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i dont want to hurt him


Question Posted Tuesday May 12 2009, 3:04 am

well theres this guy and hes really nice but is one of them guys that will pay you out in frount of there friends . he liked me like 7 months ago and i dont want to sound stuck up but i think he still does . about 7 months ago i think i broke his heart and now knowing how it feels i feel so terrible :(. i love flirting with him and he does flirt with me but i dont want anything more ,and i think he does . hes the perfect guy kind, sweet and his mum & family loves me . what should i do ? im attrachted to him but couldnt see myself kissing him ? i dont want to hurt him again. help?

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xsummer0fstarsx answered Tuesday May 12 2009, 10:41 pm:
STOP flirting with him! You say you don't want to hurt him again. Then stop flirting with him. It's leading him on and that's not fair to him. If you are attracted to him but you can't see yourself kissing him then it's most likely a best friend/really close friend attraction or you see him as a brother.

If you know how it feels to have your heart broken then don't keep flirting with him. Leading someone on is one of the worst things to do.

Tell him that you only see him as a friend. That may hurt him but it won't hurt as bad as you leading him on.

Hope I helped.

xoxo,
Brianna

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letmetellyou answered Tuesday May 12 2009, 7:39 pm:
STOP FLIRTING HIM.
if you're worried about hurting him stop leading him on.

tell him you think of him more like a brother or a really good friend.

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