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randomly sad
Ok, so about two years ago I was pretty sad. But that was because I got diagnosed with Celiac disease and it was my first year of highschool and i wasnt popular, pretty etc.
but over the past couple years i made lots of good friends and got over the fact that i wasn't hot like nearly everyone else.
but lately i could look at a pretty girl and nearly burst out crying. i hate seeing people that are pretty and popular and laughing and having a good time. i feel real jelous but also guilty because i feel like a terrible person everytime i get depressed when I see someone good-looking and happy.
I also get sad on the inside when I see hot guys, because i feel like I have no chance at all with them. I never show people my emotions, so my friends & family have no idea i am sad. I dont want to talk about things because i tried talking to my friend but i felt kinda... awkward and like my problem was stupid and insignificant. I just need some advice on how i can get over these feelings, because i hate going to school and seeing beautiful people and getting depressed. I feel like someone has stabbed me with a knife in my chest just below my heart and when I need to cry i hold the tears back but it makes the pain worse. :(
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Well you have nothing to worry about. I am sure that you are gorgeous and that you are the only one who don't know that. There is absolutely no difference between you and the "pretty people". The only difference is confidence.
True story, My sister has acromegly ( growth hormone disease)and she could let it get her down and she could burst into tears when the "pretty or healthier people" are running around happy and laughing. But she don't, you know why? Because to her she is pretty and healthy and to guys she is pretty and healthy. It is your lack of confidence that makes you feel unpretty
Empower yourself honey, you have to find what works for you. Try to look at what you have. The more you dwell on these feelings the less you can see all the people who think that you are wonderful. You need to bring your self-esteem up. So today you should try and believe in your self and if you need more support then I believe in you too. Hope this helps!!!!!
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It sounds to me like you have low self easteam. You probably are beautiful. Everybody is in their own way. You have friends right? See. You must not be horrible like you say you are. If you give a guy a chance yo know you, you could get a boyfriend easily. Also remember nothings all about looks. They aren't that important in a person.
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