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hi! im the person who asked about the birth control, and if it was going to work effectively. so if i did decide to take it at night, wouldnt that mess everything up? starting to take it at a different time? (link)
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If you haven't already done it yet it's best to do it gradually than suddenly wait 6 hours to take it form your normal time. you should be fine if you take one at lunch tomorrow instead of breakfast and at lunch the next day. Then after those to days of lunch pills start taking them at supper. If you can wait til you get our next period that is the best time to switch pill times because the last few pills are just blanks anyway. they give out those to help you stay in the habit of taking a pill every day and to help you keep up with when to start taking them again. So you could wait until you've had your period and then when you take the first pill take it at supper time. Keep using condoms just in case and you probably wont have anything to worry about. Condoms are 98% effective against pregnancy when used properly.
Keep in mind i'm not a medical professional though. The best thing to do is call a nurse at your ob/gyn and ask them about switching times. you most likely wont even have to go to see them. a phone call will probably do it.
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my discharge is kinda brownish with red dots in it. but all week iv had normal clear discharge. is this normal? also im 13/f. iv had a period since i was 11. and its a crazy thing. it very irregular. so this brownish stuff is normal right?
and if not, should i be worryed? (link)
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At the end of a period sometimes the discharge turns brownish but you said you had clear discharge all week. Since you are having cramps I'll bet you are just starting your period and it's just a little brownish for some reason. Don't worry too much right now. Keep an eye on it and if you don't get our period in the next few days you might want to call your doctor and ask the nurse about it.
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Alright well Im 15 and I drink and smoke. Well I have had sex with 12 people already. A few of them I really liked and most of them I was drunk. And I know thats not an excuse. But Ive been fucked over so many times by guys. Like I dont have any emotions anymore. But I can like name all of tthe people I did have sex with. But I still feel like im a slut and I dont want to be a slut or feel like one. Most of the time when im in a relationship I feel like I have to have sex with them. Or they keep bugging/begging me and I cave in sometimes. So Idk what to do. (link)
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It sounds like you aren't happy with what you are doing. You are starting to see how drinking and sleeping around will really make you feel. Now is a good time for you to take a break. It's time to date yourself. Right now other than your parents you love yourself more than anyone else does. So love yourself like you deserve to be loved! Really pretend like you are dating yourself. (Don't tell any one that though of course.) Do the things with yourself that you would usually do with a boyfriend like go do fun things. Get to know yourself better. Really think about what kinds of things you like and things you want to do that you have never done before. I'm telling you this because it sounds like you are not taking care of yourself. When things in your life get crazy like that it's time to find out why its going that way and fix it so you can get better. You are your own best friend so take care of yourself like a best friend would.
I would try not to be in a relationship for a while since you know you wind up doing things you don't want to do. Try not to go to the places that make you want to drink and have sex. Find someone who you really look up to and who other people look up to and hang around with them. Find the things you like about them and do those things. Before you know it you'll be someone you are proud of and who the nicest guys want to follow around all day.
It sounds hard but remember, "There's nothing to it but to do it."
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iv ben with my boyfriend for almost two months. we kiss n makeout alot n i was his first, n he tells me to take lead n show him how n stuff. he is a great kisser but he slobbers alot, n his braces cut me. how can i get him to change that? (link)
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I know it's embarrassing to talk to him about it but it seems like he really wants you to. Casually bring up the slobbering problem when you aren't kissing in a casual way. Maybe even in a note or by email. Bring it up by asking him what kind of things turn him off. Then when he's done tell him that you are really turned off by body oder, sweat, and you hate slobber during kissing. Tell him you really like nice dry kisses. As far as his braces hurting you nest time it happens just say, "ouch! please kiss me more softly and maybe with your lips closed a little more!". Then tickle him and kiss him on the face or something to let him know you're not upset.
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does anyone have some good fund raising ideas. The arts classes at my school are taking a trip to NYC in june and...we aren't exactly a rich school. also, we aren't all fund raising together. it's kind of a single effort but a group of like 6 of my friends would be willing to fund raise together. anyway, the trip is $1,330 at least and the first deadline is in 2 weeks for $300. My mom's chaperoning so i'll need twice that much. i will loooooove you forever if you have some out-of-the-box fund-raising ideas for me. :) (link)
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The best fund raiser i ever saw (and most successful) was a basket raffle. Basically you have people donate items to place in themed baskets such as a chocolate basket, a car supply basket, etc. If multiple classes get involved you put a box in each room and ask them to bring items of a particular theme. (Ms Jones class brings in bath items, Ms. Smith's brings in tools You put the items in the basket, wrap it in cellophane and set them where lots of people will see them. Print up a lost of the baskets and have people sell tickets. Allow people to register for the basket they want. You wind up having a ticket drawn for each basket. If your school is game for it you can have a money basket! 1 dollar or 5 or so of each ticket sold for the money basket goes into the basket. Work it so that you keep half or a third of the money for the money basket. Chocolate and money baskets are the best sellers. Run it for at least two weeks but a month would work better. You could plan for 2 weeks for people to bring in items and then l month of selling tickets making it a month and a half fund raiser.
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So about 2 years ago me and my BFFs brother stated making out. I told her and she flipped out.
