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my little brother,who is 11, keeps going through my phone! and like reading my texts and stuff, and he tells my mom any little thing it says, i don't know why he's doing this, because he's not mad at me or anything.. how do i make him stop???
I think he just wants attention from you.
If you can put a lock on your phone then I suggest you can do that. Make sure you always lock it though, it might be annoying having to lock it all the time at first - but you will get used to it :)
So Saturday night I had a six-pack of smirn. and I felt pretty good, and by the way I don't usually drink. Anyways, that night I didn't throw up, but the next morning I had my first hang over. Stomach hurt and my head felt really hot. On the way home, I threw up. I felt a whole lot better after, but my question is... why didn't I throw up that night. Would it have been better if I did? and how do you prevent having a hang over?(don't tell me not to drink). Thanks if you reply :D
A lot of people don't actually throw up on the same night. You probably didn't throw up because you had much to drink, but probably because you were dehydrated during the night. If you want to prevent a hangover in future - drink a glass of water before you go out and drink or whatever, and also when you come in. I never thought this would work but my friend used to suffer bad hangovers but since he started to drink water before and after alcohol, he hasn't been sick!
i have this crush he is considered to be a bad boy.i really like him but i don't know if he likes me i don't even thinks he knows my name.how do i find out if he likes me and how can i start a conversation with him?(13/f)
If he's a bad boy, you are probably best staying away from him. From experience, bad boys will just break your heart and don't care how you feel. I still like bad boys but I wish I didn't. If you really want to speak to this guy then just smile and say "Hi" next time you see him.
My ex and I broke up several months ago and it was a messy breakup. We have barely talked since. Now, almost a year later, I have gone through old letters and pictures, and realize I miss him terribly. Our relationship was long and serious, and we had more great times than bad, so it's hard to even justify the breakup. I thought I was over him, but now tears are coming back! Should I just throw all these things away or contact him in any way? I don't know if I should really move on or if something could happen again. (20/F)
i think a lot of people have felt this way at some point. i know that i definitely have, not that long ago either so i know how you feel. i felt this way, and quite stupidily i contacted him and although he was happy to hear from me, and admitted that he still liked me a lot - it never felt the same and i can honestly say i didn't have the feelings for him i thought i would. i think my emotions just took over as i thought of all the great memories we had together, and that's probably what you are feeling. in my personal opinion i would suggest you move on. hope i helped.
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15/f
Okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month. He says he would never lie to me and never hurt me and all that. Well i caught him lying to me one time and he admitted that he was lying and he said he was sorry and was begging me not to break up with me because he liked me so much. I forgave him because he admitted lying and then promised he would never do that again. But right now i am acared that he will lie again. Some guys learn their lesson and don't do it again and some are "once a liar, always a liar." So i don't know which he is. he told me he wouldnt do it again but i cant stop thinking about if he will or not. What should i do?
i still think you should give him a chance. everyone makes mistakes and although he said he would never lie, it's easy to lie and sometimes people (especially people who like someone a lot) lie to impress others..and not in a malicious way. just give him another chance and if he admits to lying again, then you can make a decision on whether to carry on the relationship. until then, don't worry about it =)
okay so i dated this guy for about 7 months.
and we broke up 2 months ago.
and i am not over him..at all!
we still talk at least once a week.
and i have tried everything to get over him, i have tired not talking to him. moving on. everything!
nothing works.
i am getting really sick of it.
even my friends have noticed that it is changing me.
music is not helping me anymore.
it just makes me sadder.
when me and him do talk all he does is bring up are memories. and how much fun it was. and i dont want to stop talking to him agian. cause when i do it makes me feel so much better.
i really dont know what to do.
