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Hey, I'm Brianna. I'm 18 years old. I like giving advice. I won't give you any of that petty advice like "look at the bright side." I mean really, that's wack. I hate when people tell me that. I'm here to try and help you with any of your problems. I'll give you honest advice that hopefully will get you on the path that leads to the right decision. I'm not going to sugarcoat anything. I'm going to give you straight advice. It might not be what you want to hear, but that's advice. Take it or leave it, it's totally up to you. I sign on everyday, usually a few times. So come on, drop questions into my inbox! I try my best to always get back to you within a few hours. Don't be shy, everyone needs a point in the right direction every once in awhile. :D
advice
what are some really cute love songs ?
I'll Be- Edwin McCain
I Could Not Ask For More- Edwin McCain
Amazed- Lonestar
I Don't Want to Miss A Thing- Aerosmith
Babylove- Nicole Scherzinger
All My Life- KC and JoJo
I Got You Babe- Sonny and Cher
The Way You Love Me- Faith Hill
Just Breathe- Faith Hill
Forever And Always- Shania Twain
You're Still The One- Shania Twain
I Love You- Martina McBride
How Do I Live- LeAnn Rimes
Truly, Madly, Deeply- Savage Garden
Everything I Do, I Do It For You- Bryan Adams
For You I Will- Monica
For You I Will- Teddy Geiger
Because You Loved Me- Celine Dion
and you can always google some. :D
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
I really like this guy and he has a girlfriend but regardless i justfigured out he lied to me about EVERYTHING.
so im pretyy freaking hearbroken, we were bestfriends.
so what are some good songs and quotes about like getting lied to and all that?
:] thankss
The Test- The Academy Is...
Through With You- Maroon 5
You're Not Mine- The Morning Light
Movin' Along- The Morning Light
Your Love Is A Lie- Simple Plan
You're So Last Summer- Taking Back Sunday
Number One- Skye Sweetnam
Without You- Hinder
Not Meant To Be- Theory of A Deadman
Let It Die- Three Days Grace
Believe Me I'm Lying- Forever The Sickest Kids
Also listen to Secondhand Serenade. He is a God. :)
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
does anyone know a good photo editor that is free ? one where you can change the colour of the pic, borders, blur things out, etc. basically everything possible...
thanks
♥ Sabina xox
http://www.picnik.com/ I use that site all the time. It's really neat. :)
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
This problem with my friends is not resolving and it's just getting bigger. your advice was really good and i thank you a lot. Now its getting worse though and just recently a few days ago i was talking to one of my friends. I dont know why she was doing this. I was trying to help her in math class and i guess she got mad at me and she was giving me an attitude. I hated that, yet i was trying to help her. we got our averages and she has a b+ (we are all like the people who have to get high grades) so i was like "its ok and there will be more grades and i can help her" and i had an A in the class. Maybe she was mad at me because of that. Well, so she was giving me an attitude with that face. And i was so mad i yelled at her in class, i was so embarrassed. ALso she wouldn't even had a b+ without me because half the reason was from homework and she copied my homework EVERY TIME. What does she think i am? And she didnt talk to me after that even when i tried to say something. I was trying to be nice and she started to completly ignore me like ur not there im serious, i was so mad and she was acting all nice and smiley to the other people. That just made me so mad and i didnt know wat to do.I need help! You gave good advice last time and i need help with this again.
When you were helping her in math class and she got mad at you it might of been because she doesn't understand what is going on and is jealous that you know what you are doing.
You were doing the right thing by helping her after she was being so rude to you. There is a good chance that she got mad at you because you ended up getting an A while she got a B+. She might not want you to know that she is not understanding what is going on in math and there is no reason for her to take it out on you.
Even though you were embarassed you did the right thing by yelling at her. It showed her that you weren't taking her crap anymore. She should be thanking you for helping her in math. You got her that B+ and now she is treating you like you are some type of disease. You don't deserve that. You deserve to be treated with the respect that you are treating her.
Maybe she is just using you to get good grades in the class. She knows that you'll help her out and that's why she was talking to you.
I'm guessing that the reason she didn't talk to you after that is because she wasn't expecting you to yell at her, to stand up for yourself. She didn't think that you had it in yourself to stand up for yourself.
I believe that the reason she is acting all nice to other people and smiling at them is to spite you. She wants you to get angry and wonder what you did to ruin your friendship. She wants you to feel like it was all your fault.
