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I had asked a question that you did not understand. I asked for help[ with a girl tat i like. I do tend to write in a confusing way though lol.

Sorry I just didnt get it cause you didnt state your answer clearly.. I was confused between you talking about handjobs and stuff? Well If you like her, talk to her. Get to know her before you try and make a move or ask her out. Know who she is and what shes into and whos shes friends with. Its always good to know about a girl before you try to get with her. Hope this helped.
&hearts, Kt.

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You guys are 14 years oold and are playing with guys crotches because everybody is talking about, im 14, but i ghave my boyfriend a hand job. Well, thats not da point. im 13, and i like this person, but i dont know if she likes me, i dont know and its kind off pissing me off, well, w/e, its a dumb question, just wondering if you could give me advice.

About what? Sorry, I dont know your question if you wanting me to give you pointers on a hand job or about something else. Try asking with more detail cause your writing is super confusing and I dont understand. So ask again and i'll be sure to help you out.

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i love katie shes one amazing girl

Thank you. Your probably one amazing person, too.

Katie, ♥

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cuz it IZ you...don't know if that changes anything but, heres my question, does it?

Well It might not. Cause I like, and have been liking someone. Im sorry. And like you said, my myspace bulitens talk about my perfect boyfriend.. I dont have a boyfriend. And you said i dont date people younger than me, thats not true. I just dont have feelings for anyone that is.

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i am 15 and my period suddenly stop.the last time i saw it was in jan.sometimes i only feel the pain and i see a white fluid on my panty but i dont see d blood.please help me iwanna know how to bring it back bcause i dont av any money to go to the doc.

Im not sure how to bring it back, but try talking to your mom, or school nurse maybe. I would think that the nurse or your mom might know what is happening or would help you out. Maybe your just going through a dry patch.. but Im sure you'll be fine. Maybe just keep waiting for it, and it should come. I hope this helped.

Katie,

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Im 15/f am i supposed to be shaving my downstairs?

You can if you want to. Alot of girls do, and theres nothing wrong with it. Feel free to.

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i like someone *i'm a guy) and shes really cute, but, shes practically a year older than me. And she doesn't date people younger than her, but we're so much alike. You know her, infact you've known her since you've been born (no, not your mom, =P) She posts lots of surveys about her ' perfect boyfriend' and that kinda leads me to her, but, it just doesn't seem to help, (she barely ever smiles at me anymore) Please help me on how to get her to lke me!!!

thanx kt, your awesome

Haha, now im super curious who this is. Maybe just try talking to her, but if she has a boyfriend its probably alot less likely. I know thats not what you want to hear.. but its true. I say just keep trying to talk to her more and you can try to be good friends. If your good friends than things might lead somewhere? But you cant force or make someone like you. I hope this helped and everything works out. And i think i might know who your talking about? Haha im wondering who it is now =).
Katie,

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okay well heres the thing.
i went out with this guy for awhile
and we broke up and he is like still
in love with me, but we are cool now.
like . .. just friends KIND OF. but anyways, i did some stuff with one of his good friends and he told everyone. then the guy i went out with found out and is totally crushed, i hate the guy i did it with, and i dont know what to do.
HELP ME PLEASE!!!

YOURS,
CONFUSED.

Well even though your ex might be mad at you, theres really no reason you should be sorry. Cause i went through the same thing and i sad sorry to the guy, but i didnt need to. You didnt do anything wrong.. its not like your suppost to reserve yourself for this guy just so you dont hurt him, and your single you shouldnt be like not doing anything for this guy.. its like hes holding you back. But you probably should say sorry if you are cause if you are then its alot nicer then being like "what i dont care i didnt do anything". I really hope you can be alrite threw this, trust me.. i went through the same thing like excatly. hah if i didnt answer your question just ask again. =)
katie

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hello. well.
me and my boyfriend
have only been going out
for a little while. but i dont no
if he has ever kissed anyone & this
sounds stupid. but i just dont want to ask him.
i mean i like him alott. but i just dont no if he has. what should i do?. .

Maybe trying bringing up the subject or something in that topic. If youve made out with alot of people, or kissed a few people even and he hasnt, then that you probably wouldnt want to brag or say like.. "i kisssed so and so, and him and him.." cause he'd probably feel imbarrassed or like, "oh well i havent made out with anyone". My best suggestion is just to try and bring up the topic.. or maybe be a little sneeky and ask someone who knows him well. Or you can just strait up ask him. I hope this helps =)
♥ kt

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when you are answer quistions dont you want to know who the people are you are like giving advice to.? lol you gave me alot of advice and by the way it helped! : ]
thanksyou!!

Haha yeah i'd like to know who i give advice too, but its fine cause thats the reason i have one of these columns, so i cant see who needs advice. And your so welcome. I'll help anytime cause i absoulty love love love getting questions.

Kt ♥

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hey there is this guy i like alot an dhe tol dmy friend he like mt o but every time i talk to him i liek freeze! what should i do.?