it's understandable that you can't get over him, and i don't want to sound negative but it may take quite a long time for you to get over him - especially if you are speaking to him frequently. this may sound very "old fashioned" and such a cliche - but only time will ease the pain. and trust me, you are not the first to feel like this and you certainly won't be the last. it takes different people a different amount of time to get over someone and it's completely natural. what you have to do is try and move on with your life - focus on other things. set goals for yourself...take out a new hobby..anything that will stop you from thinking about him! some people may say finding someone new will help you get over him, but i would strongly advise against that as it isn't healing the pain it's just covering it for a while longer. it's good to think, and chat about the memories you had together, but you can't focus on the past too much. i am not saying do not speak to him at all, but try not to speak to him as much...as it will not help at all!
hope i helped you
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okay, i dont know what to do anymore
my boyfriend lately hasnt been himself.
theres days where he'll be all over me and be like "baby i love you and all this other stuff.."
but lately he's been ignoring me, like it seems like he's more concerned to hang out with his friend or whatever..and well 2weeks ago me and him went out and i meet his WHOLE family. and he was all over me then..its like when we go out. just me and him that's when he wants to be all lovely dovey...and it annoys me... like I'm not the type to be around or glued to my boyfriend 24/7 but dont ignore me wither and there's this one situation where me and him got into an arguement a LONG time ago..and now he always says to people that I'm jealous...and it gets me mad because how the sitaution went didn't even go like the way he thought. and he doesn't even ASK me anymore about the problems he just jumps to conculsion...and i hate it...it's like i don't want to talk to him about it..because i don't want to lead to an arguement but then i don't like keep everything inside..its just so hard for me..
i can understand why this is so difficult for you, i mean, i haven't gone through this but i can still see why it's upsetting you. clearly your boyfriend hasn't always been like this so the changes in him are going to take effect no matter what. i know you think that if you speak to him about it, it will lead to another argument, but it's the only way to resolve this. you can look at it 2 ways, he could either disagree with what your saying (e.g. argument starts) or he could actually realise how hes been treating you lately. the only person you can talk to is him, bcos it's ok to speak to others but speaking to him about it is the only way that your relationship can change. i think you should talk to him about how he's been treating you lately, the change of behaviour, and if he won't listen to you or starts an argument over it, he's really not worth it hun. i mean for him to say that your jealous about that thing a long time ago, even though he knows it makes you angry, is really hurtful, and you shouldn't be with someone who makes you feel like that!! your doing best by not keeping everything inside and i hope you do the right thing and talk to him. good luck and i hope it works out well :-)
helllo!! (:
18/f
anyways i've ALWAYS wanted hair extensions, i just never thought i'd ever get them. i've always wanted long hair, my hair honestly never grows no matter what i try. my hair barely touches my boobs. but today i was shopping with my mom and we seen the beauty salon and i was like ooooh mom lets go in there and look at some extensions. so we went it and started talking to the lady that works there. by the end of what she said, i really really wanted to buy them. they were 85 dollars and i was debating but i ended up getting them. i got the..18 inch ones i believe. my question is, if anyone has them or if anyone knows who has them...what do you think of them? do you like them, are they a pain to put in and tricky, does it look natural? i just have doubts but its non-returnable obviously. i'm excited but also nervous that i wasted 85 dollars on something i may not even like... thanks!!
I have had mine for over a year now and I love them!! It takes time to get used to them yea, but not long i'd say about 2 weeks. I would practice putting them in for a few days before you go to bed or something, and then you will get used to putting them in and you can start wearing them out :-) and yea they look natural if you have the right color!!
There's a guy who kind of like, and we had a thing in the past, and now it's just completely fucked up.
But that's not the point.
I always feel so alone, and this feeling bothers me so much.
I'm with friends a lot, so I'm not a loner, but it's more like the company of a boyfriend.
How can I ease this feeling? It's getting me down :(
I felt exactly like you about 2/3 months ago and to be honest, I have only just got over it. I was with my friends a lot, but it didn't seem enough for me and I just wanted to be with a guy. It will take time for you to change how you feel, but you will do!! and i'm sure a lot of people will tell you this, but time can only ease the feeling. I started to focus more on other things such as school, work and friends and family!! It feels such a releif now, and this feeling will pass, I promise!! Good Luck :-)
i want my hair to grow really fast, what should i eat? i am too broke to buy products and i am not a fan of those things. lol. thanks.