Try and sit down with her and talk to her. Tell her that what she is doing is really upsetting you and you don't want to lose your friendship. Ask her if you did anything to make her act this way. I'd try and do it face-to-face because then you'll get a better answer out of her rather than through texting or talking on the phone. If you still don't get an answer out of her or she still ends up treating you like you are nobody, ignore her. Ignore all your other friends that are being ignorant to you. Now, I'm not saying be a complete and total b*tch to them. Just ignore them and hopefully they'll come around. If they are your true friends they will come back to you. Show them that they aren't hurting you. Even though they are making you mad and hurting your feelings. Try to not let that show. And hopefully they'll start to realize that it's not hurting you and they'll give up. I know that the school year is coming to an end and you don't want to start off the summer with no friends, that's never fun. Trust me, I know exactly how that feels. It hurts a lot. But you still have time to talk to more people and start becoming friends.
Girls are vicious creatures. They like to ruin peoples lives. Most girls have nothing better to do with their pathetic no-good lives that they feel the need to make other peoples lives just as miserable as their own. They think that they are God's gift to earth, the best thing to have ever walked the face of the earth, but they really aren't.
You need to find strength in the struggle. When you're broken in a million little pieces and you are trying but you can't seem to hold on anymore, and every tear falls down for a reason. Don't stop believing in yourself.
I'm here if you need anymore advice. You can always ask me. :)
Hope I helped and good luck
xoxo,
Brianna
Anyone know when the degrassi goes hollywood movie is coming out or what the name of the song in the trailer is??
So far, the only information about when Degrassi Goes To Hollywood comes out, is sometime this summer.
The name of the song in the trailer is Life Is A Show by Cassie Steele.
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
i have this crush he is considered to be a bad boy.i really like him but i don't know if he likes me i don't even thinks he knows my name.how do i find out if he likes me and how can i start a conversation with him?(13/f)
Well, first off if he is a bad boy then you should stay away from him. Bad boys are bad news and most end up not caring about you. I know from experience.
But if you really want to try and get to know him then the most you can do is just the next time you see him is go up to him and say "hi" and take it from there. Good luck!
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
does anyone know any songs that are about a break up under the category of:
1. The person cheated on you
2. Breaking up and being confident to find someone else
3. Breaking up and knowing your ex made the mistake and won't find someone else
thank you!
Should of Said No- Taylor Swift
Before He Cheats- Carrie Underwood
Lips of An Angel- Hinder
I Can Do Better- Avril Lavigne
F**k it (Dirty)- Eamon
F.U.R.B- Frankee
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
Hi!!( This question might be long...SORRY!!)
Okay, well I just recently talked to my boy friend from when I was like...6 or 7. lol We didn't really call each other ... but we were!! His name is Andrew...and than he was very shy,I think he still is to.Our mothers worked together and they became real close friends. So, we met each other...and we seen each other SO MUCH...than he started to like me..and so on. Well, now I'm 13 1/2 and he's 12. I just talked to him at the end of last month and I started to have those type of feelings for him again. So..I told him I liked him and he said we don't really now each other. Well..I told him we can get to know each other better than we can be more than that maybe, and he agreed. Well... I tried to look him up on myspace...his name on there is just andrew...but I can't find him... would any of you like to try to find him? His last name is Vaughn. If, you find him...please tell!! Also, when I text him during the day he doesn't text back...than I text him back and.it's around 9 or 9:30 he talks to me. So...do you think he doesn't like me?? Is he avoiding me?He acted like it...though he told me that he still has a pic of me and when I asked him if he had a girl friend he said no..than I said I didn't have a boy friend than he said "Cool".. So...what do you people think? Also when my friend and I call him he tells me in a text he doesn't like to talk on the phone...I think he is still shy , or do you think he just wants to talk to me? I gave him my email ...do you think he will email me?? He tells me he doesn't get on the computer much. Well...HOW will we get to know each other unless we talk?? I'm so confused!! Please someone give me some advice!! I'm freaking out!!
Thanks for listeing !!
I'll rate fair!!
First of all, don't freak out. Calm down and take a breath.
Don't keep texting him or you'll push him away. You don't want to be the "annoying/smothering" girl. If you text him and he doesn't text you back, don't text him again a few hours later. Wait until he text you back.
He might not be avoiding you. But if you want to know, just ask him and tell him that it hurts you when he avoids you. He may have a good reason why he is doing that. He seems shy and might not want to be pressured into a relationship.
Don't continue calling him, especially since he said he doesn't like talking on the phone. You might end up pushing him away.
Give him some space. You did all you could do. Now the ball is in his court. It's up to him this time. Give him time. He'll come around if he wants to get to know you more.
You're 13. There are plenty more guys out there. Don't freak out over one guy.
