The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
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Last Update: May 23, 2006
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Is it true that woman like a man who is shaved below rather than a hairy bush man?!!
Plz i am being deadly serious and wos curious wot 2 do myself........
anon (link)
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Personally, I don't think it really matters, if you don't want to go through the hassel of shaving it all the time, then don't do it. I don't think I'd like it much if they did, but that's just me. Do what you want, because it doesn't really matter either way. -Kayla
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well one day i asked my friend catherine if she has talked to my boyfriend yet and she was like well no but he told me that if something hapeneds between you and him we will still be friends no metter what?
PLEASE tell me what you think that means should i talk to him about this or not? (link)
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First of all, why is she talking to him in the first place? Anyways, I don't think it's anything to worry about, he is just saying that no matter what happens with you and your bf that she is still going to be his friend and he doesn't want anything to change that, but if you are really worried about it then ask him about it. Be like so I heard you talked to Catherine today or the other day and then be like was there a reason why you told her that if something happened between you and me that you would still be friends with her? Then see what he says. -Kayla
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there is this girl that is obsessed with me at school. Before I even knew her she knew all of my classes, and now I see her ever time I turn around. After talking with her for only 5 min she said that her mom wanted to meet me. After she said that if freaked me out alittle and she was also saying bad things about one of my friends she I ignore her when I see her. Now she is applying at the place I work and I like someone body else that works there but it is going to be akward have her there. What can I do so she leaves me alone. (link)
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Tell her that she needs to stop being such a freaking stalker! That isn't cool and next time you talk to her, tell her that you don't like her like that and you'd appreciate it if she left you alone. Sweetie, that isn't cool at all and she could get in some serious trouble for this kind of thing. Oh and if she does get that job that she applied for, start talking to that chick and be like omg that girl is always following me and just talk to her about it. That way if the girl likes you back she won't get jealous or made or stop liking you because of it. -Kayla
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sry i didnt know what category to put this under..but what really is cutting? i know you like cut urself but is it to let out anger? or do you do it to actually try to kill urself?? plz i need to know this my friend does it and im scared! (link)
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You don't cut to kill yourself, I think most people do it for attention. Others need a way to let anger out and they don't know any other way then to cut their wrists or anything other body part. You really need to talk to your friend about this and ask her why she really does it? Tell her you don't like it, because sweetie, it's really bad and can be a very bad addiction. -Kayla
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I need help. Ive just recently started dated a guy i really like. My friend was really excited for me when she found out. But then both of them got into a big fight and now they hate each others guts. They always get into big fights. One time he called my friend bad names to her face. I stood up for her tho. cuz the reason why he cursed her out wasnt a good reason. But since he cursed her out shes been getting mad at me lately. She thinks that im putting him before our friendship. But im not. I value our friendship more than ever. She thinks i should break up w/ him because of the way hes been treating her. But i dont want to break up w/ him because he is sooo sweet to me. I feel like i can talk to him about anything. Plus he hasnt done anything to me. I know it wasnt right of him to call my friend bad names and i stood up for her even. but i guess thats not enough for her. My other friend told me that im putting him infront of my friendship w/ my friend since hes my first bf. Everybody is getting mad at me just bc im going out w/ him. Today my friend told me that i was hurting her by going out w/ him. She keeps rubbing things in my face and shes making it seem like im a horrible friend. and it hurts because i dont want to be. I dont think i did anything wrong. She told me that i should put friends first. And i do put friends first. i stood up for her did i not? i dont know what to do...i really need ur advice!! because i like this guy alot and he doesnt treat me bad or anything but my friend hates him. and sooner or later i might have to choose between them. but i dont want that to happen. please help!!!!! (link)
