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My main character was hit trying to cross the street and has severe injuries. She finds out that her older sister was driving the car that hit her, her older sister was texting and driving. After her older sister hit her, a truck collided into the older sisters car and killed her. The teen main character is devastated and depressed. She will have casts on and won't b able to walk or move around a lot for 4 weeks. Her parents blame her sisters death on her. The thing is I don't know what will happen during the next four weeks, I've tried to brainstorm but nothing works. I'm having a bit of writers block lol. I would appreciate it if you could help me brainstorm some ideas.By the way the main character is a 14 going to be 15 year old girl
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- after this 4 week period she begins to become extremely depressed and continues to have nightmares about the whole accident
-she starts to self harm
-she starts to go down the wrong path, she starts stealing cigarettes from her dead sisters drawer and is offered drugs from her friend at a party and starts to take them
-she distances herself
-she commits suicide
I can't say what happens after this because it would firstly be too long and I don't want to give too much away. Btw she can't start a love interest because that occors with someone else later in the book. I only need ideas for the 4 weeks. This may seem like your run of the mill teen angst drama but its going to be much more than that, email me if you want to hear the rest :) i really appreciate the help! (link)
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I'm not an expert author but I like your ideas so far. Btw, no one can really email you just using the information in your question you posted this anon. I unfortunately have experience with some of the issues your main character has with self harm. This story sounds very grim. During the 4 weeks it would be interesting for her to describe the nightmare in more detail to kill some time. Lets say during that period she has her first encounter with drugs and must return to the same hospital that her sister died in because of the crash, only she is there with her leg injuries as well as an OD and the nightmares progress...she swears off of drugs forever but encounters them and starts her habit again later in the book with a deadly mix of self harm and various hard drugs she uses to numb the pain of her sister that she misses dearly. Use imagery in things like flashbacks in her dreams while she's in the hospital recovering from her injuries and OD and let her remember being with her sister when she's much younger, that may lead her into more depression and self abuse, if that's what your going for. I honestly hope I helped and would love to hear the rest of the story email me @ letmebe44@gmail.com so I can her the rest if you're comfortable sharing. Luck writing and fair winds!
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Does anybody know how to put pictures on face book with a digital camera ? (link)
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you must get a usb chord and download it onto the com0putyer
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So I recently heard the song YOLO by The Lonely Island and I can't get it out of my head. I've tried listening to other songs but I still can't get it out of my head. Any easy tricks to help get rid of the song? (link)
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For starters I love the lonley island.try buying a full cinniamon stick and slowly crunching it and sucking on it dont choke! Ik it sounds weird but beleive me it works
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Hi . Im 13 and I have been smoking marijuana for a little bit now . I have been holding back this secret from my parents and even closest friends . I just don't want to be known as one who tries to fit in with the other crowd . That's not my reasoning for doing this . I do it because my brother is an addict and I tried it once and it was like the best feeling ever so I kept doing it . Ive gone to school high but since Im just a natural goof off and crazy student nobody seemed to notice as far as I know . I know its bad for you but I don't do it often . The addiction runs through my blood . I just cant help it . I cover up the smell with stong perfume and the days I smoke I usually just come in late and say Im tired I had a long night and go right to bed . Should I tell someone about this ? I just don't know what to do . (link)
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Yes.tell someone, if its an addiction, you need help
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Im fourteen, he's thirteen. We're not dating, he's just a friend. He kept trying to finger me, so I finally let him. I was kinda horny, and having been fingered before knew it felt good. But it was so embarrassing. He couldn't get his finger in! So I stuck my hand in my panties, and kinda shoved his finger in there, but then it was barely in, and the way he was doing it just HURT. Afterwards, I was so sore. Then he tried to eat me out, and it was like he was just sucking and licking. But it wasn't normal, I got no feeling out of it, and it was just sloppy and awkward. He also cannot kiss! It's like he's trying to eat my face. He gets the whole side of my mouth wet, and practically gags me with his tongue! I never want to do anything with him again. If he tries what do I do? Tell him why? Or just say no? (link)
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Im sorry.hes 13.hes not perfect.say no.