Also, for myspace. We certainly cannot help you find him. For starters, we don't know him or what he looks like. If you really want to know what his myspace is, just ask him. Maybe you guys can talk on that and get to know eachother more. Even so, you said he doesn't get on the computer a lot so don't fret if he gives you his myspace and doesn't get back to you within a few days.
Hope I helped!
xoxo,
Brianna
13/f.
I shop at hollister and abercrombie and all those places but i kinda want to change like my style to scene or skater? Like i love alternaive music ans stuff also. But where do i buy these clothes? && i want to slowl ease into this because i dont want to one day show up being skater when the day before i was preppy?
I like skiny jeans, etnies, and alternative musice also.( i also like pop, miley cyrus, hollister, talor swift)?
You can buy clothes at:
-PacSun
-Hot Topic
-Journeys
-Wet Seal
Just ease into it slowly so you don't get called a poser.
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
On friday im going to my neighbors sweet sixteen. There are going to be a lot of people there and im sooooo excited. Its at the marriot hotel and i bought a coral dress that has a big bow in the back and is a little above the knee. It also has spaghetti straps and is a little poofy at the bottom. Im wearing it with white leggings and brown 5 inch wedges. They're the type that is wooden at the bottom... so do you think this will look good? Also i have brown hair and tan skin since im spanish and guatemalan
I'd say ditch the leggings and then it would be perfect. Unless the dress is short that when you bend over you would be giving people a show. Have fun!
Hope I helped.
xoxo,
Brianna
well theres this guy and hes really nice but is one of them guys that will pay you out in frount of there friends . he liked me like 7 months ago and i dont want to sound stuck up but i think he still does . about 7 months ago i think i broke his heart and now knowing how it feels i feel so terrible :(. i love flirting with him and he does flirt with me but i dont want anything more ,and i think he does . hes the perfect guy kind, sweet and his mum & family loves me . what should i do ? im attrachted to him but couldnt see myself kissing him ? i dont want to hurt him again. help?
STOP flirting with him! You say you don't want to hurt him again. Then stop flirting with him. It's leading him on and that's not fair to him. If you are attracted to him but you can't see yourself kissing him then it's most likely a best friend/really close friend attraction or you see him as a brother.
If you know how it feels to have your heart broken then don't keep flirting with him. Leading someone on is one of the worst things to do.
Tell him that you only see him as a friend. That may hurt him but it won't hurt as bad as you leading him on.
Hope I helped.
xoxo,
Brianna
mmk so im a senior in highschool and this may seem lame. but i got asked to prom and well i dont know a few things. like does the guy buy the croissage and does the girl buy him the flower thing that goes on his tuxedo? im so clueless ha! someone help me =/
Normally the guy buys the corsage and the girl buys boutonniere. Have fun at prom!
Hope I helped
xoxo,
Brianna
I dont know why but i think i may be losing my friendships with my friends. A lot of my friends aren't talking to me anymore and when i try to talk, they ignore me. This never happened before and i dont know why or how this started. It started a few months ago in my freshman year at high school and just keeps increasing with more friends as time goes on. Many of the friends i had before are now just acting different around me. They seem to dislike me and keep distance with me. If i try to talk, they just say nothing. I dont know what to do and im scared about this situation. They used to text me, talk all the time, and we used to hang out and now its stopped. Whenever i try to hang out with them, they are always with the other people there and if i try to talk they just answer and get back to the other kids. I feel really depressed and i dont know why this is happening. They act like they dont like me when i'm around and even ignore me. They act like i'm invisible or as if i'm not there. I need advice on this and want to get back to how everything was before. I dont know what is wrong with me, or why they are like how they are. I really want to fix this so please give any advice you have.
If they are acting like this then obviously they aren't friends. I have had this happen to me and I got fed up with being treated like I was a fly on the wall.
Get rid of them. Make new friends. You don't need people who are making you feel like you are a waste of time. Maybe you did something wrong but maybe you didn't.
The best you can do is just ask them if you did something wrong and then apologize but if you did nothing to them,, then just forget all about them. You are a freshman in high school. You are going to lose a lot of your so-called friends. Get out there and make new ones. By the time you graduate from high school and move onto college you probably won't talk to half of the people you do now. You will make tons of new people in college if thats the route you take. Don't let these so-called "friends" bring you down.
Chances are there is nothing wrong with you. They are just not worth your time. Just stop trying to talk to them, stop texting them, stop everything. If they are your true friends they'll come back to you. If not then obviously they weren't your friends to begin with.
It will be hard. You don't want to go through school without friends but you'll make new ones. Ones that actually care about you and won't stop talking to you.
Hope I helped and good luck
xoxo,
Brianna