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Well there isn't too much to say about me. I love to give advice. It makes me feel great. I am very short lolz. I have blonde hair and I'm in love. =] Also don't be afraid to give me feedback because I'd like to know how good of a job I am doing. Don't be afraid to ask me questions or send me a message.
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why are boys shy? arent they suppsoed to be like... not.. haha
Guys can be shy just like girls. It's just a matter of personality. some guys are shy and some are outgoing. Just like girls. I hope this helps. =]
i dont want to hurt him
Well if you are just scared of breaking up with him and hurting him don't worry about it. If this hurts you then it needs to stop. You should tell him that. It's your feelings, not his. Just remember that. Good luck. =]
what do i use for my face under my makeup to prevent pimples white/blackheads or anything else thats bad that can happen to my face for using makeup everyday?
like some kind of cream or moisturizer you girls use or...?
WHATS YOUR SECRET!!!
please and thanks im BREAKING OUT :/
I hear Proactive solutions is really good. A few of my friends and even my teacher uses it. One of my friends told me it made it worse at first though, but then everything got clear.
14/f
freshman
I like my science partner. . . but he doesn't know it ( that i know ). Lets call him J.
So today we had a pep rally in school and there was a seat right by me and two seats in front of me. So we barely talk in science, but when he got to my row, he sat right by me and his friends in front of me. And he was like " HEY (my name)! "
Then in science my friend katie didn't have a partner so the teacher told her to be partners with me. So she goes over to J and says that I am working with her, and he gave her a "what the heck?" glare. and i was like, sorry, shes kidnapping me, and he starting laughing.
what does this mean? it seems like he is talking to his friends about me because whenever he whispers, his friends look at me. what does this mean?
You should tell him that you like him. Pick a good time to do it though. It seems from what you have said that he likes you too. So don't be scared. Just tell him and see.
so this good friend of mine...i started liking him...and well.......................................................................
why is it easier to like make out with soemone you don't know rather than just....doing stuff like that with him??/
i mean dammit. i hate it.
I think it's because you actually like this person. You are more afraid of getting hurt by somebody you actually love or like then somebody you barely know. That's why it's much harder to do it.
after my boyfriend and i got in a fight.. and i forgave him, this is his facebook status.
"suddenly it feels like my shoulder blades have just shifted its like the greatest gift you can get , the weight has been lifted"
It seems to me like he is really glad that you're not fighting anymore. He probably is happy that you forgave him for whatever the reason and is glad that he knows you're not going to end the relationship or anything.
15/F
I've never kissed a guy but over half the kids I know have already lost their virginity or gotten way close to losing it. And they're all like "YOUVE never kissed a guy? youre gonna end up like the 40 year old virgin, oh i know this guy for you" or whatever
And I 'pleasure' myself and stuff but just doing that, I feel SOOO guilty like I cant leave my room after.
And theres this guy that wants to do stuff with me and I really like him, and I talked to my mom about how I dont think hes that good of a person to hang around and she told me how my sister lost her virginity to a guy when she was my age.. which didnt really help.
But I reallly wanna do SOMETHING with a guy to know how it feels.. but at the same time I dont because I like being special, and feeling proud, and seeing peoples reactions when I tell them.
I just don't know what to do :[
this is highschool and its hard
If this isn't the guy, then it isn't the guy. Wait until the time is right. If it's not going to be special then I wouldn't even consider it. You may hear it's great and everything but you should think it through. Think of the risks. Also think of how the relationship will end and what will happen. What if you end up having a baby...what would happen? Would it have a good life? Would the dad stay? Think everything through first. I hope this helps. =]
Ok, so about two years ago I was pretty sad. But that was because I got diagnosed with Celiac disease and it was my first year of highschool and i wasnt popular, pretty etc.
but over the past couple years i made lots of good friends and got over the fact that i wasn't hot like nearly everyone else.
but lately i could look at a pretty girl and nearly burst out crying. i hate seeing people that are pretty and popular and laughing and having a good time. i feel real jelous but also guilty because i feel like a terrible person everytime i get depressed when I see someone good-looking and happy.
I also get sad on the inside when I see hot guys, because i feel like I have no chance at all with them. I never show people my emotions, so my friends & family have no idea i am sad. I dont want to talk about things because i tried talking to my friend but i felt kinda... awkward and like my problem was stupid and insignificant. I just need some advice on how i can get over these feelings, because i hate going to school and seeing beautiful people and getting depressed. I feel like someone has stabbed me with a knife in my chest just below my heart and when I need to cry i hold the tears back but it makes the pain worse. :(
It sounds to me like you have low self easteam. You probably are beautiful. Everybody is in their own way. You have friends right? See. You must not be horrible like you say you are. If you give a guy a chance yo know you, you could get a boyfriend easily. Also remember nothings all about looks. They aren't that important in a person.
