i like drool over him!!!! Is this normal? Maddy if u answer this ? i will beet the sh!t out of u!!!!
Tess

yeah its normal you should think your b/f is hot.

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See, last night I put in my tampon at about 6:00. I wore it all night long and accidentally fell asleep with it in and wore it until 9:00 this morning. My stomach hurts a little but maybe that's because i got a little drunk last night? I dont know though, I'm scared because i've read so many things about Toxic Shock Syndrome. So what should i do? Thanks!! I rate!

i did that once it shouldn't really harm you. you may feel a little sick, but try not to do it again.

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