hello! ive lived a lot of life in the small amount of years ive been around. I mean it when I say ive been through it all, so feel free to shoot me a question or even just to spill your guts. my ears are wide open :)
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Age: 17
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Im a girl in her early teens.
I have a great personality, socialbe , talented , outgoing and etc . I'm very mature for my age . I'm just amazing , soo here its come I dont go out with boys my age usually older, and lately they just been worrying about my age how old is the age difference suppose to bee bye 2 years ? 3 years ? Idkk Please Help Me -__- . (link)
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age is just a number, they just dont wanna get in trouble or made fun of, or maybe scared of immaturity. also older girls have more freedom, a car, more responsible. you can think youre the most amazing person, but that cocky additude makes you seem immature & probably wont get you anywhere. if youre as young as you seem, try focus on havin fun & less on boys, then later on you wont have to worry about.
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I have brown hair (to the darker side), green eyes, and I'm very light-skinned. What color would look best on me for prom? (link)
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id say earth tones would look really good with your eyes & hair color. greens, dark oranges, beige/gold with a slight shimmer to it. with fair skin, dont go too dark. Red would be cute as well.
good luck, if you have questions about
make up or hair inbox me!
x sweeethoney
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please read i need help
is is possible to find love again? i am so scared that i will never find someone else. i have been trying. ever since my bf of 2 years broke up with me about a year and a half ago. my greatest fear used to be losing him and that already happend. now my new fear is never finding that special person who loves me respects me and would treat me right. people have said that he WILL come to you when you least expect it and to not go out looking for it because it will be when the time is right. im in my late teens and still young. im a good girl and i nice person. i dont know what to do. im so confused and feel so alone and im ready for that special someone but i just cant seem to find him. i dont know what to do. is there someone for everyone. what should i do ? (link)
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im your same age. same year & half single. & I have a baby. I thought I was screwed haha. I tried & tried to find some one with qualifications in everyguy I met, & just set myself up for dissapointment. so I stopped lookin & enjoyed my life, you know? & then I did meet a great guy. so the people you talked to were right! YOURE YOUNG. you have 60-70 years in your life left, just enjoy bein a teen ager,& have fun! you lookin wont changr the right time, itll just fill the in between time with bullshit.
my inbox is always open!
x sweeethoney
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I'm a junior in college and freshman year I met this kid Mike. We talked/saw each other out at parties every once & a while first semester. Then one day over the summer after freshman year I was at the beach and he came over to say hi and we talked a bit more. Sophomore year we talked when we saw each other, but I never saw him out. Now it's junior year and we've pretty much lost all connection. Whenever I see him neither of us say hello or anything, but we always make eye contact. Would it be weird to say hey this coming semester when I see him? I know we haven't spoke in awhile, but I think it's kinda impossible for him to competely forget who I am. I'm just nervous that is the case haha. Any advice would help, thanks! (link)
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I dont think its weird at all. yall talked in the past! just say 'hey long time no talk, howve you been?!' simple as that! im sure hed be thrilled.
message me if you havr any more questions!
x sweeethoney
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What are some really cute hair styles I can do for school? Other than straightening, curling and scrunching it... Haha. What are some really cute hair styles that don't take more than like 30 minutes? Thanks veryyyyy much! (link)
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you can do two braids, each above your ears/temples & pull them back & connect them, if you know what I mean. you can french braid your bangs to the side. you can pull back one of the above the ear/ temple area back a little with a small rubber band on the opposite side of your part. you can do a poof (not snooki sized lol). braid pig tails, pony tail to the side.
hope I helped!
x sweeethoney
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I don't have bad acne, usually a very small handful of pimples at most. And most of those are barely visible, but my face doesn't feel smooth in that area, so it bothers me.
What is a good acne wash / treatment I can use to remedy this? I need something that works and isn't very expensive. (link)
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I use clean & clear 3 in 1 advantage, & it cleared up my face really well, just stick to it everyday
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My husband gave a friend of his -- I'll call him "Fred" -- a place to stay and nursed him back to health after Fred was critically injured while driving an ATV. Fred was drunk at the time.