My boyfriend has been mentioning things about his girl friends like last night he was telling me how this one chick looked real good in he halloween outfit and then he said sorry for saying. Later we were talking and I told him to hang on so u could fix my bra and he goes u thought you didn't wear them to bed you said they hurt your back and I was like no I never said that and he said oh that must have been someone else then srry again. It upset me a little but I acted like it was no big deal. Is it one? If so do you think he is playing the jealousy game or what?
Hm...I would think that you should talk to him about it. Tell him you don't like it that he talks about other girls that way.
About the whole jealousy thing. Yes maybe he was. If he wasn't then he just needs to keep his eyes on you only. Toy should tell him that. If a girl gives him some information that you don't need to know tell him to keep it to himself unless you want him to tell you.
ok i play an online game where i met a guy. we instantly clicked and we have so much in common its so crazy. we are totally differnt people when were are talking. we both believe we are soul mates because we are eachothers dream person. we even said we love each other. and i know this is an online game and usually the people arent truthful but i know he is telling the truth and i cant go a whole day w/o talking to him. but anyway my parents are totally against the whole facebook/myspace thing. my gut says that i shouldnt tell them but i dont know what to do when i start smiling for no reason or when they start saying stuff about the guy i should fall in love with. should i say i already love a guy? cuz then it would lead to all sorts of questions and me ending up telling them i met him online which would freak them out. but they r my parents and they should know if i love someone right? ugh i have no clue what to do! anything will help!
If you truly love this boy and think you two may meet someday I'd tell your parents. Be sure to explain your love for him. If you ever do go meet him be sure to bring your parents just in case. It'd be safer to tell them and I'm sure they'd trust you more. Be careful on what you say though. Good luck. =]
ok, my boyfriend always talks about other girls!!!! and its like 80% of what he talks about is other girls and his exes! ive tried to talk about it with him acouple of times.. but it didnt work out. breaking up is OUT OF THE QUESTION!!!!!
what do i do?
Well if you aren't going to break up with him what I'd do is talk about other guys. Let him know how it feels. Don't get to bad about it though. Just enough to prove a point to him. When he talks to you and tells you he doesn't like you talking about those other guys tell him that's how you feel when he talks about other girls. I hope this works fro you. Good luck. =]
Is it true that you never forget your first love? i am in a serious relationship and have been for quite a few years, but i do not think i could ever let go of my first boyfriend. i find that i cant fully give myself to my current boyfriend as i always wonder what if! i am happy im really happy, but i do always wonder what if things had been different... should i try to forget my first love? is it healthy to forget? i think he will always hold a place in my heart that no one could ever fill. i havnt seen my ex for years, snce the day we broke up. do you think it would help me move on if i did see him?
You will probably always remember him yes. But you don't have to love him. I don't think it would help if you saw your ex. That'd probably make it more complicating. As long as you are happy with your recent boyfriend you should stay with him. I hope this helps you. =]
how do you like bein fingered??? do you like clit or do u like it deeper.. how is fast or slow? me and my gf are going somewhere special and she's gonna let me finger her for the first time
btw im 17 and she's 16
Well it really depends on the person. I mean you should really just ask her. Like if it seems what you are doing, she doesn't like, then stop and try something different. I would try clit first and then go deeper. switch it up between fast and slow. make sure she knows to tell you if it's hurting because you don't want to her her. Also you can switch up how many fingers you use. Good luck. =]
okayy so im 14 and i am a female! so okayy there is this 18 year old guy dat my mom wants me to be with but i dnt want to because i am in LOVE wit dis other guy but i dnt want to tell her dat i like dis other guy cause all me and her do is fight and it causes alot of stress towards me i think she likes dis guy alot for me cause he is my mom's bestfriends son but O MY GOSH i DO NOT like him what should i do or tell my mom???.....thanx
I think you are right. I mean if you don't want to date him it's your choice. Especially if you are in love with somebody else. Plus that guy is pretty older then you. I can't believe your mom actually prefers him. I am dating a guy like a bit over two years older and my mom's already about to flip. What you should do is explain to her that you're in love with another guy. Let her meet him and stuff to feel better around him. It worked for me. I hope this helps. =]
My best friend keeps trying to steal my bf and she keeps yelling at me and bringing my other bff in to this and i want to know what to do before i beat her @$$ and kill her....
