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Me and My mom having problems....=[
okayy so im 14 and i am a female! so okayy there is this 18 year old guy dat my mom wants me to be with but i dnt want to because i am in LOVE wit dis other guy but i dnt want to tell her dat i like dis other guy cause all me and her do is fight and it causes alot of stress towards me i think she likes dis guy alot for me cause he is my mom's bestfriends son but O MY GOSH i DO NOT like him what should i do or tell my mom???.....thanx
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I think you are right. I mean if you don't want to date him it's your choice. Especially if you are in love with somebody else. Plus that guy is pretty older then you. I can't believe your mom actually prefers him. I am dating a guy like a bit over two years older and my mom's already about to flip. What you should do is explain to her that you're in love with another guy. Let her meet him and stuff to feel better around him. It worked for me. I hope this helps. =]
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No one should ever go out with someone they don't like. period. You are right to not want to be with an 18 year old man. If he's 18 he's a man and not a boy. You are 14. Show your mother respect when you talk to her about it but let her know that you don't want to be with him. Maybe you could tell her you are not interested in guys older than 16 or something.
As far as being interested in someone she doesn't like, try to figure out why she doesn't like him. She may be right about him. And just remember that there will always be more boys but only one mom.
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You're 14, being hooked up with an 18 year old? By your own mother?!
Ok, sorry sorry. But it sounds a bit risky to me, you know how these 18 year olds are.
Anyways, back to the real question.
If you dont like him in that way then of course you have to tell your mom. However Im not sure what your relationship is like between you and her, so it could be difficult doing so, right? But shes your mother, and all teenage girls argue with their moms. Your mom should respect you and your opinion and not continue hassling you to date a guy if you tell her straight that you do not want to and give a few good reasons why.
Honesty is the best policy.
And you'll feel better telling her (as long as it doesnt cause a fight, of course)
In general, you know your mother, I dont. So I reckon that you should decide what to do, but think about the bigger picture.
What will the consequences be?
Hope I helped :).
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