That was six years ago, and Fred is still here. While he has helped my husband with a few chores, he does not work. My husband provides him with a travel trailer, utilities, food and beer money. Fred is 47 years old and perfectly capable of working. I feel he is being disrespectful, and I want to set some ground rules -- getting a job and staying out of our house when we are not home, for starters.
My husband doesn't seem able to have a discussion with Fred. Am I selfish and un-Christian? This is straining my marriage. Please help. (link)
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you have every right to want him out! 6 YEARS?! this man who is your husbands 'friend' is completely takin advantage of yall & has no problem doin it. its ridiculous. yall need him out before he ruins your marriage & sucks you dry. GO FOR IT.
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I want to dye my hair. I have red hair like Shaun white and I am sick of being called a ginger and standing out. my parents will never let me do it and i'm abroad right now for a semester so i think this is the best time. they are coming to visit at the end of march, early april so i want a dye that will not last that long and wont cause any permanent damage. is there a type of dye that would not cause permanent damage and will wash out within like 6 weeks? i want to do a light brown so nothing dark or too drastic. is there a kind of dye that will wash out within a few washes but doesnt make your hair stringy or damaged? i like my red hair but i also want a little change for some time. is there a chance my hair won't return to how it is now? (link)
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change is good! if you wanna color your hair different its your business. the best way not to damage it is getting amonia free hair dye, I know garnier fructis has some, & natural insticts. & itll fade in around 2 months than you can do it again. BUT the way you descibe your color, its a very vibrant color, & it might not completely get rid of all the red. you may still have a hint of red. if you have really long hair, get two boxes.
good luck!
x sweeethoney
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how long do it take for a hickey take to go away (link)
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it depends on how broken the blood vessels are. try using the bristles of a brush, stretching out the skin & rubbing it with the side of a coin, or putting a spoon in the freezer & icing it. trust me they work hah.
x sweeethoney
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So, I've been through a lot. Ive been abused by my step mom, i haven seen my real momsince my 7th birthday (court order) because she has schitzofrania, and i was raped by my bioligical mothers boyfriend from age 4-7. Now i see a sycologist, but i feel no change. I feel worthless and horrible, and i feel any guy can take advantage of me because i already feel dirty because i was raped.
& i have no idea how to fix this.
I am still a virgin but i have done everything else, because i feel as if i was taken advantage of already so it doesn't matter anymore. Which sounds like an excuse but i dont know how to totally explain it. Can someone help me think of a way to stay away from guys and just hang out with my friends that are girls and be happy like a normal teenager? and where i can get my focus back onto school? (link)
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with the guy thing, only you can help yourself. you need to realize that just because something traumatic happened to you, you are not devalued or worthless. but hookin up & usin boys as a momentary esteem boost will only make you feel more worthless in the end. youre a young girl, you need to change this as soon as you can & break this cycle.
like the others have said, if youre house where youre abused, you need to report it. its unacceptable & no one should live that way. contact RAINN like he said, so you can be helped. you need to be selfish at this point & do whats best for you.
if you ever need to talk, my inbox is open.
I hope you take all of our advice to heart.
x sweeethoney
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I'm not planning on breast reduction surgery. i had a 36c sup last year. i was 16. I am about to be 17 and i moved up to a double d cup size and just recently i'm starting to grow out of it. it's getting out of control. i had a c cup breast from age 11 to 16. that means something went wrong. could it be a high fat content diet? what are all the things i could do to reduce the size of my breasts?