We ended up doing it everytime i went to her house
and we both fell for eachother.
He moved in march but i havent lost feelings for
him and i know he feels the same. but heres my problem.
Okay its crazy
My Bff ends up telling me how John(her StepBro) is texting her nasty messages about how he wants to be her first and wants to do her hard etc. I believe her cuz i saw the messages for myself.
The thing is, is that I know she likes it.
and i can tell shes jealous about us still having
feelings for eachother and him treating me more like a girlfriend than as trash(how he treats her). She gets mad when she asks a question and i answer honestly. I know i shouldnt like him but you can help who you like.. Right?
How do i get my friend to see that its gross what shes doing?
Also and How do i get her to see that i have stong feeling for him; That im not Lieing when i say that i really like him?
Thanks
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You are right not being to help who you like but it is important to know that you are your own best advocate in this world. Your feelings are not in charge of you. You are in charge of what you do about your feelings. Ask yourself if you want to be with someone who is hitting on his step sister. You mentioned that you wanted her to know that what she is doing is gross. Isn't he being gross too then? Even if you forget that she's his step sister how do you really feel about someone who you think likes you hitting on someone else and trying to sleep with them. If you feel you deserve better treatment then just let it go. Let him just be someone who you like but don't do anything about it. Find another guy who only wants to be with you. Always remember that there a million guys in the world you can find to like and who will like you back. That means you can figure out what your dream guy would be and go find him. You don't have to just take whoever happens along in your life.
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i have been on birth control for about 2 years now, mostly to regulate my period and because it use to be so heavy. the one im on is called ortho tri cyclen lo. i know your suppose to take it the same time everyday and during the school year i do, except on the weekends. during the week i take it at about 6:20 and on the weekend i take it at about 10:00 and in the summer i usually take it at about 10:00 too everyday. i know this is bad and i should be taking it the same time everyday but its so hard for me to wake up that early on the weekends just to take it and i dont think i would be able to fall back asleep. the thing is that i get my period when im suppose to, so im pretty sure its working fine! i have never had sex before but when i decide to (when i feel i am ready and in love) how protected would i be if we used a condom and am on this birth control? also is the birth control going to be effective since i am taking it at different times, not the same exact time everyday even though i am getting my period the day i am suppose to be getting it every time?!
thank you [: (link)
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You are well protected with using the pill and a condom. If it is worrying you why not take the pill every night at supper time or make it part of your bedtime routine? Its always easier to remember something that's done at the same time each day and especially if you associate it with part of a routine such as eating supper or brushing your teeth at night. As always remember the pill alone does not protect against s.t.d's.
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This guy, let's call him Mike... I've really liked him since second greade, (eigth grade now) well, i really want to go out with him, but i know that he don't like me... what do i do to make him?!? (link)
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You like someone who you think doesn't like you. You can ask him if he likes you for more than a friend. Maybe he he does but you just think he doesn't. If he doesn't don't worry about it. The whole world is full of guys and some of them are wonderful. I guarantee that out there is at least one and probably many guys who you could be happy with. There is someone for everyone.
We can't make people like us but we can take time to make sure we are someone who we like. Taking time to learn and grow and make ourselves better always makes us more attractive to other people.
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okayy so im 14 and i am a female! so okayy there is this 18 year old guy dat my mom wants me to be with but i dnt want to because i am in LOVE wit dis other guy but i dnt want to tell her dat i like dis other guy cause all me and her do is fight and it causes alot of stress towards me i think she likes dis guy alot for me cause he is my mom's bestfriends son but O MY GOSH i DO NOT like him what should i do or tell my mom???.....thanx (link)
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No one should ever go out with someone they don't like. period. You are right to not want to be with an 18 year old man. If he's 18 he's a man and not a boy. You are 14. Show your mother respect when you talk to her about it but let her know that you don't want to be with him. Maybe you could tell her you are not interested in guys older than 16 or something.
As far as being interested in someone she doesn't like, try to figure out why she doesn't like him. She may be right about him. And just remember that there will always be more boys but only one mom.
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is it weird when guys are driving down the streeet and your walking, and they all look at you? and some even honk. (link)
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It sounds like it makes you feel uncomfortable and that's very understandable. Make sure the reason is just that you are beautiful and not that your style of dress is giving you unwanted attention. It is pretty common for guys to do that. It's not a good quality though. Guys who are more respectful than that are more desirable.
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How can you tell if u have lice and not dandruff? (link)
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Have someone take a bright flashlight and carefully pull back your hair section by section, looking for tiny tannish/yellow things moving. most likely if you find one it will be crawling pretty close to your scalp and not on the hair strands themselves. They seem to like to hang out at the back or top of heads but that's just an observation and i have nothing to back that up. Maybe have them check the itchiest parts first.
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so just wondering, im a virgin and i know that guys balls are super sensitive. so how when your having sex does the girl not hit the balls? like how do the balls stay out of the way??? THANX 4 UR HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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I've never hurt a guys balls during sex. You'd have to pretty much fall on him in that spot to hurt them. I mean they smack up against you and everything and it doesn't hurt them. Just don't worry about it. It won't be a problem. :)
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