Question Posted Thursday October 16 2008, 12:18 am
So about 2 years ago me and my BFFs brother stated making out. I told her and she flipped out.
We ended up doing it everytime i went to her house
and we both fell for eachother.
He moved in march but i havent lost feelings for
him and i know he feels the same. but heres my problem.
Okay its crazy
My Bff ends up telling me how John(her StepBro) is texting her nasty messages about how he wants to be her first and wants to do her hard etc. I believe her cuz i saw the messages for myself.
The thing is, is that I know she likes it.
and i can tell shes jealous about us still having
feelings for eachother and him treating me more like a girlfriend than as trash(how he treats her). She gets mad when she asks a question and i answer honestly. I know i shouldnt like him but you can help who you like.. Right?
How do i get my friend to see that its gross what shes doing?
Also and How do i get her to see that i have stong feeling for him; That im not Lieing when i say that i really like him?
Thanks
:)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? imalice answered Friday October 17 2008, 11:43 am: You are right not being to help who you like but it is important to know that you are your own best advocate in this world. Your feelings are not in charge of you. You are in charge of what you do about your feelings. Ask yourself if you want to be with someone who is hitting on his step sister. You mentioned that you wanted her to know that what she is doing is gross. Isn't he being gross too then? Even if you forget that she's his step sister how do you really feel about someone who you think likes you hitting on someone else and trying to sleep with them. If you feel you deserve better treatment then just let it go. Let him just be someone who you like but don't do anything about it. Find another guy who only wants to be with you. Always remember that there a million guys in the world you can find to like and who will like you back. That means you can figure out what your dream guy would be and go find him. You don't have to just take whoever happens along in your life. [ imalice's advice column | Ask imalice A Question ]
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