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I have all the friends in the world. Ever since I was basically born I've had many friends and always been satisfied. Until I turned 17 and my life and future began flashing before my eyes. Nervous and terrified, all I needed was someone to talk to. That's when I realized that I can't talk to anyone I know now. I've had some good friends in the past ones that I probably could have talked to but as the course of life would have it they all became really distant. I feel so alone trying to deal with everything I feel I need to do. Pressure from all over is coming at me. My parents and my grades and university and keeping close with friends trying not to lose any. Being the best I can. This website seems to be my only hope of letting it all out. I guess all I really need is someone to just say something to me. (link)
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Im here.your not alone, im young but here and sometimes thats enough.inbox me anytime
Julia
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15 year old guy and i am totally gay i've always been attracted to guys and i really want a boyfriend sometimes i feel lonely so i want a companion a guy i can fall in love with but i'm not sure where to start i haven't told anyone i'm gay
where do i start looking for the right guy? (link)
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I dont have a girlfriend, so im no dating expert.Lonliness is normal for gay teens, but the gay community is very tight knit and loving.Im fine with being single brcause I have so many friends.Coming out is hard, only tell very trusted friemds or adults.Be responsible, people can be cruel, I should know.Try hanging out with your male friends, you never know what they like.Im lonly a lot, but it helps to look at your friends and know they love you.I know its not the same as a boyfriend, but take it slow.Wait untill you're ready to come out before you get yourself a man, unless he hasnt come out too.its cant be a secret forever but you have plenty of time.try going toa gay alliance lgbt group to meet people and get comfortable and make frirnds.good luck, I hope I helpef :)
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The situation is that I live at my mom's with my half brother step dad and half baby sister. But I don't want to bring any of my friends to my house as It is scruffy. And my mom and step dad like to drink lots of alcohol on a weekend. But one morning I woke up an I found remains of white powder on the kitchen worktop. Now I'm scared and I don't know weather to move somewhere else e.g.(dad's, nannas or grandmas) or just stay (link)
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Hi,and lets think about what goeson in a kitchen before we make harsh accusations.Flour and other white substances move through kitchens and sometimes spill on the counter,and if your house is "scruffy" maybe no one felt like cleaning it up.It could be a number of things,baking soda:flour:powdered dishwashing detergent:laundry soap:ect....i once had a simialar expeerience with my day.i found a massive bag of white powder in the kitchen later to discover that it was laundry soap.before i knew that i ran into the room aand yelled at my dad ""No wonder we never have aany money!!!!""i then tasted it to find suds in my mouth.Ask your mom if she does coke.not all people who do drugs are not unreliable scum like society leads us to think...good luck inbox me anytime:0
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Hi everyone so when I shave my legs I always get razor burn. It's happened for years. Any suggestions? Does "Nair" work? Should I lotion before hand? Should I use thicker shaving cream? Any advice please. Thank you! (link)
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you could just bleach the hair so its invisiable then stop worrying
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Well, ive been feeling really bad about it. is it normal? I mean i like guys im not into girls and all and its really embarrassing and im afraid of anyone finding out. Can you give me some advice? (link)
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i think that its normal.I have this one friend whos also a teen girl and watches porn constantly,yes shes straight,and all of it is lesbian porn.She says its the only thing that turns her on really but shes not sexually attracted to women.Its normal to be curius,and it does not mean that your gay.At such young ages,we never can really be sure about what wwe find attractive unles youve had the experience and i do not know if you have.porn is made for these reasos.so relax.enjoy the show.its personal.dont click on any spam and clear your historry to avoide embarrassment.hope i helped,you can inbox me anytime.:]
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what is handjob? (link)
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its male masturbation with friends
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13 female. I cut 4 nights ago down my arm and I've been wearing long sleeves everyday but my moms becoming susipcious cs I never wear long stuff. I am trying to stop cutting so don't give me lectures please, I'm gonna see my school counselor. Anyway question is how can I get these to cuts to go away faster without buying anything? I don't have bio oil though. If I touch it then it feels like how a scab normally feels if that helps anything (link)
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Hi, ive haf trouble with sh.im 13 too, dont tell me what not to say, its a bad habit.dont pick the scab, try washimg first, dont scrub them too hard.please see the counsler, its great to get it before its an addiction.depenfing on the size of the injury, do the following. ?...small cuts.use chapstick or neosporin directly.time is the best healer...and not doing it again.large cuts...see a doctor.now, infection eill happen.if you have no bandages use clothe...good luck im always here inbox me if you neef
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I want to see if i can stay awake all night from 7am till 7am the next day is thier any tips or any ideas on how i can stay awake ... its just a random thing i got going on and i want to see if i can do it ;) lol its a bet i got going on don't ask lol (link)
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rev yourself up by going for a jog then taking an icy shower and remaining nude and cold,but not to a dangerous point.listen to dance musicand dance{you can wear clothes for this}try karate surf the web do a cartwheel drink cooooffeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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How to commite suicide (link)
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You dont.