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Ok, well next time your friend says something to you about how you should break up with your boyfriend and you aren't a true friend. Just be like, hey, ok, listen. I like my bf a lot and I don't want to loose him. He hasn't done anything to me and I know he cussed you out, but I stuck up for you didn't I? Be like how did I not put my friends before my bf in that situation. I did. I told my bf that wasn't right and he shouldn't have done that, and I did that just for you. I know you don't like him anymore, but just because you don't like him doesn't mean I can't. Then say, you know how nice and sweet he was when you were friends with him and if he hadn't have cussed you out then you would still feel the same. Please stop taking your anger out on me and trying to break us up to get back at him, this isn't fair to me and I don't want to have to choose. -Kayla
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hey rach, ok i've liked this guy for the longest time...im a freshman and i've liked him since the end of 7th grade. i mean i've like other guys while liking him but no matter what i've always had feelings for him. the thing is: we NEVER talk anymore, and hes totally not my type..im really loud and hes a shy guy..what should i do? and why do i like him so much??? (link)
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Hun, haven't you ever heard the saying opposites attract? I think that's the reason you like him and maybe also that you know you can't have him right now because yall never talk anymore. You really don't know what your type is just yet so I think that you should start talking to him again, just say hey to him one day and go from there. Maybe something could happen here or you might just be able to realize why you like him so much. Either, he's the sweetest guy ever to you, he's way cute, and so much more. Just see how it goes and if you need anymore advice, just leave it in my inbox. -Kayla
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this boy I was goin out with dumped me yestaday but he had 2 gt sum1 else 2 tll me and I thought the otha person was lying so i asced him he sed he has but I don't no wot was sed and he hasn't sed y then he started bein nasty 2 me sayin goin out with me was a mistake and started callin me a rhino and sayin nasty things i told him that he's a jerk snd that i culd do betta but then he was bein nasty and told my m8 he didnt like me then my so called ma8 was walkin home with me and she sed don't worry he's flirtin with me now and i culd hav slapped her anyway she kept goin on about him i nearly cried but managed nt 2 wot do I do (link)
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What the heck is your friend thinking? That isn't cool at all and you need to tell her that. Say listen man, we just broke up and if your gonna have anything to do with him, then don't tell me about it, I don't care and I don't want to hear it. Tell her that she isn't a true friend for doing this to you and not even caring that he was being a jerk to you. Sweetie, this isn't fair to you at all and I know that, the same thing happened to me, but my friend got the picture that I was mad at her and she told the guy that they had to break off whatever they had going because she'd rather be my friend then fight over a guy. I know that might not have been the right thing, but they are talking again and I'm totally over it. Just tell her it isn't the right time and if she is going to try to hook up with him anyways, then tell her you refuse to have anything to do with it. -Kayla
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Well, my friend Jacob and I are close friends right, and he totally tells me all the time that he likes this girl and she likes his friend (cough cough...me) and he says that he still hangs out with her and stuff. but anyways its waay obvious he likes me (im the girl he's talking about).
And so today we were just passin notes in class (just like FRIENDS do) and this girl Brittany goes "are you guys passing notes?" and i said "yeah" and she goes "aww how cute....you guys should go out" and Jacob goes "why? just cuz we're passing notes?" and she says "no u guys would be so cute together n stuff" and me and Jacob look at each other like what?! and so yeah that was weird.now every1 thinks me n Jacob like each other and i swear i dont like him. I like him a lot as a friend. but JUST as a friend.
so, what do i do? Jacob's thinking of introducing me to his friend I like soon. what if Jacob asks me out? I don't want Jacob to get jealous because i like his best friend who i have NEVER met! well wait...maybe he's already jealous :-(.... i want to say no...but i dont want to hurt his feelings and loose his friendship!
what do i do?
Stuck in a love triangle,
Chloe* (link)
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Ok, sweetie, if he was jealous of you liking his best friend, he wouldn't be introducing yall. He would do everything he could so yall didn't meet or date or anything like that. If Jacob does like you, then maybe he's just waiting on you or trying to move on because he knows you like his best friend and with that comment that girl made, don't worry it will pass. Oh and I don't think Jacob is gonna ask you out, I mean like now, because he knows you don't like him and it's hard enough (or so guys tell me) to ask girls out, so if they know you don't like them, then what's the point, you know? I hope I helped! -Kayla
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is it right to make love when there is no love? (link)
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If you want to make love then go for it. No one's stopping you.