I heard jelly makes your hair grow faster, i haven't tried it but my friend has & she says it works :)
hiow do you you know when you love somone
Like everyone else has said, you will just know!! Theres a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone though...and I think sometimes people get a little confused with that !!
k so i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. our one year is coming up in like a week and i don't know what to do! i don't really have any money but i know he has something planned. i'm trying to get creative but i can't think of anything. i don't want to like do something stupid. i was thinking like a cute mixed cd or something because he loves music and plays guitar very well.
any ideas? suggestions?
thanks a lot lot lot!
yeah a mixed cd would be really cool, with all his favourite songs!! also maybe a picture of you & him together? it sounds simple but everyone loves getting photos!!
16/f. I was sort of thinking of getting my hair redone. I'd like to dye it lighter, but i dont know if it would look good. Here is a picture of me: http://i35.tinypic.com/30csrwm.jpg I'd also like to get a new style. Can anyone tell me what'd look good on me? Please send pictures. I'm open to any colors, and any styles. Thanks!
http://www.ukhairdressers.com/style/index2.asp?R1=10682&month1=&pg=1&styl1=New%20id%20Studios
I think this hairstyle would look cute!
& maybe some light and dark streaks :)
Im at skewl and the teachers ask me to go up on the board infront of the whole class my hand or leg starts shaking uncontrollaby and i would mess up in my handwriting on the board im guessin becasue the guy i like is in my same class so thats why im always so nervous to go up on the board haha is there any way i could control it? or something that would calm me down cuz i find it rather embarassin..thanks :)
Just smile a lot!! It seems simple, but it works...a confident smile!! Good luck :)
16/f
i didn't really know what category to put this under, since it kinda fits with everything. but anyways, this is a really weird problem but i really need help because it's annoying the crap out of me. okay so, basically i'm like really shy people. i mean i'm mostly loud around my friends and people i know well, but sometimes it doesn't work that way. sometimes i'm really loud around people i barely know that i just met. like it depends on my mood i guess. but some people think i'm really shy. like especially because at school i never really raise my hand in class because i'm always really tired and i hate school so my attitude is just like blahh. but a lot of times when people hang with me outside of school they're like wow you're totally different than i thought you were. but yeah like i need help especially talking to guys that i just meet. like i know how to hold a conversation and stuff i just don't really know what to say so they'll like know i'm interested in hooking up or something. i was talking about this with my friend yesterday and we decided that guys always like come to me. like i've never had a problem with getting a boyfriend, having guys want to hook up with me, etc. but i've also never like actually tried to get a guy to like me. i just kinda go with whatever's there. i'm not trying to sound cocky or anything but there's like always a guy that likes me. i want to actually like work for something though if that makes any sense. like flirt a lot to get him to like me. because once i know a guy likes me i like flirt with him a lot. that's like my problem. i don't know how to explain this.. i just want people to stop thinking i'm so shy! but like sometimes i'm around people and i just don't know what to say. i'm not like afraid of sounding stupid i'm just like afraid of people judging me or something. i don't know i just need help coming out of my shell. any tips?
I'm exactly the same!! And it used to bother me when people said I was shy but I really don't mind now bcos i'm happy not to be seen as "the loud one" but when people get a chance to know me they can see there is a lot more to me.
