Hey. I thank everyone in advance. I'm an advice columnist on here, but I need advice.
Here's my problem:
I used to be BEST FRIENDS with this girl, Nicole. We used to do everything together - camping, swimming, movies, ext. About 8 months ago - we got in a huge fight, and ended our friendship. It was entirely my fault. About 4 months ago - we started talking again. She said she forgave me, and that we could still be friends. Since then - we've talked about 10 times. The problem is: I really miss her being around. Everyone in my family says they want her and I to be friends again. What should I do? Do I call her, or IM her more? Or should I just forget about it? I have more friends, but I really miss her. Thanks for all advice. I'll rate.
*Sincerely,
Ash*
Ask her to hang out.. Tell how you feel :)
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before my ex-bf asked me out my class was on a felid trip. we went ot a resturant and my n' my ex-bf sat next to each other. by the end of our lunch we were holdin hands n' sittin really close. but that was even before he asked me out. then after he dumped me it was like none of that ever happened and he never liked me. it makes me sad bcuz now that we are broken up we dont talk at all...we talked so much before...so what do i do?
that sounds so familiar.. GET OVER HIM.. hes not worth the pain.. Hes a jackass n he will burn in hell for all his crimes against women:) hope i helped :)
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if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
guys dont care they'll jus move on
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umm well i like my nextdoor naboor n well he came to spend the night w. my bro n we madeout n i gave him a handjob n well he weent to visit his mom in NY n well he is coming back in a week or soo n still rele like him m im not sure if he likes me n well i rele miss him n i want to makeout w. him n how do i tell him that i like him n i want to makeout w. him??
How can you go from hand job to asking how to tell him you want to make out with him.. Just do it you've already done other stuff
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i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, in 18 and hes 19, we have sex often. im a 34b adn he thinks that i should get implants. should i do it just to please him?!?! i really think that he might be the one, adn we've talked about our future.
help
Dont do it to please him. Maybe he is the one. but could you live with yourself doing that? i mean if he loves you enough then he will be fine with what you have :)
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This year while I was vacationing in a place I regularly visit I met a girl. The night after I met her I drank way to much and ended up losing my virginity with her. I was really beating myself up over it the next morning, but it turned out that we hooked up for the entire time I was vacationing, however we never slept together again. The problem is, she doesn't know she was my first. She actually thinks she was my 3rd. Now im beating myself up for lying to her, but Im afraid that if I tell her now things could get awkward and I may not ever see her again. I feel horrible about lying, but if things got weird between me and her and I lost contact with her I would probably fall over and just never get up. I'm not sure whether to tell her, and if I do, I'm not sure how or when. I am extrememly thankful for any help someone can give me.
If the relationship is important to her then she'll stay. Its not like you killed someone.. its a simple mistake.. tell her the truth and apoligize and say u dont want to lose her
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my little sister i always a pain. everday i would say hi to her and she would just give me a nasty look and go to her room. i am nice to her most of the time. we get a long once in a while, but rarely...ahh what do i do to win her over?
Uhuh.. i do that to my sister.. shes jealous of you.. my sister shes out all the time i hate it.. WE NEVER TALK.. i need some1 to talk to.. so just try to tell her stuff.. n maybe things will work.. or make her her fav. dinner..or get her icecream
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ok recently i've been going out with my bestfriends brother. She doesnt' kno and if she did she would kick my ass! i don't kno wat to do. WE really like eathother. and she knows that he's all i think about! but she still doesn't get it.. im always feeling guilty! should i tell her or should i keep it a secret? i don't kno wat to do... i dont' wanna lose her as a friend and i don't wanna lose him as a bf. i dont' wanna be a bad friend but he really is all i thnk about and talk about she just doesn't understand.... but wen it comes to the same situations with her she doesn't care wat i think and she does her thing wiht them... if she can do it and doens't care wat i think then why can't she except wat i want??
Tell her that u like her brother..n that u want to be happy n u dont want her to be mad.. n that her brother makes u happy.. tell her xactly how u feel
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ok i have a ?...when do u have ur period can u have sex? and if you do will blood be all over the place??
umm ya.. but yes blood wuld be everywhere.. DONT TRY IT..