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hi since you answered my other question perfectly maybe you can help me with a tear breaking family situation that is also eating me up and making me crumble. So here goes-Ok i have 3 sisters and 1 brother. My oldest sisteris married and has a daughter who is 2 and her husband has a daughter from a previous relationship who is 6. So im an aunt of 2 and my 2nd oldest sister found out that she was pregnant with her fiance of 6 years. im 14 years old. my sister is almost 5 months pregnant halfway through but she went for an ultrasound one day. she noticed that the baby really didn't move that much so she let the doctors know. her baby was tested positve for spinalbifida which could possibly make the baby never walk. Then she started freakin out and she blamed it on genetics because our cousin has it. so she went to a specialist to find out if the baby had the disease or not. Apparently my mom researched evry symptom that she had with the baby and it turns out the baby has a very rare disease called potters sequence which is where the babies kidneys are to big where they are hard and pushing on the lungs giving no way for a life. the longest the baby can live is probably only a couple of hours. its really tearing my sister apart. and we are real close so its tearing me up b/c she aint talkin to me. What im askin is how do i try to get through to her without makin the situation worse or makin her cry? i really dont know howq to handle this. but i cant just not say nething b/c she needs me she always said i was the best person to talk to. she has always helped me and i just wanna say nething possible to help her. Tori
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Omg! That is so sad! Well, I don't really think there is much you can do in this situation except maybe send her a card and go to her house and just give her a huge hug and tell her it's going to be ok. Maybe if she has a favorite kind of icecream you could get it for her or make her a cake or something. Just do something very sweet for her and let her know everything will be alright and that you will always be there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry on. I'm sorry I know this isn't great advice, but there really isn't much you can do in this situation. -Kayla
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ok so you said that i should sit and tell him that his cousins a lier BUT his parents love me and he got grounded for dumping me and i beleive he still is. but his dad knows how much of a lier their cousin was and they told him to stop runnin his mouth. gid i am sooooooooooo confused!!!!!
Tori (link)
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Yeah that's what I think you should do. Just sit tight and see where life leads you and ask his parents if you can talk to him just for like 10 minutes or something just so you can tell him exactly what you've been feeling lately. He shouldn't have listened to his cousin, but all you can do now is try to talk some sense into him. -Kayla
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ok...i have been going out with this guy for about a month now...he has become one of my best friends too...any ways....my friend is all over him ALL the time! she hugs him, holds his hands...and i dont like it...im going out with him not her! im not jealous....i just dont like it! what should i do!?!?!? thank you soooo much! (link)
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Ask her why she does those things to him. Ask her if she likes him and if she says yes then just be like ok and tell your bf that you don't like it when she does that or if she does it again around you then just take his hand from her and start holding it and walk out of the room. She shouldn't be doing that, you are right it's your bf, not hers and she has no right. That isn't something you are getting jealous over, it's just that it's your right to do all of those things, not hers. -Kayla
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Does anyone know where I can find a good site that tells me everything about early settler origins of the 13 colonies..???
I need.. New York-Duke Of York, Pennsylvania-William Penn, Delaware- Peter Minuit, Maryland-Lord Baltimore, Connecticut-Thomas Hooker, New Hampshire-John Wheelwright.. (Like where they came from) I tried searching google & yahoo n stuff but nothing came up that I needed.. PLEASE HELP :( (link)
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Try searching google again under the names of the people you need like in the search box type in 'William Penn' then it will come up with lots of stuff that you can click and find something on it. It should show all about it. -Kayla
PS. Here is something I found on him and Pennsylvania on google. http://www.2020site.org/penn/pennsylvania.html
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I am not looking forward to thanksgiving this year because everything is so messed up. My boyfriend (of 5 and a half years) was best friends with this guy for 6 years. Now they are complete enemies (I won't get into why, it'll make this ? way too long). Well, this guy he was friends with, lets call him "dildo," has been with my sister for 2 years and they are now pregnant together so he is now in my family. So my family is all getting together and stuff for thanksgiving and Dildo is going to be there with my sister and my b'friend was really looking forward to going until he found out Dildo was going. Now of course he can't. My family says they can't both be there because no confrontations can be stirred up because my grandmother is old with a weak heart. So they (as in my mother and my sister) decided to choose to let Dildo go because he can't go to his families because they all hate him. (Dildo is an Italian tough guy who is a thief and con artist type of guy), they chose him even though he is the one that left a threatening message on our answering machine because he decided to jump to conclusions one day and listen to false accusations. I am so mad! The rest of my family would have chose my b'friend over him, but they have to pretend to be nice for my sister's sake, so they kinda gotta stay out of it. My b'friend is a Sonny Corinthos from General Hospital type of guy who if you betray him he doesn't forgive (no, he's not an Italian mobster). Now I am supposed to go over there with my 1 year old son and just leave my b'friend here at home alone. I am supposed to eat there, come back home, and then go to his family's. But eating takes so long, I'll be there so late I know it, my b'friends day will suck so bad for him waiting for me alone (we have 1 car, he has to wait). I am tempted to just stay home with me, him, and the baby and skip thanksgiving dinner altogether (I don't know how to cook birds). I don't want to spend the entire day at his family's either cuz they're all bi-polar psychos who just argue all the time. Sorry this was so long, but what do I do??? Thanks to whoever can help. (link)