Try talking to him on line or maybe not in person so you might feel more comfortable with him. Or just keep hanging around him cause im sure after a while you should feel normal. Just be yourself around him cause you shouldnt try to be something or someone your not =). I hope this helped.

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my girlfriends more experienced then me how should i let her give me a handjob?

Umm, Im sorta confused about this. Well just like, if shes ready she'll probably go for it. If you know she is going to give you one you wont be as shoked or anything so you might want to be aware if shes going for it. I hope i answered this question okay, if not just asked with more detail and i'll try to get it right if its not. ♥

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i really like this one guy and he told my friend he liked me to but like he doesent go to my school and i like never she him i only know him from a boy who is in my class he is his cousin and i met him once so what should i do?

So you like him, but you've only seen him like once? Well if you think you like him try talking to him more. Cause I can see if you like are intrested in someone if you've meet them once but it seems harder to like like someone after only once. Basically just try to see him more or talk to him. I hope this helped.
Kt ♥

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okay i rly like this guy. hes awesome. but i was talking to his friend that i never have rly talked to before. but he was rly nice to me but i dont think hes interested. welll this guy that i rly like is going to the movies with this other girl. she is so much pretty then me. but he flirts wit me wat should i do ??? plz i need help

Sometimes, if a girl is prettier doesnt matter. Some guys are intrested in more than looks.. like just because someone might be more attractive doesnt mean shes not a bitch, or shes borning. Cause I know people that are pretty and annoying, or mean, or just borning. Just try talking to him more and seeing if hes intrested. Flirting might not mean smoething, but sometimes it might. Hope this helps =)

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Im the same person who signed - confused - yeah now with those two things what do i do because i dont want my boyfriend to think i am stupid and dont understand

Well i dont see how'd he think you were stupid if you didnt really know how do give him a hand job? Cause did you say either of you did anything like that before? He shouldnt judge. Maybe say like.. "ive never done this before so i might not know what to do.." or just let him know that you might get a little lost doing this all. If anyone should be confused if should be him.. with a handjob just like jack him off haha, i mean its all right out infront of you.. But like with fingering its alottt harder to do cause the chicks parts are tons more confusing and to find the part that feels good is harder. I was kinda confused by your question though so i hope this answered it.. if not just ask more clearly and i'll try super duper hard to asnwer it =).
Katie ♥

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Head is where you suck a guys dick until that white shit comes out.

I dont think it nesicarly needs to be untill he explodes.. or when that white shit comes out witch is called sperm or cum or giz.. lots of names.

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me and my boyfriend arent very experienced but we both want to move on i know this is going to sound weird, and i dont know if you will understand but if you give a guy a hand job is it weird or does it just seem normal? also, when your being fingered what are you really supposed to do?
signed,
- confused -

Oh haha trust me i understand. Well if you and yuor boyfriend never did it before, either one of you, you both will be nervous and shakey and not really sure what to you. When you first give a guy a hand job, like it kind of is werid.. but it seems after a while its normal and you get used to it. And when you fingered allyou need to do is just let the guy finger you. I really dont think a girl needs to do anything. It doesnt seem as werid as if your making out while you do it cause then you wont just be like getting fingered or giving a handjob. Or kiss there neck, just something else to do while you get busy ;). And once you've done it more, you get more and more used to it and im sure you dont get as nervous anymore. I hope this helped.

Katie ♥

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im a girl... 13
ok i really like someone, and he talks to me somtimes and stuff and hes real cool. but im not sure if a can trust him because he only goes out with girls to have the most girlfriends throughout school. he goes out with people for like 2 days and he doesnt like them at all. im not sure if a can trust him, but i like him ALOT... hellp

Do you know if he likes you? If yoou know he would only use you then it is probably pointless to try and just get hurt unless your willing to. Maybe try talking to him and saying,"you know what, i like you but i dont want you to just go threw me like all those other girls". maybe not worded like that. Just try telling him how you feel, i hope this helps.

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hey what should i do my bestfriends well they arent really anymore they never call me and like this past weekend we all went to kenosha like at a hotel and they havent called me once and like i asked them to sleepover never asnwered then they had one somewhere else-and i dont know what to do do you?

Try just talking to them about it. Sometimes you cant help people from spliting apart, but just try hanging around with them or talking to them more. Maybe they just need a week or few to get back to normal. Hopefully its just something they are going threw. Hope this helps ♥.

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mk so around halloween i made out with my friend dom, then he got annoied so i told him we should leave eachother alone for a little bit or whatever and we didnt and completely stoped talking. then eariler in the week we talked on online out of nowhere. i am starting to like him again alot. but hes going out with someone. the thing is he's a really bad boyfriend and is telling me that he would do stuff with me while still going out with his girlfriend. i really like him but i dont know what to do
-katie.

Are you friends with his girlfriend or know her? Even if your not you shouldnt. You can get bad reputation from it and people do jump to conclusions maybe calling you a whore or slut for being the person who hes cheating on his girlfriend wtih. And its just not really right. If he wants to do stuff with you then he should break up with his girlfriend first. I think that you shouldnt do it and just say that its wrong. Hope this helps xo

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