HELP ME!
I have had this same problem. Except it was my own sister! This is what I'd do. First tell her that if she's a real friend she'd want you to be happy. If that doesn't get through to her then she really isn't to great of a friend. Also make sure the guy is important to you and not going to dump you for her. If he is he's not worth it either. She needs to face the fact that you're his girl. When she figures that out she will have no choice but to get over it. I hope this helps you. =]
okk soo theres this boy I like.....but all my friends say hes too bad for you and all this crap and he doesnt deserve you and stuff....and he likes me 2.....what should I dooo???
Help....Plz,
Kateyy
Well if you personally like this boy then I think you should go for it. I mean I understand if your friend is trying to watch out for you, but in this case their opinions don't really matter. It's what you want. If you really like this guy then you should totally go for it. I hope this helps. =]
First off, don't tell me how it was a stupid thing to do because I already know that ok?
So here's what happened, my boyfriend & I had sex for the first time 9 days ago.
I'm on the pill, and have been for 5 months.
He wore a condom, but the thing is, he kind of put it on inside out but then fixed it.
I last took my pill sunday night at 9pm. It is now tuesday afternoon, and um there's nothing like a period.
um. am I actually pregnant?
ps. I started the pill to regulate my period.
If you've been taking the pill I wouldn't worry much. Although if symptoms start showing up that you are then I'd take a few tests. Probably should see if a doctor if that happens though. I hope this helps. =]
15/f
my boyfriend and i have been dating for a little over a year and it's not getting boring but i would just like some suggestions of something nice i could do for him like a surprise or something nice we could do together? something other than like going to the movies and something inexpensive. he's 16.
nothing sexual please! haha thanks in advance =]
Here are a few suggestions:
-Take him on a sweet picnic. Make all of his favorites and have the picnic somewhere beautiful.
-Laser Tag. If you have a laser tag place close by then that's a great place to go. Well if it's a good laser tag place.
-Arcade. It's always fun to go to the arcade.
I hope these help you. Have fun. =]
Here's the situation: I'm 14/f (freshman), and my parents recently got a divorce. My mom is now remarried and my dad has a girlfriend that lives in Florida. Now, the dilemma is, I now have a choice to make. My dad's girlfriend moved up here for a short time but then had to move back because she was unable to sell her house. My dad didn't want to go with her because he didn't want to be away from his kids (four of us). Now, I have the choice to either move to Florida with my dad or stay in Arkansas with my mom. They said I could do whichever and it wouldn't hurt their feelings, but I know I'm going to end up hurting someone. I suppose I'm afraid of change, in a way. I think it would be really fun to move to Florida. I think I'll make new friends and like it better. I'll get to start over, be anyone I want, blah blah blah, etc... But I'm afraid that if I move, I won't be able to return to Arkansas. Not literaly, but meaning, I'd have to forget about the life I've built up here and start over yet again. My old friends will have replaced me and will have tons of inside jokes that I wasn't there for. I'll have missed everything. Then I wouldn't have anywhere to go. However, if I went to Florida and did end up having a better life, I would be glad I did, because life in Arkansas is pretty boring. I just don't know how things will turn out in Florida. I don't know how to make this decision. I've asked my friends and family to help, but of course they are all trying to convince me to do what they want me to do, not what's best for me. I just don't know what to do. I want to move, but yet I don't. I've tried making a list of the upsides and downsides of both, but it's all coming up dead even. I don't want an answer saying "ultimately it's your decision". I don't want it to be my decision. I want it to be someone else's. Just tell me what to do please! Or if you've had a similar situation, what helped you make your decision?! Help PLEASE!? I'm stressing out so much!
Well by what you have said it seems like Florida will be better for you. I mean you can always make new friends and don't worry. I am sure you'll get to come back to Arkansas. Keep in contact with your friends though. That'll help with that situation. Also make sure it's your dad you want to live with. If you are sure about that and you'd like to do that stuff in Florida then go for it. Hope this helps. =]
i like someone named Lenny but i don't think he likes me.Should I give him a note?Please answer this.I am a girl.I am 11 years old
First, I'd find out a few things about him. Make sure you truly like this guy. If you do then I'd say to go for it. Make sure to make it sweet and tell him how much you like him. Good luck. =]