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A few weeks ago my brother and his girlfriend were over at our house and he had left the room to go to the bathroom. While he was gone my brother's girlfriend started leaning on me and saying things to me that she shouldn't have been saying to her boyfriend's younger brother. My brother eventually came back into the room and it didn't happen again. The next week she came over again and did the same thing while my brother was out of the room. But this time she tried to reach her hand down my pants. I stopped her and asked what she was doing. She told me to just relax but I still didn't let her, eventually my brother came back in the room and ended it. She didn't come over the next week and I hand't talked to her since so I thought it was finally over. But last week she IMed me online and started saying the same things she was saying to me in person like she wanted to have sex with me and stuff. Don't get me wrong, I would love to get physical with this girl...she is really hot and she has a great personality. The problem is as clear as day though...she's dating my older brother. The other thing is though, my brother and I have never been close even before he left for college. We have also been getting into tons of fights in recent weeks. However my brother really loves this girl and I even overheard him telling my mother that he thinks she is the one. Should I hook up with her? Please help me out...
are you kidding? dont even talk to her.. but u shuld kinda tell ur brother really nicely.. if he gets mad be like haha APRILS FOOLS JOKE! and then walk away.. but if he doesnt then you did the right thing.. But no matter what.. DONT DO ANYTHING WITH HER..
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i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people?
Join a summer activity.. or go to like a park program? that would help.. Maybe a job but that might not help you find friends your age
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there is this guy that i went out with for about a week before school ended...when we broke up he said that he liked me but he didnt "like me like me" and he said he just wanted to be freinds. Well i still really like him a lot. we live on the same lake so i see him almost everyday, but i never get a chance to talk to him. the only chance is online...or when school starts. i have tried to get over him, but i just still really like him...so what do i do?
Try to preoccupy ur self.. like get into sports.. meet lots of new ppl.. and if that doesnt work.. they try to i.m. him n tell him how u feel mayb he can help xox
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alright me and my so called bestest friend for life are fighting..and its because i was supposed to go to her house after school but i get in trouble all the time there so i wanted a change..so instead i went over to Courtneys and she got all mad sayin how could u go around ditchin me..and then she claims i stole stuff from her that i later found in her bookbag and she was going around calling me a slut...so i am just wondering if i made the right chioce by "ditching" her..x0 MaNdiE 0x
Mandie you made the right choice hun! shes no bestfriend.. ditchin isnt that serious.. its not like your 2.. duz she think ur her only friend..? n r u hers? n yea you get in truble there.. soo yah u wanted change that duznt make u a bad person.. or that duznt give her an excuse to say oo your "slut"
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I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do?
call first.. you gotta make the first move..
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My best guy friend hangs out with my boyfriend. Today he told me that my boyfriend was talkin about how annoying I am because I play mind games with him (I have NO idea what kind of mind games I play..) He said he doesn't love me as much anymore and he might break up with me.
Should I believe my best guy friend and expect the worst... or do I just ask my boyfriend about it and hope he doesn't get mad at my guy friend.
I don't want to ruin their friendship, but I don't want to get my heart broken because I didn't listen to my guy friend... What should I do??
i think u should talk to your boyfriend bout it.. ask him about it and but dont tell him.. if he denys then ok.. jus move on but expect some bad things but dont rly necessarily think hes dumping u
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is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok??
yeah its ok
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why do girls wear bra and thongs all they seem to do in my appen is make girls and their moms spend money
you need bras hunny.. to support you.. n thongs soo u dont have lines.. lol
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my girlfriend wears some clothing that bothers me. she has a very nice body, and its cool that she is comfortable with showing it off... but it bugs me that she likes the attention from other guys and all. how do i let her know that some of the stuff she wears (low tank tops / shirts, short shorts, etc) bothers me without sounding too much like a jealous control freak?
just tell her straight out.. be like i dont want to sound jealous but i hate when you were that stuff it makes you look slutty and that you want attention.. n i know your not soo dont do it
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Hey hunni.. i love your site its awesome nd u give GREAT advice lol..but i was really hyper nd i hada write in here so her it is kkz well i havta go now! lul bffe xox_
haha "babii a" lol
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