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Well i'm a 14 year old male and i realise that i am gay it took awhile to get used to it even though i'm
still young i am really attracted to guys i have talked to girls but i'm not attracted to them when i see guys i get turned on i know that i want to be with a guy it's who i am so it's normal to be gay at my age? (link)
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You could be 2 years old or 48 years old and still technicly be gay.Sexuality doesnt have an age requirment or restriction.Dont rush, take your time and think about it before you come out..im always here good luck :3
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Hi, I am a 14 year old girl. I think I'm very smart when I try and apparently everyone else that I know of thinks I'm very smart. I'm going to be a freshman next year and I wanna make all A's in high school, I know it will be hard but I think I can do it. Also some of the kids in my grade make it look so easy, how can I do that? (link)
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often the people who make it look easy try the hardest,and thats how they do it.all a's is a big goal but i know that you can make it if you do your very best and study hard.if you really are smart,it will be fun and eaasy.dont sweat the small stuff.
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I am a 15 year old, I've looked everywhere for a summer job. for babysitting or Animal sitting(NOT cats, snakes, spiders, nothing venom)and I need a job to start saving up for something important!!!! please give me a website or a link and I'm from Tucson, Arizona Thank you (link)
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scince you are only 15 you should try mowing peoples lawns for money.if oyu lived aroound here i woould suggest working in the melon feilds.
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He keeps liking my photos but I'm not sure if he likes me because were not talking and then he added me back on a chat messenger after he deleted me? (link)
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maybe he just genuinely enjoys your photos man...
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Ме and му friends both 13 female and I used to cut and tried killing myself by taking a od. Anyway lately friends been cutting hecticly, she started friday and been cutting over the weekend and has been telling ме how she wants to die and she's planning on comitting suicide. I'm really worried about her. How can I make her stop and give her good advice and what can I say to make her think a little? I can't tell sanyone about it though so please don't say tell her parents because they know and she just gets grounded for it and they fight because of it which makes her cut even more. Her famils the main reason of her cutting. (link)
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im crying right now........i understand ive cut for years and am 13.ITS NOT WORTH IT!!!!!!!!tell her its NOT COOL AND SHES NOT ALONE.CALL A SUICIDE HOTLINE AND REPORT HER>TELL THE SCHOOL COUNSLER BE BRAVE!DO NOT LET THIS GIRL DIE DO ANYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO STOP HER.go on youtube look up reasons to live and LAURACANFLY.she is an angel for cutters and will help.get helllllp.go to stopthescars.com.please dont let an unworthy bully or family kill another girl.go to standforthesilent.help now.im here.
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Im 14/ f and ive been a selfharming since the beginning of february.. I have been getting better tho! Anyways my mom and I were sitting side by side waiting for my sister and I forgot to put a bandage on my cuts when I changef into a tank top.. she was on the phone and looked at my wrist and thered only 2 visible ones and pointed at them with a questioning face.. I pulled my arm away and went to the bathroom and cried my eyes out.. what do I say? Our cats are declawed. . (link)
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my mother and father litterally had a cow.i had sh much longer and do not suggest it.my experience cannot be considereed typical because my fatheer is verbally abusive.get help.tell her you need help before you cut too deep.i dont know you but i feel your pain and all i want is for you to be ok.ok is good enough.inbox me and i can talk anytime.dont do anything youll regret.please.
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