excercises? food ? what ? please help! (link)
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im 17 & ive had the same growth in the years as you. I gained 10 lbs (i used to be stick thin) & my boobs are now around dd when they were a c. weight loss works, but it all depends where you body gains/loses weight. its different for everyone. you can maybe try chest excersizes, but it may just lift them. other than that you may just be stuck the way you are! I mean, they are worse problems then big boobs ;)
x sweeethoney
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I am a 16 yr old female and have been smoking cigarettes for about a year now. I first started smoking marlboro reds then switched to marlboro menthol 100s and im HOOKED. if i dont have cigarettes or running low i shake and cry and find a way to get them. my addiction is taking over my life pretty much! i smoke constantly. i HAVE to smoke one before bed or else i will not sleep, i also cannot start my day without a cigarette. id say i smoke about 15 cigrattes a day. i have this flem cough and have had it for a few months. its getting worse and i constantly have to cough but nothing comes up just need to clear my throught. i dont know what to do! or hot to quit! please help!! (link)
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giiiirl i feel you, haha. ive been smokin for 3 years & im only 17. withdrawl is hard as hell, i understand. first get rid of all lighters, packs, ash trays..etc. then for a week or two dont hang out with your friends that smoke. if your parents smoke then ask them not to around you. suck on a lollipop or squeeze a stressball every time you get a craving. also, think about how disgustin & how unhealthy youll be at 35-40. they do have medication that will make you nauseated everytime you try to smoke. but i dunno if you can get it under 18. goood luck, im givin you props for quittin early! x sweeethoney
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Are you a hair dresser?
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not yet, i wanna be one though :)
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17/f and 16/m
my boyfriend and i have been going out for 8 months.. technically 9, and we havent done anything sexual. i mean, we have made out and hes felt me up but we havent gone farther than that. im waiting until im older to have sex, preferably married or engaged and he wants to wait too.
but heres the thing, when people ask me if ive had sex yet, and i say no.. they act all surprised and are like, WHY NOT?!! ITS BEEN 8 MONTHS, THATS SO LONG!!
even my parents think ive done sexual things with my boyfriend, and i HAVENT. ive never done anything sexual with anyone. why doesnt anyone believe me? and also, i get honesty box messages on facebook that say, "i dont know why your boyfriend is still with you if you havent given it up to him yet." [from boys]
am i not normal? i dont care if i am or not, its not going to change my mind on having sex or doing other sexual things, but i dont know. any advice or anything would be helpful, thanks. (link)
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havin sex is normal in our society for teens, so thats obviously why theyre so suprised because for normal relationships thats a long time not to have sex. good for you that you guys decided to wait, but if you and your boyfriend tell people you havent had sex thats the green light for people to voice their opinion. either tell them its none of their business and have them think you had sex or GET OVER It. if 'all that matters is that you're happy' then whats the problem?
i say just forget about it because people are gonna say what they want and showin them that it bothers you just gives them all the more reason to do so.
x sweeethoney
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What exactly are Braxton Hicks. I have been having them for the last like four days. I have only had them really bad twice. I am 33 weeks pregnant. Is it true it means you are going to have your baby early? Is it true it thins you out so you can start dialating. (link)
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braxton hicks are kind of your bodys way of gettin ready for the big day. you can get them from 24 weeks on, but as you get closer to your due date you will get them more often. this doesnt mean that youll have your baby early!
im 32 weeks, so im gettin them a lot too ! dont worry. :) what you need to look for is if they become more close together or more than 5 in one hour, along with other early labor symptoms (dialation, dull lower backpain, pressure on your cervix, & blood or extra discharge)
good luck !
x sweeethoney
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16/f
i don't know why, but i'm pretty sure everybody feels this way at times. i hate seeing old people eating alone, it makes me feel sad that i want to sit down in front of them and eat. is there a way where i can think positive about it? (link)
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awww this is the cutest question ive ever seen haha.
a way you can look at it is that its the natural order of life. their spouse may have died, their children grew up, and now their alone. you can change it though ! you can smile, compliment them on their hat or shirt, or even sit down with them ! some are pretty bitter though, so watch out haha.
if you want to give back in a different way you can volunteer at a retirement home and read to the old people, or do other stuff to help them out. that way you can feel like your helpin other elderly people, and maybe that person has a person like you back at home.
i hope i helped !