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That is really cool that you want to include your boyfriend with your family get together. I think the idea of you just staying home this Thanksgiving is a good idea. That way your boyfriend doesn't feel left out or angry and you won't have to put up with either of your families. Maybe visit them the day after for the leftovers :). Anyways, that's what I think you should do. Good luck with all of that and that really sucks about that Dildo guy, haha. -Kayla
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Okay when ppl give u feedback.. like when u go to see all ur feedback is it in any kind of order? Cuz its really hard to like find all ur new feedback without having to go through all the old stuff. (link)
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There isn't any order except the newer one's are on the top and the older one's are on the bottom. -Kayla
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ok i have a big problem. ok heres the scoop: i just moved to kentucky from chicago. its been real tough. i met my best friend and now we are always together, we are inseperable. but in the beginning of october her brother asked me out. he said that he really liked me and he told every1 i was the one for him and that we were going to run off and get married so now i am like in luv with this guy. he has the religion though of a penticostal and one of their beleifs is abstinence. and well i was raped when i was younger so technically i am not a virgin. his cousin has a really big crush on me though and when he found out that i was with his cousin he decided he was gonna make up a whole bunch of crap about me. so he told him that i screwed 20 guys and he broke up with me not even hearing what i had to say. now he wants nothing to do with me and i told his sister the reason i was not a virgin and now hes still like he cares but its not the same. he still wont even look at me. i dunno what i did wrong we were so happy. Ive been crying over him for about a month now and 3 days ago i started going out with this guy that is my other best friends boyfriends cousin. ( if that makes sense). and today he told me that he likes me a lot and that he loves me. he dosent understand how much weight that puts on my shoulder. i like him but i dont now if im using him to get my ex off of my mind. i want the relationship im in to last because i dont wanna fall apart again and have a breakdown but i really dont know what i should do. and i dont want to break his heart b/c i know hes 4 real. but how do i express what im fellin? please just tell me what you think i should do i need an opinion from someone who knows the basics. thankyou for reading please help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
confused/tjlover (link)
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Ok, first off I have to tell you that because you were raped, it wasn't your choice and you still are a virgin. Also, you need to make that guy talk to you. Ask your friend to set something up at her house one day so her brother talks to you and she will leave the room or something. Just make him listen and tell him that everything his cousin said wasn't true and it hurts you that he won't even listen. Another thing, I don't really think the guy you are with, you like a whole bunch, I do think that you are with him so you won't feel so lonely because you don't have that other guy and your boyfriend shouldn't be telling you he loves you this early. It's too soon. If it does work out to where you can talk to your ex boyfriend, then I think you should break up with your current boyfriend and see where things go with your ex. Don't break your boyfriends heart though unless you know the other one likes you or there could be a possibility between you guys. -Kayla
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do guys like it if girls ask them to dance or go out w/ them...ive always wondered. or does the guy have to do it all? (link)
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It has always been known with me that the girl doesn't ask the guy out and the girl only asks the guys to dances if it's one of those dances where the girls have to ask the guys. The girls can make the first moves and all, but I don't know of many girls that would ask guys out. -Kayla
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ok..you see i have this boyfriend but i never rly see him an i just got on punishment for like a month which will hurt me bein able to see him..then i have this friend who i like and he likes me and hes always askin when are we gunna hook up and things like that an he lives down the street from me and i see him almost everyday and so do i lose my boyfriend for my friend..ive been with my boyfriend for 5months and we fight all the time over the DUMBEST things! (link)
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It sounds like maybe you should take a break from your boyfriend for a little while and maybe try out your friend and see where it goes. I mean if you and your friend get along great and don't fight too much then he sounds good. You shouldn't be with someone that you get in fights with a lot and besides you won't be able to see your boyfriend very much now or later. So I say try out the friend. -Kayla
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last monday i told my boyfriend that i was running away. (it was a joke) i didnt tell him that it was a joke until tuesday morning. he got all mad at me and ended up breaking up w/ me over it. Now he wont talk to me or even walk past me. i have last hour w/ him (he sits in front of me) what should i do? talk to him or wait until he talks to me? (link)
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Obviously he isn't going to talk to you at the moment so you really need to talk to him. Write him a note or something. I think the whole 'joke', he didn't find it very funny and it scared him very bad and then you said you were joking the next day. You should've told him you were joking right after you said it! -Kayla
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i just got my period any advice on pads, tampons
ill apreciate any advice!! ill rate! (link)
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Tampons are a lot better! Pads feel like diapers. If you don't know how they work look at the box and it will show you directions or it will be inside the box. -Kayla
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