I don't really know how you can make yourself seem less shy, because that's just who you are when you meet new people. I guess the best advice is to smile a lot, & strike a conversation with new people before they speak to you :)
Ok, I take fairly awful pictures
& evertime I see picture on myspace of people
They are edited to perfection
I would like to kno any good FREE picture editors I can download from the internet
I already downloaded the Google picture editor
So ones besides that one, please
& Thanks in advance [=
http://photofiltre.free.fr/download_en.htm
It takes a while to get used to though. But once you know how to use it, it's good considering it's free!!
so there is this student teacher in our class and i see him everyday (when i'm at school of course) and he's so attractive and has an amazing smile. i'm only 16 and he's 22 or 23. to me that's just weird. but i know i couldn't have him, because the age difference and he's technically a teacher. i don't know what it is, but i know i like older guys. they just seem to be better than some of the immature guys at my school.
he is a teacher and that's never going to happen. should i stop thinking about him? should i just not worry about it?
I think it's a wise decision for you to stop thinking about him (even though that's easier said than done) but do try not to worry about it because that won't change anything!!
& i'm not surprised you like older guys, most of my friends like older guys and always have done!! it's because they come across much more mature..& usually are for that matter.
Ok i've liked this guy named Zak for a long time. I know him because my best friend lives next to him and he is only a year older(16) than us. But I just went to our homecoming dance and another one of my friends and I connected. His name is Matt. When we would get hot in the gym my best friend and i would go out on the wired steps, with no shoes. She would stand on Zaks feet, so i got a little jealous. So I stated to stand on Matts. I would lose my banlance and he would hold me close. Then when a slow song came on, Zak promised to dance with me, but blew me off. So then Matt comes at of nowhere and askes me to dance. We start iur dancing far away then I wrapped my arms tighter around him and rest my head on his shoulder and close my eyes. Soon I step on to his feet and he's the only one moving. I think I'm falling for him, but I feel bad about Zak. Am I a player? Do I forget about Zak since I've liked him for years? Do I go for Matt. I'm so confused right now!!
I think at this moment all you feel for Matt is lust, maybe because you wanted the attention from Zak but you didn't get it. But whether you should go for Zak or not, I don't really know because if he blew you off, his feelings for you are not quite clear. You aren't a player at all, does Zak know about your feelings? If not, there is no reason why you shouldn't give Matt a chance, because even if it just lust, you won't be hurting anyone in the process!! Good luck with this :)
so i broke up with this boy over a year ago, but I'm still in love with him...
ive tried asking him out a couple times, were close friends still and i have told him how i feel but he just doesnt have feelings for me anymore.
i moped around just thinking id be alone forever for a while, then i started dating again, but i always end up dumping them because i feel guilty for still loving my ex.
should i be feeling guilty? tell me anything besides give it time... thanks!
The only way that any new relationship will work is when you are over your ex. & i feel for you bcos it's really not easy. don't feel bad for feeling guilty, you can't control your feelings. I would wait til you feel differently about your ex before you date new people bcos it won't help the problem, it may only make it worse!! good luck!!
Age: 14
Gender: female
Before I ask, I am going to provide a bit of background information. So there's this guy, I have loved him for almost over a year now, but we have not dated nor talked about it. Let's say I admire him passionately from afar, but we are very close friends. Just last Saturday, I went to his birthday party, and I really believed he was starting to understand that I liked him and maybe even like me back in the same way. The next day I walked into school and found out from one of my friends that he started to go out with this girl on Sunday whom he had known for less than a month as she was new to our school.
Needless to say, I felt horrible and was depressed for the rest of the day. I still am depressed, and he doesn't even know why. I really love him, and I want him to be happy, but I just don't know what to do. I can barely stand to be around him anymore, but I don't want to ruin our friendship either. Does anyone know what I should do?
It's clear to say that if you had of told him this to begin with then you wouldn't be feeling this way, but there is no point dwelling on that as it will only make you feel worse than you already do!! I can understand that you are feeling upset, and trust me, this has probably happened to every girl out there!! I know exactly how you feel, you really like him and you want him to be happy - but with you. You just need to try and take your mind off it for now, i'm not saying you should forget about him bcos that wont happen cos you love him, but he may not last long with this new girl, and once he has finished with her, you should be open and tell him how you feel.