x sweeethoney
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I didnt know them well personally.. but occasionally I'd check their facebooks when i was bored.. like Im sure most people do on facebook anyways. and there were some pictures of them like drinking alcohol and stuff.. also with some other people and other people smoking and stuff.. everyone underage. i told the entire guidance department using a fake email.. and im not sure whether to feel like i did a bad or good thing? cause in 1 way its like i prevented them from really ruining themselves like some teens who never had someone intervene, even their parents. but on the other hand it was snooping.. stalkerish to do.. and now they have to go through stress with the administration now about it. they are all really popular kids at my school. but at the same time its not like i reported them to police.. i definitely wouldn't do that.. i think the school would handle that sort of thing better. i am also worried on being found out. i know if they find out im fcked for life socially. and i'd lose a lot of respect and people's confidence maybe. or they'll just think im a creepy stalker. but people have albums on facebook for people to see them so its not really an invasion of privacy i think. i just do not know what to think. i just feel pretty guilty right now.. ughh whas this a mistake or the right thing to do? (link)
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honestly, i think that it was none of your business. what you did isnt goin to stop them from what they do, its just gonna make them rebel more. trust me, i know from experience. you need to worry about yourself; unless these kids are personally hurtin you then leave it be.
the school will get the school police involved, checkin lockers and their pockets and such.
sorry, but thats how i feel.
x sweeethoney
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heyy.. you'll probably see this question later on, but i wanted advice sooner.. what should i expect my first time having sex.. as far as the physical feeling, i know everyone is different but i want some kind of knowledge going into it. (link)
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well, it might hurt since your probably not used to things goin up there. if you masturbate it might hurt less. it may not be all that good the first time, because it hurts or your nervous which is completely normal. just try to focus on how much you like the person (or if its just a hook up, how hot the person is) and be very intimate. if the other person knows that its your first time they probably wont put a ton of pressure on you, so dont worry if it takes you a little time to start to get into the motion.
i suggest to only lose it to someone you really care about !
x sweeethoney
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heeey, does anyone here know the definition of a 'scene kid' ?
someone called me that today, and i honestly dont know if thats good or bad?
like i kind of know about it, but can someone tell me more? (link)
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scene people are people who think theyre trendy and individual by cuttin their hair all the same and wearin the same make up. its kind of weird that theyre all about bein 'unique' and all look the same.
basically they are myspace whores, listen to hardcore music or weird wanna-be techno music, cut their hair all choppy and put different colors in it, and get facial piercings. they take pictures in weird poses and say things like 'OHAI', 'gawd', 'youre too cute stfu', and other trendy stuff like that. you could look it up on google and find a ton of stuff on it in a second.
if you dont really know what scene is, that prolly means you arent one. hope i helped !
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Does cutting your hair more often REALLY make it grow faster?
ARE there any methods to making hair grow faster?
What is the best way (and/or product) to restore health to hair? my hair's pretty damaged right now becuase i've been dying it a LOT for the past 2 years (I've stopped now). (link)
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cutting your hair more often makes it grow more SLOWLY. most of the time they cut your hair more then its growing for instance, if they cut 1/4 of an inch and you get it cut every month, its cuttin more then its growin. it is good, though, to get your hair cut because not treatin it can make it look reallllly damaged and make your hair break. ask them to 'dust' the ends without takin off any of the length. this will get rid of split ends.
there are certain pills and things you can use for your hair that claim to make it grow longer, but ive never tried it before. i suggest you do some research or talk to someone at a sally's beauty supply and see what options best for you.
to help the damage to your hair, start by tryin to cut as much of the damage off as you can. i know you want to grow it long but this can help you get sort of a fresh start. if you dont want to cut off a lot, just try to get as much of the damaged ends as you can. then, try to just moisturize it as best as you can. they have certain creams you can buy that you let sit in your hair for 5-10 minutes, like aussie 3 minute miracle. also, i was in the same boat you were in so i used the dove intense damage therapy and i like it a lot ! stay away from straighteners but if thats a necessity in your life, put the heat on a lower settin and try to get a spray or serum that you put in your hair to protect it.
hope i helped !
x sweeethoney
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